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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

Hi all,

Anyone else a singleton and struggling with the whole dating scene as a whole? Seems to me that a lot of people use dating sites etc for attention, gets a bit frustrating after a while! Wondering if people are also struggling with it or just me? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

Anyone else a singleton and struggling with the whole dating scene as a whole? Seems to me that a lot of people use dating sites etc for attention, gets a bit frustrating after a while! Wondering if people are also struggling with it or just me? Lol"

This isn’t a dating app so might be where your going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with it aswell I can talk to woman when I am out have a chat and if I see them 2nd time have another chat I try to ask would you like to go somewere with me please they make excuses

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Dating apps just seem to be full of weirdos and married men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dating apps just seem to be full of weirdos and married men"
it is like here then my mistake

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough


"Dating apps just seem to be full of weirdos and married men it is like here then my mistake "

Lol must just be the internet as a whole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dating apps just seem to be full of weirdos and married men it is like here then my mistake

Lol must just be the internet as a whole "

Yes and dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dating apps just seem to be full of weirdos and married men"

Oh thank you very much

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"Dating apps just seem to be full of weirdos and married men it is like here then my mistake "

Ha ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm note looking for dates, just filth..

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By *ee80Woman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hi all,

Anyone else a singleton and struggling with the whole dating scene as a whole? Seems to me that a lot of people use dating sites etc for attention, gets a bit frustrating after a while! Wondering if people are also struggling with it or just me? Lol"

Too many people pretending to be something they're not and unable to keep up the facade in reality. It's so dire, I gave up looking. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on dating sites don't want to date they just want a fuck.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Hi all,

Anyone else a singleton and struggling with the whole dating scene as a whole? Seems to me that a lot of people use dating sites etc for attention, gets a bit frustrating after a while! Wondering if people are also struggling with it or just me? Lol"

I prefer real life serendipitous encounters of like minds

Usually by going to and partaking in , places and activities I enjoy passionately

I will not use dating apps

Thus currently a little bit stuffed

I genuinely feel a little (I have no idea for the word for the emotion sad does not sound right) that I'm not spending this lockdown in which I'm thriving ,with the lady I'd hope to spend the rest of my life with

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

It's so hard finding soneone who you just connect with.

Met someone the other day..she feels a connection but I dont.In going to have to tell her...but then you ask yourself is it the right thing to do.Even though you know it is.

I really envy those people who meet..fall in love..have amazing sex and stay together.

I hope they know how lucky they are.

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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

Thanks guys, nice yo know its not just me lol, I did mean not just on this site, as I'm aware FAB is very different to a full dating site, but using things like tinder, ok cupid etc, as someone elquintly said 'people pretend to be something there not and cant keep up with the facade" I myself have previously been engaged and know what love is and what a relashionship is like etc, but there is way too many fake people around putting an act on!

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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse


"Hi all,

Anyone else a singleton and struggling with the whole dating scene as a whole? Seems to me that a lot of people use dating sites etc for attention, gets a bit frustrating after a while! Wondering if people are also struggling with it or just me? Lol

Too many people pretending to be something they're not and unable to keep up the facade in reality. It's so dire, I gave up looking. Good luck x"

Im very close to stopping looking in all fairness, becoming a joke trying! Especially during this whole lockdown thing, people seem to have less of a care to just dissapear, or just seemingly want to keep themselve's entertained, minefield!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

Anyone else a singleton and struggling with the whole dating scene as a whole? Seems to me that a lot of people use dating sites etc for attention, gets a bit frustrating after a while! Wondering if people are also struggling with it or just me? Lol"

I cannot stand the online dating scene anymore. I done it, I tried it, managed to attract all the weirdos and gave up. I'm much happier on here just being me and doing what I want and half the people on tinder etc don't want to date anyway, they just want to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys, nice yo know its not just me lol, I did mean not just on this site, as I'm aware FAB is very different to a full dating site, but using things like tinder, ok cupid etc, as someone elquintly said 'people pretend to be something there not and cant keep up with the facade" I myself have previously been engaged and know what love is and what a relashionship is like etc, but there is way too many fake people around putting an act on! "

Apparently a tip is to join hobby groups. Then you have something in common. Friendship tends to last longer than lust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's hard these days mate. I'm in the same boat.I'm on 3 apps myself.

I've found in my experience that most people on it use it to either pass the time swiping, looking for Instagram followers, or want to see they're fancied.

Very rarely I've come across genuine people looking to date. S

So you're definitely not alone

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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse


"Yeah it's hard these days mate. I'm in the same boat.I'm on 3 apps myself.

I've found in my experience that most people on it use it to either pass the time swiping, looking for Instagram followers, or want to see they're fancied.

Very rarely I've come across genuine people looking to date. S

So you're definitely not alone"

Summed it up there bud, people using it for insta followers or to kill some time!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I'm note looking for dates, just filth.. "

Dirt bird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm happy being single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dating apps just seem to be full of weirdos and married men"

What's wrong with weirdos? Some of us are lovely

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By *ubberclubberMan
over a year ago

Southsea

I struggle with the apps.

Speed dating has been the most fun and successful for me. I'm doing a virtual one Wednesday which could be interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up with the whole online dating thing, did my head in, think I’m destined to stay single

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any

Currently not on any dating apps, but maybe an unmarried swinger looking for a regular (single) partner would be better looking on here anyway?

Found a lovely FB yrs ago on POF, we were both same - open minded.

Ready to enjoy the comforts of life with someone I can make happy too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of guys just want to fuck. The difference is that on dating site they will invite you for a dinner first. On fab they don't have to.

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By *ownwithafeatherMan
over a year ago

Watford


"Lot of guys just want to fuck. The difference is that on dating site they will invite you for a dinner first. On fab they don't have to."

I do a mean fish finger butty.

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