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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I think they are the same as any other age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had loads of ‘You’re to young to be doing this’, people suggesting my partner and I can’t really be in love and that at this age we should be ‘having fun’ instead of on a site like this.

Just ignore anything negative people have to say is my advice, do what makes you happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women get taken seriously (been here since I was 20)

The men don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 32 and I'm not part of the lifestyle. I don't think age matters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The women get taken seriously (been here since I was 20)

The men don’t. "

I seem to get that impression but sometimes it baffles me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I joined at 20 so yes.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"The women get taken seriously (been here since I was 20)

The men don’t. "

Not just the under 20s men I feel.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Women yes

Couples yes but they mainly have their own internal market!

Guys no

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The women get taken seriously (been here since I was 20)

The men don’t.

Not just the under 20s men I feel."

I see posts from men claiming they're treated as "past it" at 40 so if under 24 is too young does that mean men only have a 16 year swinging window?

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"The women get taken seriously (been here since I was 20)

The men don’t. "

You can apply that to every aspect of this website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women get taken seriously (been here since I was 20)

The men don’t.

You can apply that to every aspect of this website "

Yeah, I was.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance "

For younger Tgirls I’m sure this is a great support group, something I wish I’d had at their age.

So for that group of younger demographic on here. I think they are very genuine wanting to explore their sexuality, make new friends and lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance

For younger Tgirls I’m sure this is a great support group, something I wish I’d had at their age.

So for that group of younger demographic on here. I think they are very genuine wanting to explore their sexuality, make new friends and lifestyle "

Agreed on that. Most seem like they have people’s respect which is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say go and enjoy the real world. This suits people that have been about better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d say go and enjoy the real world. This suits people that have been about better. "

Why’s that? Curious to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it’ll chew you up and spit you out. Go meet girls your own age and then come back here when your older and you’ll be able to work it better. Most women and couples are after good sex. And good sex comes with age.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

As long as they're adults, I have no problem at all with younger being on here.

I'm unlikely to meet them, as I have a 24 year old son, but that doesn't mean others won't be interested.

It's harder for young single men but then it's generally not easy for guys on here anyway.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Because it’ll chew you up and spit you out. Go meet girls your own age and then come back here when your older and you’ll be able to work it better. Most women and couples are after good sex. And good sex comes with age. "

I don't agree with that to be honest. Being older doesn't make you a good lover.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There's a 10 to 15 year window when people will be at their most popular within swinging from around 35 to 45/50.

Outwith that range you'll find yourself not so much in demand although as with everything there are exceptions.

Age is no barrier to bring sexually adventurous it's just that if you want to try swinging your opportunities might be limited.

For the record I think any age over 18 should be made welcome. There's room for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngsters think it’s like porn all the times. I don’t find them emotionally mature enough to enjoy playing with them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Youngsters think it’s like porn all the times. I don’t find them emotionally mature enough to enjoy playing with them. "
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That's fair enough but it doesn't mean they shouldn't be here.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Youngsters think it’s like porn all the times. I don’t find them emotionally mature enough to enjoy playing with them. "

I think that it's unfair and inaccurate to lump an entire age group together.

Just because you happen to have encountered that attitude and lack of sexual expertise, that doesn't mean they are all like that.

I have come across men and women of all ages with varying sexual experience. In fact older single men have been far more selfish than those that are younger (30s)

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

All ages have their appeal and their swinging demographic.

I'm not here to judge other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I’ll say is pay attention to people’s age preferences. They do put them up for a reason.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Youngsters think it’s like porn all the times. I don’t find them emotionally mature enough to enjoy playing with them. "

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I wish i had started swinging at a much earlier age. I was intrigued by the lifestyle in my early 20's but instead tried to live my life by the book. So glad i am here now and i will never judge anyone of any age for being here also

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I’ll say is pay attention to people’s age preferences. They do put them up for a reason. "

I personally haven’t set an age range simply because I wouldn’t want to limit my experiences by saying no before I’ve even gave anyone a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I’ll say is pay attention to people’s age preferences. They do put them up for a reason.

I personally haven’t set an age range simply because I wouldn’t want to limit my experiences by saying no before I’ve even gave anyone a chance"

That will actually put some people off. It’s makes you look a little desperate. Like you’d have sex with an 80 year old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youngsters think it’s like porn all the times. I don’t find them emotionally mature enough to enjoy playing with them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say go and enjoy the real world. This suits people that have been about better. "

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I’ll say is pay attention to people’s age preferences. They do put them up for a reason.

I personally haven’t set an age range simply because I wouldn’t want to limit my experiences by saying no before I’ve even gave anyone a chance

That will actually put some people off. It’s makes you look a little desperate. Like you’d have sex with an 80 year old. "

I prefer to use it in that scenario as a networking thing though, some club owners, group organisers etc are sometimes above the age I’d have usually think about wanting to play with, but it’s worth chatting to them and learning a bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it’ll chew you up and spit you out. Go meet girls your own age and then come back here when your older and you’ll be able to work it better. Most women and couples are after good sex. And good sex comes with age. "

It’s my birthday next week. I’m moving up a level in sex so excited xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of them lately want £120 per hour

Have reported a few and before you slate me they messaged me wanting a Daddy......

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

They tend to treat it like Tinder, hook up site, rather than life style

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wish i had started swinging at a much earlier age. I was intrigued by the lifestyle in my early 20's but instead tried to live my life by the book. So glad i am here now and i will never judge anyone of any age for being here also "

Why didn’t you start earlier bluebell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have decreased and increased my age limits... thought why the hell not, if a foot 24 year old wants to fuck me and make me feel amazing then go on then lol

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Meant to say FIT* LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They tend to treat it like Tinder, hook up site, rather than life style"

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have decreased and increased my age limits... thought why the hell not, if a foot 24 year old wants to fuck me and make me feel amazing then go on then lol

Meant to say FIT* LOL"

If that happened on a night out to another woman your age I’m sure she’d say the same as you, but probably wouldn’t like to admit it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a club a couple of months back a young man came up to talk. Good looking lad. But talking was painful. Life experiences change how people behave and the lack of experience in general life is apparent.

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

We are relatively open minded and have played with a younger guy before, but I'll admit it does put us off a bit as I like a manly man, and many younger men just don't 'do it' for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are relatively open minded and have played with a younger guy before, but I'll admit it does put us off a bit as I like a manly man, and many younger men just don't 'do it' for me "

I guess that’s just personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start young and gain experience and just enjoy it! Life is too short x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start young and gain experience and just enjoy it! Life is too short x "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women get taken seriously (been here since I was 20)

The men don’t. "

I will have you know... I have taken some of the men, in that age range, extremely seriously!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The women get taken seriously (been here since I was 20)

The men don’t.

I will have you know... I have taken some of the men, in that age range, extremely seriously!! "

And so you should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women get taken seriously (been here since I was 20)

The men don’t.

I will have you know... I have taken some of the men, in that age range, extremely seriously!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance "

We don't take them seriously.

Have come across a fair few in clubs.

Very immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first started my swinging and kink lifestyle aged 21. I think it's down to the individual person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a lifestyle for me so age is irrelevant when it comes to that label.

On here women of any age will generally be in demand, same as they are in clubs / parties. Men will struggle especially the under 25 & the over 55’s.

Just my opinion not proven fact.

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I did meet a few people when I first joined back when I was 19ish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s not a lifestyle for me so age is irrelevant when it comes to that label.

On here women of any age will generally be in demand, same as they are in clubs / parties. Men will struggle especially the under 25 & the over 55’s.

Just my opinion not proven fact."

Agreed. Although I do think some guys ruin it for others by just wanting a “quick fix”

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Lucky young whippersnappers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say go and enjoy the real world. This suits people that have been about better. "

I agree and I wouldn't recommend this site to young people.

But each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance

We don't take them seriously.

Have come across a fair few in clubs.

Very immature. "

This is neither age nor sex dependant, especially on here

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Young ladies yes

Young lads no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found some of the older ones more immature and self important than people in my age bracket.

I always try to be polite and tell it how it is.If I don't fancy someone I will send a no thanks your not for me.

The amount of times that results in a message back saying I shouldn't be on here I'm too young or have the body of a little girl or other insults and mostly those idiotic replies are from older people.So I don't think immaturity has anything to do with age I think it has a lot to do with the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay attention to people’s looking for box. That say exactly what they want. And remember it’s what they want, not what you want.

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By *outhendLad.99Man
over a year ago

westcliff-on-sea

I think there is a definite discrimination towards younger guys on here. It baffles me, there must be some women who want a younger man ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as genuine and not time wasters don’t see any harm . The more genuine people the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you using the must be in the age range button on the search?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It’s a no from us

30 and below are instablock.

There are lots more sites for non swingers.

At 18 - 23 you are just beginning your sexual experiences in reality and are just finding your feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it’ll chew you up and spit you out. Go meet girls your own age and then come back here when your older and you’ll be able to work it better. Most women and couples are after good sex. And good sex comes with age. "

Disagree.

I’m 26 and have had sex with guys my own age and guys older.

Although I naturally prefer older, they’re not all better at sex.

Good sex comes with experience, and that doesn’t always come with age.

I think since this website is 18+ there should be no issue with those joining. I’ve had patronising comments on here from older people who have their own perception of younger people, and it’s not a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a no from us

30 and below are instablock.

There are lots more sites for non swingers.

At 18 - 23 you are just beginning your sexual experiences in reality and are just finding your feet."

We agree 30 onwards. Anyone under does not offer what we require.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I unfortunately came across my 22 year old son on here he had over 70 verifications & told me he had some of the best times of his life (so far) with having threesomes & moresomes. Naughty little fucker. He is quite a charmer though & a good looking lad (biased I know)

I'd have been bloody dangerous if I had this site in my younger years! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say go and enjoy the real world. This suits people that have been about better.

I agree and I wouldn't recommend this site to young people.

But each to their own. "

Your age preferences of 18-99 says different though?

I think some people are intimidated by younger people joining this lifestyle, not all but definitely some in my experience.

Swinging doesn’t have an “age”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 18 and I would say a good 15% of messages I receive are people telling me to leave the website because I’m too young

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

They are just as welcome on the site as any other As long as they are genuine and polite. It doesn't have to be a "lifestyle" maybe they just want to try some new things whilst they are young or single. Good luck to them.

Personally i'd much rather have some fun with a hot female or couple ages 18-25 or whatever is classed as young than someone that's 60, or someone that does bareback gangbangs etc.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Some of the comments indicate a lack of understanding of what swinging or the lifestyle is about. It is apparent that singles are looking for other singles (not everyone but there's a common theme). This is not swinging and it seems those people are only here in expectation of a shag without dating. Sorry, do as you please, but you're better off on a dating site than complaining about your hard luck on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found some of the older ones more immature and self important than people in my age bracket.

I always try to be polite and tell it how it is.If I don't fancy someone I will send a no thanks your not for me.

The amount of times that results in a message back saying I shouldn't be on here I'm too young or have the body of a little girl or other insults and mostly those idiotic replies are from older people.So I don't think immaturity has anything to do with age I think it has a lot to do with the person "

Well put, being a 23 year old male i have been on and off this site twice now. It helped me to figure out my sexualitly and what im into. The ratio of single males to females and couples is obviously huge. I have made some very good friends on here also and i believe maturity helps. Try to be unique with your messages and original and see how it goes. My messages are open too both sexes not because im into that more to be a sholder if anyone needs it. Be kind and polite. The only time you should look down on someone is of you are offering them a hand back up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 18 and I would say a good 15% of messages I receive are people telling me to leave the website because I’m too young "

Aww ignore them. Imagine all the experience you could gain if you play it right. You could be the king of swingers in years to come!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’m 18 and I would say a good 15% of messages I receive are people telling me to leave the website because I’m too young "

That's just rude. The site has 18 as it's lower age limit you're as entitled to be here as every one else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m thinking they’ve all come here because they have closed the skate parks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found some of the older ones more immature and self important than people in my age bracket.

I always try to be polite and tell it how it is.If I don't fancy someone I will send a no thanks your not for me.

The amount of times that results in a message back saying I shouldn't be on here I'm too young or have the body of a little girl or other insults and mostly those idiotic replies are from older people.So I don't think immaturity has anything to do with age I think it has a lot to do with the person "

Couldn’t agree more.

“Grow up little girl” is a common insult when politely rejected.

I’ve had unsolicited messages off older women too. “No real man wants an immature little girl” was the most recent one and I was blocked!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Some of the comments indicate a lack of understanding of what swinging or the lifestyle is about. It is apparent that singles are looking for other singles (not everyone but there's a common theme). This is not swinging and it seems those people are only here in expectation of a shag without dating. Sorry, do as you please, but you're better off on a dating site than complaining about your hard luck on a swinging site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found some of the older ones more immature and self important than people in my age bracket.

I always try to be polite and tell it how it is.If I don't fancy someone I will send a no thanks your not for me.

The amount of times that results in a message back saying I shouldn't be on here I'm too young or have the body of a little girl or other insults and mostly those idiotic replies are from older people.So I don't think immaturity has anything to do with age I think it has a lot to do with the person

Couldn’t agree more.

“Grow up little girl” is a common insult when politely rejected.

I’ve had unsolicited messages off older women too. “No real man wants an immature little girl” was the most recent one and I was blocked! "

Little girl...You look all woman to be babe! X

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Anyone over 18 has just as much right to be here as anyone else.

We have our age filters set at over 25 because the social part is really important to us.

We have people who are in their early 20's who work with us and the difference in personal responsibilities and maturity mean we are unlikely to become good friends socially which is why we have our age range.

Our age range wouldn't necessarily apply in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a no from us

30 and below are instablock.

There are lots more sites for non swingers.

At 18 - 23 you are just beginning your sexual experiences in reality and are just finding your feet."

There are so many people over 30 on here that have just got out of loveless, sexless marriages and are finding their feet. Should they leave too? And come back later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a no from us

30 and below are instablock.

There are lots more sites for non swingers.

At 18 - 23 you are just beginning your sexual experiences in reality and are just finding your feet.

There are so many people over 30 on here that have just got out of loveless, sexless marriages and are finding their feet. Should they leave too? And come back later?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m thinking they’ve all come here because they have closed the skate parks. "

And the universities obviously! We need something to do!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a cracking 23 year old lad, so they are not all tossers and yes he was a very good fuck and could repeat no problem lol but a rare find!

Think they need maturity not age, but let's face it there are plenty of immature old people on here who can't shag or repeat and not even nice to look at!

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Think it's tougher for younger guys as there are a few who misbehave on here and treat the site like a personal knockin' shop. The lack of respect coming from them can reflect badly on the rest of us. Not saying it's all, just a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The social side part is very important. And different generations do find it harder to mix. It is a fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met a cracking 23 year old lad, so they are not all tossers and yes he was a very good fuck and could repeat no problem lol but a rare find!

Think they need maturity not age, but let's face it there are plenty of immature old people on here who can't shag or repeat and not even nice to look at! "

Thanks@

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

older people not wanting to meet young people is that age racism ! we can`t play with them because... and a list of made up reasons, like they don`t know who the beatles are and they are all... lol

We have to confess to going to some night clubs and im always amazed how accepting the younger generation are of everybody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 18 and I would say a good 15% of messages I receive are people telling me to leave the website because I’m too young

Aww ignore them. Imagine all the experience you could gain if you play it right. You could be the king of swingers in years to come! "

Ahahh here’s hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 18 and I would say a good 15% of messages I receive are people telling me to leave the website because I’m too young

That's just rude. The site has 18 as it's lower age limit you're as entitled to be here as every one else. "

Yeah that’s what I thought haha

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Because it’ll chew you up and spit you out. Go meet girls your own age and then come back here when your older and you’ll be able to work it better. Most women and couples are after good sex. And good sex comes with age.

Disagree.

I’m 26 and have had sex with guys my own age and guys older.

Although I naturally prefer older, they’re not all better at sex.

Good sex comes with experience, and that doesn’t always come with age.

I think since this website is 18+ there should be no issue with those joining. I’ve had patronising comments on here from older people who have their own perception of younger people, and it’s not a good one. "

Sometimes no amount of experience brings good sex either if the person has the wrong attitude. A couple of years ago I had a 25 year old lover who had only had a handful of sexual partners but he was far better than some a decade older with many more sexual partners. It was all down to attitude and willingness to work with me to find out how to best please me. Sometimes those who consider themselves experienced think they already know best.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m 18 and I would say a good 15% of messages I receive are people telling me to leave the website because I’m too young "

I'm really sorry to hear that. That's awful. No idea why people can't just live and let live.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I thought having sex with really younger guys be totally rubbish... But i was mistaken. So i now have a more open mind about them. But better sex definitely comes with age and experience. You need seduce someone with their mind first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 18 and I would say a good 15% of messages I receive are people telling me to leave the website because I’m too young

I'm really sorry to hear that. That's awful. No idea why people can't just live and let live. "

Haha yeah it’s quite annoying but it’s nice to know I’m not the only one, I think they might be jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one particular age group has the monopoly on good sex.

I think good sex comes from emotional intelligence, you need a connection for it to blow your mind.

EQ doesn’t automatically come with age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance "
for me that age group is far too young but you're adults don't worry too much what anyone else thinks its your life as long as you are happy thats what counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We occasionally look for single guys and the immaturity seems to be the whole age range with men a polite no thanks is usually followed up with “you’re a slag/slut/bitch I didn’t want to anyway” message or the first message is “yous want to fuck”

Rather meet them at the club and see how they act in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer the younger age bracket. Open minded, sexually liberated and they bend more

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By *olourful coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot


"Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance "

Personally we quite like a young bi man

Xx

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I’m 18 and I would say a good 15% of messages I receive are people telling me to leave the website because I’m too young "

You're an adult now and naturally have the right to proceed as you see fit even if it involves joining a sex / swinging site.

Is it the right decision however? I've always considered myself very mature and certainly thought so at 18. Now that i'm older and look back I know that I had nowhere near the same level of emotional maturity and life experience to successfully traverse something like this were it available back then. Some things do indeed come with age whether we care to admit them or not. Fab can be brutal and unforgiving in the best of times and more so with someone your age. I think most (not all) people will be better equipped to deal with being here after having acquired some life experience and interacting with the opposite sex or whatever gender they fancy through more traditional means.

Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say go and enjoy the real world. This suits people that have been about better.

I agree and I wouldn't recommend this site to young people.

But each to their own.

Your age preferences of 18-99 says different though?

I think some people are intimidated by younger people joining this lifestyle, not all but definitely some in my experience.

Swinging doesn’t have an “age”. "

Swinging is a sexual thing so I have to say it does have an "age" however young adults will do what they like and good luck to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women get taken seriously (been here since I was 20)

The men don’t. "

There's a few reasons for this;

Most obvious of course is the old "supply and demand" chestnut that will always have some effect.

Also though there's the fact a lot of the younger adults have learnt the most about sex from porn films and less from imagination or the sensual nature to sex. For a woman this means wailing and thrashing her body about like she's having a convulsion. Oh and mastering being able to squirt. For a man however it means focusing solely on making a woman squirt as the pinnacle of her enjoyment rather than orgasm, smacking an arse repeatedly throughout and banging hard. Most women want more from this during sex and a lot would find focus on these three aspects irritating.

Conversation-wise, most women mature on average a few years earlier than their equivalent guys.

When it comes to the d/s dynamics being added to play or even the kind of play partner people prefer, on average there's more women seeking dominant men and more men seeking submissive women. This is by no means an overwhelming majority for each sex, but it's merely how the land lies, probably gender reinforcing upbringing has some effect on this. A younger woman will find it easier to play out being a submissive and following instruction than a man of the same age will on average find it to be the imaginative dominant in some regard and come up with fresh invigorating ideas for play that a mature lady hasn't already "been there, done that" and which also excite her intellect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 18 and I would say a good 15% of messages I receive are people telling me to leave the website because I’m too young

You're an adult now and naturally have the right to proceed as you see fit even if it involves joining a sex / swinging site.

Is it the right decision however? I've always considered myself very mature and certainly thought so at 18. Now that i'm older and look back I know that I had nowhere near the same level of emotional maturity and life experience to successfully traverse something like this were it available back then. Some things do indeed come with age whether we care to admit them or not. Fab can be brutal and unforgiving in the best of times and more so with someone your age. I think most (not all) people will be better equipped to deal with being here after having acquired some life experience and interacting with the opposite sex or whatever gender they fancy through more traditional means.

Just my opinion. "

Well said I'm not a swinger but I'm 39 and since I joined this site I've seen things which have made me think twice.

I don't know how I would of perceived sex if I had been exposed to this from a young age.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We occasionally look for single guys and the immaturity seems to be the whole age range with men a polite no thanks is usually followed up with “you’re a slag/slut/bitch I didn’t want to anyway” message or the first message is “yous want to fuck”

Rather meet them at the club and see how they act in person "

Absolutely agree. I've had childish tantrums off men old enough to be my father .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it’ll chew you up and spit you out. Go meet girls your own age and then come back here when your older and you’ll be able to work it better. Most women and couples are after good sex. And good sex comes with age.

Disagree.

I’m 26 and have had sex with guys my own age and guys older.

Although I naturally prefer older, they’re not all better at sex.

Good sex comes with experience, and that doesn’t always come with age.

I think since this website is 18+ there should be no issue with those joining. I’ve had patronising comments on here from older people who have their own perception of younger people, and it’s not a good one.

Sometimes no amount of experience brings good sex either if the person has the wrong attitude. A couple of years ago I had a 25 year old lover who had only had a handful of sexual partners but he was far better than some a decade older with many more sexual partners. It was all down to attitude and willingness to work with me to find out how to best please me. Sometimes those who consider themselves experienced think they already know best."

Absolutely agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say go and enjoy the real world. This suits people that have been about better.

I agree and I wouldn't recommend this site to young people.

But each to their own.

Your age preferences of 18-99 says different though?

I think some people are intimidated by younger people joining this lifestyle, not all but definitely some in my experience.

Swinging doesn’t have an “age”.

Swinging is a sexual thing so I have to say it does have an "age" however young adults will do what they like and good luck to them. "

A sexual thing which adults of all ages can participate in.

There’s some very sexually experienced young people about, and some very sexually inexperienced older people about who have been in marriages for decades and only had sex with their partner.

There is no “one size fits all” when it comes to experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post hit me hard, real hard

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This post hit me hard, real hard "

I've told you before but I thought you were 10 years older when we first started interacting on the forums. Back when you were an unobtainable beauty from the other side of the world .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say go and enjoy the real world. This suits people that have been about better.

I agree and I wouldn't recommend this site to young people.

But each to their own.

Your age preferences of 18-99 says different though?

I think some people are intimidated by younger people joining this lifestyle, not all but definitely some in my experience.

Swinging doesn’t have an “age”.

Swinging is a sexual thing so I have to say it does have an "age" however young adults will do what they like and good luck to them.

A sexual thing which adults of all ages can participate in.

There’s some very sexually experienced young people about, and some very sexually inexperienced older people about who have been in marriages for decades and only had sex with their partner.

There is no “one size fits all” when it comes to experience. "

Honestly, this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are stop filling the forums up with needy I need acceptance posts

Live your life to the fullest in the way YOU feel right it will make you an interesting person and people like interesting people

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I much prefer the younger age bracket. Open minded, sexually liberated and they bend more

"

Yeah, some of us oldies don't bend as much anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My thoughts are stop filling the forums up with needy I need acceptance posts

Live your life to the fullest in the way YOU feel right it will make you an interesting person and people like interesting people "

And I oop-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post hit me hard, real hard

I've told you before but I thought you were 10 years older when we first started interacting on the forums. Back when you were an unobtainable beauty from the other side of the world ."

I mean more the part that I'm no longer considered a younger fabber

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance "

I personally don’t meet with people below 30 due to specific attitudes I’m looking for which I believe comes with age , also not really attracted by faces looks too young to me. However, I saw there are plenty of people around those ages in fab so I wouldn’t worry on that thought much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question was thoughts on younger swingers. This is our thoughts and that is we don’t find them as sexually attractive. So we set out age limits to reflect that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to know there’s a few younger people on this forum though that can present a decent argument yet also see the bigger picture, hopefully it might make some people think twice, but I guess if not then each to their own

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

London

Even as a younger guy (specifically, back when I was 20ish) - I would say I was taken seriously by some people here.

You have to put in the effort, though. You'll get shut down at times, but you also for what some people are actually looking for. Not a HUGE market, but it's there.

There are some clear differences, but it's similar for dating apps. As a single guy you just have to do more to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say go and enjoy the real world. This suits people that have been about better.

I agree and I wouldn't recommend this site to young people.

But each to their own.

Your age preferences of 18-99 says different though?

I think some people are intimidated by younger people joining this lifestyle, not all but definitely some in my experience.

Swinging doesn’t have an “age”.

Swinging is a sexual thing so I have to say it does have an "age" however young adults will do what they like and good luck to them.

A sexual thing which adults of all ages can participate in.

There’s some very sexually experienced young people about, and some very sexually inexperienced older people about who have been in marriages for decades and only had sex with their partner.

There is no “one size fits all” when it comes to experience. "

Yes I agree with you. There are younger people who could teach me a few things.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance "

Far to many patronising towards people in this age group.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This post hit me hard, real hard

I've told you before but I thought you were 10 years older when we first started interacting on the forums. Back when you were an unobtainable beauty from the other side of the world .

I mean more the part that I'm no longer considered a younger fabber "

Hahaha RIP your youth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post hit me hard, real hard

I've told you before but I thought you were 10 years older when we first started interacting on the forums. Back when you were an unobtainable beauty from the other side of the world .

I mean more the part that I'm no longer considered a younger fabber

Hahaha RIP your youth!"

Hows that 30 coming along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post hit me hard, real hard

I've told you before but I thought you were 10 years older when we first started interacting on the forums. Back when you were an unobtainable beauty from the other side of the world .

I mean more the part that I'm no longer considered a younger fabber

Hahaha RIP your youth!

Hows that 30 coming along "

Probably shouldn't make that joke, I'm getting close myself

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"It’s a no from us

30 and below are instablock.

There are lots more sites for non swingers.

At 18 - 23 you are just beginning your sexual experiences in reality and are just finding your feet.

There are so many people over 30 on here that have just got out of loveless, sexless marriages and are finding their feet. Should they leave too? And come back later?"

We say zero effort = zero reward.

Relationships take work and communication.

A bit like swinging so good luck with that too.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This post hit me hard, real hard

I've told you before but I thought you were 10 years older when we first started interacting on the forums. Back when you were an unobtainable beauty from the other side of the world .

I mean more the part that I'm no longer considered a younger fabber

Hahaha RIP your youth!

Hows that 30 coming along

Probably shouldn't make that joke, I'm getting close myself "

Fuck off . And me approaching 30 turns you on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weirdly enough, both here and in the real world, I've always been anti-men younger than 30, ever since I originally joined here when I was 25. But then I met a 26 year old (I was 28 at the time) for a last minute social. He's turned out to be my longest fab meet on here and the one that I seem to be the most compatible with in bed. He's quite gentlemanly when he needs to be and he has his shit sorted. He's also been in the swinging scene for around as long as I have too, if not longer, and he and his fiancée both have a lot of swinging experience under their belts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post hit me hard, real hard

I've told you before but I thought you were 10 years older when we first started interacting on the forums. Back when you were an unobtainable beauty from the other side of the world .

I mean more the part that I'm no longer considered a younger fabber

Hahaha RIP your youth!

Hows that 30 coming along

Probably shouldn't make that joke, I'm getting close myself

Fuck off . And me approaching 30 turns you on? "

I'm getting close to 30, not to getting off, jeezus you have a filthy mind

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This post hit me hard, real hard

I've told you before but I thought you were 10 years older when we first started interacting on the forums. Back when you were an unobtainable beauty from the other side of the world .

I mean more the part that I'm no longer considered a younger fabber

Hahaha RIP your youth!

Hows that 30 coming along

Probably shouldn't make that joke, I'm getting close myself

Fuck off . And me approaching 30 turns you on?

I'm getting close to 30, not to getting off, jeezus you have a filthy mind "

It was a joke! Diliberately misinterpreting for comedic effect is one of my favourites

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Because it’ll chew you up and spit you out. Go meet girls your own age and then come back here when your older and you’ll be able to work it better. Most women and couples are after good sex. And good sex comes with age. "

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Because it’ll chew you up and spit you out. Go meet girls your own age and then come back here when your older and you’ll be able to work it better. Most women and couples are after good sex. And good sex comes with age. "

Age doesn't have anything to do with good sex. Anyone can be good or bad at sex, regardless of age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everything else it’s down to personal preference and nobody else’s business.

Too young for us though bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post hit me hard, real hard

I've told you before but I thought you were 10 years older when we first started interacting on the forums. Back when you were an unobtainable beauty from the other side of the world .

I mean more the part that I'm no longer considered a younger fabber

Hahaha RIP your youth!

Hows that 30 coming along

Probably shouldn't make that joke, I'm getting close myself

Fuck off . And me approaching 30 turns you on?

I'm getting close to 30, not to getting off, jeezus you have a filthy mind

It was a joke! Diliberately misinterpreting for comedic effect is one of my favourites "

Ok, spank me as I call you mommy

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

At that age we got all our sexual needs satisfied on the upper balcony of rock city , but times have changed so why not ....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This post hit me hard, real hard

I've told you before but I thought you were 10 years older when we first started interacting on the forums. Back when you were an unobtainable beauty from the other side of the world .

I mean more the part that I'm no longer considered a younger fabber

Hahaha RIP your youth!

Hows that 30 coming along

Probably shouldn't make that joke, I'm getting close myself

Fuck off . And me approaching 30 turns you on?

I'm getting close to 30, not to getting off, jeezus you have a filthy mind

It was a joke! Diliberately misinterpreting for comedic effect is one of my favourites

Ok, spank me as I call you mommy "

Tell me how old I am you naughty boy!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance "

just the age range we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey, was just wondering what people thought of the 18-23 ish age group on fab. Do people take them seriously when they “join” the lifestyle?

Would love to know peoples experiences with them, thanks in advance

just the age range we are looking for "

;-)

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