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How Often Do You Go Through Your Inbox?

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By *bi Haive OP   Man
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Do you rush to read a message the second it arrives or as soon as you get a notification?

Do you leave it to a certain time of day?

Do you leave opening messages for a while so as not to appear to keen or desperate?

Just curious. Our inbox sends notifications to an email address linked to Fox's phone and I've never added it to mine since upgrading mobiles three or four times. So whilst it's generally me on here dicking around in the forums she's the one who gets a 'bleep' every time someone messages.

As a result messages tend to sit there for a week or so as I'm not one to rush to check them or respond. I don't worry about potentially coming across as rude by doing that as our profile has said 'not meeting' since long before the lockdown.

How about you happy bunch? Are your boxes well managed and kept neat and tidy or are you, like me, quite frankly shit at keeping up to speed with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete messages pretty much as soon as I see them.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I clear mine out every few days. I answer some every day but if they start to get too many I end up bulk deleting now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as I see I've got any. I think the most I've ever had when signing in as about 6!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is largely ignored... I'm super lazy and not really looking atm. Messages can sit there for an eternity. I probably won't read unless I recognise the sender or they catch my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete messages pretty much as soon as I see them."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 2 today when i logged on which is good for me...

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I get so many messages I'd have to be on all day managing them. As a result its not possible to reply to everyone. I adjust my filters every now and then and try to get through them..but at the moment I have over 450 unread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As they are rare I’m a quick clicker lol

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't get huge numbers of messages.

How quickly they get answered depends on whether I am on Fab at the time, and how bad the message is.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I tend to read and deal with them as they arrive if I'm logged on, or as the first thing I do if there are some waiting for me the next time I do - but I'm the same with work and personal emails too so it's more a "me" thing than an "Ooh I've got a message" thing

That said it's not that difficult for a bloke on here to stay on top of managing messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might answer straight away or I may leave for a day or two.

A lot depends on my mood at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get so many messages I'd have to be on all day managing them. As a result its not possible to reply to everyone. I adjust my filters every now and then and try to get through them..but at the moment I have over 450 unread!

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451

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Messages?

Really?

What on here?!

No way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a guy so don't get a huge amount its easy to keep on top of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to respond to the guys I really really like as soon as I can. But generally bulk delete most days. I like a tidy inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be nice to have so many messages, you have to clear your inbox. I wonder if there are any guys who get tons of them, or is it a luxury only women get

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I'm usually on em quick as a flash.

Before she realises what a dick I am.

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