FabSwingers.com forum: How long without sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also fab my pics you dirty lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno.. quite a long time if the anyone is someone I can't see any beauty in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*watches thread intently for the women quick to lower their standards*

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

Not had sex for almost three years. I can wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 days 47 mins

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Hours

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

1000 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1000 years"

Hit me up in 3020

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

since lockdown, too long. Getting desperate

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’m patient and can wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha big shout out to you legends who did fab my pics

And a special shout out to AnnieWilkes

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

These days I'd rather go without sex completely than "just fuck anyone" which I know some will say is a canned answer but it's true - would much rather wait for the "right" sex however long that takes to come along

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"1000 years

Hit me up in 3020

I'll put it in my diary!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"These days I'd rather go without sex completely than "just fuck anyone" which I know some will say is a canned answer but it's true - would much rather wait for the "right" sex however long that takes to come along "

I’ll give you the right sex

(I’m right handed)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure how u can do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d fuck anyone right now...

Providing they are everything I find attractive in a sexual partner and I’m not washing my hair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d fuck anyone right now...

Providing they are everything I find attractive in a sexual partner and I’m not washing my hair."

Well fuck, I almost had you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a month ago now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Over a month ago now "

Read the full OP

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

But it's only sex.. would you rather ten out of ten once a week or two out of ten seven days a week?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But it's only sex.. would you rather ten out of ten once a week or two out of ten seven days a week?"

Well I haven’t had sex in months because I have an extremely low sex drive.

So I’ll chose the once a week option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don’t find them attractive it doesn’t work lol , built in filter whether wanted or not

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

24 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been ages since I had sex lol would never fuck just anybody lol got to the point ware a good wank will do

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?"

I would rather have a wank, than have sex with someone I’m not attracted to.

I’ve even made videos of myself doing just that, Fab ‘em if you like ‘em!

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?

I would rather have a wank, than have sex with someone I’m not attracted to.

I’ve even made videos of myself doing just that, Fab ‘em if you like ‘em!

Lol lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?"

Passed that point years ago already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many people saying that they would never fuck someone they don’t find attractive - pfft!

Ladies, I’m prepared to ‘bag up’ with a brown bag over my head if it helps? Just imagine it’s someone else.

Help us fuglies out, we need lovin’ after all this is over too!

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I just miss flirting talking touching, a smile...I miss that more than sex ..

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I've gone 6 weeks now which is the longest I've ever gone. Right now I'd have sex with a dog with rabies right now!

(note to mods: I'm not really looking for sex with dogs

rabies or otherwise!)

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Since December.

I miss the flirting during dinner, hand on his thigh, kissing, handholding, long foreplay sessions.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?"
it's not about time for me.. it's about mindset. If my addiction kicks in everything else just disappears and I dont care. It's been a long time since I let my addiction take over like that x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"But it's only sex.. would you rather ten out of ten once a week or two out of ten seven days a week?"

Definitely 10/10 once a week. Crap sex just leaves you more frustrated.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Going on six weeks now which is the longest since i've joined fab

If the person doesn't appeal it's not happening not matter how long it's been.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Far far to long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since lockdown started! Knew I should have moved in with the gf haha x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I just miss flirting talking touching, a smile...I miss that more than sex .."

The simple things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13m27sec

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been a looong time. I still won’t have sex with just anyone though... I mean, how disappointing would it be to have crap sex with just anyone after waiting all this time... I’d much rather wait a little longer and have an amazing time with someone I have the connection and desire/lust for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ive been 2 years .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easily forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its been about 4 months. trying to find the 10/10 sex that will blow my mind rather than just anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?"

I will wait as long as it takes, what’s the point of having sex with just anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well ive been 2 years ."

Come mid-July it will be 18 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?"

How ever long it takes as i am very picky. Now talk about flirting, maybe 2 to 3 days max!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s been a looong time. I still won’t have sex with just anyone though... I mean, how disappointing would it be to have crap sex with just anyone after waiting all this time... I’d much rather wait a little longer and have an amazing time with someone I have the connection and desire/lust for."

I agree. We should start connecting a bit more. I am not an electrician, but I sure can light up your day!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Hopefully be only 6 months as this lockdown ruining my chances of fuffilling my bucket list

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By *oveman47Man
over a year ago

bristol

erm 2014

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd go until death rather than fuck the wrong person.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?"

Being a 32 year old virgin. I've been tempted at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?

Being a 32 year old virgin. I've been tempted at times.

You’re a virgin? You should have said

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By *t9090Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd never fuck anything

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?

Being a 32 year old virgin. I've been tempted at times.

You’re a virgin? You should have said

Good to see your still around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it takes. I'm done with fucking "just anyone"

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm not saying my standards don't move at all when I get horny, but I don't think there will come a time where I would literally fuck anybody.

I was celibate from my mid-20s to mid-30s. I reckon I can cope with a few months of wanking without dropping standards too far.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Well I'm definitely out of the game until at least June.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last had sex on New Years Eve, a closely followed by New Years morning! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eternity

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By *nerealman100Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Well I wouldn't go with just anything, never really been into bouncy castles or any too big but it would be nice to be seduced by someone slim to medium build when this is all over

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Dec 1985

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

by then time this is over I'll be past it

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

If having a wank counts then it will have been 6 hours ago.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

That’s not sex, it’s self abuse

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"If having a wank counts then it will have been 6 hours ago."

That’s not the OP’s question though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?

Being a 32 year old virgin. I've been tempted at times.

If it makes you feel any better, so am I

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

If wanking counts then I’ve had sex 831 times this week

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"If having a wank counts then it will have been 6 hours ago.

That’s not the OP’s question though

I never read the top line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?"

3 year

, thinking about it , wish my standards weren't so high lool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Working long hours so 5 days so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Read the full OP lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t just fuck anyone; I’d still have to fancy them sufficiently and find something common in terms of sexual interests/likes/dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I’m currently on a ‘no mess making’ hiatus. I’ve been without mess for almost a week but these last few days, it’s been HARD work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll let you know OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No amount of time

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"So many people saying that they would never fuck someone they don’t find attractive - pfft!

Ladies, I’m prepared to ‘bag up’ with a brown bag over my head if it helps? Just imagine it’s someone else.

Help us fuglies out, we need lovin’ after all this is over too! "

Is there any other colour choice? Brown is so last season..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went without it for 5 years before Fab and although I claimed to be that horny I would fuck a black snake with a feathered asshole, but I never actually meant it lol we like what we like and without that then we'd just be having sex for the sake of having sex and in that regard I'd rather have a wank than ahag someone I didn't fancy in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went without it for 5 years before Fab and although I claimed to be that horny I would fuck a black snake with a feathered asshole, but I never actually meant it lol we like what we like and without that then we'd just be having sex for the sake of having sex and in that regard I'd rather have a wank than ahag someone I didn't fancy in some way

Festered asshole, fml

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does masturbation not count as having sex?

In any case to address the question I don't think a prolonged time without engaging sexually with someone else would make me want to fuck everyone all of a sudden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Till infinity and beyond...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go without easily...

But I tend to make bad decisions often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had sex for years.......fuck anyone time hasn’t arrived

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?"

Well I went 4 years without by choice and when I finally decided I didn’t want to die without having sex again I didn’t lower my standards, I raised them!

It’s been a great 2 years since then, but if it’s not at least a 7/10 then I won’t consider a second time. Some room for improvement is fine. I am a good teacher

I am not a charity case though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does masturbation not count as having sex?

In any case to address the question I don't think a prolonged time without engaging sexually with someone else would make me want to fuck everyone all of a sudden."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the longest amount of time I have been without sex or any male attention previously it was 18 days, so for me as much as I will get hate mail for it, I do have certain standards, but I would say I have an obsession/addiction so there fore probably the first man I see after lockdown!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?"

Can’t say I’ve ever got to that point even with a few years of singledom.

More importantly though, pics Fabbed

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

£5000 ago

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I'm fascinated that some are looking for 10 out of 10 sex.

I'm not sure you can nail that down even by chatting face to face.

Some people look and sound amazing but come the event you just don't both click or the first time it's kinda good but could do better.

I've always thought of sex as organic and the more you do together the better it gets as you get to know those little things that just work.

In fact some of the fun is finding those things out, if it was all pre scripted, that would ruin some of the fun and error of exploring.

Also made me giggle when it was hinted at once a week fab sex compared to rubbish every couple of days.

I think most people are looking at once a week as being pretty frequent, some people don't get much action for weeks or months.

I'll aim for a 6 out of 10 with room for growth.

And yes standards fluctuate. Come on many a one night stand through all of human history can confirm that much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How long do you have to go without sex, before you really will, just fuck anyone?

Can’t say I’ve ever got to that point even with a few years of singledom.

More importantly though, pics Fabbed

You’re a good man

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