FabSwingers.com forum: The Grrr factor

By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

How important a role does it play in your attraction for someone else? Do some people naturally give this off without much effort?

What,to you, constitutes a Grrr factor and makes someone Grrrworthy? (new word here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go grrrrrrr a lot when I’m cross

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His eyes and just the way he carries himself, if he exudes confidence, self assurance and has a killer smile he's got me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put your teeth back in

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By *ottielayWoman
over a year ago

by the bay

Well I walked to the running track this morning and watched a guy run effortlessly round and round the track many times

Then he took his top off and took a drink

Naturally grrrr

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

The grrr factor is what takes things beyond a simple fuck and makes me want so so much more

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I go grrrrrrr a lot when I’m cross

Bet you sound funny too!

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

And for me it's in the eyes. When you can read their intent without a move being made or a word uttered. Instant spine shiver

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Absolutely Grrrworthy!

I can see it straight away if it’s there. Some have it and know how to use it; some have it but don’t use it to the best of their ability ( for whatever reason) some think they have it but clearly don’t!

For me it’s a switch..... but it depends how good the connection is as to how much I invest. As PK says .... Breathlessness starts in the mind ...... I love finding those connections

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"The grrr factor is what takes things beyond a simple fuck and makes me want so so much more

Very much this i've found

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Yeah I grrrrrr quite a lot on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is making me grrr it's not usually I good thing, they are better off running away and hoping I can't be arsed to run after them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When...

They’re Grrrrrrreat (tigerface)

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"And for me it's in the eyes. When you can read their intent without a move being made or a word uttered. Instant spine shiver

That mischievous look of wanyt and intent is very so grrrworthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And for me it's in the eyes. When you can read their intent without a move being made or a word uttered. Instant spine shiver

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Grrrrrrr

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

"And for me it's in the eyes. When you can read their intent without a move being made or a word uttered. Instant spine shiver

Grrrrrrr

And that's when you know you are in trouble. Such delicious trouble

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Yeah I grrrrrr quite a lot on here

I've noticed!

Grrrr...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's important to me, I think I mention it in my profile. It's one of those things that's hard to explain. I think a man has it without knowing it which is much sexier than if he thinks he's got it!

Ggggrrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And for me it's in the eyes. When you can read their intent without a move being made or a word uttered. Instant spine shiver

Grrrrrrr

And that's when you know you are in trouble. Such delicious trouble

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GRRRRRRRRRR I love it when you talk like that xxx

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"It's important to me, I think I mention it in my profile. It's one of those things that's hard to explain. I think a man has it without knowing it which is much sexier than if he thinks he's got it!

Ggggrrrrrrrrrr

It’s exactly that they don’t even know they have it

makes my heart skip a beat

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Yeah I grrrrrr quite a lot on here

I've noticed!

Grrrr...

Yeah it’s exactly what I done when I heard your voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im liking this new word GRRRRRWORTHY

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

For me the grrrr is about more than physical attraction, it only comes when the chemistry between us is there too. I can find someone incredibly attractive physically, but not grrrrworthy. It's hard to quantify. It's that look in their eye, the way they carry themselves, their overall attitude, so many different things - but things move to a whole new level when I get that grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is there in an instance or it won't happen over time. The chemistry needs to agrrrrree;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when a man actually growls as he's undressing/ fucking me...

Before that point?

When he looks at you, or says something undeniably suggestive. Then, the palpable sexual tension across a table makes your mouth go dry, your heart rate rise and the need for physicality dominates every thought.

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"For me the grrrr is about more than physical attraction, it only comes when the chemistry between us is there too. I can find someone incredibly attractive physically, but not grrrrworthy. It's hard to quantify. It's that look in their eye, the way they carry themselves, their overall attitude, so many different things - but things move to a whole new level when I get that grrrr

Very much this for me

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Im liking this new word GRRRRRWORTHY

Might need to copyright it

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Some have that natural factor but to be Grrrworthy you have to feel the mutual draw, that knowing look or even just their voice can make you grrrrrrr

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Is there a difference between a Grrrr and an Oooft though? I think that needs to be explored if it hasn't

Either way if it's that inner, almost sub-conscious, draw to someone then it certainly takes things up a level beyond just a connection for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way she protrays herself in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have to have the Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They have to have the Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

And the grrrrrr is something you get within a few minutes of meeting. For me it is anyway. I know or I don’t within 5 minutes

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"They have to have the Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

And the grrrrrr is something you get within a few minutes of meeting. For me it is anyway. I know or I don’t within 5 minutes

P.I. Nora and her bulletproof instincts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And for me it's in the eyes. When you can read their intent without a move being made or a word uttered. Instant spine shiver

Oh yes

. The eyes have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a difference between a Grrrr and an Oooft though? I think that needs to be explored if it hasn't

Either way if it's that inner, almost sub-conscious, draw to someone then it certainly takes things up a level beyond just a connection for sex "

Ooh, good question G!

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Is there a difference between a Grrrr and an Oooft though? I think that needs to be explored if it hasn't

Either way if it's that inner, almost sub-conscious, draw to someone then it certainly takes things up a level beyond just a connection for sex "

I think Grrrr is a more lustful and primal reaction to someone where as oooft can mean attraction but in a more general sense. To me anyways

Grrrr rolls off the tongue better

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Is there a difference between a Grrrr and an Oooft though? I think that needs to be explored if it hasn't

Either way if it's that inner, almost sub-conscious, draw to someone then it certainly takes things up a level beyond just a connection for sex

I think Grrrr is a more lustful and primal reaction to someone where as oooft can mean attraction but in a more general sense. To me anyways

Grrrr rolls off the tongue better

As good a differentiation as any...

...and I forgot a Phwooaaar (sorry DC) which is probably the entry reaction that can lead to an Ooooft and potentially beget a Grrrrr...or am I thinking about it too much?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

A grrrr isn’t a first reaction, it’s something that you build up to. It explodes when that connection comes to life in the mind and body, completely losing yourselves in each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a difference between a Grrrr and an Oooft though? I think that needs to be explored if it hasn't

Either way if it's that inner, almost sub-conscious, draw to someone then it certainly takes things up a level beyond just a connection for sex

I think Grrrr is a more lustful and primal reaction to someone where as oooft can mean attraction but in a more general sense. To me anyways

Grrrr rolls off the tongue better

As good a differentiation as any...

...and I forgot a Phwooaaar (sorry DC) which is probably the entry reaction that can lead to an Ooooft and potentially beget a Grrrrr...or am I thinking about it too much?

No, I think you have the chronology just about right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are two versions of it for me. One is a milder online version which is more in the imaginative n that in the reality. It can come in a flirtatious conversation, a particularly erotic picture of someone you are already getting to know or simply in a few forum posts. That version causes a low level growl for me.

The other is when you meet in person. So in some cases it has been almost instantaneous as we greet each other, when what would be a friendly greeting is transformed instantaneously into animal passion, and it’s all in the eye contact as we meet. In other cases it has happened as we have exchanged looks and glances as we get to know each other, so a slower burn. Then the other I’ve experienced is that moment in a conversation when the smile reaches the eyes and the glint of passion sears through the more serious conversation and you both take a sharp intake of breath. All of which effect that animalistic lust within me.

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Is there a difference between a Grrrr and an Oooft though? I think that needs to be explored if it hasn't

Either way if it's that inner, almost sub-conscious, draw to someone then it certainly takes things up a level beyond just a connection for sex

I think Grrrr is a more lustful and primal reaction to someone where as oooft can mean attraction but in a more general sense. To me anyways

Grrrr rolls off the tongue better

As good a differentiation as any...

...and I forgot a Phwooaaar (sorry DC) which is probably the entry reaction that can lead to an Ooooft and potentially beget a Grrrrr...or am I thinking about it too much?

I think it's logical progression from "hey, you look good" to "you make me horny like nothing else"

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I love it when a man actually growls as he's undressing/ fucking me...

Before that point?

Oh my....

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I grrr alot when I'm getting a hard pounding

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Serious note... I think some men from their profile, just ooze natural sex appeal, confidence and sophistication

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I (Mrs) love a grrrroooowwwweeelllleeeerrr..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way she walks, that usually does the trick

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Serious note... I think some men from their profile, just ooze natural sex appeal, confidence and sophistication"

Possibly, but you can't know for sure until you've met the person and see how they carry themselves?

In other words, do you think this can be reliably established in abstract terms?

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

For me -

An Oooft! is a short-lived visual thing;

A Phwoar! is a personality thing;

A Grrr! is a vibrational thing that I feel in my core, in my legs, down my spine...

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Is there a difference between a Grrrr and an Oooft though? I think that needs to be explored if it hasn't

Either way if it's that inner, almost sub-conscious, draw to someone then it certainly takes things up a level beyond just a connection for sex

I think Grrrr is a more lustful and primal reaction to someone where as oooft can mean attraction but in a more general sense. To me anyways

Grrrr rolls off the tongue better

As good a differentiation as any...

...and I forgot a Phwooaaar (sorry DC) which is probably the entry reaction that can lead to an Ooooft and potentially beget a Grrrrr...or am I thinking about it too much?

I’d say that’s a pretty good step by step guide GM x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"For me -

An Oooft! is a short-lived visual thing;

A Phwoar! is a personality thing;

A Grrr! is a vibrational thing that I feel in my core, in my legs, down my spine...

The best analogy so far PK!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Is there a difference between a Grrrr and an Oooft though? I think that needs to be explored if it hasn't

Either way if it's that inner, almost sub-conscious, draw to someone then it certainly takes things up a level beyond just a connection for sex "

I think an Oooft is when you catch a glimpse of someone who looks good and in your head you go wow they look amazing

On the other hand a Grrr is what happens to me when I see someone I want to grab hold of and climb like a tree

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

A guy with grrreat grrrr factor usually leaves me smiling and purring after

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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"For me -

An Oooft! is a short-lived visual thing;

A Phwoar! is a personality thing;

A Grrr! is a vibrational thing that I feel in my core, in my legs, down my spine...

Brilliantly put

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

The naughty look in her eyes when she smiles at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How important a role does it play in your attraction for someone else? Do some people naturally give this off without much effort?

What,to you, constitutes a Grrr factor and makes someone Grrrworthy? (new word here!

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I would never have sex with a guy if I felt no Grrrrrr, he can be super attractive, have the best chat but if he doesn’t make me want to jump on him when we meet then it’s not happening! The grrrrr for me is that animal instinct when you look at someone and can not control where your mind goes or how your body naturally reacts, heartbeat quickens, butterflies of excitement, flutters below just from a look. You know OP, The connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just ooze instant sex appeal.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

For me, that “grrrrr” factor is more then good looks and that killer smile. It’s confidence, sense of humour and a conversation that doesn’t feel forced.

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

yeovil

I wish I could capture this so called grrrrr factor in an image

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