FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked after chatting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all. Has any been blocked after starting what's apping someone.

A lady agreed to txt me.

I messaged her my number we began to chat. Then I'm blocked. I dunno what ivr done wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, she didn't like my face

But for you, we have absolutely no idea why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave it be innit. Plenty more catfish in the the sea....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither do we.

Maybe you done plenty wrong.

Maybe you done nothing wrong.

Maybe he got his wank fodder and didn't need you anymore

Maybe her husband walked in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, she didn't like my face

But for you, we have absolutely no idea why"

Think it was that for me. I clicked her account and it was blocked. I'm ugly

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I feel for you. It may not be anything that you have done. Maybe she just got cold feet. People do change their mind which is fine. It would have been nice though for an explanation. Try not to dwell on it. I know it must be frustrating but I wouldn't take it personally. These are tough times for people. She might just be having a hard time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, she didn't like my face

But for you, we have absolutely no idea why

Think it was that for me. I clicked her account and it was blocked. I'm ugly "

Welcome to the club

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Maybe , just maybe she touched the block button accidentally, has no idea you are blocked and is sitting sobbing into her chicken soup wondering why you are not talking to her..........

Poor woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, she didn't like my face

But for you, we have absolutely no idea why

Think it was that for me. I clicked her account and it was blocked. I'm ugly "

Did you show her your bathroom floor tiles n all that?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Might be a woman missing the wo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe , just maybe she touched the block button accidentally, has no idea you are blocked and is sitting sobbing into her chicken soup wondering why you are not talking to her..........

Poor woman

That is the best positive outlook I've ever seen. Imma use that in my own head now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. Has any been blocked after starting what's apping someone.

A lady agreed to txt me.

I messaged her my number we began to chat. Then I'm blocked. I dunno what ivr done wrong

She may have found someone better suited for her endeavors!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done"

Awwww mate, don't let twats get you down, you've got an infinite supply if bellends to support you on the forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done

Awwww mate, don't let twats get you down, you've got an infinite supply if bellends to support you on the forum

I know I've just had s few. I've had a lady say I wasn't for her and she didn't want to talk. So I blocked her to stop her coming up. As I'd put my number in the message she text me and had a huge go .

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Moral of the story, don't give your phone number to someone unless you've met them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done

Awwww mate, don't let twats get you down, you've got an infinite supply if bellends to support you on the forum

It's all just folk you don't really know, and they don't know you either, so they really don't matter mate

Fab is full of rejection but there's the odd reward and some laughs if you stick at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Moral of the story, don't give your phone number to someone unless you've met them

I'd disagree, just filter the fuck out of ppl before you get involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll be more selective. Just looking to chat and I use what's app for that. Maybe try kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done"

There is plenty more fish out in the ocean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time. Not so much the block but get messages ignored. Just be grown up and say not interested. I can handle it lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll be more selective. Just looking to chat and I use what's app for that. Maybe try kik"

I reckon WhatsApp and real phone numbers is safer than Kik or telegram because at least you have a commitment if someone's number. But then all these messaging apps link up and you can often see someone on your suggested friends in messenger just because you've saved their number so it depends how highly hi value privacy innit....

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done

Awwww mate, don't let twats get you down, you've got an infinite supply if bellends to support you on the forum

He's right you know. Please don't let anyone who doesn't even know you have that negative impact on how you feel about yourself x

Tomorrow is another day, a better day hopefully.

And you are not alone,it is very difficult for guys on here.

Maybe try not to message women until you feel a bit a better about yourself.

And don't so hard on yourself x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done

Awwww mate, don't let twats get you down, you've got an infinite supply if bellends to support you on the forum

He's right you know. Please don't let anyone who doesn't even know you have that negative impact on how you feel about yourself x

Tomorrow is another day, a better day hopefully.

And you are not alone,it is very difficult for guys on here.

Maybe try not to message women until you feel a bit a better about yourself.

And don't so hard on yourself x"

I'm just trying to chat. We will see how things go going forward

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Mate it happens. You won’t really know the reason so try not to dwell on it.

On to the next adventure for you.

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By *..FirstMan
over a year ago

london

I understand the need to block or ghost people. Some people can just be down right painful, but I do struggle with those that just go “oh I am bored... block” after chatting with not so much as “sorry not working for me... good luck, bye”

Sorry to say but ladies are the worse. I know some absolute gems on here, great couples and women... but there are some bitches... just saying ... worst is when they threaten to block as though you should be grateful that they are talking to you... don’t be a keyboard warrior and not all guys are that desperate to shag you and those that are are not adding to your street cred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone want my number the other day before I had seen their face and then should be open to giving them the number first as if they showed me a picture I could pinch it

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done"

I block people for many reasons. Not always referring to the looks, maybe the just text too aggressively, said something or sent something stupid, actually didn't find the photos attractive anymore. But tbh if i got to the exchanging numbers stage. I tell them first before blocking

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Just forget and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done

Awwww mate, don't let twats get you down, you've got an infinite supply if bellends to support you on the forum

He's right you know. Please don't let anyone who doesn't even know you have that negative impact on how you feel about yourself x

Tomorrow is another day, a better day hopefully.

And you are not alone,it is very difficult for guys on here.

Maybe try not to message women until you feel a bit a better about yourself.

And don't so hard on yourself x"

I'm just trying to chat. We will see how things go going forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worry when you get blocked before chatting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She just wasnt that into you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Worry when you get blocked before chatting!

I often get blocked when I send face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worry when you get blocked before chatting!

I often get blocked when I send face pic "

Send me your face and I'll give you some photography pointers

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

On the plus side, you got chatting. Which is more than a lot of guys seem able to. Every cloud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worry when you get blocked before chatting!

I often get blocked when I send face pic

Send me your face and I'll give you some photography pointers

Done. Ladies, he's quite handsome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worry when you get blocked before chatting!

I often get blocked when I send face pic "

Have you considered plastic surgery?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worry when you get blocked before chatting!

I often get blocked when I send face pic

Have you considered plastic surgery?"

Rude! FFS.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worry when you get blocked before chatting!

I often get blocked when I send face pic

Have you considered plastic surgery?

Rude! FFS.....

WTF?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Worry when you get blocked before chatting!

I often get blocked when I send face pic

Have you considered plastic surgery?

Rude! FFS.....

Nah. I have a issue but I got moaned at for saying it earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done"

It can be for many reasons not related to you. She might have got cold feet. She might have felt its going too fast and didn't have a courage to say so. Honestly turn the page. You will probably never get the answer and guess what It does not matter. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worry when you get blocked before chatting!

I often get blocked when I send face pic

Have you considered plastic surgery?

Rude! FFS.....

Nah. I have a issue but I got moaned at for saying it earlier "

Mate, on a serious note, don't go for shallow women. I have done that and I am speaking from experience. Go with someone who has the smarts and is humble. You will have the best time in and out of the bedroom! Trust me on this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Onwards and upwards

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Wouldn't dwell on it happens all too often on here.

Start mesaaging, swop numbers get a vibe and create a spark, have a chat and decide to arrange a meet.

Then get blocked / unfriended / ghosted....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just spent couple of weeks chatting to a couple, mainly hubby and building up a repoire and seemed to have same humour, was told both read messages etc, however have just messaged and it was mrs other end unbeknown to me...now i've just been blocked after what was meant to be a humorous message....ffs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be brutally honest if I allow someone my number but then I do s that they are not on my wave length I would say a sorry its not working out for me and block them. Yes I know it's brutal but it's pointless continuing if it's not there in my opinion and it's easy doing that than getting the give me chance messages etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be brutally honest if I allow someone my number but then I do s that they are not on my wave length I would say a sorry its not working out for me and block them. Yes I know it's brutal but it's pointless continuing if it's not there in my opinion and it's easy doing that than getting the give me chance messages etc "

At least an explanation better than nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh well. Just made me feeling less confident than I do already. I feel ugly and a mess but I'm done"

perhaps this isn’t the place for you? you have to have a thicker skin because you will often encounter rejection here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few simple chats can reveal alot ... true colors seem to get released the more you chat so if something is not to my liking ill say no thanks leave a note and block .... i never used to do this and got abuse daily now just straight block and no more abuse.

i do every thing via fab

no phone no apps just the tools of fab and they work perfectly.

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