FabSwingers.com forum: name and shame

By *angbangparty OP Couple
over a year ago

hull

should we as a comunity name and shame tose people who lie con and abuse others on the sight

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just to the admin on here - as this is likely to be the most effective methodology. Sometimes personal vendettas could take hold, and it would be a case of tit for tat, or someone being unfairly bullied etc, if things were public. As it is, there's often too much crud in the forums, so even more would take the site downhill, I think.

I realise it's a major pain when time's wasted by other users - but having high standards for the site is, for me, one reason to stay on. It must be a tough job for admin to keep track of any wrong doing, but they do their best, I'm sure. Maybe it would be a good thing if they published their stats, such as total no of members removed from the site/had privileges withdrawn, each week etc.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

In theory it seems a good idea - in reality it wouldn't be. It would be completely open to abuse.

So for that reason - I'm out!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"should we as a comunity name and shame tose people who lie con and abuse others on the sight "

You know you can't and Admin won't allow it...they've said as much every time this subject is raised...about every other day.

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By *harax1985Man
over a year ago

Edlington

When has public naming and shaming ever been a good thing? Give any example in all of history where the policy of publicly outing someone for something has not had negative repercussions.

It serves only to make the person wronged feel better and ostracize the "wrongdoer" under the guise of warning others, and invariably doesn't help because they'll just resurface with a new identity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my experience people talk privatly and idiots are often well known....against name n shame here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naming and shaming is one-sided and subjected to abuse, and I am against it.

I am also against eBay style feebback system for the same reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame the Germans, me Grandad blames the Beatles

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I blame it on the boogie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blame it on the boogie"

worrabout the sunshine an' the moonlight?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I blame it on the boogie

worrabout the sunshine an' the moonlight?"

No don't blame it on the sunshine or the moonlight or the good times........just the boogie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blame it on the boogie

worrabout the sunshine an' the moonlight?

No don't blame it on the sunshine or the moonlight or the good times........just the boogie

Johnny Johnson and The Bandwagon says "Blame it on the pony express"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"should we as a comunity name and shame tose people who lie con and abuse others on the sight "

What...!!! You say that after the way you two treated me last week....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Please Please Please........

No one follow up Euro's post with the obvious ....

I hate the obvious ...noooooooo mummmeeeeeeeeeee not the obvious !

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Your mummy is on here tooooooooo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had just had a coughing fit and a lump of phlegm the size of a mouse shot across the room!!

Thankfully it missed the new rug.

...bet you didn't expect that granny? ...have to say neither did I

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

"I blame it on the boogie

worrabout the sunshine an' the moonlight?"
or the good times

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I blame it on the boogie

worrabout the sunshine an' the moonlight? or the good times"

I blame big fun for their horrid cover version.......

saying that now... for some reason now, I just can't, I just can't, I just can't control my feet...

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

I imagine it'd make you feel better for a minute, but it's a can of worms, I'd have thought ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish i could name and shame the sicko that wants me to have sex with a dog in front of him, fucking weirdo

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

"Wish i could name and shame the sicko that wants me to have sex with a dog in front of him, fucking weirdo"

We have had those requests too we just report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once the ball starts rolling and people take sides it becomes a right mess.

dont name and shame it is best left and just move on.

and you wish the site to be enjoyable and also exciting to meet others.

not something you may end up hating or fear logging on to because someone has said something.

leave it alone and move on

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Wish i could name and shame the sicko that wants me to have sex with a dog in front of him, fucking weirdo"

All you need to do is report the PM...he won't be on here for much longer after Admin have validated it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

As always REPORT anything that you think Admin need to see and let them deal with it.

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