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The secret to a good relationship

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By *dam1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Normally you’d have to climb a mountain in Tibet or something for this kind of knowledge, so I’m saving you a job here.

It’s being allowed to be honest about yourself, and being with someone who accepts and encourages it.

It’s also the same, the other way around - your partner(s) can be honest about who they are while you accept and encourage them.

Being able to give and receive love, equally.

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Before I start my own cult and charge handsomely for this wisdom, is there anything you’d like to add?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Just nod and agree , job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self isolation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listening to truly hear, not just listening to reply

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Trust is a big part of any relationship for me

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Trust and listening to each other

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Not murdering your other half because you'd miss them when they weren't there.

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby


"Trust and listening to each other "

This xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

That's one way Adam.

Another way is doing what the fuck you want when you are in a relationship with someone who doesn't give a fuck what you do.

Perfect.

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Respect, understanding, willingness to compromise, listening, patience (esp with me and my 2 kids....god love MrD for taking me on!).

MsD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust,open and honest communication, respect and kindness

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Viewing the relationship as a whole, not just a series of isolated incidents. If a bad thing happens step back and see it in the context of the entire relationship.

also whatever happens (with one or two exceptions) have each others back.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and vodka, lots and lots of vodka

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Aww that’s nice, would just add putting them first always, even before kids, who will one day leave....(hopefully!)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Aww that’s nice, would just add putting them first always, even before kids, who will one day leave....(hopefully!)"

Yeah. I remember having this conversation with our daughter. She obviously thought as a young teenager that she could get between us on a certain point of family boundary. Her face when I told her that whatever happened her father and I would back each other up was a picture . She also learned at the same time that as a unit her father and I would back her up too though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me trust.

And someone you can talk to about anything 24/7.

This is important as I don't want boring mundane relationship.

I want to be able to surprise her, catch her off guard and let her know she is everything.

One thing I learnt from a previous relationship was I didn't tell her I loved her enough.

I have to admit I got lazy, took her for granted, she was a lovely woman and I fucked it up.

So I've learnt this and hope at some point in my life to make sure that she (whoever that maybe) never has to wait for me to tell her I love her.

Women need to know this

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Knowing, listening, understanding, appreciation and devotion.

Just a few more to add to the list.

Jo.Xx

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"For me trust.

And someone you can talk to about anything 24/7.

This is important as I don't want boring mundane relationship.

I want to be able to surprise her, catch her off guard and let her know she is everything.

One thing I learnt from a previous relationship was I didn't tell her I loved her enough.

I have to admit I got lazy, took her for granted, she was a lovely woman and I fucked it up.

So I've learnt this and hope at some point in my life to make sure that she (whoever that maybe) never has to wait for me to tell her I love her.

Women need to know this"

And this

I hope you find her!

Jo.Xx

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Good communication , and give and take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty and communication, and trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust, being honest and listening.

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By *dam1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford


" and give and take.

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Very wise. Do you mean both pegging and anal?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Honesty, trust and compatible sex drives.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No idea as have never been in a good relationship and as i plan to stay single probably never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open honest communication

Feeling able to be be honest

No lies

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Finding someone with emotional intelligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

communication!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding someone with emotional intelligence "

Hard to find theses days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remembering every second that there is no entitlement, what's given is a gift and should be appreciated mutually, the rest falls into place.

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