FabSwingers.com forum: Fab me iam needy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me that finds those who scream fab me, a little bit needy and insecure. I mean, often the pics are hot enough without the need for the message and would be fabbed anyway.

Needy, insecure or just self promotion and feel good fa tor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve asked for fabs (seriously) once. I was feeling shit at the time, sue me

However, some of the folks that write on their pictures saying ‘fab this and I’ll do this...’ or ‘bet you won’t fab this because I’m fat and ugly’ are just cringy imo. Just ask for the bloody fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve asked for fabs (seriously) once. I was feeling shit at the time, sue me

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Ah a bit of online flattery is ok. Good to know you got it!!!

MsD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that finds those who scream fab me, a little bit needy and insecure. I mean, often the pics are hot enough without the need for the message and would be fabbed anyway.

Needy, insecure or just self promotion and feel good fa tor?"
its a boost for the ego, sometimes we all need a boost, its harmless fab me will you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of neediness presently

In comes in many forms

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's cringey but I don't really care what other people do with their own profile.

I'd be interested to know if they get abusive messages for it, it seems to provoke a negative reaction from a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iam well aware of the male/female ratio here but if a guy did it he would be laughed into obscurity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iam well aware of the male/female ratio here but if a guy did it he would be laughed into obscurity"

No he wouldn’t, plenty of men do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Again, not saying it should be stopped. But if the pic is a hot pic it will be fabbed regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's cringey but I don't really care what other people do with their own profile.

I'd be interested to know if they get abusive messages for it, it seems to provoke a negative reaction from a lot of people. "

Yes, it does

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do they?.

Oh sorry didnt realise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do they?.

Oh sorry didnt realise"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I might try it then. Could do with a moral boost. Or potential crushing realisation of reality !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might try it then. Could do with a moral boost. Or potential crushing realisation of reality !

I’ll fab ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do they?.

Oh sorry didnt realise

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Soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might try it then. Could do with a moral boost. Or potential crushing realisation of reality !

I’ll fab ya

If you had public pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I might try it then. Could do with a moral boost. Or potential crushing realisation of reality !

I’ll fab ya

If you had public pics

Fair point !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that finds those who scream fab me, a little bit needy and insecure. I mean, often the pics are hot enough without the need for the message and would be fabbed anyway.

Needy, insecure or just self promotion and feel good fa tor?"
try not to be negative here we have enough negative people already fab a pic today

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it just me that finds those who scream fab me, a little bit needy and insecure. I mean, often the pics are hot enough without the need for the message and would be fabbed anyway.

Needy, insecure or just self promotion and feel good fa tor?try not to be negative here we have enough negative people already fab a pic today

My bad.

Bring on the fabs.

Fabs for all

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I'll fab askers sometimes but I dont see the point.

People fab askers cos :- 1. It's easier than saying no. 2. They don't want to hurt your feelings.

So the result can be someone who is popular for being funny or nice or just popular gets to the top.

If I took it seriously i'd say ....... they are diluting the idea of what is fair and what is actually appealing sexually.

So the results mean fuck all

Which is fine by me cos they did in the first place.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Its just a bit of fun.

I'd rather see fun threads than moaning threads.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ultimately what you are saying boils down to attention seeking OP and isn't that part of the reason people use the site? To seek attention and hopefully attract others?

As QL said some of the "Fab me for a fuck" things are a little cringey to me but as NSA said why worry about how others choose to operate their profile if it doesn't impact you?

We all seek attention in one way or another whether that be by begging for Fabs, joining "Kiss, Fuck, Avoid" threads or simply by posting in the forums - if it works for the individual then good for them I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll fab askers sometimes but I dont see the point.

People fab askers cos :- 1. It's easier than saying no. 2. They don't want to hurt your feelings.

So the result can be someone who is popular for being funny or nice or just popular gets to the top.

If I took it seriously i'd say ....... they are diluting the idea of what is fair and what is actually appealing sexually.

So the results mean fuck all

Which is fine by me cos they did in the first place."
let me fab one of yours oh silhouetted one

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"I'll fab askers sometimes but I dont see the point.

People fab askers cos :- 1. It's easier than saying no. 2. They don't want to hurt your feelings.

So the result can be someone who is popular for being funny or nice or just popular gets to the top.

If I took it seriously i'd say ....... they are diluting the idea of what is fair and what is actually appealing sexually.

So the results mean fuck all

Which is fine by me cos they did in the first place.let me fab one of yours oh silhouetted one

Oh ta babe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a few profiles you see uploading the same photos over and over.

Some people seem to need the validation. Whatever floats their boat I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll fab askers sometimes but I dont see the point.

People fab askers cos :- 1. It's easier than saying no. 2. They don't want to hurt your feelings.

So the result can be someone who is popular for being funny or nice or just popular gets to the top.

If I took it seriously i'd say ....... they are diluting the idea of what is fair and what is actually appealing sexually.

So the results mean fuck all

Which is fine by me cos they did in the first place.let me fab one of yours oh silhouetted one

Oh ta babe x"
let me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked once, well a friend did on my behalf and I got shit for it so never again.

It was suppose to be a bit of fun to see how far the pic could get but people spoilt it

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I just take it as a bit of fun. Never done it myself and never likely to as it's not the kind of attention I pursue. We all like to get attention in different ways though x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I asked once, well a friend did on my behalf and I got shit for it so never again.

It was suppose to be a bit of fun to see how far the pic could get but people spoilt it"

My bad.

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I find it a little cringe but each time their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I just tried to Fab your pictures as I’m feeling you need some love!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the people who comment on any fabathon thread with an "I'm in" are seeking a look at me response.

The only difference is they don't put a banner headline on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I asked once, well a friend did on my behalf and I got shit for it so never again.

It was suppose to be a bit of fun to see how far the pic could get but people spoilt it

My bad.

Not your fault xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely the people who comment on any fabathon thread with an "I'm in" are seeking a look at me response.

The only difference is they don't put a banner headline on the forum. "

They are an excuse to perve

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I never ask for them, but when they show up, does perk me up .. think we all like being fabbed , some just have different ways of going about it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Surely the people who comment on any fabathon thread with an "I'm in" are seeking a look at me response.

The only difference is they don't put a banner headline on the forum.

They are an excuse to perve

Since when did you need an excuse to perv??????

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Surely the people who comment on any fabathon thread with an "I'm in" are seeking a look at me response.

The only difference is they don't put a banner headline on the forum.

They are an excuse to perve

That they are

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I asked once, well a friend did on my behalf and I got shit for it so never again.

It was suppose to be a bit of fun to see how far the pic could get but people spoilt it"

It's the people that like to put people down or make people feel bad that I have more of a problem with. There just isn't a need in my opinion. Just let people get on with their own thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely the people who comment on any fabathon thread with an "I'm in" are seeking a look at me response.

The only difference is they don't put a banner headline on the forum.

They are an excuse to perve

Since when did you need an excuse to perv??????

Makes me look slightly more innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I asked once, well a friend did on my behalf and I got shit for it so never again.

It was suppose to be a bit of fun to see how far the pic could get but people spoilt it

It's the people that like to put people down or make people feel bad that I have more of a problem with. There just isn't a need in my opinion. Just let people get on with their own thing x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I asked once, well a friend did on my behalf and I got shit for it so never again.

It was suppose to be a bit of fun to see how far the pic could get but people spoilt it

It's the people that like to put people down or make people feel bad that I have more of a problem with. There just isn't a need in my opinion. Just let people get on with their own thing x"

This^.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps fab me. I'm needy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

Done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I asked once, well a friend did on my behalf and I got shit for it so never again.

It was suppose to be a bit of fun to see how far the pic could get but people spoilt it

It's the people that like to put people down or make people feel bad that I have more of a problem with. There just isn't a need in my opinion. Just let people get on with their own thing x"

definitely xx

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

You just don't give up do you? Already fabbed you this morning on another post

Far too needy

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Surely the people who comment on any fabathon thread with an "I'm in" are seeking a look at me response.

The only difference is they don't put a banner headline on the forum.

They are an excuse to perve

Since when did you need an excuse to perv??????

Makes me look slightly more innocent

Cough, splutter. If I d*unk tea I'd have just spat it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

Done

Haha changed an anti fab thread into something happier, x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

Done

Haha changed an anti fab thread into something happier, x

Shhhh. They may not notice. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

You just don't give up do you? Already fabbed you this morning on another post

Far too needy

Haha no, God loves a trier. And , a little bit needy and insecure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

Done

Haha changed an anti fab thread into something happier, x

We are special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

Done

Haha changed an anti fab thread into something happier, x

Shhhh. They may not notice. Lol"

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

Done

Haha changed an anti fab thread into something happier, x

We are special

happiness and positivity, that's what we're all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely the people who comment on any fabathon thread with an "I'm in" are seeking a look at me response.

The only difference is they don't put a banner headline on the forum.

They are an excuse to perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I go to the trouble of tidying my bedroom and standing there taking a load of pictures for half hour I want some recognition for my efforts. Plus I like being number 1 on hot pics

I always put a status in reference to the new pic and say ‘fab if you like’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I go to the trouble of tidying my bedroom and standing there taking a load of pictures for half hour I want some recognition for my efforts. Plus I like being number 1 on hot pics

I always put a status in reference to the new pic and say ‘fab if you like’

And we always look forward to perving you dear

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

You just don't give up do you? Already fabbed you this morning on another post

Far too needy

Haha no, God loves a trier. And , a little bit needy and insecure!

Nothing wrong in a bit of neediness in a man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I go to the trouble of tidying my bedroom and standing there taking a load of pictures for half hour I want some recognition for my efforts. Plus I like being number 1 on hot pics

I always put a status in reference to the new pic and say ‘fab if you like’

And we always look forward to perving you dear

I haven’t put a new one up for over a week now. I’ll do a new one when my bedroom is tidy, I’ve had all my wardrobe out and my drawers and sorting clothes out!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

You just don't give up do you? Already fabbed you this morning on another post

Far too needy

Haha no, God loves a trier. And , a little bit needy and insecure!

Nothing wrong in a bit of neediness in a man x"

I’m needy, I need a nice pint sat outside a lovely riverside pub. I really need that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never once asked for fabs on my pics, so quite proud of the fact that the fabs I have are because there is something about the pic people like and not because it's asked for.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

You just don't give up do you? Already fabbed you this morning on another post

Far too needy

Haha no, God loves a trier. And , a little bit needy and insecure!

Nothing wrong in a bit of neediness in a man x

I’m needy, I need a nice pint sat outside a lovely riverside pub. I really need that.

Can't help with that one I'm afraid but I have fabbed your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

You just don't give up do you? Already fabbed you this morning on another post

Far too needy

Haha no, God loves a trier. And , a little bit needy and insecure!

Nothing wrong in a bit of neediness in a man x

I’m needy, I need a nice pint sat outside a lovely riverside pub. I really need that.

I also need this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

Fabbed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps fab me. I'm needy

Fabbed!"

Haha fanks captain Erect

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