FabSwingers.com forum: Regret

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ever posted something on here in the heat of the moment and then regretted it when it was to late to take the post down

I did something I am totally ashamed of last night and what’s more was a idot for telling people on here

Seems to me that maybe I should avoid posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever posted something on here in the heat of the moment and then regretted it when it was to late to take the post down

I did something I am totally ashamed of last night and what’s more was a idot for telling people on here

Seems to me that maybe I should avoid posting "

Can you remind us all please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do it all the time , really wouldn’t worry about it’ll be old news tomorrow, pretty much what’s going on at present it’ll be old news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about that post you put on, I've read it and there's some proper holier than thou people replying to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No too ashamed was being a total Pratt about social distancing in a supermarket over reacted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you thought you’d remind everyone about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks cider xxx

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Far too many lap top warriors around ...in the real world some people would never dream of making the statements they do on forums ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No too ashamed was being a total Pratt about social distancing in a supermarket over reacted"

Oh yeah a remember now.

You lost your shit in Lidl

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've posted some utter drivel when I've had a few shandies, but I don't think that I've offended anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No just hoping others may avoid the same mistake and have a shit week of regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve read the post too.

You could have handled the situation better but I wouldn’t be too concerned about the responses. Just brush yourself off and move on. All this thread has done is made people press the green arrow to see what your post was about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve posted and regretted it in the past, logged off for a few days to have a break.

TBH it usually becomes “yesterday’s news” pretty quickly if you just let it be....

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Don't sweat it...soon be old news

I did just take a look at your last post, doesn't sound like it was your finest moment.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Know what you said about over reacting

You apologised. Stop beating yourself up. At least you learned from it. You are under stress too don't forget and all the other 'hurtling old women' can be reassured that you'll smile and wave them on ..... xx

Not long now till she's dead hey ?

I just can't fucking help myself can I?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Ever posted something on here in the heat of the moment and then regretted it when it was to late to take the post down

I did something I am totally ashamed of last night and what’s more was a idot for telling people on here

Seems to me that maybe I should avoid posting "

Well done for having balls to post this message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've already been chastised over it, so move on.

Before starting another late night thread though, maybe take small sips instead of big gulps and add more water to it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I’ve read the post too.

I know ...... ha haaaaaaaa self publicity or what ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve said loads of things that people haven’t liked very much. Hopefully it’s water under a bridge

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I read some of it and am puzzled as to the need of posting something like that?

Oh well, live and learn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These are highly stressful times, we have all reacted to situations in a way we wouldn't of normally at the best of times.

Don't worry, today is a new day. Yesterday done and gone.

Stay safe

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Happens to everyone, OP. Don't sweat it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it this is your way of apologising so all good, you’ve learnt your lesson. BTW, I’m also talented at posting crap without thinking how it might be interpreted by some. Still learning

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the supportive comments I have learned my lesson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People make mistakes all the time. The fact that you are willing to admit that it was a mistake, says a lot about you. That is all that matters. Acknowledge the mistakes and try to fix them. You should continue posting on forums and try to get yourself under control. It is a nice challenge on itself.

There are millions of prats out there who would do far worse mistakes and blame it on others.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"I’ve read the post too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish there was a way to apologise after you had been blocked, so easy for things to be taken wrong with messages and then you can end up blocked

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Today’s news is tomorrow’s fish & chips wrappers.

I’ve seen some great d*unk fabbing so I wouldn’t worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've posted some utter drivel when I've had a few shandies, but I don't think that I've offended anyone

Maybe a few of us have ??

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

"Ever posted something on here in the heat of the moment and then regretted it when it was to late to take the post down

I did something I am totally ashamed of last night and what’s more was a idot for telling people on here

Seems to me that maybe I should avoid posting "

I have only recently started using the forums due to lockdown boredom but soon noticed the same faces everyday with strong opinions believing they are king or queen of the forumites

o wouldn't worry to much about it if i were you they will soon be picking on someone else

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Ever posted something on here in the heat of the moment and then regretted it when it was to late to take the post down

I did something I am totally ashamed of last night and what’s more was a idot for telling people on here

Seems to me that maybe I should avoid posting "

Well at least you've expressed regret

we're all feeling stressed and anxious at the moment and some of us have posted things we shouldn't have.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm sure we are all guilty of thinking aloud sometimes OP, maybe count to 10 before typing them on a public forum though. Don't worry about it too much. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I just read your post & it made me laugh. So you told an old lady to fuck off who cares.

I wouldn't feel bad, we have all done worse x

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I didn’t see the post, but if you learned from the experience then that’s fine.

Everybody makes mistakes, nobody’s perfect, and I’m sure nobody worth worrying about is judging you x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Shhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Know what you said about over reacting

Not long now till she's dead hey ?

I just can't fucking help myself can I? "

I'm sure you'll make me regret this but Granny ..I love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No too ashamed was being a total Pratt about social distancing in a supermarket over reacted"

You were worried. Everyone is worried and anxious. Don't beat yourself up about it. It will have been a slow burn, lots of things bothering you and it was the final straw.

Hope you feel better today. Xx

I have meltdowns all the time lately. But there's happy times too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Know what you said about over reacting

Not long now till she's dead hey ?

I just can't fucking help myself can I? "

Not long till she's dead !! I've missed you Granny.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You apologised on the thread and doing more contrition now, I’m sure if you saw the lady in the street you’d apologise to her as well.

That says a lot more about your character, than a moment of madness in the supermarket or starting a thread about it.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I've posted some utter drivel when I've had a few shandies, but I don't think that I've offended anyone

Maybe a few of us have ??"

Yeah possibly, but as others have said, it's tomorrow's Fish & Chip paper innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope except that one time when I said that ppl who eat salads without shallots were assholes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Know what you said about over reacting

Not long now till she's dead hey ?

I just can't fucking help myself can I? "

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

"Ever posted something on here in the heat of the moment and then regretted it when it was to late to take the post down

I did something I am totally ashamed of last night and what’s more was a idot for telling people on here

Seems to me that maybe I should avoid posting "

Don't worry about it. And don't get a job as a Bingo caller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once used a spreadsheet for a forum thread. All hell broke loose. Gave me a phobia of spreadsheets.

Don’t worry it will soon be forgotten. You had the courage to admit your mistake on the thread and feel ashamed for it

Just keep posting, we all post shit we regret. It goes with the territory.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Don't worry about it. And don't get a job as a Bingo caller

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I once used a spreadsheet for a forum thread. All hell broke loose. Gave me a phobia of spreadsheets.

Don’t worry it will soon be forgotten. You had the courage to admit your mistake on the thread and feel ashamed for it

Just keep posting, we all post shit we regret. It goes with the territory."

Yes..it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got upset on here last week OP. First time ever. I now know to stay away from some threads so I don't react. I never went back to see how people reacted as too embarrassed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got upset on here last week OP. First time ever. I now know to stay away from some threads so I don't react. I never went back to see how people reacted as too embarrassed xx

Dont worry I'll cheer you up with a good seeing to sexy minx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got upset on here last week OP. First time ever. I now know to stay away from some threads so I don't react. I never went back to see how people reacted as too embarrassed xx

I need to stay away from some threads too but it’s easier said than done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got upset on here last week OP. First time ever. I now know to stay away from some threads so I don't react. I never went back to see how people reacted as too embarrassed xx

Dont worry I'll cheer you up with a good seeing to sexy minx

Bring it on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think anyone reads my posts or status updates anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got upset on here last week OP. First time ever. I now know to stay away from some threads so I don't react. I never went back to see how people reacted as too embarrassed xx

I need to stay away from some threads too but it’s easier said than done.

Thsts true, sometimes I think I will chance it but its the feeling of being invisible is what I struggle with. I try and chat and comment to everyone if I do a thread. Its exhausting but lovely to see different people on there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got upset on here last week OP. First time ever. I now know to stay away from some threads so I don't react. I never went back to see how people reacted as too embarrassed xx

Dont worry I'll cheer you up with a good seeing to sexy minx

Bring it on lol"

On my way I'll he about 4 hours to get to you but once I am you best brace yourself I'm going in deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think anyone reads my posts or status updates anyway! "

I see you! You don’t like hairy nipples on women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha YES someone actually read something I posted! Woo made my day that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got upset on here last week OP. First time ever. I now know to stay away from some threads so I don't react. I never went back to see how people reacted as too embarrassed xx

I need to stay away from some threads too but it’s easier said than done.

I think on the forums especially, we all struggle with that! People see you, I think they get caught up in their own friendships sometimes which at a time like this, how can you not? But you’re inclusive and that’s an amazing thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think anyone reads my posts or status updates anyway! "

Twatish! Great word

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Next time just make sure you use a big trolley instead of a basket, even if you only need a couple of pot noodles and some KY.

That way any attempts to encroach on your personal space can be met with a defensive manoeuvre and a possible nudge backwards with a trolley in complete silence.

Used to happen to me every time I went shopping so doubt any staff or other shoppers would bat an eyelid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha ha YES someone actually read something I posted! Woo made my day that "

Yes also nosed. Scifi geek

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over a year ago

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