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"When I see someone who looks amazing, I think there's no chance of me ever meeting her and that 9 times out of ten she won't even see my message. But earlier I messaged someone who I have been drooling over in hotpics since I first joined here and she sent me a nice reply back. So I guess there is still hope " Hope isn't a fuck. I'm really glad she replied. And thanks for sharing | |||
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"When I see someone who looks amazing, I think there's no chance of me ever meeting her and that 9 times out of ten she won't even see my message. But earlier I messaged someone who I have been drooling over in hotpics since I first joined here and she sent me a nice reply back. So I guess there is still hope Hope isn't a fuck. I'm really glad she replied. And thanks for sharing " No but she said I was "Yummmy" She probably wasn't wearing her glasses when she saw my face pic, but il take that | |||
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"No one is out of anyone’s league " Love this! I’ve pulled people who at the time I thought were well “out of my league” but turned out to be dickheads. If you start putting people in leagues it limits opportunity based on a shallow judgement | |||
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"I don't believe in leagues when it comes to people I find attractive and who find me attractive, only connection and chemistry - and if they are there 'leagues' doesn't enter into the equation " Definitely this | |||
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"You mean someone more traditionally attractive? Current body trend compatible? If you say someone is out of your league, you unnecessarily put yourself down. I stopped thinking like that a while ago. You never know really, why deprive yourself of a chance of finding out? " Yeah. Well I guess I do put myself down. | |||
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"The people I have considered "out of my league" looks wise, once I chase and get to know them a little, usually are not out of my league personailty wise. " Tend to agree on this. I often find people attractive then become less interested when I get to know them better. And vice versa. | |||
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"The people I have considered "out of my league" looks wise, once I chase and get to know them a little, usually are not out of my league personailty wise. Tend to agree on this. I often find people attractive then become less interested when I get to know them better. And vice versa. " Hmm | |||
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"No one is out of my league. If I fancy them I fancy them. If they don't fancy me then .......... that's where it all falls down." This. | |||
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"Not sure about ‘leagues’ as such - but yeah I’ve met guys and couples who were - in my opinion - far better looking and/or in far better shape physically than me! When that happens I don’t question it or have some kind of confidence crisis - I just hi 5 myself in bed that night (or the next morning) " You are so brilliant! I love your outlook on life | |||
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"Not sure about ‘leagues’ as such - but yeah I’ve met guys and couples who were - in my opinion - far better looking and/or in far better shape physically than me! When that happens I don’t question it or have some kind of confidence crisis - I just hi 5 myself in bed that night (or the next morning) You are so brilliant! I love your outlook on life " Thanks! Does that mean I get to snog you again? | |||
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"Or do you look at a hot profile and think nah I'm only wasting my time messaging this person " I have certainly pulled women who could have got with men a lot better-looking than me, but fortunately it's not all about looks for a lot of people. Luke | |||
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"With a good preparation no body can say no to me " Is that preparation H. | |||
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"Not sure about ‘leagues’ as such - but yeah I’ve met guys and couples who were - in my opinion - far better looking and/or in far better shape physically than me! When that happens I don’t question it or have some kind of confidence crisis - I just hi 5 myself in bed that night (or the next morning) You are so brilliant! I love your outlook on life Thanks! Does that mean I get to snog you again? " Of course gorgeous | |||
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"Or do you look at a hot profile and think nah I'm only wasting my time messaging this person " Ha ha ha every day op.....that’s why I don’t message much lol | |||
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"Often get approached on here by guys I think are out of my league as they're so gorgeous..I'm just average I think. I definitely get more attention on here than in real life..although in my defense I live in a very rural area with not many suitors around!" Starts looking at property prices in clywd | |||
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"Yes been with some good lookers who have had the personality and traits of a sewer rat, so my league now is the whole package and certainly not just on looks. . " | |||
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"I hate all this league BS. If someone likes you then you're in their league. The end" Absolutely | |||
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"Yes all of them " Now your talking atta rubbish | |||
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"Or do you look at a hot profile and think nah I'm only wasting my time messaging this person " I don't pull, but I do get pulled at times. Some women are blind as a bat! | |||
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"Yes all of them Now your talking atta rubbish " your way to kind xxx but thank you | |||
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"Yes.. I think most are out of my league " Where do I apply to join your league? | |||
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"Yes.. I think most are out of my league Where do I apply to join your league? " Ohhh | |||
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"If they're not interested in a few cans of stout, some corned beef sarnies and I night up the allotments then I dont want to know. I dont care how expensive their hair is..." Do they know you do doggie bags? | |||
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"If they're not interested in a few cans of stout, some corned beef sarnies and I night up the allotments then I dont want to know. I dont care how expensive their hair is... Do they know you do doggie bags? " Once they've bagged off with The Doggie they know it... | |||
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"I think I punch well above my weight with people I show interest in on here, but I usually never have the confidence to meet them and try and put them off or don't keep in contact very well. I think the way I describe myself to guys puts them off a lot too. Calling yourself ugly isn't exactly a turn on! I'm sure 99.9 percent of the site is out of my league. I hate that term and the punching term but they are applicable to me. I should think myself lucky if anyone I'm physically attracted to likes me back really! I think most of the interest is solely on my lady parts sadly. ( no I'm not looking for sympathy, but feel free to give me it anyway. ) " | |||
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"I think I punch well above my weight with people I show interest in on here, but I usually never have the confidence to meet them and try and put them off or don't keep in contact very well. I think the way I describe myself to guys puts them off a lot too. Calling yourself ugly isn't exactly a turn on! I'm sure 99.9 percent of the site is out of my league. I hate that term and the punching term but they are applicable to me. I should think myself lucky if anyone I'm physically attracted to likes me back really! I think most of the interest is solely on my lady parts sadly. ( no I'm not looking for sympathy, but feel free to give me it anyway. ) " Theres nothing wrong with you at all,and I'm not trying my luck by getting on your good side as we don't live near each other,so genuinely telling you that you're fine xx | |||
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"I think I punch well above my weight with people I show interest in on here, but I usually never have the confidence to meet them and try and put them off or don't keep in contact very well. I think the way I describe myself to guys puts them off a lot too. Calling yourself ugly isn't exactly a turn on! I'm sure 99.9 percent of the site is out of my league. I hate that term and the punching term but they are applicable to me. I should think myself lucky if anyone I'm physically attracted to likes me back really! I think most of the interest is solely on my lady parts sadly. ( no I'm not looking for sympathy, but feel free to give me it anyway. ) " Nothing wrong with you at all - very attractive but you probably only see what you don’t like about your appearance- not what other people see which is a very attractive woman with a stunning figure xx. That’s my 2p worth xx | |||
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"There only out of your league if you let them be and it's your own fault. If you hit it off who cares lol. Now if they think there out your league that's different they can fuck off " Exactly this | |||
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"There are no leagues! There’s mutual attraction or not. That’s all. " I agree. | |||
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"The problem with any league is that it ranks people according to points scored on one attribute alone. Imagine if a football referee could award 'goals' for effort, style and feminist awareness of the players... People are rather more holistic in life decisions. Mr here. 5 years ago i was parking up in the market square, heading into a fetish social. Spotted a young hot goth walking across the square, dont mind admitting i perved a little. Turns out said hot goth was heading into the same social (her first) So one option was to say way out of my league, the other, just to get to know her as a person. We moved in together 3 weeks later and 5 years on still very happy. I am 35 years older and a bearded grumpy old git (some of the time) so fuck leagues, people are people ??" That's lovely, really nice story . You can't use emojis unless you use the forum ones | |||
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"Often get approached on here by guys I think are out of my league as they're so gorgeous..I'm just average I think. I definitely get more attention on here than in real life..although in my defense I live in a very rural area with not many suitors around! Starts looking at property prices in clywd" | |||
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