FabSwingers.com forum: What is your biggest turn off in a sexual partner

By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Messy rooms, and teeth that look like sugar puffs socially distancing from each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene and or bad teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bad smells and bad vibes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Messy rooms, and teeth that look like sugar puffs socially distancing from each other!"

Sugar puffs!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If they become demanding or presumptuous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately bad hygiene. Cleanliness is next to godliness ladies and gentlemen.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Changing goalposts when playing ball sports with no referee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene and selfishness

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

Not liking pineapple on pizza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Egocentric types.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Bad teeth and bad hygiene.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Being a dick.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting curry sauce on their chicken nuggets...

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Bad teeth.

Smoking or bad breath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A shitty attitude... One sentence from a man I fancied the arse off of, absolutely killed me want of him, dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they become demanding or presumptuous. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty or smelly

Bad choice of clothes or underwear

Not being able to talk properly (using like or literally 5 times every sentence)

Over confident and pushy

Disrespectful / close minded

Hairy backs

Too much hair down there. Dont they realise their cock would look bigger?

Weird/annoying voice or loud

Yep I get turn off easily

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Being a dick.

Mrs TMN x"

Actually to expand on that - how they treat or talk about others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they become demanding or presumptuous. "

Are you talking about me? If not why not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted a guy from my Facebook who I’d been speaking to for ages and thought was fit and was going to meet him due to his status updates the last few weeks.

So strong views that I don’t agree with definitely put me off a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Bad hygiene and some who who is misogynistic or has a massive ego. Or guys who can not hold a conversation about anything other than sex is so off putting as well.

Nice normal down to earth guys who I can have a laugh and a bit of banter with are what I look for.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I won't state the obvious such as bad hygiene, teeth etc.

An inconsiderate and narcissistic attitude will certainly put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you send him to the shop for yoghurt and strawberries and he comes back with sausage rolls and a rustlers burger instead.

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Narcissistic me,me people,selfish ,mean over opinionated and lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene, from teeth to body to home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the obvious- hygiene etc

I’d say someone who was crass, or had a huge ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I deleted a guy from my Facebook who I’d been speaking to for ages and thought was fit and was going to meet him due to his status updates the last few weeks.

So strong views that I don’t agree with definitely put me off a person. "

Bad (to me) politics definitely puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I deleted a guy from my Facebook who I’d been speaking to for ages and thought was fit and was going to meet him due to his status updates the last few weeks.

So strong views that I don’t agree with definitely put me off a person.

Bad (to me) politics definitely puts me off "

All joking aside I agree there bud. Last year I was shagging someone and sexually we were fucking dynamite together, really clicked with each other like but then one night when she was pissed she let slip some really quite unsavoury political opinions. After that I couldn't really see her in the same light, had to leave her go like...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad hygiene, from teeth to body to home"

And that as well lol. At least have a bit of a tidy up before you're entertaining innit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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crabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crabs

What's worse than crabs on your organ?

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Crap kisser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crabs

What's worse than crabs on your organ?"
prawns in your tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crabs

What's worse than crabs on your organ?prawns in your tea "

Lobsters on your piano

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crabs

What's worse than crabs on your organ?prawns in your tea

Lobsters on your piano"
yes i can see that crustaceans tinkly the ivory very musical

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

I’m told and I can’t be certain here Iver way as my belly blocks my view now for a few years now. But apparently my penis looks like a slug wearing a bower hat.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I dislike a man who is completely shaved. Not a hair in sight is not good. All pink and smooth is not a great look to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dislike a man who is completely shaved. Not a hair in sight is not good. All pink and smooth is not a great look to me."

Agree!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m told and I can’t be certain here Iver way as my belly blocks my view now for a few years now. But apparently my penis looks like a slug wearing a bower hat.

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a bower so a devout jews hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crap kisser. "

Yeah that's the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath or poor hygiene in general

Being territorial or demanding (this is a swinging site for crying out loud. The likelihood is that you're not the only person I'm chatting with!!)

Being racist/homophobic/ableist/basically any form of bigotry, especially thinking you're being edgy and cool with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t stand it when people have an inflated opinion of themselves. And bad hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance, bad hygiene and dishonesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of women who set light to their farts

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By *arkinberksMan
over a year ago

Ascot

Bit of an odd question. To start with I’d not be getting to the point of starting a game of hide the sausage if the other party was a bit whiffy or had halitosis that could kill at 20 metres. I guess for me the passion killer is probably the limp rag treatment. If they really have no enthusiasm or are just going through the motions.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Shitty arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they become demanding or presumptuous. "
This

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"I'm not a fan of women who set light to their farts

Lol could be a magic trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a complete arsewipe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a fan of women who set light to their farts

Lol could be a magic trick "
godamn flame thrower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dislike a man who is completely shaved. Not a hair in sight is not good. All pink and smooth is not a great look to me."

Check me out, I'm like a living Furbie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a complete arsewipe"

Arsewipe left or arsewipe right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crabs

What's worse than crabs on your organ?prawns in your tea

Lobsters on your pianoyes i can see that crustaceans tinkly the ivory very musical "
tinkling

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Omg where do I start... I personally don't like too much hair, skinny bodies, unhygienic, bad teeth etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't like mondays

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Bad hygiene

Selfish in bed

Not putting in the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i don't like mondays "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i don't like mondays

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ahhh ha

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Egocentric types. "

Same here! Makes me wonder what those men actually see when they look in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Egocentric types.

Same here! Makes me wonder what those men actually see when they look in the mirror

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brad pitt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman who thinks that the world turns around the word 'gravity'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A woman who thinks that the world turns around the word 'gravity'"
momentum is caused by gravity and she likes to be gravity fed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I deleted a guy from my Facebook who I’d been speaking to for ages and thought was fit and was going to meet him due to his status updates the last few weeks.

So strong views that I don’t agree with definitely put me off a person. "
his lose ??

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Bad hygiene and bad attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An electronic tag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they insist on keeping their socks on.

Especially if they’re white

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Arrogance and poor communication

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Bad hygiene !!!!

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Hygiene is a basic...

Other than that a sour faced non smiley person with no chat or charm...

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I’m told and I can’t be certain here Iver way as my belly blocks my view now for a few years now. But apparently my penis looks like a slug wearing a bower hat.

a bower so a devout jews hat

Well I’m sure it’s popular with the lady’s of that religious faith love it as they always want 15% off

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Fetid breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I managed to.score at least 4 of these..it feel.good.to be a winner.. hey wait a minute..?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

So many things, I'm extremely fussy - top of the list are probably an unpleasant attitude and a difference of opinion as to how this whole swinging thing works (and no, that doesn't mean I think anyone else's opinion is wrong, it purely means that I think we're incompatible, which is a turn off for me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things, bad hygiene, bragging about past sexual partners, general arrogance etc etc.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

A woman who believes her every word is gospel

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Lots of things, bad hygiene, bragging about past sexual partners, general arrogance etc etc."

Yes these and a few others

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Lots of things, bad hygiene, bragging about past sexual partners, general arrogance etc etc."

Bragging about past sexual partners.

still a issue if it’s about you to his next and they tell you.

...,.?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Lots of things, bad hygiene, bragging about past sexual partners, general arrogance etc etc.

Yes these and a few others

And same question to you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The unwillingness or inability to adapt to someone new. They have all the attributes of attraction, sociable etc. But nothing they are will change in any way to meet you.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Lots of things, bad hygiene, bragging about past sexual partners, general arrogance etc etc.

Yes these and a few others

And same question to you lol "

I don’t need to know about their previous meets and I definitely wouldn’t be happy if they were talking about me. It’s one of the main reasons I don’t meet. There seems to be a distinct lack of discretion and privacy.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Hygiene is a basic...

Other than that a sour faced non smiley person with no chat or charm..."

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By *tockport 69Couple
over a year ago

Stockport

fat woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

junkies

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Crocs

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By *arentsgonebadCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Scrapping ya Teeth down my dick when giving me a BJ ! It fuckin hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

socks lol

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Not liking pineapple on pizza"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad hygiene and or bad teeth"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath, poor hygiene and controlling/jealous behaviour

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By *ndiscloseddesiresWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham

After a great social, I met a guy to play, who then preceeded to spend more time on Fab trying to find someone to join us all because I'd mentioned I'd be up for a threesome another time. Ended up leaving!

So not acknowledging the woman in the room who wants to play with you as you are too busy trying to find another woman is not surprisingly a turn off.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"socks lol

You and partner are a pair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messy rooms...

Bad hygiene...

Shitty attitude...

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"After a great social, I met a guy to play, who then preceeded to spend more time on Fab trying to find someone to join us all because I'd mentioned I'd be up for a threesome another time. Ended up leaving!

So not acknowledging the woman in the room who wants to play with you as you are too busy trying to find another woman is not surprisingly a turn off.

That is bonkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sulky and spoilt women who expect everything but offer nothing.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

An aversion to floss.

Hairless male bodies.

Shaven cock and balls. Why? WHY?

Arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A penis

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"A penis

Not saying you look tv or anything but I’m thinking you are planning to insert a penis into said partner!

. #lady boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene definitely

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