FabSwingers.com forum: Do woman ever message first...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

this isn’t nothing to do with me nor do i expect it as i have nothing to show on my profile but just genuinely curious as i always see women saying how many messages they get and i get it’s cos 90% of men are straight hungry but yeah... wondering if any of you woman seek men out or just wait for a inbox.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

also i’ve just clocked how i’ve simply forgotten how to spell women in that OP...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never but my best friend is on here & she will message first x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have never but my best friend is on here & she will message first x"

hopefully she stumbles across me and i might strike lucky hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never but my best friend is on here & she will message first x

hopefully she stumbles across me and i might strike lucky hahah "

I doubt it as you're quite a distance away x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have never but my best friend is on here & she will message first x

hopefully she stumbles across me and i might strike lucky hahah

I doubt it as you're quite a distance away x"

nah i get that haha x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Alice messages other women first.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I do. Life is too short to see on the fence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Alice messages other women first."

that’s fair enough then x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do. Life is too short to see on the fence."

i suppose if you see something you like then get it rather than hope it comes to you!x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do. Life is too short to see on the fence."

also amazing photos haha!

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

I've messaged 1st. Equality and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've messaged 1st. Equality and all that."

haha i like your style

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do

and i bet you most definitely get alot people messaging you first looking like that

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've had a few ladies message me, some have led to meets, but it's generally been through just getting to know each other on the forums first

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a few ladies message me, some have led to meets, but it's generally been through just getting to know each other on the forums first

fairplay then! and yeah i’m learning forums seem better to start speaking to someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this isn’t nothing to do with me nor do i expect it as i have nothing to show on my profile but just genuinely curious as i always see women saying how many messages they get and i get it’s cos 90% of men are straight hungry but yeah... wondering if any of you woman seek men out or just wait for a inbox. "

Women do message first. Patience is a virtue!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Women do message first. Patience is a virtue!

I like bananas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do

Still waiting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do message first. Patience is a virtue!

I like bananas "

What do you do with them?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Women do message first. Patience is a virtue!

I like bananas

What do you do with them?

Eat them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do message first. Patience is a virtue!

I like bananas

What do you do with them?

Eat them"

Have you tried making fritters with them and having it with icecream?

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

I do message first.

But if late it's, all been a bit mad and spend my time just reading and answering in my mailbox. It's never ending

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By *ackSparrow2Man
over a year ago

Durham

I’ve had a few ladies message first. But I think you’ve got to appreciate it what this site is and how many guys go crazy for boobs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t, don’t have the time to read all of my inbox as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of ladies message 1st

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ye if a profile interests me or sometimes it's about something in the forums then yes I'll message first.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I do if someone catches my eye

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By *orkindamMan
over a year ago

amsterdam

A handful of times

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I think over the last 3-4 years I have had 5 ladies message me first.One I had a meet with another we couldn’t arrange anything that was suitable to both , another just wanted to ask about my night out at OP4F and the other two I think maybe time wasters or fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do if someone catches my eye "

Have I caught your eye?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I really like the look of someone, I'll send a wink. If I get one back, I'll drop them a message

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Just for chatting yes I will message someone from a thread, meet wise I use my profile and winks to gauge interest for what I am looking for

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"I do if someone catches my eye

Have I caught your eye?

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Very rare but it does happen once in a blue moon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, they do

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

I do

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Ladies message, of course. And it’s such a lovely feeling getting a nice friendly message from a nice friendly lady

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nearly all my meets I messaged first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes women do.

I hardly send a message as it would be in a pile with others and get deleted

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I have a couple of times.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I have once or twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had ladies message me first. I don’t think it’s that unusual it’s nice.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do. As a couple it's easier I think...kinda feel like you've got some back up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have once or twice"

There is nothing wrong with doing it third time! Just FYI.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do. Life is too short to see on the fence."

I had an initial message off a woman (part of a couple) the other day.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I have done yes, so don't rule it out OP

I think a guy is more likely to get a message if they have written a decent profile and have a few pics up that are not just of their cock personally. But that's just me.

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a profile that I like the look of I will message first

Had some nice times because of it also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone takes my fancy yes why not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope... never have yet

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Yes, I will send a first message if I’m interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’ve ever had a lady message me first....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I've messaged first plenty of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll take that back I’ve just been sent a message.....from a lady too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Just got a message.... oh it was telling me my subscription is running out..

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Yes they do

I think if a lady wishes to discover the best man for her desires ,it's the most pragmatic approach

I'd suggest a lady assuming she will get the best selection of men by only looking at her inbox is a narrow perspective

It has been mentioned in forums before men of a certain sanguine and amiable outlook often do not send many messages not wanting to be linked with the mass horn fest?

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By *ubynaughtyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

We've had a few women message us first. Usually after a new picture is posted or a comment in the forums.

I think you just have to catch the eye

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve had a few ladies message first. But I think you’ve got to appreciate it what this site is and how many guys go crazy for boobs etc. "

fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask all then men I have messaged first and they will tell you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask all then men I have messaged first and they will tell you!!!

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