FabSwingers.com forum: Age range

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it me or do people think sex stops somewhere between 50and 55.As a 56year old horny guy really annoying

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

It certainly seems that way. Not many are looking for 50 plus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've even been told I'm too young too .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too young lol

It’s a funny thing peoples age range choice but everyone has their preference

I prefer mine on the olde side

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Funny but very frustrating as one year surely doesn't make a difference does it?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's their preference to set filters at whatever age they want. I also have found a lot of older guys lie about their age I've met 2 for coffee that definitely had one claimed to be in his late 40s was more likely to have been late 50s. Another claimed to be 51 and was over 10 years older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming 30k active members, looking for age range 50+ is 20% (Guess) so 6000

Of that 6000 only 20% are looking for single guys (guess) leaving 1200

Then you need to be fairly local for the majority so that discounts 95% leaving 60.

That's before you factor personal preference, BBC, Dom/Sub, bareback/safe, club meet only, Bull, TV, Bi, Bi-curious.

It's a bloody tough pot, all guess work but imagine that before preference the math suggests a 0.19999% chance on Fab.

Just get to a club, odds improve massively. Really hope you are one of the fortunate ones though (And I mean that)

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Maybe it is just not your age that puts them off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have thought about clubs but as fairly new to this having tried other sites , I'm developing an image complex not just a female thing and I love a BBW

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Blimey

I (Mrs) am 55 soon....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some won't let me message so how do I know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure it's same for women as always a young stud wanting an older man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey

I (Mrs) am 55 soon....

You are a female so I'll do the maths

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Clubs would be good for you. Also try changing your profile a bit to see if that helps.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Blimey

I (Mrs) am 55 soon....

You are a female so I'll do the maths

Let me save you the effort. At least half of all male fabbers in the country. As a conservative estimate.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Blimey

I (Mrs) am 55 soon....

You are a female so I'll do the maths

Let me save you the effort. At least half of all male fabbers in the country. As a conservative estimate. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have changed it and removed and added different photos but no luck ,looks like it's a visit to a club once we get back to normal and I pluck up the courage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some won't let me message so how do I know?"

Try to remember that this isn't personal, directly about you. Individuals are entitled to preferences and often use filters to aid that search.

It may seem unfair, but they are not singling you out as an individual. Even if you do contact and it's no, why would you want to fuck someone that isnt interested in you?

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

My age range is quite broad as you really can't know what somebody is like until you chat to them

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"It's their preference to set filters at whatever age they want. I also have found a lot of older guys lie about their age I've met 2 for coffee that definitely had one claimed to be in his late 40s was more likely to have been late 50s. Another claimed to be 51 and was over 10 years older. "

Same applies with women, 57 on profile turns out to be 65 on meeting. Not a isolated case I hasten to add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get at least 60% if not more of our views from 50+ couples. It's my preference not to meet anyone over 40ish and I stand by that. I don't find older people attractive. As time passes maybe that will change.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some won't let me message so how do I know?

Try to remember that this isn't personal, directly about you. Individuals are entitled to preferences and often use filters to aid that search.

It may seem unfair, but they are not singling you out as an individual. Even if you do contact and it's no, why would you want to fuck someone that isnt interested in you?"

This is great advice

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

You'll always be too young for some and too old for others, don't lose any sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'll always be too young for some and too old for others, don't lose any sleep over it."

Agree with this..:

'You're too young..'

'You're too old'

'You're too hairy..'

'You're not hairy enough..'

'You're bi..'

'You're straight..'

You can't be everyone's cup of tea. Put yourself out there, be honest and it will (probably... eventually..) happen

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

"You'll always be too young for some and too old for others, don't lose any sleep over it.

Agree with this..:

'You're too young..'

'You're too old'

'You're too hairy..'

'You're not hairy enough..'

'You're bi..'

'You're straight..'

You can't be everyone's cup of tea. Put yourself out there, be honest and it will (probably... eventually..) happen"

Good advice here OP

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I find so many on here don't use the age filter.So you send a message to them an get some nice no thank you,to being call a dirty old perv.I think age filters are daft.18 to 99, just how many on here are going to have sex with Captain Tom ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I find annoying is when you are 1 or maybe 2 years short or over the age range like those 2 years will make all the difference. I don't care about age limits for.myself people can be sexy at most ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I don’t find that at all.

What I do find is that people have preferences, and some people really struggle to respect them.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

With good fortune, most of us will make that age and don't assume sex stops then. They likely will have different preferences from when younger. No one is going to be having sex with people who they are not attracted to. Preferences support consensual activity and prevent others wasting their time and efforts communicating with others who are not compatible - it's nothing to do with them thinking that you are celibate.

Focus on the possibilities, not on what you can't gain.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"I find so many on here don't use the age filter.So you send a message to them an get some nice no thank you,to being call a dirty old perv.I think age filters are daft.18 to 99, just how many on here are going to have sex with Captain Tom ? "

Some people too lazy to change the default settings 18 - 99 when they create their profiles,

There are a number of females on here who do want sex with old men, in some cases the older the better, I am on a promise from a 40 yr old when the troubles are over.

As a point of interest the oldest male on here is 97 so I have a long way to go to better that being a mere 80 yr old.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Definitely try clubs when they reopen.

Having visited many I've yet to see anyone wearing an age badge or see any initial conversation include the words "so how old are you?".

That'll negate the age issue. The rest is up to you.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I've met at least 4 ladies that have upped their age filters after meeting me...not that I'm anything special, and they now consider a more mature (intelligent fun and entertaining...) guy ...

As someone said get to a club or a social and age really has little bearing ...within reason..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Some won't let me message so how do I know?"

If you can't message, they're not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or do people think sex stops somewhere between 50and 55.As a 56year old horny guy really annoying"

Yep 56 and it’s all over. I’m hanging my boots up next month.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Some won't let me message so how do I know?

If you can't message, they're not interested."

Yes thats a pain..but that's what the filters are for...

Sometimes you can chat on the forums and if you get on people will adjust their filters for you or message you first...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Some won't let me message so how do I know?

If you can't message, they're not interested.

Yes thats a pain..but that's what the filters are for...

Sometimes you can chat on the forums and if you get on people will adjust their filters for you or message you first..."

Indeed.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Some won't let me message so how do I know?

If you can't message, they're not interested.

Yes thats a pain..but that's what the filters are for...

Sometimes you can chat on the forums and if you get on people will adjust their filters for you or message you first...

Indeed."

Or if you fab their pics they often at least have a look at your profile...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do think I feel I'm 57 next week

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You can't change your age. Work on what you can change.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

If you've got good chat and charm age is largely irrelevant if you get to meet people...

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"Is it me or do people think sex stops somewhere between 50and 55.As a 56year old horny guy really annoying"
mine is Unset , left as site default , I have had some pretty good fun with some over 60s ladies, age is just a number if you're attracted to the person , so what of their age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback folks much appreciated

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

That’s probably why you find more tvs over 50

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"That’s probably why you find more tvs over 50"
No brad Pitt is not attractive young lady so right , I like older in mind and that can be any age from 18 to whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or do people think sex stops somewhere between 50and 55.As a 56year old horny guy really annoying"

I think it depends on the personal situation , everyone's is different , not all ladies want to fuck a mature guy if they can get it from younger guys or guys around their same age ,but there are the odd exceptions where the mature guy is in good shape in HER eyes and he has the personality to go with it that she also likes , so she will be interested ..BUT the case is also there for the mature ladies ..the exact same applies ..of course as people age the reality of not finding themselves attractive to others can play on their mind and maybe hurt their confidence but as l said at the start it all depends on the personal situation...but never forget it was and always will be way easier for ladies to have sex whatever age they are ,they carry the equipment to make it so ,some ladies may disagree with that comment but it's what l think anyway...they will never have to worry or be concerned about getting and sustaining an erection to be able to sexually satisfy a lady like guys do when they reach a certain age and all different factors enter the mix.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Blimey

I (Mrs) am 55 soon....

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. With the body of a 35 year old xx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've met swingers in clubs of all ages so believe me I know sex doesn't stop after 50 or 55. However OP, you are older than my parents I'm afraid and while I don't think that means your sex life should stop by any stretch of the imagination, it's just uncomfortable for me personally to get involved.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Better not stop at 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or do people think sex stops somewhere between 50and 55.As a 56year old horny guy really annoying"

No. That’s simple their preference.

Just like you have one.

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By *ainbow-johnnyMan
over a year ago

South East

Anyone thinking that is being very close minded. Im in my 30s but would love to meet with a woman in her 60s or 70s for fun if the connection was there.

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