FabSwingers.com forum: What exactly is someone that’s up their own arse?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

Having several ribs removed, that would enable one to be up one's arse. Otherwise physiologically impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not dropping your pants for me is a sure sign

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

U just answered ur own question " u think ur better than everyone else" fyi id hate to have someone say that to me...just saying!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it means when one looks down upon another!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means you don’t think your own shit stinks, but everyone else’s does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, it means they can't get what they want out of you.

Nobody that's secure in themselves and/or not trying to manipulate you says that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having an over inflated opinion of ones self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me so much when people say that. There’s no need if it’s in response to rejection. I’ve heard it loads from people I have politely rejected/ not replied quick enough to/ not replied at all to.

I think it’s just means their feelings are hurt and they want someone to blame rather then take it on the chin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you're double jointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

Shut that noise out! It’s other people’s insecurities being projected on you.

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

We enjoyed pretty women last night ,

A great film x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve had it said to me from my forum interaction. Never in a pm from someone I’ve rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It annoys me so much when people say that. There’s no need if it’s in response to rejection. I’ve heard it loads from people I have politely rejected/ not replied quick enough to/ not replied at all to.

I think it’s just means their feelings are hurt and they want someone to blame rather then take it on the chin. "

I’ve heard it a few times from blokes I’ve rejected. So much so that I put it in my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

Arrogance. Ignorance. Conceit.

Oh and I wasn't sure whether this was a literal question so...

It also means being full of yourself. So much so that your head is metaphorically up your own arse filling you up.

None of these are particularly attractive qualities so I hope the person saying these thing was wrong

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

A Contortionist perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you dont want to be up your own arse id happy oblige

On a serious note though. Sounds like someone didnt get an answer they wanted from you.

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea but do you drink your own bath water???

If not then don’t worry about it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't agree with any of the above. It doesn't mean thinking you are better than anyone else ( others don't come into it) It isn't always just a jealous retort made by the rejected.

It means that someone is very far removed from reality. They are that far removed and insecure in themselves that they exist on their own hype and inflated egos and to make things slightly worse they believe the crap they spout and insult others by thinking they believe what is being said. Those up their own arse work hard to convince others of their worth.

It's not so much conceit as it is self delusion.

e.g. they are not up someone elses arse hole but up their own arse..... narcissistic etc.....

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

I’ve had that before.

I just think someone says that to you when they can’t deal with rejection.

What they can’t have automatically becomes them feeling like you think you’re better than them.

Which isn’t true, everyone is allowed to have their own preference and wants. We all are allowed to say if someone Is for them or not.

That’s my take anyways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.

But I’ve had it said from forum interaction so haven’t rejected anyone. It’s just people thinking I believe I’m better than others because I don’t put myself down about my appearance and think highly of myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't agree with any of the above. It doesn't mean thinking you are better than anyone else ( others don't come into it) It isn't always just a jealous retort made by the rejected.

It's not so much conceit as it is self delusion.

e.g. they are not up someone elses arse hole but up their own arse..... narcissistic etc.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"U just answered ur own question " u think ur better than everyone else" fyi id hate to have someone say that to me...just saying! "

Lol this right here

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.

Fuck em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being self absorbed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are.... could leave a little space for me please

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"I don't agree with any of the above. It doesn't mean thinking you are better than anyone else ( others don't come into it) It isn't always just a jealous retort made by the rejected.

It's not so much conceit as it is self delusion.

e.g. they are not up someone elses arse hole but up their own arse..... narcissistic etc.....

This.

I don't think it is about rejection at all. I can think of people who haven't rejected me but I might consider them to be narcissistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have heard of a movie called "anal acrobats". Could that help you find your answer OP?

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Are we talking FAB or life in general

As they are two different things i think

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

In my opinion ,someone that is up their own arse is a person who is condescending, arrogant , pompous , obnoxious ,self centered ,selfish, full of their own self importance , passive aggressive and a narrcasist..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

yeah

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

apart from passive aggressive......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.

So they are mistaking your confidence for being up your own arse. Sounds like they have some insecurities themselves.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

and the condescending bit ...... I don't agree with that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

and they aren't necessarily pompous or obnoxious

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

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expression bit like you born with a sliver spoon ...stuck up ya own ass are you a snob?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"apart from passive aggressive...... "

Well ,I think someone being passive aggressive is one who doesn't like being asked to do things or will only do them when it suits them to do it and carries a " who do you think you are to ask me " attitude..

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Everyone is different and if you like who you are,how you look and are confident in yourself then don't worry about how some may see or describe you as that becomes their problem you will still be you

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

Having several ribs removed, that would enable one to be up one's arse. Otherwise physiologically impossible

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well I know few men who can have be pretty big thow

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By *edFire83Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.

Why should you put yourself down to please others? Its impossible to be attracted to everyone. I'm always honest and will say I am sorry I don't fancy you. I've only ever had one that came back with a load of abuse, to the point I blocked him. Chin up! Chest out!

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I don't think it's about having self confidence.

It's about telling people (or thinking) you're better than them.

I'm confident, I don't think I'm better than other people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.

So they are mistaking your confidence for being up your own arse. Sounds like they have some insecurities themselves. "

Yeah. I’m just reflecting on the responses from my rate my personality thread a few days ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Highly trained acrobat?

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

I think it’s just means their feelings are hurt and they want someone to blame rather then take it on the chin.

I’ve heard it a few times from blokes I’ve rejected. So much so that I put it in my profile. "
this fella has it on his profile that he is up his own ass interesting I'm sure

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

"Everyone is different and if you like who you are,how you look and are confident in yourself then don't worry about how some may see or describe you as that becomes their problem you will still be you

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absolutely...

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

Just off the subject ...watching Dolly Parton on bbc2 looks great go girl inspiration 2women and men lo....

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.

So they are mistaking your confidence for being up your own arse. Sounds like they have some insecurities themselves.

Yeah. I’m just reflecting on the responses from my rate my personality thread a few days ago!"

How can anyone rate a personality from written messages ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A contortionist could be up his own arse lol

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Iv a quote on my profile ‘never look down on anyone unless you are helping them up’ people who are up ones arse only think of themselves in my book I don’t think that’s you at all Annie you are an amazingly confident woman

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

Think the simple response to anyway who says that to you is fuck off and block. But it says more about them than you. You could be classed as up your own arse because you have standards and there’s nothing wrong with individual standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't agree with any of the above. It doesn't mean thinking you are better than anyone else ( others don't come into it) It isn't always just a jealous retort made by the rejected.

It's not so much conceit as it is self delusion.

e.g. they are not up someone elses arse hole but up their own arse..... narcissistic etc.....

As above. I would interpret up my own arse as self centred/self obsessed. Very focused on their own ego. Unable to acknowledge others properly whilst demanding from others to put them first. Something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It means you don’t think your own shit stinks, but everyone else’s does."

That's more like hypocrite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't agree i think that it's someone who thinks that they are better than you. There's a few people on here who are like that. It's as if they think that they are above everyone else and look down on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

They are only saying it because they would like to be up yours. Well it is very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?

Having several ribs removed, that would enable one to be up one's arse. Otherwise physiologically impossible

It depends how big your dick is

i've heard of some guys that can get it up their own arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cocky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who loves their self

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