FabSwingers.com forum: Red Flags

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would you see as a red flag on a profile or when chatting on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The never ending need for discretion!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No green tick or pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures that are really blurry/close up and only of the female if it's a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The never ending need for discretion!"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every post is a negative one. That shit doesn’t float with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snapchat or otherwise known as buy my vids and pics on there as here it's not ok to advertise.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

All of the above.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I get a spidey tingle about someone. And i’m usually right too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pic and no veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and grainy pics or pics that are too ‘perfect’

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By *aretobareCouple
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Anyone asking to meet at present

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

Cannot accomodate, hypothetical really as I can't accomodate and I'm single.

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Their nic like "pussypounder"or "mingemangler" just ouch for me.

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Single guy profiles asking if I want a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they claim to be a certain age but the pictures are really bad quality and the decor looks like something from the 90s

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Yep. Emphasis on discretion and daytime meets.

Oh, and anyone pictured holding up a fish, in front of a lake.

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

"Cannot accomodate, hypothetical really as I can't accomodate and I'm single.

I mean hypocritical of course...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Couples" where the female half is a figment of the imagination

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Their nic like "pussypounder"or "mingemangler" just ouch for me."

Oh no this is me ... I made my profile a long time ago... I do cringe at my own name a little sometimes haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cannot accomodate, hypothetical really as I can't accomodate and I'm single.

Some people say can't when really they won't as they don't want strangers in their house. That's fair right

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Their nic like "pussypounder"or "mingemangler" just ouch for me.

Oh no this is me ... I made my profile a long time ago... I do cringe at my own name a little sometimes haha

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My pussy cringes also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daytime meets only...

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Their nic like "pussypounder"or "mingemangler" just ouch for me.

Oh no this is me ... I made my profile a long time ago... I do cringe at my own name a little sometimes haha

My pussy cringes also."

I guess that is better than no effect......right.....

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The single male profile with a girlfriend who really wants to fuck me. Maybe I missed out on the best sex of my life. Or may I didn't. I'm OK with never knowing.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Empty profiles , couples Profiles with only male Pictures ,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want to meet me.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Their nic like "pussypounder"or "mingemangler" just ouch for me."

Sorry, those really made me chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No photo verifications.. its not hard to get one

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Daytime meets only..."

That doesn't bother me if they are shift workers or single parents. Anything else is a bit iffy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those that tell me about others/ who they've met. I don't want my business being anyone else's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An extremely hot lady a 10 out of 10 and a distantly average bloke. However I would make an exception if he has a huge cock. Lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Even with verifications. Some men don't believe you 100% you're genuine.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

A man with ‘pussy’ ‘cock’ ‘pounder’ ‘clit’ etc in his profile name....

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"An extremely hot lady a 10 out of 10 and a distantly average bloke. However I would make an exception if he has a huge cock. Lol"

Tbh I think it's really common seeing hot women with average looking guys when you go out, you see it often.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Tbh I think it's really common seeing hot women with average looking guys when you go out, you see it often. "

It's common for women to put a lot more effort into their appearance. And of course there's so much more to a real relationship than looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you see as a red flag on a profile or when chatting on here

I'm not a pushy guy but what would raise a red flag for me would be if chatting for a while and not once in that time did she drop a text first at any given time ,to me that would be a stringalong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An extremely hot lady a 10 out of 10 and a distantly average bloke. However I would make an exception if he has a huge cock. Lol

Tbh I think it's really common seeing hot women with average looking guys when you go out, you see it often. "

Fascinating

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

That you are beautiful even though your public pics show naff all and would you like to chat on snapchat....e.g pic hunter and someone who has zero intentions of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being creepy / hinting that you know my identity in RL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Refuses to send any pics of their face even though they talk of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mingemangler ??????????????????????????????????????????????????????

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"The never ending need for discretion!"

This! I was once chatting to someone who said he could only meet for a social on the outskirts of the city

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures that are obviously from the 70’s or been robbed from elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if it’s red flag but asking about ‘snow’ or taking something is another ‘woah there..

’ for me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've literally had a thought reading some comments about pictures. I know a lot of photographers through work and do some amateur modelling for them for test shoots. I've had some pictures back from some that have been happy for me to use them anywhere I want so I have some uploaded to my friends only pictures. Now I'm wondering if this will make some think I'm fake. Hmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile text/photos.

Non site supporting - most serious people can stretch to £2.50 a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if it’s red flag but asking about ‘snow’ or taking something is another ‘woah there..

’ for me"

Definite red flag

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

When chatting, it’s premature or over the top praise/affection/you’re just perfect etc...smacks of love bombing or just creation of creepy fantasies not based on reality...not my thing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've literally had a thought reading some comments about pictures. I know a lot of photographers through work and do some amateur modelling for them for test shoots. I've had some pictures back from some that have been happy for me to use them anywhere I want so I have some uploaded to my friends only pictures. Now I'm wondering if this will make some think I'm fake. Hmm."

You have clearly ‘normal’ photos too though. It’s only a red flag to me if they are modelling type shots with no normal ones too.

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

Not being a site supporter doesn't mean you are fake. When I've been on fab in the past I haven't always been a site supporter - just not felt the need. And have met people who have not been site supporters, my 2 most recent meets are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A red coloured piece of cloth or similar material, typically oblong or square, attachable by one edge to a pole or rope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse when you view a pic and the room behind is like a pig sty.. Dressed up in all the best gear and 5 tonne of dirty washing is thrown in the middle of the living room with a dirty cup and full ashtray perched on the edge of the sofa... Might just be my chronic ocd mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A red coloured piece of cloth or similar material, typically oblong or square, attachable by one edge to a pole or rope

We still have a chap walk in front of them funny looking motor vehicles with a red flag here in Norfolk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What would you see as a red flag on a profile or when chatting on here

I'm not a pushy guy but what would raise a red flag for me would be if chatting for a while and not once in that time did she drop a text first at any given time ,to me that would be a stringalong."

This is an interesting one as I rarely text first!!! But I am keen to meet, just shy

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You have clearly ‘normal’ photos too though. It’s only a red flag to me if they are modelling type shots with no normal ones too."

Okay cool

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

When they are consistently vague but demand lots of precise details from me.

Or when the same questions are asked, which I've answered multiple times.

Lack of body photos as a whole, instead having to create a Jigsaw puzzle in my imagination, trying to work out how they may look - maybe they do this for a reason?

Pretty much all of the others posted earlier by others too, especially dirt and mess

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

' I think I stood next to you in the supermarket the other day '

The ones who say creepy shit like that! I mean..how would you think that might be a good conversation starter?

Run for the hills! Ew.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"' I think I stood next to you in the supermarket the other day '

The ones who say creepy shit like that! I mean..how would you think that might be a good conversation starter?

Run for the hills! Ew.

As if you would ever be interested in anyone who boasted about flouting social distancing guidelines, what a wally

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"' I think I stood next to you in the supermarket the other day '

The ones who say creepy shit like that! I mean..how would you think that might be a good conversation starter?

Run for the hills! Ew.

As if you would ever be interested in anyone who boasted about flouting social distancing guidelines, what a wally

Yup. Now If they said ' I think I stood two metres away from you in morisons the other day ' ... totally different ball game. I'm all over that

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"' I think I stood next to you in the supermarket the other day '

The ones who say creepy shit like that! I mean..how would you think that might be a good conversation starter?

Run for the hills! Ew.

As if you would ever be interested in anyone who boasted about flouting social distancing guidelines, what a wally

Yup. Now If they said ' I think I stood two metres away from you in morisons the other day ' ... totally different ball game. I'm all over that "

Yeah only sexy bastards shop at Morrisons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"' I think I stood next to you in the supermarket the other day '

The ones who say creepy shit like that! I mean..how would you think that might be a good conversation starter?

Run for the hills! Ew.

As if you would ever be interested in anyone who boasted about flouting social distancing guidelines, what a wally

Yup. Now If they said ' I think I stood two metres away from you in morisons the other day ' ... totally different ball game. I'm all over that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"' I think I stood next to you in the supermarket the other day '

The ones who say creepy shit like that! I mean..how would you think that might be a good conversation starter?

Run for the hills! Ew.

As if you would ever be interested in anyone who boasted about flouting social distancing guidelines, what a wally

Yup. Now If they said ' I think I stood two metres away from you in morisons the other day ' ... totally different ball game. I'm all over that

Yeah only sexy bastards shop at Morrisons

Urgh, people actually go to the shops? Mere mortals. We only meet people who hold Ocado Smart Passes

*legs it*

Shit, I forgot I can't run

*falls flat on face*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak, awful names, loads and loads of meet verifications, action shot pics, shit pics....the list goes on

And I know I sound like a cow bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"' I think I stood next to you in the supermarket the other day '

The ones who say creepy shit like that! I mean..how would you think that might be a good conversation starter?

Run for the hills! Ew.

As if you would ever be interested in anyone who boasted about flouting social distancing guidelines, what a wally

Yup. Now If they said ' I think I stood two metres away from you in morisons the other day ' ... totally different ball game. I'm all over that

Yeah only sexy bastards shop at Morrisons

Urgh, people actually go to the shops? Mere mortals. We only meet people who hold Ocado Smart Passes

*legs it*

Shit, I forgot I can't run

*falls flat on face*

Us mere mortals have no flipping choice

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