FabSwingers.com forum: Frustration

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

Your generalisation isn't correct. For some females yes but as with everything, it's all down to preferences.

There's a few appreciation threads on dad bods etc

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By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

I get what you're saying but it's not like that. You only need to see all the verifications that guys have on here that there is someone for everyone and that being an Adonis doesn't mean its only you.

Happy hunting.

From The Adonis

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It's not always the case.

If you have a decent personality and respectful then you'll shine through.

If I can get meets (looking like me) then any nice guy can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've succeeded on here, and I'm not gym fit

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Look around at other verified men and you'll see they're not all as you describe. It's just about finding the people you click with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

We don't all go for 'gym fit' or 'monster cock's' as you put it. It's more down to being a decent, genuine person. A couple more pics on your profile may help and it says you can't accommodate which will put a lot off with an explanation.

Good luck

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By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

Good luck

Yep and this. I'm more house fit than gym fit due to the lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

By being genuinely nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think wrong.

I have none of what you describe and do just fine.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

You won't achieve any success if you don't put yourself out there and seriously invest in your profile. Making excuses for your lack of success doesn't help your cause either and will further turn off more people.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Thank you for the congratulations on my cock.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think most Women like a man to make her laugh and keep things stress free and simple. But I'm not speaking for all women.

Jo.Xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Thank you for the congratulations on my cock."

I must admit I prefer your tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think most Women like a man to make her laugh and keep things stress free and simple. But I'm not speaking for all women.

Jo.Xx "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

OP - not every woman goes for the same type of guy.

Patience in finding the right lady or ladies for you will be key.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers for the reply. I know it’s not all about looks.

Guess my general luck is currently lost somewhere. If only I was Irish. You know what they say!!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Also not exactly the time to be looking for meets during lock down.

Most will be on hold.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Also not exactly the time to be looking for meets during lock down.

Most will be on hold. "

Maybe he'd like to build up a friendship with someone until the lockdown is over.

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By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon

"Also not exactly the time to be looking for meets during lock down.

Most will be on hold. "

Exactly. Plus way more guys have come onto this site since the lock down so we've been diluted a bit. But the cream always rises so persevere and be genuine. There's no rush as we are unable to meet for the foreseeable future anyway

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Plenty of average guys get more attention on fab than they know what to do with. Yet some guys with great bodies and huge cocks struggle on here sometimes. It's more to do with a person's attitude and the effort they put in than anything else.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

I'm genuine nice and average to say the least

Be active on the forums

Play in games and have a giggle

Dont take things to seriously and see where it leads

Make friends if nothing makes comes of it

You only get out of fab what you give

I've learnt that from experience myself

I used to focus on the negative rather than the positive which itself can be a put off

For some this is a place to escape

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Definitely no meets until safe!!

Have chatted to a good few, who became site friends, and for good few weeks with the messages getting rather saucy and them saying meet up in the future, then suddenly just up and disappear!!

Guess will just have to keep the faith and try

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

I've never been gym fit, had model looks, been rich - yet did ok as a single and even bagged a wife on here.

Ok - I'll admit I've an above average wang - but that got as many 'no thanks' responses as it did positives.

Most of the people I met also didn't fall into any of the above categories, so I suspect you'll need to find another reason for any lack of success.

There's only so many model looking, ripped, picture perfect folk out there with huge dicks and perfect tits.

They cant be responsible for every meet that happens. Theres not enough hours in the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Above average wang! Brilliant.

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By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon

"Above average wang! Brilliant."

Just what everyone wants to hear haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look around at other verified men and you'll see they're not all as you describe. It's just about finding the people you click with. "

I think you’ll find we are all exactly what he’s described

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

Iv got to agree with this as no one ever gets back to you.. Obviously I know there's alot of men who fuck things up for us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your heart op

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

I'm non of what you have described but doing quite well on here to be honest

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Look around at other verified men and you'll see they're not all as you describe. It's just about finding the people you click with.

I think you’ll find we are all exactly what he’s described

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Op, this site is getting worse ... there’s a lot of talk and no fun.. if yr lucky to get someone to talk, it’s a start but don’t hold yr breath ... I’m slowly getting tired of it .... even the chat/directing rooms are like a cock fest and full of fakes .... there as to be a gem woman on here that wants fun with me .......... hang on, there goes my last breath

but I’m happy

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

I find positivity sexier than a six pack.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

Iv got to agree with this as no one ever gets back to you.. Obviously I know there's alot of men who fuck things up for us.. "

Not at all.

You will find that positivity and a sense of humour are far more effective than a ripped physique.

Moaning and a negative attitude tend to be turn offs.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I always found that success on Fab is simply down to the right person at the right time. Often a needle in a haystack but it's there... somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on what kind of person you’re looking to meet.

You realise over the years the kind of people you’re attracted to and the kind of people you attract I suppose.

Now, what I’m going to say may sound judgemental and a stereotype and it’s not the case with everyone - I’m someone who likes to have a bit of fun, relax, go out to eat, spend a night or two together, have a laugh and let our hair down..

..but I’ve realised, I can’t really enjoy myself with someone who’s got that ‘perfect’ body, that kind of arrogant/arrogance, ‘I’m the best on here’, ‘you’re lucky to be meeting me’ kind of persona. I’ve found that, that comes with that kind of body/physique/attributes - I don’t really get along well with people like that.

And that’s not me - I’m a sexual foodie who loves a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love that game

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

I've got none of these yet I'm doing fine thanks

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

Persistence is the key and not to have high expectations on yourself or others. Not all the model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock work sometimes they have a personality of an amoeba.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

We prefer Mr. Average, generally better conversation and less ego. Also we’re not exactly muscled, ripped or stunners so don’t want to feel out of place next to someone that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting to think that unless you have model looks, gym ripped physique and a monster cock (congrats to those who do), then your chances are zilch.

How is a genuine nice mr average succeed on here?

For me personally, I don’t look for either of those. I look for people I might get along with, interesting amusing messages and profiles, attractive suggestive photos.

Like others have said, negative comments or complaining are not attractive. Put your effort into showing your personality, it might just pay dividends, patience us helpful too x

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