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"There u go 2 answers hope that helps " But do i tell her sooner or see how things go then tell her | |||
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"not on the first date. Come on do you really need to ask " And why not? Honesty is a big part of any potential relationship is it not or am i just being dumb | |||
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"Seriously I think there are far more things to discuss on a first date than this .... Im sure she /he would appreciate you asking about them there lives etc etc .. too soon " I can understand where you are coming from however if things go well and i dont say anything, would it not sour things later on if i waited | |||
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" id fuck her first Lol best answer yet " thanks | |||
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"not on the first date. Come on do you really need to ask And why not? Honesty is a big part of any potential relationship is it not or am i just being dumb" Agree with you totally about being honest, however, like some other things you may not wish to mention them so soon? You could perhaps initially just indicate that you are a liberated man | |||
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"The question you should be asking is not of her, but of yourself, and that is: If you like this lady that much could you give up swinging? Obviously you'll have to gauge how she views such things without blurting it out that you're into the scene, but if you tread carefully and see if she likes a bit of variety in bed she may well be receptive to exploring it with you. If you charge in like a bull in a china shop you could well scare the life out of her and she'll run for the hills, even if she is open-minded." agree. would you want to hear that she has no strings sex with other people while you sit down with your glass of wine and lasagne? lol | |||
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"Seriously I think there are far more things to discuss on a first date than this .... Im sure she /he would appreciate you asking about them there lives etc etc .. too soon I can understand where you are coming from however if things go well and i dont say anything, would it not sour things later on if i waited" First date should be the opportunity to see how well you get along and also for you to work out if she might be open to the idea? | |||
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"first date went well, second date arranged, so tonight i was honest with her about swinging.....Result......told me to fuck off and not contact her again so much for honesty" Sorry to hear that but at least your conscience is clear. Maybe when she's had chance to absorbe it she may be in touch. Fingers crossed | |||
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"first date went well, second date arranged, so tonight i was honest with her about swinging.....Result......told me to fuck off and not contact her again so much for honesty" well you never got to second date, what if you had gotten to 20th n had feelings n vice versa, imagine how much worse you would feel then | |||
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"first date went well, second date arranged, so tonight i was honest with her about swinging.....Result......told me to fuck off and not contact her again so much for honesty" Sorry to hear that, but agree with Femme and Elkie's posts - better luck next time | |||
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"first date went well, second date arranged, so tonight i was honest with her about swinging.....Result......told me to fuck off and not contact her again so much for honesty" Well to be honest I am not surprised at the reaction after disclosing this early. Many have a view swingers aren't the faithful type and she will have judged you on what little she knew about you and her preconceptions. The reality is there is a time and place for everything and in the early stages of a relationship disclosing too many personal details is best not done. There are more fish in the sea though so better luck with the next one. | |||
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