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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I hear lots of women say they're not good at this position.

What's your evidence? Why do you think you're not good at it?

Men..what makes it good for you? Or not?

Top tips for the women please.

Women who can .. top tips please.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main thing I learned to do is to kind of rock my hips rather than try and go up and down!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Bookmarking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main thing I learned to do is to kind of rock my hips rather than try and go up and down!"

Up and down feels good though. But I can imagine that it’s an ACL injury waiting to happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best cowgirls do it almost entirely with their hips in my experience.

One thing that really drives me wild is when a cowgirl is going hard with the hip action and she’s really well oiled and I slop out she just keeps riding her clit against my shaft for a few seconds before sliding it back in.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"The main thing I learned to do is to kind of rock my hips rather than try and go up and down!"
stopppppppppp ,

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Some women are not comfortable on top and being in reverse riding not being able to see their partner can be off putting

Alot comes down to confidence

I love a lady on top taking control and seeing her whole body drives me wild

Top.tip the guys seen you naked.... hes turned on... do what feels natural to you and push your own boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hips and thighs controlling the rhythm works, holding onto hands to push against and allowing in time thrusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main thing I learned to do is to kind of rock my hips rather than try and go up and down!"

She knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind putting my hand up and taking one for you ladies, I will volunteer to help, to let you all practise on me

It’s the least I can do x

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

I just find I don't have the strength in my thighs to go for long...shame as I love anal cowgirl style

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales


"The main thing I learned to do is to kind of rock my hips rather than try and go up and down!

Up and down feels good though. But I can imagine that it’s an ACL injury waiting to happen! "

Not so bad if she's on her knees

Lots of grinding is good

Pulling me out jerking and then sliding it back in shows she wants more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer reverse cowgirl, i seem to have better balance

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"The best cowgirls do it almost entirely with their hips in my experience.

One thing that really drives me wild is when a cowgirl is going hard with the hip action and she’s really well oiled and I slop out she just keeps riding her clit against my shaft for a few seconds before sliding it back in."

I used to rush to get it back in when it slipped out but have learnt that men quite enjoy the feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main thing I learned to do is to kind of rock my hips rather than try and go up and down!"

This feels nice, but what's better is leaning forward, arching your back and bouncing your ass.

What wears women out is bouncing up and down like they're on a trampoline (and that's usually where all the injuries come from too )

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I love riding!

Rocking feels great for us, but a bit underwhelming to a man. Intersperse rocking with bouts of proper pumping, sliding penetration.

Also, pummelling a man’s face with one’s tits is very effective in this position, I find.

(Does that even make sense? Wine. Sorry!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear lots of women say they're not good at this position.

What's your evidence? Why do you think you're not good at it?

Men..what makes it good for you? Or not?

Top tips for the women please.

Women who can .. top tips please.

X "

I really like the hip grinding action. But I also love it when she’s leaning forward slightly and can bounce her arse up and down on it. I like grabbing at body parts although that’s not required! Lol

I’ve had one terrible experience and that was mostly just an aggressive back and forth boat rocking thing. Painful to even relive it type this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women are not comfortable on top and being in reverse riding not being able to see their partner can be off putting

Alot comes down to confidence

I love a lady on top taking control and seeing her whole body drives me wild

Top.tip the guys seen you naked.... hes turned on... do what feels natural to you and push your own boundaries "

The reverse doesn't seem to work so well for me, the stimulation is on the back wall, not the front, and I cant grind against his pubic mound with my clit, or see his face or have my boobs played with!

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Some women are not comfortable on top and being in reverse riding not being able to see their partner can be off putting

Alot comes down to confidence

I love a lady on top taking control and seeing her whole body drives me wild

Top.tip the guys seen you naked.... hes turned on... do what feels natural to you and push your own boundaries "

Mmm you get to see all of her enjoying herself right? That's gotta be good. What a view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear lots of women say they're not good at this position.

What's your evidence? Why do you think you're not good at it?

Men..what makes it good for you? Or not?

Top tips for the women please.

Women who can .. top tips please.

X

I really like the hip grinding action. But I also love it when she’s leaning forward slightly and can bounce her arse up and down on it. I like grabbing at body parts although that’s not required! Lol

I’ve had one terrible experience and that was mostly just an aggressive back and forth boat rocking thing. Painful to even relive it type this "
leaning forward also allows the guy to give you a pounding if you’re too exhausted!

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

london

Reverse cow girl with the women up on her feet but leaning backwards hands on my chest is my preference.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales


"Some women are not comfortable on top and being in reverse riding not being able to see their partner can be off putting

Alot comes down to confidence

I love a lady on top taking control and seeing her whole body drives me wild

Top.tip the guys seen you naked.... hes turned on... do what feels natural to you and push your own boundaries

Mmm you get to see all of her enjoying herself right? That's gotta be good. What a view "

It turns me on seeing her enjoying herself

If she's not enjoying herself then I'm doing something wrong so i dont enjoy myself

I was talking about cowgirl and reverse cowgirl and ummmm took me back want it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are your tips OP?

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

My tips are..

to remember you can vary pace, depth and position.

Try one foot or both on bed/floor..squat or half squat. This way you get loads of control over depth and pace.

Forget about what you look like .. just have it! Make it feel good for you because he is gonna love seeing that!

Grind, rock, circle, push, soft, hard AND plenty eye contact to see what's working if you're concentrating on him.

Rest forward when you're tired and let him move for a bit.

Put a pillow under his bum to lift you both up .. sometimes the extra height makes it easier on the legs.

Can you tell I'm missing this!?

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales


"Some women are not comfortable on top and being in reverse riding not being able to see their partner can be off putting

Alot comes down to confidence

I love a lady on top taking control and seeing her whole body drives me wild

Top.tip the guys seen you naked.... hes turned on... do what feels natural to you and push your own boundaries

The reverse doesn't seem to work so well for me, the stimulation is on the back wall, not the front, and I cant grind against his pubic mound with my clit, or see his face or have my boobs played with!"

Depends how you are on tip

If on knees you can lean further back on the chest or legs more forward

If you can't reach the chest then have him support you.

Or you can lean fully forward hold onto his ankles and grind into him that way try with his legs open and closed you might find the stimulation you need or introduce a toy/wand

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Some women are not comfortable on top and being in reverse riding not being able to see their partner can be off putting

Alot comes down to confidence

I love a lady on top taking control and seeing her whole body drives me wild

Top.tip the guys seen you naked.... hes turned on... do what feels natural to you and push your own boundaries

Mmm you get to see all of her enjoying herself right? That's gotta be good. What a view "

Very true not many better views.

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Also .. him lying flat can be tiresome after a while.. or if the bed is bouncy it can tire you out. Try him sitting up a bit or move to sofa or chair so you can hold onto something and go a bit longer.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Another alternative is a single armchair guy sits up

Lady can put legs over shoulders and use chair arms for support guy can support buttocks in cowgirl and help change pace or let the woman control while you take the pressure off the legs etc

Guy can sit on edge of bed corner and the lady can lower herself in reverse from a standing position (probably has it's own separate name)

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

My fave position I make sure on the down stroke his cock hits my g spot.

Also have him sit on the floor against the sofa. Slide down him and ride that way.

It's my cum position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also .. him lying flat can be tiresome after a while.. or if the bed is bouncy it can tire you out. Try him sitting up a bit or move to sofa or chair so you can hold onto something and go a bit longer.

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*chefs kiss*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love seeing breasts close to my face, as she’s on top grinding on my cock, love the feeling of her sliding up and down my hard shaft, nothing makes me cum harder.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales


"My tips are..

to remember you can vary pace, depth and position.

Try one foot or both on bed/floor..squat or half squat. This way you get loads of control over depth and pace.

Forget about what you look like .. just have it! Make it feel good for you because he is gonna love seeing that!

Grind, rock, circle, push, soft, hard AND plenty eye contact to see what's working if you're concentrating on him.

Rest forward when you're tired and let him move for a bit.

Put a pillow under his bum to lift you both up .. sometimes the extra height makes it easier on the legs.

Can you tell I'm missing this!?

"

Ohh yes can tell but hearing you talk about it well.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main thing I learned to do is to kind of rock my hips rather than try and go up and down!"

This, along with some rotation, but most importantly, enthusiasm. It's your chance to dictate the pace so enjoy, Nothing like seeing a lady let herself go..

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

It’s all about the hips

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"It’s all about the hips "

Care to demonstrate sometime.

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"The main thing I learned to do is to kind of rock my hips rather than try and go up and down!

This, along with some rotation, but most importantly, enthusiasm. It's your chance to dictate the pace so enjoy, Nothing like seeing a lady let herself go.."

Yep .. It's not a performance.. forgetting about all the porn you might have seen and letting go a bit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want some practice choo?

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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Hip grind, plus a little lean forward and bounce voila!

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Stuff your knickers in his mouth and ride him like a space hopper.

M

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Want some practice choo?"

I don't need any practice.. this one's a guddun for me!

Having said that, maybe after lock down I might have lost all my skills and need help to get back in the saddle ay

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Stuff your knickers in his mouth and ride him like a space hopper.

M"

Yee fuckin haw !

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Hip grind, plus a little lean forward and bounce voila! "

Et voila, job done

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Stuff your knickers in his mouth and ride him like a space hopper.

M"

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I hear lots of women say they're not good at this position.

What's your evidence? Why do you think you're not good at it?

Men..what makes it good for you? Or not?

Top tips for the women please.

Women who can .. top tips please.

X "

I do asian cow girl position. Great to work out bums, thighs and hips. So guess strengthen them up at the gym or home before working out on your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want some practice choo?

I don't need any practice.. this one's a guddun for me!

Having said that, maybe after lock down I might have lost all my skills and need help to get back in the saddle ay "

Go on then, I'll help you out.

Just the kind of friend I am

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I hear lots of women say they're not good at this position.

What's your evidence? Why do you think you're not good at it?

Men..what makes it good for you? Or not?

Top tips for the women please.

Women who can .. top tips please.

X

I do asian cow girl position. Great to work out bums, thighs and hips. So guess strengthen them up at the gym or home before working out on your partner? "

So good for those thighs!

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Want some practice choo?

I don't need any practice.. this one's a guddun for me!

Having said that, maybe after lock down I might have lost all my skills and need help to get back in the saddle ay

Go on then, I'll help you out.

Just the kind of friend I am"

So noble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want some practice choo?

I don't need any practice.. this one's a guddun for me!

Having said that, maybe after lock down I might have lost all my skills and need help to get back in the saddle ay

Go on then, I'll help you out.

Just the kind of friend I am

So noble "

I prefer to describe myself as 'selfless'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I get in the rhythm i love it for me it’s about finding the balance between bouncing around and grinding hips to hit the good spots when sliding down

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"Hip grind, plus a little lean forward and bounce voila!

Et voila, job done "

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Want some practice choo?

I don't need any practice.. this one's a guddun for me!

Having said that, maybe after lock down I might have lost all my skills and need help to get back in the saddle ay "

Giddy up.

It’s all in the hips for me. I like to use my hands on the woman’s hips to help with the rhythm and the rocking and maybe a little slap on her arse to see if she responds to it.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I like to tease on it, until I slip it in, then grind on it until I'm ready to bounce. I love to take control in this position. So lots of practice is needed to perfect it.

Jo.Xx

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

london


"I like to tease on it, until I slip it in, then grind on it until I'm ready to bounce. I love to take control in this position. So lots of practice is needed to perfect it.

Jo.Xx "

We have a talented cowgirl here by the sounds of it. Your man is very lucky.

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I like to tease on it, until I slip it in, then grind on it until I'm ready to bounce. I love to take control in this position. So lots of practice is needed to perfect it.

Jo.Xx "

Mmm a while teasing on the tip of a lovely hard cock. *big sigh

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Once I get in the rhythm i love it for me it’s about finding the balance between bouncing around and grinding hips to hit the good spots when sliding down "

Nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my exes was amazing at this. Only person to ever make my toes curl when I came. She would squat instead of straddle and it was amazing. Reverse was even better....watching the lips slide up and down the shaft!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I find putting a hand on their thigh behind me helps.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I find putting a hand on their thigh behind me helps."

I do this with both and lean back a little then get hips moving x

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"One of my exes was amazing at this. Only person to ever make my toes curl when I came. She would squat instead of straddle and it was amazing. Reverse was even better....watching the lips slide up and down the shaft! "

What a view! If only women could know how awesome they look like that.

Squatting is gooood for everyone.. but lots of women worry what they look like. Fuck that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find putting a hand on their thigh behind me helps."

*reaches for notebook*

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I combine a mix of up and down with grounding and round and around... works for us, just go with the flow... if it feels good, do it

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I find putting a hand on their thigh behind me helps."

Yep, get him to lift his knees too can support,or offer hands if in reverse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find putting a hand on their thigh behind me helps.

I do this with both and lean back a little then get hips moving x "

Amazing

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales


"One of my exes was amazing at this. Only person to ever make my toes curl when I came. She would squat instead of straddle and it was amazing. Reverse was even better....watching the lips slide up and down the shaft!

What a view! If only women could know how awesome they look like that.

Squatting is gooood for everyone.. but lots of women worry what they look like. Fuck that! "

The wilder the better why hold back ?

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"One of my exes was amazing at this. Only person to ever make my toes curl when I came. She would squat instead of straddle and it was amazing. Reverse was even better....watching the lips slide up and down the shaft! "

I did a little video with a fwb of this, for our eyes only and have to admit it was hot seeing that

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"I find putting a hand on their thigh behind me helps.

I do this with both and lean back a little then get hips moving x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my exes was amazing at this. Only person to ever make my toes curl when I came. She would squat instead of straddle and it was amazing. Reverse was even better....watching the lips slide up and down the shaft!

What a view! If only women could know how awesome they look like that.

Squatting is gooood for everyone.. but lots of women worry what they look like. Fuck that! "

She used to do a similar thing over the side of the bed too. Kinda stand on the floor then squat back onto me.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I love riding S and he loves it too. I have no hang ups about what I look like so there's that out of the way.

I like to alternate using my hips to kinda grind, usually sitting more upright, with leaning forward so my boobs are in his face and I can move my bum up and down more and/or he can thrust up. I like to tease too. I'll take just the tip inside me and do really shallow moves on it and then randomly take it all the way in again. That usually goes down well

I can't squat due to disability, so no idea what that's like, but I can keep it up straddling on my knees for a good long time, plenty of stamina in that department

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I love riding S and he loves it too. I have no hang ups about what I look like so there's that out of the way.

I like to alternate using my hips to kinda grind, usually sitting more upright, with leaning forward so my boobs are in his face and I can move my bum up and down more and/or he can thrust up. I like to tease too. I'll take just the tip inside me and do really shallow moves on it and then randomly take it all the way in again. That usually goes down well

I can't squat due to disability, so no idea what that's like, but I can keep it up straddling on my knees for a good long time, plenty of stamina in that department "

I like to tip tease too fwb likes it as do i! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its reverse cowgirl I cant do, it feels odd and I cant move properly lol plus I feel like the mans willy will snap. I really don't like it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, I hate cowgirl/reverse cowgirl but my husband likes it so I do it semi regularly.

I found that varying between grinding and leaning forward to bounce your ass up and down works well when facing either direction.

Avoid just straight out bouncing up and down, that'll tire you out faster and (according to those I've spoken to) doesn't feel as good.

If they're into it and you're reverse cowgirl, you can play with their balls gently too as you lean forward. They get some extra stimulation and a great view.

Also if you don't get much out of grinding your clit on them when in the forward facing position, you can always lean back slightly and rub it yourself. Again, extra stimulation (for you this time) and a great view for him, accompanied with some slow grinding is both sensual and gives you a chance to rest up if you've been going for a while.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I try to ride him cowgirl on the weight bench as I can straddle him properly and hip thrust, (any horse riders will know it as hip thrust into canter) that way I can take him deep comfortably and take ultimate control of my orgasm.

I prefer reverse on a armless chair and he controls me, reaching round to stroke my clit as he bounces us to pleasure.

To do reverse in a jacuzzi is on my bucket list

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Not many women can do the motion properly in my opinion. When she knows what she’s doing, penetration with the onus on her fucking you in this position... nothing beats this feeling.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love a good cowgirl session. It’s the boobs bouncing around all over the place that I love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cowgirl and can get myself off quite quick forward facing. A warning that I'm going to take what I need first then enjoy his face as I bring myself to orgasm! Reverse, face down between his legs, use the bounce from the bed to slide up and down, interspersed with grinding... Oh my days

In this position I squirt too if he roughly wanks against my clit, his fist and helmet rubbing hard!

Time to wake up Fuzz methinks...

Peach

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I Just grind down onto their penis

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By *D - CharlieMan
over a year ago

wirral

Nice slow and deep

Occasionally lean forward giving it a twerk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it both ways. Reverse cowgirl has to be my favourite position. I love exploring the different angles as I love my hips different ways. I love feeling a guy's cock slowly slipping out, stroking it with my pussy and then putting it back in.

Facing the guy is good too as he can give my boobs all the attention they need whilst I grind him. I like to alternate between sort of rocking and coming closer and bouncing up and down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best cowgirls do it almost entirely with their hips in my experience.

One thing that really drives me wild is when a cowgirl is going hard with the hip action and she’s really well oiled and I slop out she just keeps riding her clit against my shaft for a few seconds before sliding it back in."

Oh that's ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd describe it as the part in the song by Beyonce D*unk in love..."surf board, surf board, grind grinding on that wood..."

If you get my drift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not many women can do the motion properly in my opinion. When she knows what she’s doing, penetration with the onus on her fucking you in this position... nothing beats this feeling. "

I will happily give you a demo

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I Just grind down onto their penis "

That would work for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is such a turn on

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

Heels...

I found when girls wear heels it gives their already arched feet support when the bounce up and down

It gives them more stability and takes some of the strain of the inner thighs.

And as others have said its all in the hips thighs and lower core muscles. So push your pelvis forward so your bum bounces past the man's hips. Landing somewhere close to the balls is about right

That also feels great for us blokes having you cock not only ridden up and down and away.

It becomes more like doggystyle just flipped 90 degrees and alot less effort.

As a finishing move.. bring your knees it wraps you around our cock and it feels extra tight.

I'm usually dominate in bed bit a woman who knows what she is doing on top can have all the time she likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grinding clit.. arggggh .

Love it. Used to hate it but got cured;-)

Top tip is a having a man who adores you on top and looks at you with overwhelming desire. And lets you find your sway and rock n roll rather than being "too helpful" or directing. It's your 'spectacle'!

But if you struggle with it.. or need a change.. squat over him.. front or reverse and enjoy the smacking sounds

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding. "

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Grinding clit.. arggggh .

Love it. Used to hate it but got cured;-)

Top tip is a having a man who adores you on top and looks at you with overwhelming desire. And lets you find your sway and rock n roll rather than being "too helpful" or directing. It's your 'spectacle'!

But if you struggle with it.. or need a change.. squat over him.. front or reverse and enjoy the smacking sounds "

Oooooft.

Be right back........

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Grinding clit.. arggggh .

Love it. Used to hate it but got cured;-)

Top tip is a having a man who adores you on top and looks at you with overwhelming desire. And lets you find your sway and rock n roll rather than being "too helpful" or directing. It's your 'spectacle'!

But if you struggle with it.. or need a change.. squat over him.. front or reverse and enjoy the smacking sounds "

Oh I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grinding clit.. arggggh .

Love it. Used to hate it but got cured;-)

Top tip is a having a man who adores you on top and looks at you with overwhelming desire. And lets you find your sway and rock n roll rather than being "too helpful" or directing. It's your 'spectacle'!

But if you struggle with it.. or need a change.. squat over him.. front or reverse and enjoy the smacking sounds "

This

I love rubbing my clit on him.. Its so hot looking into his eyes and hearing his encouragement and enjoyment... I have my pleasure and the he gets his and then i get rewarded.. And then he gets rewarded..

Rinse and repeat lol... Win win win!!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I asked my ex to do a cowgirl on me.

So she threw a lasso around my neck and str*ngled me

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

The sensation and especially the view are an amazing turn on, particularly if the woman has a slimmer waist and nice, round buttocks

Damn...my horn is back. Where's my climbing gear? The walls beckon

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle ."

If at first you don't succeed...

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Mmm were still riding, good.

One foot on the bed, slide other knee back a bit, hand on his chest. I can lean forwards and look down and watch. Requires some flexibility and commitment ha!

I like to play with sets of slow thrusts..shallow, middle, deep, repeat. Then grind n groove with plenty contact with his pubic bone till I cum.

The clit stimulation and the shaft on g spot is sublime.

I'd put this in the 'Fuck yerself fit' category as one of the best for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hip movemenet is essential on account of both parties.

When the female is taking control it's good to sway and rotate rather than try to move up and down. It's also good for her to be slightly higher up the mans body at times so it becomes more of a sway movement rather than an up and down motion to keep the pressure off the thighs and maintain some stamina.

Its good for the guy too to hold firmly by the hips at times to maintain some support but also to hold her steady and thrust his hips when she tires to give her a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

If at first you don't succeed..."

Glad im not the only one who cant do reverse cowgirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best cowgirls do it almost entirely with their hips in my experience.

One thing that really drives me wild is when a cowgirl is going hard with the hip action and she’s really well oiled and I slop out she just keeps riding her clit against my shaft for a few seconds before sliding it back in."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle ."

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it "

Sounds like you girls need a lityle more practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love doing this on the sofa where D is relaxed back and I’m learning forward grinding against him pinning his hands above his head by his wrists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do lots of grinding involving the hip action, mixed with leaning forward and bouncing up and down. Though he loves it when I sit straight up and lean back slightly, hits the right spot.

And doing it on a chair or the sofa is great, very intense and intimate as I like being face to face watching each other’s reactions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been reading this thoroughly cos I’m crap on top, when all this lockdown stuff is over I’m gonna find a patient guy that will let me practice on him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been reading this thoroughly cos I’m crap on top, when all this lockdown stuff is over I’m gonna find a patient guy that will let me practice on him. "

Puts myself forward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been reading this thoroughly cos I’m crap on top, when all this lockdown stuff is over I’m gonna find a patient guy that will let me practice on him. "

Haha. Good luck with that

That’s your day sorted today then with messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm were still riding, good.

One foot on the bed, slide other knee back a bit, hand on his chest. I can lean forwards and look down and watch. Requires some flexibility and commitment ha!

I like to play with sets of slow thrusts..shallow, middle, deep, repeat. Then grind n groove with plenty contact with his pubic bone till I cum.

The clit stimulation and the shaft on g spot is sublime.

I'd put this in the 'Fuck yerself fit' category as one of the best for women "

Nope. Sorry Freya I can't visualise what you're describing.....you'll have to show me

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main thing I learned to do is to kind of rock my hips rather than try and go up and down!"
This!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I like to tease on it, until I slip it in, then grind on it until I'm ready to bounce. I love to take control in this position. So lots of practice is needed to perfect it.

Jo.Xx

We have a talented cowgirl here by the sounds of it. Your man is very lucky. "

I've been riding him for 25 years so I should be pretty good at it.

Well D has never complained anyway, Apart from when I get greedy and don't let him go at his rhythm.

Jo.Xx

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We often do cowgirl...I can't do it squatting though.

I find variety is best, bouncing, slow, rocking and love watching Cal's face

He loves the easy boob access and the chance to let me do the work.

I'm more than happy to go on top. In fact I was on top the very first time we had sex.

Reverse cowgirl just doesn't do it for me at all.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it "

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on."

Good idea! I’m awesome at normal cowgirl. It’s my favourite . It’s just reverse I’m crap at. I think I get overexcited

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Once you've mastered cowgirl the Amazonian is a nice variation to try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on."

Hey

Don’t call me that

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on."

In reverse try getting him to put his legs outside of yours rather than inside, I like it like that and it seems easier for her somehow.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The sensation and especially the view are an amazing turn on, particularly if the woman has a slimmer waist and nice, round buttocks

"

Check and check

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it "

Yeah it feels like they're being bent in an unnatural way inside me if that makes sense. I just about manage to get the tip in and try to get more in and it just ends up being pushed out again.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on.

In reverse try getting him to put his legs outside of yours rather than inside, I like it like that and it seems easier for her somehow."

I can't even picture how that works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice. Practice some more.

Then more and a little bit more.

I'll read the newspaper while your mounting

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Mmm were still riding, good.

One foot on the bed, slide other knee back a bit, hand on his chest. I can lean forwards and look down and watch. Requires some flexibility and commitment ha!

I like to play with sets of slow thrusts..shallow, middle, deep, repeat. Then grind n groove with plenty contact with his pubic bone till I cum.

The clit stimulation and the shaft on g spot is sublime.

I'd put this in the 'Fuck yerself fit' category as one of the best for women

Nope. Sorry Freya I can't visualise what you're describing.....you'll have to show me

Fuzz"

Yes you're right, it's best demonstrated .. slide over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm were still riding, good.

One foot on the bed, slide other knee back a bit, hand on his chest. I can lean forwards and look down and watch. Requires some flexibility and commitment ha!

I like to play with sets of slow thrusts..shallow, middle, deep, repeat. Then grind n groove with plenty contact with his pubic bone till I cum.

The clit stimulation and the shaft on g spot is sublime.

I'd put this in the 'Fuck yerself fit' category as one of the best for women

Nope. Sorry Freya I can't visualise what you're describing.....you'll have to show me

Fuzz

Yes you're right, it's best demonstrated .. slide over here "

Mount up cowgirl yeeehaw.....

Fuzz

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on.

In reverse try getting him to put his legs outside of yours rather than inside, I like it like that and it seems easier for her somehow.

I can't even picture how that works."

It doesn't seem to be documented anywhere if you Google it so think I might have invented it.

If I was laying on my back I would spread my legs then you kneel between my legs facing away from me, you move backwards sliding your calf's under my slightly raised thighs and back along side my body. You can then sit back onto my cock and bounce or something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is cowgirl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women are not comfortable on top and being in reverse riding not being able to see their partner can be off putting

Alot comes down to confidence

I love a lady on top taking control and seeing her whole body drives me wild

Top.tip the guys seen you naked.... hes turned on... do what feels natural to you and push your own boundaries

The reverse doesn't seem to work so well for me, the stimulation is on the back wall, not the front, and I cant grind against his pubic mound with my clit, or see his face or have my boobs played with!"

And the reverse position allows you to watch tele, play video games etc too.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on.

In reverse try getting him to put his legs outside of yours rather than inside, I like it like that and it seems easier for her somehow.

I can't even picture how that works.

It doesn't seem to be documented anywhere if you Google it so think I might have invented it.

If I was laying on my back I would spread my legs then you kneel between my legs facing away from me, you move backwards sliding your calf's under my slightly raised thighs and back along side my body. You can then sit back onto my cock and bounce or something like that."

That makes a lot more sense than the weird crap like position I was picturing .

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I try to ride him cowgirl on the weight bench as I can straddle him properly and hip thrust, (any horse riders will know it as hip thrust into canter) that way I can take him deep comfortably and take ultimate control of my orgasm.

I prefer reverse on a armless chair and he controls me, reaching round to stroke my clit as he bounces us to pleasure.

To do reverse in a jacuzzi is on my bucket list "

I definitely think being an equestrian lady helps hugely with cowgirl and lots of sexy stuff actually. Much of my hip movement in sex are the sorts of movements you need to keep a deep seat in canter or when you're riding with no stirrups. Praise the Lord for being a horsewoman

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I usually get bored on reverse and not being able to see the face also not appealing to me. Can’t decide which pace would be good for the moment.Hence only happens by special request

However, squatting and cowgirl is one of my must haves love seeing the pleasure of men enjoying their view and forcing themselves to hold themselves not to cum. Surely don’t want to loose the sexy view quickly

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

If any ladies are wanting to practice their technique then give me a shout

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on.

In reverse try getting him to put his legs outside of yours rather than inside, I like it like that and it seems easier for her somehow."

This is definitely easier for reverse

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on.

In reverse try getting him to put his legs outside of yours rather than inside, I like it like that and it seems easier for her somehow.

This is definitely easier for reverse "

I'm going to give it a go. I think I know just the victim .

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

So many good ideas. I need to practise, help!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on.

In reverse try getting him to put his legs outside of yours rather than inside, I like it like that and it seems easier for her somehow.

This is definitely easier for reverse

I'm going to give it a go. I think I know just the victim ."

The nearest I can find to it’s description is something called the Nun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get bored on reverse and not being able to see the face also not appealing to me. Can’t decide which pace would be good for the moment.Hence only happens by special request

However, squatting and cowgirl is one of my must haves love seeing the pleasure of men enjoying their view and forcing themselves to hold themselves not to cum. Surely don’t want to loose the sexy view quickly "

i find it really horny, that special view that only you can see as you ride the shaft up and the anticipation as roll your hips and sink back down, combined with the sound and the pure animal scent of sex and then you rock forwards and hold his ankles, or lock your arms behind you and lean back into him mmmmm fuck, I'm horny

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think I know just the person I'm going to experiment on.

I might message my victim now

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I usually get bored on reverse and not being able to see the face also not appealing to me. Can’t decide which pace would be good for the moment.Hence only happens by special request

However, squatting and cowgirl is one of my must haves love seeing the pleasure of men enjoying their view and forcing themselves to hold themselves not to cum. Surely don’t want to loose the sexy view quickly "

Too late to stop myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My tips are..

to remember you can vary pace, depth and position.

Try one foot or both on bed/floor..squat or half squat. This way you get loads of control over depth and pace.

Forget about what you look like .. just have it! Make it feel good for you because he is gonna love seeing that!

Grind, rock, circle, push, soft, hard AND plenty eye contact to see what's working if you're concentrating on him.

Rest forward when you're tired and let him move for a bit.

Put a pillow under his bum to lift you both up .. sometimes the extra height makes it easier on the legs.

Can you tell I'm missing this!?

"

No doesn't show a bit Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love cowgirl. I've got good stamina for it

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"What is cowgirl?"

It’s not been that long sweetheart, but worry not I’ll take pleasure in reminding you post lockdown

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Love cowgirl. I've got good stamina for it "

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I usually get bored on reverse and not being able to see the face also not appealing to me. Can’t decide which pace would be good for the moment.Hence only happens by special request

However, squatting and cowgirl is one of my must haves love seeing the pleasure of men enjoying their view and forcing themselves to hold themselves not to cum. Surely don’t want to loose the sexy view quickly

i find it really horny, that special view that only you can see as you ride the shaft up and the anticipation as roll your hips and sink back down, combined with the sound and the pure animal scent of sex and then you rock forwards and hold his ankles, or lock your arms behind you and lean back into him mmmmm fuck, I'm horny "

bless ya, bless us all, it's only gonna get worse. Sigh x

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I think I know just the person I'm going to experiment on.

I might message my victim now "

Ooooo!

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

I'll help the cause and be a "victim" haha

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"This thread is so informative - cowgirl (and reverse) are positions I'm not good at in the slightest, I think I'm too self conscious and can't let go enough for it. More threads like this would be brilliant. In the meantime, I'm going to get practising with my squats and grinding.

Personally I love cowgirl but I've never managed reverse cowgirl. I just can't seem to get them in me from that angle .

Me neither. I always ending up bending their cock in half or almost snapping it

I can't do it either and I don't think anyone would be foolish enough to want me to practise on them.

I might get one of those life like dildos to try on.

In reverse try getting him to put his legs outside of yours rather than inside, I like it like that and it seems easier for her somehow.

This is definitely easier for reverse

I'm going to give it a go. I think I know just the victim .

The nearest I can find to it’s description is something called the Nun "

Yessss! The Nun is what I'm thinking of.

Try that it's great, you can reach his balls really easily too.

I want to be balls deep in a Nun right now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get bored on reverse and not being able to see the face also not appealing to me. Can’t decide which pace would be good for the moment.Hence only happens by special request

However, squatting and cowgirl is one of my must haves love seeing the pleasure of men enjoying their view and forcing themselves to hold themselves not to cum. Surely don’t want to loose the sexy view quickly

i find it really horny, that special view that only you can see as you ride the shaft up and the anticipation as roll your hips and sink back down, combined with the sound and the pure animal scent of sex and then you rock forwards and hold his ankles, or lock your arms behind you and lean back into him mmmmm fuck, I'm horny

bless ya, bless us all, it's only gonna get worse. Sigh x "

Man i love this thread... What's your next one going to be about.. Can't wait!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think I know just the person I'm going to experiment on.

I might message my victim now

Ooooo! "

He's amenable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sensation and especially the view are an amazing turn on, particularly if the woman has a slimmer waist and nice, round buttocks"

Oh well, won't be doing that then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main thing I learned to do is to kind of rock my hips rather than try and go up and down!

This, along with some rotation, but most importantly, enthusiasm. It's your chance to dictate the pace so enjoy, Nothing like seeing a lady let herself go..

Yep .. It's not a performance.. forgetting about all the porn you might have seen and letting go a bit x "

Feel free to sing if it works for you.. can I suggest The Ride of the Valkyries?..

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By *illy5Man
over a year ago

conwy


"I hear lots of women say they're not good at this position.

What's your evidence? Why do you think you're not good at it?

Men..what makes it good for you? Or not?

Top tips for the women please.

Women who can .. top tips please.

X "

Reverse cowgirl is my all time fav position

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By *edFire83Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Reading all this has made me seriously horny, and wanting to reverse cowgirl someone!! Isolation sucks! Toys gonna have to get it later!

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By *reya73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I usually get bored on reverse and not being able to see the face also not appealing to me. Can’t decide which pace would be good for the moment.Hence only happens by special request

However, squatting and cowgirl is one of my must haves love seeing the pleasure of men enjoying their view and forcing themselves to hold themselves not to cum. Surely don’t want to loose the sexy view quickly

i find it really horny, that special view that only you can see as you ride the shaft up and the anticipation as roll your hips and sink back down, combined with the sound and the pure animal scent of sex and then you rock forwards and hold his ankles, or lock your arms behind you and lean back into him mmmmm fuck, I'm horny

bless ya, bless us all, it's only gonna get worse. Sigh x

Man i love this thread... What's your next one going to be about.. Can't wait!! "

New thread up for your horniness

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Many years ago a fwb came around and wanted to ride me cowgirl, she said that it hadn't gone well with an ex bf but wanted to try again.

A very long story short was she had no coordination, lost her balance and fell off me

There was an almighty thud and she was snoring on the floor.

Turns out she was exhausted (nursing shifts)and I never did find out what happened with her ex bf

We did smile though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bumped for those into informative threads.

#HipsTips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does nothing for me and feel like im going to snap his willy as the angle feels all wong. Plus seeing my bum wobble from that angle is a big no no lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I do the asian cow girl position. Makes men cum really quick so i don't fuck them for long as I want the session to last longer than a minute!

I start off really slow then build up faster then slow it down. Circular movements drive them crazy as i squeeze their pecs. Fucking really hard is what they love too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newly (well, jut before lockdown) discovered love of this!

Riding him while he plays with my nipples, so hot

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

How did I miss this first time?

Off for a scroll to take notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bloody hell wish I hadn't bumped this. Not helping horn levels with all these intimate reveals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was always my favourite position for cumming inside a woman. I love being able to see her face, kiss her when she leans forward, play with her boobs and nipples, sometimes even suck them depending on relative height, I like being able to join in and buck her like a bucking bronco too. I found that her rocking and slowly sliding up and down my shaft were most effective but to cum I usually had to pump too. Clever use of her PC muscles could drive me wild especially if she was able to do that while holding me in by just my bell end.

Fuck that’s made me feel horny thinking about it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"This was always my favourite position for cumming inside a woman. I love being able to see her face, kiss her when she leans forward, play with her boobs and nipples, sometimes even suck them depending on relative height, I like being able to join in and buck her like a bucking bronco too. I found that her rocking and slowly sliding up and down my shaft were most effective but to cum I usually had to pump too. Clever use of her PC muscles could drive me wild especially if she was able to do that while holding me in by just my bell end.

Fuck that’s made me feel horny thinking about it "

Christ, Doc, not helping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This was always my favourite position for cumming inside a woman. I love being able to see her face, kiss her when she leans forward, play with her boobs and nipples, sometimes even suck them depending on relative height, I like being able to join in and buck her like a bucking bronco too. I found that her rocking and slowly sliding up and down my shaft were most effective but to cum I usually had to pump too. Clever use of her PC muscles could drive me wild especially if she was able to do that while holding me in by just my bell end.

Fuck that’s made me feel horny thinking about it

Christ, Doc, not helping "

Just what the doctor ordered... noooo not right now damn it doc!! I need to find a thread that has no turn on appeal to balance this out now ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best cowgirls do it almost entirely with their hips in my experience.

One thing that really drives me wild is when a cowgirl is going hard with the hip action and she’s really well oiled and I slop out she just keeps riding her clit against my shaft for a few seconds before sliding it back in."

Crikey horny description x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer reverse cowgirl, i seem to have better balance

"

I prefer reverse...

More intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear lots of women say they're not good at this position.

What's your evidence? Why do you think you're not good at it?

Men..what makes it good for you? Or not?

Top tips for the women please.

Women who can .. top tips please.

X

I really like the hip grinding action. But I also love it when she’s leaning forward slightly and can bounce her arse up and down on it. I like grabbing at body parts although that’s not required! Lol

I’ve had one terrible experience and that was mostly just an aggressive back and forth boat rocking thing. Painful to even relive it type this leaning forward also allows the guy to give you a pounding if you’re too exhausted! "

It's great when the lady is to fucked to continue grinding and you can hold her in position and keep going. I love feeling her pussy cum on me over and over.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I usually help them out with a bit of upward thrust if they're struggling.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"One of my exes was amazing at this. Only person to ever make my toes curl when I came. She would squat instead of straddle and it was amazing. Reverse was even better....watching the lips slide up and down the shaft! "

That's called asian cowgirl when you swat it's the only position i like to perfect

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I love riding!

Rocking feels great for us, but a bit underwhelming to a man. Intersperse rocking with bouts of proper pumping, sliding penetration.

Also, pummelling a man’s face with one’s tits is very effective in this position, I find.

(Does that even make sense? Wine. Sorry!)"

It was all over for me at tits pummelling my face.... thankyou poster!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reverse FTW

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I usually help them out with a bit of upward thrust if they're struggling. "

Or getting abit tired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best fuck I had was reverse cowgirl but anally.

She put her feet on my knees which were slightly bent. Her hands on my chest and rode me. It felt incredible.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I can go on forever in this position for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suck on top

Really wish I didnt cos i like being in that position..but it does nothing for me..or him! I just dont know which way to move..i cant sit back enough and move up and down! Anyone want to teach me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suck on top

Really wish I didnt cos i like being in that position..but it does nothing for me..or him! I just dont know which way to move..i cant sit back enough and move up and down! Anyone want to teach me? "

If you read through the thread, you'll find lots of tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear lots of women say they're not good at this position.

What's your evidence? Why do you think you're not good at it?

Men..what makes it good for you? Or not?

Top tips for the women please.

Women who can .. top tips please.

X "
this position is all in the hips and is my personal favourite so thankyou very much for reminding me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wondered why does cowgirls have bowed legs? Maybe cowboys eat with their hats on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wondered why does cowgirls have bowed legs? Maybe cowboys eat with their hats on!"
look if you've ever ridden a horse you'll know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wondered why does cowgirls have bowed legs? Maybe cowboys eat with their hats on!"
women that ride horses have very strong thighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyway as i said that continuos hip movement you know like beyonce or Shakira on the dance floor thats the technique we want lol

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