FabSwingers.com forum: Sexting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?

I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!

Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

What about phone fun (not txt)

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not with people I don't know.

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

If I’m super horny I can get into it but certainly not a preference- especially not with someone I have no prior connection with. Swapping naughty pics is a fun way to pass the time though

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?

I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!

Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!"

I always find it really awkward to begin with, but once the horniness kicks in it's rally good and I can get into it. Guess it's different for everyone though.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

"If I’m super horny I can get into it but certainly not a preference- especially not with someone I have no prior connection with. Swapping naughty pics is a fun way to pass the time though "

And I say yes are naughty

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

With random individuals it does nothing for me.

The only person I ever sext is hubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DO U LIK 2 FUK BABI LOL

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Obviously the man on the other end isn't doing it right

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

With people I know I enjoy it

Random strangers not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found recently .... I’m popular with men wanting to talk a lot of bollocks ( crap innuendo cliche sexual texting/messaging)

If it’s with someone I know - it’s ok. At the moment - I’d be one of many to chat the smut with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I’m super horny I can get into it but certainly not a preference- especially not with someone I have no prior connection with. Swapping naughty pics is a fun way to pass the time though "

yes - if its someone I know I love it!

I should have clarified, I meant on the site here

With strangers is just... odd!

But then I guess we are all here for something at the end of the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs) really don't get anything out of it. Not my jam

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It doesn't really do anything for me... unless it's someone I've met before and we're reliving our past encounters, that can be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t do much for me unless I know them or have built up a connection etc with them.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

With the right person it can be very powerful..... but has to be a connection to get the mind racing and the senses awakened, not something to do with strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried to send you a list of 100 great sites. Wouldn’t let me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn’t do much for me unless I know them or have built up a connection etc with them. "

Definitely I'm the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?

I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!

Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!"

I watched a funny thing on social media that showed a guy clearly enjoying himself sexting a girl whilst the woman was doing all her normal things, I think she was making dinner for her kids and he was like “are you touching yourself” and she replied all sorts of naughty stuff about what she was “doing” when in fact she was stirring the dinner. I think it summed it up well. Most of the time women are not doing what they say they are whilst sexting!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do however enjoy it with the right person at the right time!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Personally I love it, but I only like the sensual kind, not into being crude.

Turning on a lady just by exchanging words can is erotic.

Knowing I've helped her to cum without physically touching her is a big turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends who it’s with. If there’s sexual chemistry and attraction already there; there’s certain things you can share to keep the temptation going.

However, there’s only so much ‘sexting’ you can do before it gets boring and you need the real thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?

I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!

Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!

Funny you should say that actually ... I had a gay bloke messaging me the other evening and he was doing allsorts to himself. After he sent me a few pics I asked him "do you know what I'm doing right now?"

"What(hopefully)"

"Im sat up in bed eating corned beef sandwiches..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?

I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!

Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!

Yes, this!!!!!

Hahaha that’s made me giggle, simply because it’s true lol

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"It doesn't really do anything for me... unless it's someone I've met before and we're reliving our past encounters, that can be fun "

This is me too.... unless I’m into them and had past sexual encounters I can enjoy but has to be with someone who can do it right.

I’m absolutely shit at it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prefer to chat about other things.

this soldier doesn't reveal his plans before meeting

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

100% depends who it’s with and how engaged they are.

If you’re just going ooh yeah with a big delay then they’re probably watching tv bored or playing candy crush instead of getting off on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past, i written a fantasy story, sent it to C and weve done our best to act it out. Not all though, have been easy to carry out lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If I like the person it can be fun. I'm not really that good of it because one handed typing is difficult at the best of times - if there are photos and audio at the same time it's really hot.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

With the other half it can be fun but we prefer to just watch each other wank tbh.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

I use it to find out peoples limits and what they like/dont like and what limits I can push

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I'm good

But only with people I have a connection with. Not just randomners.

I particularly like it when I know they can't do anything about it, like when they're at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my thing. Even in lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not usually really my thing, but there have been a couple of times lately where it’s happened and I’ve enjoyed it, bloody lockdown...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lockdown has defo made sexting more appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?

I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!

Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!"
does it make you laugh?

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Depends on the person. I find it can be a great way to communicate the kind of person you are, and what you’re like in the bedroom.

If it’s just crude, badly written and has little thought to it then yeah, it’s a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the person. I find it can be a great way to communicate the kind of person you are, and what you’re like in the bedroom.

If it’s just crude, badly written and has little thought to it then yeah, it’s a waste of time.

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can you talk me through what you would say...... I'll be the woman for this survey....... hi honey I'm so horny what shall i do with my 9" dildo?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think it’s a great thing. It’s just another part of the Build up and and of course there could be a chance for the real thing

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

[Removed by poster at 19/04/20 03:53:15]

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By *aylonMan
over a year ago

Earlsfield

Doesn't do much for me unless it's kinda specific which makes it feel genuine, has to be accompanied with pics. If your talking about your pussy, let me see a pic at least.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Not my thing. Even in lockdown."

Same for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy sexting. It gives an idea of what you both like too, where things could lead.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I love sexting too, my imagination knows no bounds.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Not for me. I really can’t see the point!

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

love to send and receive rude messages and let my imagination and desires run wild

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With people I know I enjoy it

Random strangers not so much"

This

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

I prefer to use Skype & watch each other cum but also like to chat to the person to get to know them first. What they like or dislike.

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By *h86Man
over a year ago

Glos

I've actually come back to this a lot more since the lockdown, I've always seen the mind as a powerful tool for sex, and finding someone who can lead and keep a scenario going over text is amazing. Some pics always help the imagination, but getting the mind into a scene and describing what is happening in detail has been very erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im being totally honest i do not mind a bit of naughty/dirty talk

and at this moment in time we dont have much choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found it really hot. Especially so during this lockdown. I’m having a really horny chat with a lady on here. Exploring both our darker fantasies. I’m trying to write a reply to her last messsge but I keep getting horny when I start writing and get distracted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love it with the right person. And if he’s good and can set my mind racing, god it makes me hot for him

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"With people I know I enjoy it

Random strangers not so much

This

This too

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

What is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it. If you can both write and have creative minds it can be incredibly erotic.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?

I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!

Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!"

Maybe you just need to find a better sexting partner.

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By *lumber53Man
over a year ago

brean

Good sexting can be immense fun

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It does absolutely nothing for me. Sexting, cam all that malarkey

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It does absolutely nothing for me. Sexting, cam all that malarkey "

Are you saying you don't enjoy our sexy chats?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"It does absolutely nothing for me. Sexting, cam all that malarkey "

I rather be doing rather then talking about it.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’m not too fussed about it tbh, it’s ok if you have actually fucked that person and can rem_mber how his finger and tongue made you feel, or he describes how good your mouth feels on his cock etc, I find it never really works with strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only really works if I know the person, and it’s been so very long

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Only really works if I know the person, and it’s been so very long

I hear ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only really works if I know the person, and it’s been so very long

I hear ya

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it’s gonna be so much longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works for me right now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?

I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!

Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!

"What(hopefully)"

"Im sat up in bed eating corned beef sandwiches...""

BRILLIANT!Did he understand that you meant literally, or....?

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

If its going somewhere then ye its hot and part if a build up. In itself its boring as hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does absolutely nothing for me. Sexting, cam all that malarkey

I rather be doing rather then talking about it."

Yes indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does absolutely nothing for me. Sexting, cam all that malarkey

I rather be doing rather then talking about it."

I’d rather be doing it for real but that’s definitely not an option for me right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies are welcome xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I preffer conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer the real deal

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

When it just flows naturally with someone you have been talking to for a while and have a connection and chemistry together it can be quite the thing and fairly intense - especially when you each anticipate the next move almost like a game of sexual chess...

....but when it's almost forced and someone tries too hard or with someone whose idea of arousing text is "now I'm inserting Fig A into Fig B and moving it about a bit" it leaves me cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who you talk to how, how you click and whether they take you.

You have to meet a certain criteria:

1) got to have a creative imagination.

2) you got to know what their voice sounds like. Once you know what they sound like you can imagine them saying what they've written.

3) you got to be able to talk about general things. It's to much to be full about sex 24/7.

4) attraction. What pulls you to that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mrs is currently sexting a bloke off here who offered to tribute her pic, it was her first tribute, she asked if I was ok with her sexting,

After reading the messages and pics they sent each other I found it a turn on but we have the understanding she sends everything she sends and receives

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

It can be fun. I find that it works best when the other person puts as much effort in as I do. Otherwise,I end up writing a paragraph of sexy fantasy and get back "mmmmm". I guess it's the equivalent of having sex with someone who's watching TV.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I find it really tedious. I like to write stories and I occasionally blog about my experiences, I don't have an issue with being explicit. I just dont find sexting in any way arousing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer real people to porn sexting would be a fine chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it just flows naturally with someone you have been talking to for a while and have a connection and chemistry together it can be quite the thing and fairly intense - especially when you each anticipate the next move almost like a game of sexual chess...

....but when it's almost forced and someone tries too hard or with someone whose idea of arousing text is "now I'm inserting Fig A into Fig B and moving it about a bit" it leaves me cold "

Yes! Especially when they use words that make me cringe.

I was asked if I masturbate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thi k if you can put enough detail and imagination. Couple that with videos and pictures either of each other or your "character" how ever you've done it. It can work really well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If sexting is done right it can great...i do love a good sexting session tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thi k if you can put enough detail and imagination. Couple that with videos and pictures either of each other or your "character" how ever you've done it. It can work really well. "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....but when it's almost forced and someone tries too hard or with someone whose idea of arousing text is "now I'm inserting Fig A into Fig B and moving it about a bit" it leaves me cold "

But if your figs are ripe and squsihy, the littlest push and your finger is right into the stickness! Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's all you can get..it can do the job

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

....but when it's almost forced and someone tries too hard or with someone whose idea of arousing text is "now I'm inserting Fig A into Fig B and moving it about a bit" it leaves me cold

But if your figs are ripe and squsihy, the littlest push and your finger is right into the stickness! Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If that's all you can get..it can do the job"

Exaclty that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often been messaged for sexting on other apps and I was expecting it to be a lot more on fab, but no I never get messaged for it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If in the mood and with the right person it can be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well written, cheakyness can draw you in xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If in the mood and with the right person it can be fun."

It sure can...i could imagine sexting with you would be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nothing for me.

I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nothing for me.

I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging

You’ve ruined it for me now!

I thought you were furiously fapping with your left hand whilst typing to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?

I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!

Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!"

Personally I think there has to be a mental connection .. a spark ...for it to be what it can be or should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nothing for me.

I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging

Same though I sometimes get horny, I don't get off on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nothing for me.

I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging

You’ve ruined it for me now!

I thought you were furiously fapping with your left hand whilst typing to me

Apart from with you! I’m spread eagled, screaming and squirting everywhere when I message you. You’re the exception to every rule.

Is that better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nothing for me.

I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging

You’ve ruined it for me now!

I thought you were furiously fapping with your left hand whilst typing to me

Apart from with you! I’m spread eagled, screaming and squirting everywhere when I message you. You’re the exception to every rule.

Is that better? "

That’s more like it.

I knew what we have is special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does nothing for me.

I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging

You’ve ruined it for me now!

I thought you were furiously fapping with your left hand whilst typing to me

Apart from with you! I’m spread eagled, screaming and squirting everywhere when I message you. You’re the exception to every rule.

Is that better?

That’s more like it.

I knew what we have is special

Woahhhh i want that special treatment too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s ok not great but will do for now

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By *avesalldaysMan
over a year ago

Reading

It could be fun with the right person when there's connection, especially if you've met before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an art form. Some people just aren't creative or talented enough. When done right it's mind blowing. When done wrong it's 'wanna fuck me up the shitter?'

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