FabSwingers.com forum: What makes you feel sexy?

By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

What do you do to make yourself feel sexy? What does body confidence look like for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I always look real good in my rugby top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now, I don't feel sexy at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A decent 3 piece suit.

Jeans and a good fitting t shirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right now, I don't feel sexy at all"

Oh but your a sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well fitted suit with designer underwear.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Looking chilled and a little hippyish or in plain terms, scruffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I don’t feel sexy. It’s not a word I associate with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take three long deep breaths before entering situations that need me to be confident.

Combine that with the stance of the wonder woman. Feet apart, hands on your hips.

Obviously do this somewhere private to avoid strange looks.

Try it. You will be amazed.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

When I am feeling at my best. In a happy mood and feeling good about myself. Hair and makeup done, sexy underwear and clothes I feel confident in and of course a pair of heels x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right now, I don't feel sexy at all"

Well I just viewed your profile and think you are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wearing my leather trousers & waistcoat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never consider myself as sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I masturbate, after a few orgasms I get rosy cheeks!

I also try different outfits on and dance in the mirror to music.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never consider myself as sexy. "

Really? I think you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good underwear, lippy, I have 2 songs I listen to on the way to. Meet or before I leave /whilst getting ready. I miss that feeling of dressing up for a night of debauchery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a super super super flattering mirror near the door so whenever I leave I catch myself at a good angle.

Even if I look like a sack of spuds in the other mirrors the last mirror is the one that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve got a super super super flattering mirror near the door so whenever I leave I catch myself at a good angle.

Even if I look like a sack of spuds in the other mirrors the last mirror is the one that counts

My bedroom mirror is like a funhouse mirror. Makes me look slimmer. Started taking all my newer pics in the reflection of that mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve got a super super super flattering mirror near the door so whenever I leave I catch myself at a good angle.

Even if I look like a sack of spuds in the other mirrors the last mirror is the one that counts

My bedroom mirror is like a funhouse mirror. Makes me look slimmer. Started taking all my newer pics in the reflection of that mirror

Annie there is nothing to you as it is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve got a super super super flattering mirror near the door so whenever I leave I catch myself at a good angle.

Even if I look like a sack of spuds in the other mirrors the last mirror is the one that counts

My bedroom mirror is like a funhouse mirror. Makes me look slimmer. Started taking all my newer pics in the reflection of that mirror

I love it! Everytime I walk past it I’m like oh hello who’s that svelte, leggy brunette! I don’t even bother looking in the other mirrors anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never consider myself as sexy.

Really? I think you are

That is because on occasion I make you laugh

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Losing a few pounds tbh. I feel more sexy and body confident then.

MsD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Losing a few pounds tbh. I feel more sexy and body confident then.

MsD"
well done.and good on you I've lost nearly 2 and half stone since January and I think it shows in my picture it does make you feel more confident and appealing

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

Strangely enough, when I'm on my bike wearing lycra. Don't think anybody else finds it sexy

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I always feel good when I have a fit and flare rock and roll dress on, but naked ,, yuck !! Xx

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

Having fun and being in my element...so dancing, talking passionately, making people laugh, doing things I didn’t know I could do...just that feeling of damn - you’re rocking this. I could fly at those times and feel like lasers come out of my eyes, hunting for eye contact with someone, to have that feeling recognised in me.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I don't think I'm naturally sexy, too shy in some ways. Alcohol helps as does being with people I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking about something I’m confident in and passionate about to someone interested usually does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I masturbate, after a few orgasms I get rosy cheeks!

I also try different outfits on and dance in the mirror to music."

Love that if it’s true

I do almost exactly the same but I don’t masturbate.

Also... the more Lager I drink the prettier I look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red lipstick. Says look at me! Sends seductive signals.

Beautiful smell of freshly washed hair. Makes me want to twirl my curls and let the wind make a mess of them.

Smooth, scrubbed and oiled skin. Just asking to be touched.

A pair of nice wedges or heels to induce that hip sway whilst walking.

A dress which makes women ask: where did you get it..Love it!!

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

Red lipstick and new lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing some weights or running makes me feel good even if it doesn’t look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t consider myself sexy or girly! Not even adulty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Red lipstick and new lingerie "

Snap.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

"I’ve got a super super super flattering mirror near the door so whenever I leave I catch myself at a good angle.

Even if I look like a sack of spuds in the other mirrors the last mirror is the one that counts

My bedroom mirror is like a funhouse mirror. Makes me look slimmer. Started taking all my newer pics in the reflection of that mirror

I love it! Everytime I walk past it I’m like oh hello who’s that svelte, leggy brunette! I don’t even bother looking in the other mirrors anymore

I broke my mirror that did that for me. Totally gutted

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

My blue dress of wonder in my pics. Which got lost somehow during my move and I still can’t find. It fits like a glove.

The look my fwb gives me as soon as he sets eyes on me. Wow.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Quite simply I don't - have never considered myself sexy so don't feel the need to make myself so - I'm me, take me or leave me, if others find me "sexy" in spite of that then bonus and all's good

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Nothing.

I know I don't have the traditional sexy body.

But I have the confidence to show what I do have.

I still get compliments from those people that like big guys. That's always appreciated.

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By *2and3quartersWoman
over a year ago

Bumbletown

I’m pretty comfortable in my own skin these days. Life’s too damn short to worry about things you’re not in control of or cant be arsed to change. But on the odd day that I do feel a bit meh about myself, I pop a pair of heels on and strut about, dance like a loon and that always puts a smile back on my face

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

A lovely tight fitted dress stockings and knee high boots and my favourite perfume always makes me feel sexy ...

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Doing some weights or running makes me feel good even if it doesn’t look good "

This is me too.

I hope we can all feel confident in our own bodies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave my legs and pussy, nice hair and makeup.

Accept my many many flaws and celebrate my assets x

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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Hold ups and heels make me feel sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I get a compliment from someone

also when I’m lip syncing in front of a mirror and I’m nailing it

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Shaved bits, bit of a tan and a sharp hair cut.

I currently have none of those.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

The way S looks at me and can't keep his hands off me

I don't think I'm sexy at all but S adores me, wants me all the time and so that's all I need to know I'm sexy (I might have invoked some song lyrics there

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Nice decent hair... But atm it's a state

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Nice decent hair... But atm it's a state

You're sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean big hair, matching underwear, ditsy floral dresses, subtle perfume

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Red lipstick and doing my hair. I could feel like shit but as soon as I put the lipstick on it perks me up. For me I am confident when I am happy.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Right now nothing at all. Put on weight. Lost my drive.

But once i lose the weight i start to be able to get into nice clothes even sexy outfits ...then i feel sexy... hopefully that will be soon.k

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

Being naked and hearing my neighbors being naughty

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

This lockdown has really made me feel the opposite of sexy.

Usually just dressing up in a nice sexy dress, hair done up, good make up done and a sexy guy pressed up against me

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

"When I am feeling at my best. In a happy mood and feeling good about myself. Hair and makeup done, sexy underwear and clothes I feel confident in and of course a pair of heels x"

Exactly the same as you but I have to have my body shimmer on and a bit of sparkle so it leaves a mark wherever I go

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Can't say I ever feel sexy. I do find any girl who is dressed ready to go out looks incredibly sexy! Girls, you've nailed it!

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I feel sexy everyday even when I look my worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I masturbate, after a few orgasms I get rosy cheeks!

I also try different outfits on and dance in the mirror to music.

Love that if it’s true

I do almost exactly the same but I don’t masturbate.

Also... the more Lager I drink the prettier I look

Think every woman puts an outfit on and dances in the mirror. Like a going out outfit for clubbing, you wanna see how you’re gonna look when you’re raving, see if your outfit covers your modesty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being here & looking at profiles of the sexy ladies.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't know if I ever feel sexy as such - like posters before I know I'm not sexy and that's okay. What helps me feel confident in myself and feel attractive is taking time to do the standard things (hair, nails, hair removal, exfoliate and moisturize, losing weight etc) and also - hearing about my desirability from another. Not so much hearing it but more seeing it in the way they look at me, their voice when they talk to me. That makes me feel as close to sexy as I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think sexy is something I do

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"I don't know if I ever feel sexy as such - like posters before I know I'm not sexy and that's okay. What helps me feel confident in myself and feel attractive is taking time to do the standard things (hair, nails, hair removal, exfoliate and moisturize, losing weight etc) and also - hearing about my desirability from another. Not so much hearing it but more seeing it in the way they look at me, their voice when they talk to me. That makes me feel as close to sexy as I get."

You are sexy....

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"When I am feeling at my best. In a happy mood and feeling good about myself. Hair and makeup done, sexy underwear and clothes I feel confident in and of course a pair of heels x

Exactly the same as you but I have to have my body shimmer on and a bit of sparkle so it leaves a mark wherever I go

Is that an all over shimmer too? Great pics x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Wearing anything tight, black and shiny mostly. Or killer heels.

As for with someone else, when they look at you with those slightly glazed, hungry eyes like a salivating dog

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

A blindfold

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don't think sexy is something I do"

Its something you are

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"I don't think sexy is something I do

Its something you are

I disagree looking at some of your photographs Xxx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don't think sexy is something I do

Its something you are

I disagree looking at some of your photographs Xxx

Are you disagreeing with Mr Monkey that he doesn't do sexy or disagreeing with me saying he is?

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"I don't think sexy is something I do

Its something you are

I disagree looking at some of your photographs Xxx

Are you disagreeing with Mr Monkey that he doesn't do sexy or disagreeing with me saying he is?"
sorry ? It's past my bed time , neither , totally read that comment wrong , though you was saying you didn't think you was sexy ,,, ,, bed time me think sorry

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Also don’t think I’ve felt sexy much. But a tan and make up always make me feel better x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don't think sexy is something I do

Its something you are

I disagree looking at some of your photographs Xxx

Are you disagreeing with Mr Monkey that he doesn't do sexy or disagreeing with me saying he is? sorry ? It's past my bed time , neither , totally read that comment wrong , though you was saying you didn't think you was sexy ,,, ,, bed time me think sorry

oh bless you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely my tan

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

A great connection with the lady your with plus hopefully to Naive to release your batting way out of your league in my case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't think of anything, So Nothing.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Right now, I don't feel sexy at all"

I wouldn't have a clue

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

"When I am feeling at my best. In a happy mood and feeling good about myself. Hair and makeup done, sexy underwear and clothes I feel confident in and of course a pair of heels x

Exactly the same as you but I have to have my body shimmer on and a bit of sparkle so it leaves a mark wherever I go

Is that an all over shimmer too? Great pics x"

All over - I never leave the house for a night out without my shimmer, glow and glitter and it has the desired effect with both the ladies and gents so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't possibly say as I have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting someone who is engaging and a good conversationalist, who is emotionally intelligent and who I know is into me and wants to jump my bones - when you can see it in the eyes: the longing, the desire to touch and be touched, a bite of the lower lip, subtle body movements. All of these things make me feel really sexy.

I feel more “sexy” (attractive?) when I’ve done a massive workout, had a shower, caught some sun on my face and am dressed in anything that flatters my body.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

I have a soundtrack that gets me in the mood.

Pop that on whilst getting dressed or if going to a club (undressed until I get there).

Knowing I am leaving the house with just my hold ups or stockings and suspenders on under a full length fur), that sets me up.

When I get to the club, put on my basque and walk out into the bar area.......now I feel sexy as hell.

Mrs Mxx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Red lipstick

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I go by the old adage of "sexy is a state of mind" I can dress up to the nines and have perving eyes roaming over me, but if I cannot see in his eyes the adoration I know that should be there then it all feels a tad shallow and being sexy feels like shit x

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