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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when you were a 20 year old?

My own answer is no.

I yesterday rediscovered old pics and noticed damn I had lovely eyebrows, but since trimming them became the norm because of Dennis Healey.

I hardly have any now!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

It's not really for me to say

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

No.

But I'm wiser.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more self confident?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...that was three years ago. I was in my prime. No baby belly/mum tum, no bags under my eyes due to lack of sleep, my skin was glowing, my hair was amazing.

Now I’m a bald, sleep deprived mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’ve grown into myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No...that was three years ago. I was in my prime. No baby belly/mum tum, no bags under my eyes due to lack of sleep, my skin was glowing, my hair was amazing.

Now I’m a bald, sleep deprived mess"

Still hot though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No...that was three years ago. I was in my prime. No baby belly/mum tum, no bags under my eyes due to lack of sleep, my skin was glowing, my hair was amazing.

Now I’m a bald, sleep deprived mess

Still hot though"

no bad for a super sexy bbw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm starting to look older now...I had a baby face till a few years ago.

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I’m definitely better looking now than I was but my body has let me down a bit lol I had very good abs with no effort back in the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so, but I'm healthier and I needed to gain some weight and do some healing. So not all bad news.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Looks wise... no. Now I'm older and wrinklier but more comfy in my skin

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I'm about 6 stone lighter so yeah, I'd say I'm better looking now

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I am totally! Im like a fine wine. I also am more confident. Helps.

MsD

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

I’m more comfortable with myself, which is more important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had a boyfriend till I was 23 so id say ive learned to look after what I got and spend more time on.my appearance then when I was 20 plus I was a proper tomboy soldier. I didnt own anything sexy and had the worse back combed hair ever lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want to make a point.

Dennis Healey was a Labour politician, well respected but often the butt of a comics jokes when I was growing up due to his bushy eyebrows. Looking at them now I would say he has the right to wear them as he wishes.

Eyebrows help to frame a face.

I would encourage all parents to be aware of those who are the butt of status quo jokes.

As the influence of 'distancing' oneself from them can backfire.

'Social distancing is fine'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look younger now than I did 5 years ago. Before being reborn I did not make any effort or care for myself. Now I'm not ent happy with my shape but yes, I'm certainly better looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say yes, because although now I have no hair, I'm way more confident than I was at 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when you were a 20 year old?

My own answer is no.

I yesterday rediscovered old pics and noticed damn I had lovely eyebrows, but since trimming them became the norm because of Dennis Healey.

I hardly have any now!

"

I think personally most men get better with age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m much better now , have lots more confidence too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I've really let myself go

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I definitely am. I was thinner then, but I didn’t know how to present myself and had no confidence at all.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Yes was really overweight

Taken me years to feel happy and confident in my body....

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Defiantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a magic mirror that tells me I’m the prettiest flower in the garden , unfortunately it lies and I looked better at 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I've really let myself go"

You look beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noo I were fitter when I were 20, daily running an gym every other day. I do wonder wtf happened haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks wise, absolutely. It's partly genetic but over time I've also learnt to accentuate what works.

But as others have said, confidence and knowing how to project myself has a lot to do with it too.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I think I’ve matured well lol. Still got all my hair. My body’s probably in better shape ie toned.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I honestly haven't changed that much since I was 20, but I have a better haircut now! My face looks the same, I am probably a pretty similar weight (give or take a kilo or two). Physically I think I look the same. I didn't need a wheelchair back then though, no idea if that makes me more or less attractive.

S looks just as hot to me now as he did then, but his increased confidence and willingness to take control in the bedroom is definitely sexier. He also has better taste in clothes now (he wears colours other black now, and sexy suits )

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s amazing how everyone seems much confident and happier in their older skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I’m more confident in myself than I was

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"It’s amazing how everyone seems much confident and happier in their older skin. "

I don't think I'm any more or less confident in my appearance now. Needing the chair means my confidence out and about in general is probably lower now

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I wouldn’t say I’m better looking but I’m definitely more comfortable in my own skin than I was in my 20s

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I'd say I am, but I'm much more comfortable with myself and accepting of my flaws than I was at 20.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm a more "seasoned" looking version of my younger self

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think so. Haven't peaked yet

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

I think yes when I look in a mirror but my sight isn't as good now days

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

No. My cheekbone was fractured and my jaw was damaged when I was 25 and it left my face lopsided and changed the shape of my eye socket. My face is far less symmetrical now.

I have grown into my looks. I have never been pretty, but I hope to age into handsomeness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. My cheekbone was fractured and my jaw was damaged when I was 25 and it left my face lopsided and changed the shape of my eye socket. My face is far less symmetrical now.

I have grown into my looks. I have never been pretty, but I hope to age into handsomeness."
What a beautiful expression!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m more confident now and in my twenties I hated wearing glasses but my face finally grew into them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely better now. I feel better inside & out & look forward to a better future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t look at all that much different now to when I was 20, since it was only 6 years ago!

I do think I’m better looking now but that’s likely more to do with confidence than anything else.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I think I am. I have always considered myself as pretty (and vain), but I have double the confidence I had then and it definitely makes a difference.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I think the attractiveness has come from pure confidence in myself. Learning to love myself, be myself and not what others want you to be

People that have known me over 20 years, say I’m getting younger as I get older. It’s basically because I am now truly me and I can express who I am without being judged, so the serious tough shell is cracking and falling away

Physically my body is better nearly 30 years on, even with the wrinkles and greyness coming thick and fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Aged well and look after myself more as I've got older. Embracing been 50 next month...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I had crazy permed hair when i was 20 and was quite shy but my boobs were bigger back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to think so. I was poorly until I was about 23 and hated how I looked, I didn’t see it though, I just saw the opposite of what I actually was. Now I’m older, ironically I’m bigger but happier. My confidence has taken a bashing at time’s, but I’ve grown to like me. I look at those images now and see a deeply unhappy young lady and you can see my smile doesn’t reach my eyes. It does now!

I don’t try to hide away anymore. I’m in competition with no one (including my own head at times) and know my own worth. Confidence is attractive, and I’m a lot more confident now x Viv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 30 this year and I'm definitely way more comfortable in my own skin now than I was 10 years ago and I think having that confidence automatically makes you (feel) more attractive anyway - k x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s amazing how everyone seems much confident and happier in their older skin. "

I wouldn't say I'm any more or less confident but I'm certainly not as attractive as the 20 year old me. The 20 year old me was slim and perky and wrinkle free and grey hair free and just fresh faced and innocent looking. I'm realistic that now I look like a crazy cat lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say I’m better looking but I’m definitely more comfortable in my own skin than I was in my 20s "

I was ridiculously self conscious in my 20's - and looking back now I hate that I wasted all that time caring about my weight

I'd love to go back in time and tell myself that youth is beauty and not to waste it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard to say, in ways I think I am better looking now but in other ways I think I could have been sooooo much better at 20 knowing what I know now!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I was definitely overall better looking at 20, fitter with a better figure.

However, I like the way I look now too.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

No. I was much prettier

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

More sexually experienced now so have better sex which is better than being better looking

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