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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I say that's life

And as funny as it may seem

Some people get their kicks

Stompin' on your dreams"

What do you say to people trying to bring you down?

I say, fuck right off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What other people think of me is none of my business.

I read that somewhere a couple of years ago and still live by it.

You do you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm flying way up high with a head in clouds and not seeing reality for what it is...its not necessarily a bad thing

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I say crack on.

It says more about the critics than me and you have to rate a person to value their opinion.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"What other people think of me is none of my business.

I read that somewhere a couple of years ago and still live by it.

You do you!"

I read that that too. I can work work with that, unless they make it my business.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If I'm flying way up high with a head in clouds and not seeing reality for what it is...its not necessarily a bad thing "

I like my own little bit of reality. It's warm and cosy there

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I say crack on.

It says more about the critics than me and you have to rate a person to value their opinion. "

That's a good point. If you don't rate them then it doesn't matter what they think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What other people think of me is none of my business.

I read that somewhere a couple of years ago and still live by it.

You do you!

I read that that too. I can work work with that, unless they make it my business."

Whatever it is, rise above it. It's made me so much happier and less anxious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to first establish whether they are definitely stomping on my dreams before I take any action.

In most cases its just my perception and not reality.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I joined the thread with Sinatra in my head

My cousin sent me a meme yesterday which included the words:

"Don't wait till your deathbed to tell people how you feel...tell them to fuck off now"

Think I may have to adopt it as my new mantra in life

Reality is I tend to say nothing, ignore as much as I can and soldier on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm flying way up high with a head in clouds and not seeing reality for what it is...its not necessarily a bad thing

I like my own little bit of reality. It's warm and cosy there "

That can be

I think that if someone is actually trying to stomp you dreams.. it might give you additional fire to fight for them. Then turn around and show them middle finger once you got to that point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and remember that it is their issue and not mine.

Mostly works

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

A few simple sayings spring to mind....

If someone is strong enough to bring you down, show them you are stronger by getting back up

Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much if your mind, time and emotions

It’s so nice when toxic people stop talking to you, it’s like the bin put itself out

Life is to short for nonsense, cut it out, walk away and don’t look back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What other people think of me is none of my business.

I read that somewhere a couple of years ago and still live by it.

You do you!"

Me too!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I joined the thread with Sinatra in my head

My cousin sent me a meme yesterday which included the words:

"Don't wait till your deathbed to tell people how you feel...tell them to fuck off now"

Think I may have to adopt it as my new mantra in life

Reality is I tend to say nothing, ignore as much as I can and soldier on "

One day you’ll use it when you feel you really need to. Sometimes silence is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I say that's life

And as funny as it may seem

Some people get their kicks

Stompin' on your dreams"

What do you say to people trying to bring you down?

I say, fuck right off!"
great attitude to have xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much if your mind, time and emotions "

Love that one. On repeat in my head.


"

It’s so nice when toxic people stop talking to you, it’s like the bin put itself out

"

Uncontrollable laughter..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I say that's life

And as funny as it may seem

Some people get their kicks

Stompin' on your dreams"

What do you say to people trying to bring you down?

I say, fuck right off!"

Depends who is doing it and for what reason.

People I either don’t know or loosely know, I’d take no notice in this context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I say that's life

And as funny as it may seem

Some people get their kicks

Stompin' on your dreams"

What do you say to people trying to bring you down?

I say, fuck right off!"

What happens to you is 10%. How you react is 90%. Unfortunately we live in an imperfect world. People see others as they see themselves. If someone tries to pull me down, I make sure I dont go down with them. However, I dont try to lift them up too, as you cannot fight gravity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I say that's life

And as funny as it may seem

Some people get their kicks

Stompin' on your dreams"

What do you say to people trying to bring you down?

I say, fuck right off!"

Pretty much the same, tell them to fuck off

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"

Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much if your mind, time and emotions

Love that one. On repeat in my head.

It’s so nice when toxic people stop talking to you, it’s like the bin put itself out

Uncontrollable laughter.. "

It made me chuckle

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I joined the thread with Sinatra in my head

My cousin sent me a meme yesterday which included the words:

"Don't wait till your deathbed to tell people how you feel...tell them to fuck off now"

Think I may have to adopt it as my new mantra in life

Reality is I tend to say nothing, ignore as much as I can and soldier on

One day you’ll use it when you feel you really need to. Sometimes silence is enough "

Very true...when the cork pops it really pops though and the "fuck offs" just flood out

Sometimes though the easier path is the one that leads you quietly away step by step

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"

Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much if your mind, time and emotions

Love that one. On repeat in my head.

It’s so nice when toxic people stop talking to you, it’s like the bin put itself out

Uncontrollable laughter.. "

My two favourites.... the bin one always makes me laugh and I’ve been known to say it outloud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't control what other people think, say or do, you can only control how you react to it

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"

Reality is I tend to say nothing, ignore as much as I can and soldier on "

Hallelujah Brother...

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I joined the thread with Sinatra in my head

My cousin sent me a meme yesterday which included the words:

"Don't wait till your deathbed to tell people how you feel...tell them to fuck off now"

Think I may have to adopt it as my new mantra in life

Reality is I tend to say nothing, ignore as much as I can and soldier on

One day you’ll use it when you feel you really need to. Sometimes silence is enough

Very true...when the cork pops it really pops though and the "fuck offs" just flood out

Sometimes though the easier path is the one that leads you quietly away step by step "

I'll all for an easy life but sometimes, you just got to blow

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I joined the thread with Sinatra in my head

My cousin sent me a meme yesterday which included the words:

"Don't wait till your deathbed to tell people how you feel...tell them to fuck off now"

Think I may have to adopt it as my new mantra in life

Reality is I tend to say nothing, ignore as much as I can and soldier on

One day you’ll use it when you feel you really need to. Sometimes silence is enough

Very true...when the cork pops it really pops though and the "fuck offs" just flood out

Sometimes though the easier path is the one that leads you quietly away step by step "

Knowing you G they would be polite and focused ‘f offs’ but still effective

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I joined the thread with Sinatra in my head

My cousin sent me a meme yesterday which included the words:

"Don't wait till your deathbed to tell people how you feel...tell them to fuck off now"

Think I may have to adopt it as my new mantra in life

Reality is I tend to say nothing, ignore as much as I can and soldier on

One day you’ll use it when you feel you really need to. Sometimes silence is enough

Very true...when the cork pops it really pops though and the "fuck offs" just flood out

Sometimes though the easier path is the one that leads you quietly away step by step

Knowing you G they would be polite and focused ‘f offs’ but still effective "

Sometimes less said is definitely more

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I need to first establish whether they are definitely stomping on my dreams before I take any action.

In most cases its just my perception and not reality."

Good point.

Sometimes I tend to forget that other people have shit going on in their lives too and things said can so easily be taken out of context.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I joined the thread with Sinatra in my head

My cousin sent me a meme yesterday which included the words:

"Don't wait till your deathbed to tell people how you feel...tell them to fuck off now"

Think I may have to adopt it as my new mantra in life

Reality is I tend to say nothing, ignore as much as I can and soldier on

One day you’ll use it when you feel you really need to. Sometimes silence is enough

Very true...when the cork pops it really pops though and the "fuck offs" just flood out

Sometimes though the easier path is the one that leads you quietly away step by step

Knowing you G they would be polite and focused ‘f offs’ but still effective "

Oh trust me when I get to the point the cork has popped the fuck offs tend to be anything but polite or focussed - which is why I try and contain them I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rolling Stones ~ Get off of my cloud

https://youtu.be/QYgJZ79FmBo

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"You can't control what other people think, say or do, you can only control how you react to it "

This rings very true. Not easy though!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone else's opinion only counts if I value it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'mm very stoic to other peoples opinions about me or y dreams. I travel my own road, experience my own life. Someones elses opinion of mme is a reflection of themselve and there own insecurities. I can't and do not want to change people opinions, I only seek to enhance and evolve my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if we a throwing songs out there to deal with dickheads nobs and wanked then the best one has to be DILLIGAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I say that's life

And as funny as it may seem

Some people get their kicks

Stompin' on your dreams"

What do you say to people trying to bring you down?

I say, fuck right off!"

I say that only silently. Not worth it aye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't control what other people think, say or do, you can only control how you react to it

This rings very true. Not easy though!

Mrs TMN x"

Indeed! I'm still practicing

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"A few simple sayings spring to mind....

If someone is strong enough to bring you down, show them you are stronger by getting back up

Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much if your mind, time and emotions

It’s so nice when toxic people stop talking to you, it’s like the bin put itself out

Life is to short for nonsense, cut it out, walk away and don’t look back

"

Spurs I bloody love you!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just practice mindfulness and be present in each moment.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"A few simple sayings spring to mind....

If someone is strong enough to bring you down, show them you are stronger by getting back up

Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much if your mind, time and emotions

It’s so nice when toxic people stop talking to you, it’s like the bin put itself out

Life is to short for nonsense, cut it out, walk away and don’t look back

Spurs I bloody love you!

Jo.Xx "

Love you to Jo xx

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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You step away, smile and walk on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You step away, smile and walk on "

Always spot on Babs!

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"You step away, smile and walk on "

Is it always that easy though? I may walk away but I'm not always smiling. And sometimes giving the finger helps

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