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Couples that view but don't touch?

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Been suddenly getting an influx of couples viewing me.

They all don't want single men so messaging them a polite hi isn't even possible.

Why do couples that do this do this? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you purchase everything you see in a shop?

Nope, but you still look at stuff I would imagine

P

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Well.. that’s amazing OP. I must say I get very few people viewing my profile whatsoever

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

They don't want single men messaging them, but they may still want to meet them and just prefer to find the ones they like themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been suddenly getting an influx of couples viewing me.

They all don't want single men so messaging them a polite hi isn't even possible.

Why do couples that do this do this? Lol"

Just gonna point out that messaging people a polite "hi" just coz they've viewed a profile is the main reason people look in ninja mode.

I'd assume that if they WERE interested after viewing, they'd probably message you themselves, wink or possibly fab some pics

P

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Do you purchase everything you see in a shop?

Nope, but you still look at stuff I would imagine

P"

You browse a shop full of stock to see what takes your fancy whether intentional or acxidentally as youre looking for what you do like but to browse single men's profiles when it's not a requirement seems rather fruitless.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Well.. that’s amazing OP. I must say I get very few people viewing my profile whatsoever "

Lol it would be amazing if they were seeking single men fella then I could be flattered.

In your case just be more active on forums or in messaging people once...they'll either look or not.

To be aware all the other men will come looking whether they claim not to be gay bi or not lol

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"They don't want single men messaging them, but they may still want to meet them and just prefer to find the ones they like themselves. "

Hmm so they can message single me still?

I would immediately decline such couples as it would come across dishonest to me in a way.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Been suddenly getting an influx of couples viewing me.

They all don't want single men so messaging them a polite hi isn't even possible.

Why do couples that do this do this? Lol

Just gonna point out that messaging people a polite "hi" just coz they've viewed a profile is the main reason people look in ninja mode.

I'd assume that if they WERE interested after viewing, they'd probably message you themselves, wink or possibly fab some pics

P"

Very true that I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don't want single men messaging them, but they may still want to meet them and just prefer to find the ones they like themselves.

Hmm so they can message single me still?

I would immediately decline such couples as it would come across dishonest to me in a way."

I bet you wouldn't really

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"They don't want single men messaging them, but they may still want to meet them and just prefer to find the ones they like themselves.

Hmm so they can message single me still?

I would immediately decline such couples as it would come across dishonest to me in a way.

I bet you wouldn't really "

D.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"They don't want single men messaging them, but they may still want to meet them and just prefer to find the ones they like themselves.

Hmm so they can message single me still?

I would immediately decline such couples as it would come across dishonest to me in a way.

I bet you wouldn't really "

Lol why do you bet I wouldn't really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don't want single men messaging them, but they may still want to meet them and just prefer to find the ones they like themselves.

Hmm so they can message single me still?

I would immediately decline such couples as it would come across dishonest to me in a way.

I bet you wouldn't really

Lol why do you bet I wouldn't really?"

Call it a hunch

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

This is exactly why I'm in ninja mode.

If I went into a shop and picked something up but didn't buy and the sales assistant followed me and said "did you want to buy this?" I'd think it weird and I certainly wouldn't buy it.

I also sometimes look at things that I don't really want or need, because they catch my eye.

I also sometimes end up buying things that I didn't think I needed but I saw it and wanted it.

My advice is don't look at who looked at you because it's totally irrelevant. They could have seen you on the forum or just stumbled across you in another way. If they are interested they will message.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"They don't want single men messaging them, but they may still want to meet them and just prefer to find the ones they like themselves.

Hmm so they can message single me still?

I would immediately decline such couples as it would come across dishonest to me in a way.

I bet you wouldn't really

Lol why do you bet I wouldn't really?

Call it a hunch"

Terrible hunch I'm afraid.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"This is exactly why I'm in ninja mode.

If I went into a shop and picked something up but didn't buy and the sales assistant followed me and said "did you want to buy this?" I'd think it weird and I certainly wouldn't buy it.

I also sometimes look at things that I don't really want or need, because they catch my eye.

I also sometimes end up buying things that I didn't think I needed but I saw it and wanted it.

My advice is don't look at who looked at you because it's totally irrelevant. They could have seen you on the forum or just stumbled across you in another way. If they are interested they will message."

True say I agree.

It was the sudden influx that perturbed me.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Maybe they are looking off the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My moneys on the hunch x

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Maybe they are looking off the forums?"

Yeah must be this i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don't want single men messaging them, but they may still want to meet them and just prefer to find the ones they like themselves.

Hmm so they can message single me still?

I would immediately decline such couples as it would come across dishonest to me in a way."

It's not dishonest. They are using it as a filter to stop being bombarded with messages from single guys.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"They don't want single men messaging them, but they may still want to meet them and just prefer to find the ones they like themselves.

Hmm so they can message single me still?

I would immediately decline such couples as it would come across dishonest to me in a way.

It's not dishonest. They are using it as a filter to stop being bombarded with messages from single guys."

That makes sense.

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