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Hot list and the block button!

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By *nkforthekink OP   Man
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

Soo I think fab should have the feature of letting you see who has you on there hotlist and vice versa!

And also let people see who’s blocked them like a list type feature!

Any and all input welcome?!

Just that over the last few weeks of lockdown my boredom has lead me to the forums and the amount of people I can’t reply to as they have blocked me is mental hahah some of which Iv had no interaction with

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By *h86Man
over a year ago

Glos

Hotlist maybe, but definitely not block list! The block feature is there to protect you, kinda loses some of that safety if it tells everyone who's been blocked, that opens you up to that person making more profiles and harassing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has been discussed just recently. I like anonymity actually. Would you really want a notification: xyz blocked you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. If the hotlist were meant to be proactive it'd be different.

And what good does it do knowing who's blocked you?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I think both should be completely private.

It could be good to know when there’s a mutual match on hot lists though.

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Soo I think fab should have the feature of letting you see who has you on there hotlist and vice versa!

And also let people see who’s blocked them like a list type feature!

Any and all input welcome?!

Just that over the last few weeks of lockdown my boredom has lead me to the forums and the amount of people I can’t reply to as they have blocked me is mental hahah some of which Iv had no interaction with

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I would rather not be on some peoples hot list the same as not knowing certain people are having a wank to my pictures some things i just dont need to know.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No, I don't much care who has blocked me, and if I'm on someone's hotlist and they want me to know, I'm sure they'll tell me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soo I think fab should have the feature of letting you see who has you on there hotlist and vice versa!

And also let people see who’s blocked them like a list type feature!

Any and all input welcome?!

Just that over the last few weeks of lockdown my boredom has lead me to the forums and the amount of people I can’t reply to as they have blocked me is mental hahah some of which Iv had no interaction with

"

Might just be filter set to block all messages from men as opposed to a block? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soo I think fab should have the feature of letting you see who has you on there hotlist and vice versa!

And also let people see who’s blocked them like a list type feature!

Any and all input welcome?!

Just that over the last few weeks of lockdown my boredom has lead me to the forums and the amount of people I can’t reply to as they have blocked me is mental hahah some of which Iv had no interaction with

"

Yes. Knowing who has you in their sights is fundamental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely a Wink is equivalent to a "you're on my hotlist" feature? That's what it's for, right...?

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I have to disagree, I like the privacy of my hotlist. If I want to perv then that's my business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both should remain private there is nothing to gain from people knowing they have been blocked and I have people on my hot list purely because I like the type or style of pics they upload

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of people on my block list as they are work colleagues, another that was harassing me and another that was a stalker...so I'd hate them to know I had blocked them as it would cause so many more issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no! I don't need 500 notifications a day that someone added me to their hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think both should be completely private.

It could be good to know when there’s a mutual match on hot lists though."

That's interesting

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"God no! I don't need 500 notifications a day that someone added me to their hotlist "
500

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

My block list has never been so active during lockdown

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Never ever should a block be shown to the other person! I’ve got a few people from social events blocked and they are the type to approach me and question why so it would definitely take me away from the scene more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist gets bigger by the day, so does my block list for that matter

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

My block list has a lot of people on it who I haven't interacted with, they're mainly there because of forum posts or status updates which have made it very clear we have very different perspectives on things & thus I chose to prevent them being able to message me.

My hotlist, on the other hand, is pretty select group of people. I wouldn't care if they knew they are on it.

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By *nkforthekink OP   Man
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"I think both should be completely private.

It could be good to know when there’s a mutual match on hot lists though.

That's interesting"

Ok ok I can see everyone’s point on why the block list should stay private!! Agreed!

I think the mutual match idea on the hotlist is wicked!

Kinda like the fab version of tinder haha

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I would prefer them to be private. Not everyone on a hotlist is there because they are people that you are interested in interacting with.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Blocks aren't personal on Fab. Unless they are, and you'd probs know... so nah.

And hotlists prob work better anonymously... so nah pt.II.

Damn man, I really wanted to support you too.

Have a lovely day?

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I’d prefer them to be private. They will give me more reason to block the ones I don’t like who got me on their hotlist to perv constantly.

Just saying!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I would prefer them to be private. Not everyone on a hotlist is there because they are people that you are interested in interacting with. "

Exactly this. And the block list well I don't really mimd who has blocked me on here. So ye I think it's better they are private.

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