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Buried my Nan today

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North

Seriously I did

The whole affair took less than 10 mins. She was just dropped in the hole. The priest said a prayer and that was it. 10 of stood around thinking ‘Jesus is that it’

Anyways stay safe folks

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North

She died of old age

I think she was about 146

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She died of old age

I think she was about 146 "

So sad to be taken at such a young age sorry for your loss

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Condolences Mr. M.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sorry to hear, OP. Friends dad is getting buried tommorrow. Think in these strange times it will be a similar affair.

Sad times

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"She died of old age

I think she was about 146

So sad to be taken at such a young age sorry for your loss

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She had so many left ahead of her as well.

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Condolences Mr. M. "

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry to hear, OP. Friends dad is getting buried tommorrow. Think in these strange times it will be a similar affair.

Sad times "

It’s a surreal time we’re living in

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Sorry for your loss OP

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Sorry to hear of your loss.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"She died of old age

I think she was about 146 "

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry for your loss OP "

Thank you

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry to hear of your loss."

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Aww I’m sorry to read this

Big virtual hug xx

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sorry for your loss Mr M.

Jo&D.Xx

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Aww I’m sorry to read this

Big virtual hug xx "

TY Babs

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry for your loss Mr M.

Jo&D.Xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this, sending hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cat just buried himself

He’s not the brightest

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry to hear this, sending hugs x"

Thank you x

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"[Removed by poster at 27/04/20 14:45:30]"

Thank you

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"My cat just buried himself

He’s not the brightest "

In what?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope that you and your family are doing ok.

It sounds like an awful way to say goodbye.

Sending best wishes xx

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope that you and your family are doing ok.

It sounds like an awful way to say goodbye.

Sending best wishes xx"

Even the priest was embarrassed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so sorry for your loss to you and your loved ones, and for the effect that this current climate has had on people being able to say goodbye to their loved ones x hugs x

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m so sorry for your loss to you and your loved ones, and for the effect that this current climate has had on people being able to say goodbye to their loved ones x hugs x"

Thank you. It was hard deciding who could go and who couldn’t due to social distancing. This has caused the most stress

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Sorry for your loss OP hugs

A friend of mine experienced the same when he buried his mum this week. 2 of them at the graveside and everyone else on live link was over just as quick, a very surreal experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that Mr m, x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

So sorry for your loss hope you are ok x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope that you and your family are doing ok.

It sounds like an awful way to say goodbye.

Sending best wishes xx

Even the priest was embarrassed x"

Not great at all, to say the least x

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry for your loss OP hugs

A friend of mine experienced the same when he buried his mum this week. 2 of them at the graveside and everyone else on live link was over just as quick, a very surreal experience "

As harsh as it sounds it was literally drop her in the hole, a quick ‘our father’, a one minute eulogy and that was it. It started at 9 and I was back in my house for 9:20

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry to hear that Mr m, x "

Thank you xxx

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"So sorry for your loss hope you are ok x"

I’m fine. She was the same as yoda so it wasn’t a big shock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. Sending hugs x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Sorry for your loss OP hugs

A friend of mine experienced the same when he buried his mum this week. 2 of them at the graveside and everyone else on live link was over just as quick, a very surreal experience

As harsh as it sounds it was literally drop her in the hole, a quick ‘our father’, a one minute eulogy and that was it. It started at 9 and I was back in my house for 9:20 "

It does sound harsh and hard to watch

My mate is still numb from the experience as doesn’t feel like he got to say goodbye as so rushed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sorry for your loss OP hugs

A friend of mine experienced the same when he buried his mum this week. 2 of them at the graveside and everyone else on live link was over just as quick, a very surreal experience

As harsh as it sounds it was literally drop her in the hole, a quick ‘our father’, a one minute eulogy and that was it. It started at 9 and I was back in my house for 9:20 "

Oh blimey, that's horrible. Sorry for your loss OP, wierd times we're living in at the moment. Xx

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry for your loss OP hugs

A friend of mine experienced the same when he buried his mum this week. 2 of them at the graveside and everyone else on live link was over just as quick, a very surreal experience

As harsh as it sounds it was literally drop her in the hole, a quick ‘our father’, a one minute eulogy and that was it. It started at 9 and I was back in my house for 9:20

It does sound harsh and hard to watch

My mate is still numb from the experience as doesn’t feel like he got to say goodbye as so rushed"

I said my goodbyes as she died at home with everyone round her so in that respect it was good. Just a shame my lad (and others) couldn’t go due to the numbers allowed plus it was very much all rushed

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


". Sending hugs x"

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry for your loss "

Thanks x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Sorry for your loss OP hugs

A friend of mine experienced the same when he buried his mum this week. 2 of them at the graveside and everyone else on live link was over just as quick, a very surreal experience

As harsh as it sounds it was literally drop her in the hole, a quick ‘our father’, a one minute eulogy and that was it. It started at 9 and I was back in my house for 9:20

It does sound harsh and hard to watch

My mate is still numb from the experience as doesn’t feel like he got to say goodbye as so rushed

I said my goodbyes as she died at home with everyone round her so in that respect it was good. Just a shame my lad (and others) couldn’t go due to the numbers allowed plus it was very much all rushed"

That’s something, they couldn’t do that as had the virus. Shame about your lad x

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry for your loss OP hugs

A friend of mine experienced the same when he buried his mum this week. 2 of them at the graveside and everyone else on live link was over just as quick, a very surreal experience

As harsh as it sounds it was literally drop her in the hole, a quick ‘our father’, a one minute eulogy and that was it. It started at 9 and I was back in my house for 9:20

It does sound harsh and hard to watch

My mate is still numb from the experience as doesn’t feel like he got to say goodbye as so rushed

I said my goodbyes as she died at home with everyone round her so in that respect it was good. Just a shame my lad (and others) couldn’t go due to the numbers allowed plus it was very much all rushed

That’s something, they couldn’t do that as had the virus. Shame about your lad x "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sorry to hear that, it's just horrible that people can't bury their loved ones like 'normal'.

My friend lost her dad recently, she's decided not to go to the funeral because it meant that one of her kids couldn't go and she felt she couldn't ask any of them not to.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

So sorry to hear this Mr M. It's also very sad that we can't give our loved ones a memorable 'send off ' and a lot of family and friends can't all come together to support each other.

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry to hear that, it's just horrible that people can't bury their loved ones like 'normal'.

My friend lost her dad recently, she's decided not to go to the funeral because it meant that one of her kids couldn't go and she felt she couldn't ask any of them not to. "

This is what caused my mum the most stress by deciding who could and couldn’t go. My lad is only 4 so he doesn’t understand so he didn’t go but others felt a bit put out.

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"So sorry to hear this Mr M. It's also very sad that we can't give our loved ones a memorable 'send off ' and a lot of family and friends can't all come together to support each other."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condolences to you M

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Condolences to you M "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condolences to you and your family xxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"So sorry to hear this Mr M. It's also very sad that we can't give our loved ones a memorable 'send off ' and a lot of family and friends can't all come together to support each other.

Thank you "

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Condolences to you and your family xxx"

Thanks PMP x

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Glad you are able to chat so openly about it, often the hardest part...All the very best to you and your family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry for your loss

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Glad you are able to chat so openly about it, often the hardest part...All the very best to you and your family. "

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"So sorry for your loss "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss.

I had similar recently, very surreal experience

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By *olacolaMan
over a year ago

lincoln

I’m very sorry for your loss

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry for your loss.

I had similar recently, very surreal experience "

It’s hard but what can you do?

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m very sorry for your loss"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really sorry for your loss.... Maybe when we get through this surreal time you could have a memorial service for her family / friends to celebrate her life

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Really sorry for your loss.... Maybe when we get through this surreal time you could have a memorial service for her family / friends to celebrate her life "

I think that’s the consensus that we’ve all agreed we’ll do, whenever that will be???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh I’m so sorry

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Gosh I’m so sorry "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear not a very cheery thread from you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condolences OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

146? Okey dokey

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Oh dear not a very cheery thread from you OP "

Hey, such is life. We’ve all got to do it sometime.

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Condolences OP "

Cheers buddy

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"146? Okey dokey "

Thanks this means a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss, one of the boys I know buried his mother today, she was 55 but had terminal cancer but also tested positive for covid19, only 10 people allowed at the funeral but when lockdown is finished there’s gonna be a memorial as she was a very very popular woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really sorry for your loss and for the day you've had.

Hopefully when this all over you'll be able to have a more fitting celebration of her life with all the family and friends.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

That’s really sad. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this Mr M.

One of my brothers died this morning, unexpectedly, so we have this to come.

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry for your loss, one of the boys I know buried his mother today, she was 55 but had terminal cancer but also tested positive for covid19, only 10 people allowed at the funeral but when lockdown is finished there’s gonna be a memorial as she was a very very popular woman. "

Yeah hopefully this is something we’ll be doing in the very near future

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Really sorry for your loss and for the day you've had.

Hopefully when this all over you'll be able to have a more fitting celebration of her life with all the family and friends. "

Thank you

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"That’s really sad. Xx"

It’s ok. There’s nothing we could of done that would of made it any better.

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry to hear this Mr M.

One of my brothers died this morning, unexpectedly, so we have this to come. "

My sincere condolences

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Sorry to hear this Mr M.

One of my brothers died this morning, unexpectedly, so we have this to come. "

So sorry for your loss, such sad times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear this Mr M.

One of my brothers died this morning, unexpectedly, so we have this to come.

My sincere condolences "

Bless you

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Sorry to hear this Mr M.

One of my brothers died this morning, unexpectedly, so we have this to come. "

So sorry, what a shock for you and your family

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Sorry to hear this Mr M.

One of my brothers died this morning, unexpectedly, so we have this to come. "

Oh Lois I’m so sorry to read this. What a terrible shock

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Ahh shit buddy. Condolences.

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Ahh shit buddy. Condolences."

Cheers brother

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Ahh shit buddy. Condolences.

Cheers brother "

No worries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear your sad news and hope you and your family OK

X

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"So sorry to hear your sad news and hope you and your family OK

X"

TY x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss. Always a hard thing to deal with, but especially so in these strange circumstances. Hope you're ok x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Very sorry to hear about your Nan, Mr M. Much love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending hugs, sorry to hear that xx

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry for your loss. Always a hard thing to deal with, but especially so in these strange circumstances. Hope you're ok x"

It wasn’t so much her dying as she was very old more the drive through style burial. It was different

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Very sorry to hear about your Nan, Mr M. Much love "

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Sending hugs, sorry to hear that xx"

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