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"Does edging count ? " It's an element of some of it I guess! ...did you seek out purposely how to do this or practice it naturally? | |||
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"Ask sting " Yeah ok.... I'll just grab him on speed dial | |||
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"We paid to have lessons. It was worth the money " Really?? Where do you even find someone to teach that and, er, how do they teach you...is it practical lessons? | |||
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"We paid to have lessons. It was worth the money " I would like to learn. Do you know if they take on singles? Or do you already need a partner? | |||
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"Ask sting " I got nearly got nicked once when a Policeman asked me did i have a police record. I said , no , but I've got a couple by Sting Boom Boom | |||
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"Does edging count ? It's an element of some of it I guess! ...did you seek out purposely how to do this or practice it naturally? Guess we all know what we like in bed " Hope so or its all a waste of time then | |||
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"We paid to have lessons. It was worth the money Really?? Where do you even find someone to teach that and, er, how do they teach you...is it practical lessons? " Yes really. We googled it haha. We learnt in the persons home. And it's practical and theoretical. Not seedy. Very safe. You don't touch person sexually, it's not like you go there to get your kicks, it's all about learning and then you get homework exercises to do. Not all of it is about sex either, lots of breath work and communication techniques. | |||
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"We paid to have lessons. It was worth the money I would like to learn. Do you know if they take on singles? Or do you already need a partner?" They will take singles. No partner required. Feel free to DM us for details* *this is not an invitation for single men to send us messages, thanks. | |||
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"We paid to have lessons. It was worth the money I would like to learn. Do you know if they take on singles? Or do you already need a partner? They will take singles. No partner required. Feel free to DM us for details* *this is not an invitation for single men to send us messages, thanks. " Thanks for this | |||
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"Thoughts on it Have you tried it? Have you mastered it? Do you rate it? What is the best way to get started/learn it? Any good YouTube clips or websites as a guide?" Sometimes play around with it. All about dropping ego's, desires etc | |||
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"We paid to have lessons. It was worth the money Really?? Where do you even find someone to teach that and, er, how do they teach you...is it practical lessons? Yes really. We googled it haha. We learnt in the persons home. And it's practical and theoretical. Not seedy. Very safe. You don't touch person sexually, it's not like you go there to get your kicks, it's all about learning and then you get homework exercises to do. Not all of it is about sex either, lots of breath work and communication techniques. " Yep. Connectin with the deeper self in order to connect with the outer at a different level. | |||
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"Thoughts on it Have you tried it? Have you mastered it? Do you rate it? What is the best way to get started/learn it? Any good YouTube clips or websites as a guide?" I understand the Tao yes One never masters it one should never aspire to mastering it It is a journey | |||
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"Thoughts on it Have you tried it? Have you mastered it? Do you rate it? What is the best way to get started/learn it? Any good YouTube clips or websites as a guide? I understand the Tao yes One never masters it one should never aspire to mastering it It is a journey " Ooooh good point, yes prob just the wrong pick of word by me! Self development is never ending! | |||
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"It is a pleasure beyond sexual pleasure but also has sexual potency..we ve enjoyed and what I would say is that we all have particular erogenous zones but imagine if the whole body..every last inch..even the normally numb parts sexually...all of it..your entirety is charged..it is something else " Like what's got me hooked was I have been developing mindfulness in general, breathing techniques and experiencing the here and now...then moving that into a physical connection with someone i deeply care about has led me to thinking about tantric. My partner is on board and I sometimes struggle with feeling pleasure due to a million thoughts in my head....I just want to 'feel' what is happening there and then...whether it be a simple, gentle stroking up and down the curve of my spine or more of a touch around the personal areas. I want to switch off from life but not from the moment. | |||
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"It is a pleasure beyond sexual pleasure but also has sexual potency..we ve enjoyed and what I would say is that we all have particular erogenous zones but imagine if the whole body..every last inch..even the normally numb parts sexually...all of it..your entirety is charged..it is something else Like what's got me hooked was I have been developing mindfulness in general, breathing techniques and experiencing the here and now...then moving that into a physical connection with someone i deeply care about has led me to thinking about tantric. My partner is on board and I sometimes struggle with feeling pleasure due to a million thoughts in my head....I just want to 'feel' what is happening there and then...whether it be a simple, gentle stroking up and down the curve of my spine or more of a touch around the personal areas. I want to switch off from life but not from the moment. " Tried to message but can't so I ll briefly say the hardest part for most is channelling your thought into being in a peaceful place with no other outside disturbance etc maybe aromas drifting around the room, maybe a hint of music, something that makes you feel peaceful..music is different for everyone. We sit facing each other and close..we get deeper by focusing on the touch..we have an understanding of touch being dancers and we use that, it's all about the touch and actually feeling and sensing every touch..change the touch..fingertip light..gentle strokes..it's about being with that person in that moment and if you manage, the chances are you never got close to penetrative sex as that breaks the minds focus on solely touch. | |||
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"I have practiced tantrums sex and it is an incredible experience both sexual and the general well feeling. The levels of intimacy you can reach are incredible" I'd have a tantrum if you got it wrong does that count? I'm very interested in yoni massage. I get sick of guys rubbing at my foofoo like its alladins lamp!!! | |||
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"I have practiced tantrums sex and it is an incredible experience both sexual and the general well feeling. The levels of intimacy you can reach are incredible I'd have a tantrum if you got it wrong does that count? I'm very interested in yoni massage. I get sick of guys rubbing at my foofoo like its alladins lamp!!!" oh dear..but do you grant them their wishes or punish them | |||
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"I have practiced tantrums sex and it is an incredible experience both sexual and the general well feeling. The levels of intimacy you can reach are incredible I'd have a tantrum if you got it wrong does that count? I'm very interested in yoni massage. I get sick of guys rubbing at my foofoo like its alladins lamp!!!" Haha whoops. What an autocorrect. Tantrums sex would not be great for relaxation! | |||
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