FabSwingers.com forum: Husband and having a boyfreind

By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Yes Im one of those who has both

Hubby told me to find a boyfreind in 2016 I found him in 2018 been with him since

Yes Im my hubbys carer who has care team in to help me with him my Life can be hard at times why Im on here.

Yes can be hard work at times pleaseing both of them

Some on here have given me a hard time of it for having both

But If i was a man it would be get in there my son

Cos Im a woman Im a slapper for having both

Now Im not going to leave my hubby not what I want Infact I really love

I also love my boyfriend to

Cos Of lock down cant see the boyfreind that gets to me at times

So come on good folk what you thinks of my set up

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"Yes Im one of those who has both

Hubby told me to find a boyfreind in 2016 I found him in 2018 been with him since

Yes Im my hubbys carer who has care team in to help me with him my Life can be hard at times why Im on here.

Yes can be hard work at times pleaseing both of them

Some on here have given me a hard time of it for having both

But If i was a man it would be get in there my son

Cos Im a woman Im a slapper for having both

Now Im not going to leave my hubby not what I want Infact I really love

I also love my boyfriend to

Cos Of lock down cant see the boyfreind that gets to me at times

So come on good folk what you thinks of my set up

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if all parties are happy , good luck to you xx

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Poly relaysh.

Good stuff, that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not an unsual set up. Good for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that dynamic works for you and everyone is happy then good luck.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

It's nobody else's business.

If it works for all of you then that's all good.

There are many double standards when comparing men and women. I think it's up to us to challenge them and call them out. Things are changing....slowly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a similar set up

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’m of the stance of if everyone’s happy then why not... I’ve been off work with mine for a week this week and wish I had a side boyfriend

haha not even for sex ... just for a break lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's nobody else's business.

If it works for all of you then that's all good.

There are many double standards when comparing men and women. I think it's up to us to challenge them and call them out. Things are changing....slowly."

Essentially this

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I have a similar set up"

Awww you have a boyfriend! That's cute.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think that it's not that odd. Well I'd think that but still. If it makes you happy and all parties concerned, that's the important thing. Whether it's common or not, or what people who don't know you have to say about it should be of little concern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as everyone is happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are all happy then best off luck to you. Your hubby sounds like an amazingly understanding guy and must really love you and understand your needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t see anything wrong with it

If all parties are ok with it then it’s fine

I’d be more than fine with it either being the boyfriend or the husband

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By *ickie dave 69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It’s what ever works for you ??

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