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"Hey guys, I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming. Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there: 1. Be nice. 2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice). 3. Get rid of the cock avatars. 4. Try not to slag off others in the forums. 5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males. 6. Be humorous. 7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple . Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly. "All good points also don't white night all the attractive popular people xx | |||
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"Hey guys, I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming. Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there: 1. Be nice. 2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice). 3. Get rid of the cock avatars. 4. Try not to slag off others in the forums. 5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males. 6. Be humorous. 7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple . Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly.
All good points also don't white night all the attractive popular people xx"Brilliant list, I'll add Don't be sleazy, it's not a good look | |||
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"Be hairy be awesome I'll add that"  mmmm | |||
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"Hey guys, I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming. Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there: 1. Be nice. 2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice). 3. Get rid of the cock avatars. 4. Try not to slag off others in the forums. 5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males. 6. Be humorous. 7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple . Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly. "Great thread Chunky | |||
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"Flirt when ever possible. " I think I fit the bill | |||
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"Flirt when ever possible. I think I fit the bill "Just a tad. | |||
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"Welcome everyone to Chunkys Gents school of fab  "(whistles innocently) | |||
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"Flirt when ever possible. Ahem!  "Yeah I know.  | |||
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"Welcome everyone to Chunkys Gents school of fab
(whistles innocently) "You should get yourself a school teachers cap, gown and cane to keep us all in check 
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"Don't get narky if you don't get a response or its not the response you want. Don't get jealous Don't lamp post piss" Totally agree with this my feet are wet from the amount of piss people put on me | |||
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"Hey guys, I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming. Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there: 1. Be nice. 2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice). 3. Get rid of the cock avatars. 4. Try not to slag off others in the forums. 5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males. 6. Be humorous. 7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple . Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly. "The forum is a lovely way to start chatting to people you wouldn’t usually come across from all parts of the uk. The keys is always be respectful and considerate. I’ve had some amazing chats and quite fond of some, we end up chatting one on one from here. | |||
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"I honestly don't see where the difficulty lies as it's not rocket science. Just be respectful and address people normally. If things develop they develop through a natural, unrushed process. If they don't, you've had a, hopefully, pleasant interaction with another person. As to more fit and attractive men not making such an effort; perhaps because they stand out more by being naturally more attractive and feel that's enough for them? Shortsighted approach perhaps because if the personality comes up lacking their odds of success plummets as well?" It's not rocket science, nope. Some still can't get their heads around it though | |||
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"This list is dickheadist. But I still love you for it, CG. "Awww thanks. | |||
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"Don't forget the fit and good looking one who is super charming "Awww thanks, but I'm not that fit atm. | |||
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I'd like to add treat others how you wish to be treated | |||
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"Hey guys, I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming. Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there: 1. Be nice. 2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice). 3. Get rid of the cock avatars. 4. Try not to slag off others in the forums. 5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males. 6. Be humorous. 7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple . Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly. "This is great advice! | |||
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"Great list CG, some may do well to take note of how a good guy like yourself does it
I'd like to add treat others how you wish to be treated "Thank you Sophie. I like your point too. | |||
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"Just be yourself "I try. | |||
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"Of course having a hot tub doesn’t come in to play at all! You got a hot tub and I’m afraid it won’t make a slight bit of difference! So you can always lend me yours and I can look after it whilst you follow everyone pointers! "Or come and join me. I'll get the bubbles going. | |||
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"Hey guys, I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming. Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there: 1. Be nice. 2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice). 3. Get rid of the cock avatars. 4. Try not to slag off others in the forums. 5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males. 6. Be humorous. 7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple . Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly. "Speaking as a little Bob Hoskins/ Danny DeVito looking bloke myself I can thoroughly get behind this message... | |||
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"How about be a good wing man " It works for me. | |||
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"Hey guys, I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming. Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there: 1. Be nice. 2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice). 3. Get rid of the cock avatars. 4. Try not to slag off others in the forums. 5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males. 6. Be humorous. 7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple . Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly. "Great points sir | |||
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"Personally chunky I just think your a top guy the ladies love you the men wanna be like you and you have the best wing man on fab lol "Oh shush you, don't overdo it. I'm just a normal bloke. | |||
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"Personally chunky I just think your a top guy the ladies love you the men wanna be like you and you have the best wing man on fab lol
Oh shush you, don't overdo it.
I'm just a normal bloke. "What you are is a friend something that is very desirable your funny and your an open book. Thats why people like you | |||
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"Of course having a hot tub doesn’t come in to play at all! You got a hot tub and I’m afraid it won’t make a slight bit of difference! So you can always lend me yours and I can look after it whilst you follow everyone pointers!
Or come and join me. I'll get the bubbles going. " | |||
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"Don't get narky if you don't get a response or its not the response you want. Don't get jealous Don't lamp post piss" But lamp post pissing is so much fun though. I think that if you talk to women like women, not penis receptacles, you tend to do well. | |||
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"Don't get narky if you don't get a response or its not the response you want. Don't get jealous Don't lamp post piss But lamp post pissing is so much fun though. I think that if you talk to women like women, not penis receptacles, you tend to do well." There is a penis receptacle? | |||
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"Don't get narky if you don't get a response or its not the response you want. Don't get jealous Don't lamp post piss But lamp post pissing is so much fun though. I think that if you talk to women like women, not penis receptacles, you tend to do well." I try to treat a woman like a friend. If anything else sparks then all the better. | |||
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"Don't get narky if you don't get a response or its not the response you want. Don't get jealous Don't lamp post piss But lamp post pissing is so much fun though. I think that if you talk to women like women, not penis receptacles, you tend to do well." I sometimes mess around pretending to lamp post piss but anyone that knows me also knows I'm to much of a flirt and I'm never serious. I like to have fun and treat ladies with respect though I do get a bit cheeky | |||
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"Be yourself and for goodness sake read the profile before sending a message. Nice post OP Jo x "Jo what if like me you can't read???? | |||
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"Be yourself and for goodness sake read the profile before sending a message. Nice post OP Jo x
Jo what if like me you can't read???? "You are more than capable of reading!! Otherwise ask a friend to help maybe?? Xx | |||
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"Be yourself and for goodness sake read the profile before sending a message. Nice post OP Jo x
Jo what if like me you can't read???? "Facepalm | |||
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"Be yourself and for goodness sake read the profile before sending a message. Nice post OP Jo x
Jo what if like me you can't read????
You are more than capable of reading!!
Otherwise ask a friend to help maybe??
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"Be yourself and for goodness sake read the profile before sending a message. Nice post OP Jo x " | |||
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"Be yourself and for goodness sake read the profile before sending a message. Nice post OP Jo x "Thanks Jo. Asking people to read profiles seems to be a big ask at times. | |||
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"And don't mention the war. I did once, but i think i got away with it "They don't like it up 'em  | |||
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"And don't mention the war. I did once, but i think i got away with it
They don't like it up 'em "They do on here | |||
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"Don't send a cock picture unless asked "Oh definitely this ^^ Or have a profile with just more cock pics, but at a different angle! | |||
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"And don't mention the war. I did once, but i think i got away with it
They don't like it up 'em
They do on here "So I'm told (looks innocently) | |||
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"Don’t lamppost piss "Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean? | |||
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"Personality can shine through on forums, it is always nice to be nice "very true x | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times " Yeah especially with the Welsh! | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times Yeah especially with the Welsh! "Yes, because it confuses us | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times Yeah especially with the Welsh! "And Scots. | |||
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Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?"When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour. | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times Yeah especially with the Welsh!
Yes, because it confuses us "I know it does you poor souls... | |||
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"Just be yourself..... don’t try to be someone you’re not. Happy Easter playmates "Definitely this! | |||
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"Don't send a cock picture unless asked
Oh definitely this ^^
Or have a profile with just more cock pics, but at a different angle!
"Different angle..?.... bloody hell I’ll need a photographer | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times Yeah especially with the Welsh!
Yes, because it confuses us
I know it does you poor souls... "And we will burn your cottages if you buy them in Wales | |||
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour. "For Example... Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot Thank kind of thing | |||
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"Just be yourself "Really? Does that work lol | |||
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"Any other tips?  "Just be nice mate. Respect will do you proud. | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times Yeah especially with the Welsh!
Yes, because it confuses us
I know it does you poor souls...
And we will burn your cottages if you buy them in Wales "Even if my late grandad was Welsh | |||
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
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Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing "Putting it that way I now like it | |||
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Really? Does that work lol"Are you telling me after all this time, you've, you've been lying.... | |||
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
For Example...
Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing
Putting it that way I now like it "I get it | |||
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
For Example...
Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing
Putting it that way I now like it
I get it "Thanks | |||
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
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Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing "Ouch | |||
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"I think people of FAB should remember its nice to feel important but its important to be nice x" Ooooh. I like that one. X | |||
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"Just be yourself
Really? Does that work lol
Are you telling me after all this time, you've, you've been lying.... " | |||
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"I can't imagine anyone reading this and thinking it applies to them though. Even if it does." But if just one person reads it and thinks twice before posting next time, then it's a success. Xx | |||
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
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Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing
Ouch "It's OK Chunky, he knows I'm only playing with him x | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times " This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums. | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums." Jeremy Corbyn? | |||
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
For Example...
Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing
Ouch
It's OK Chunky, he knows I'm only playing with him x"Yes I do... and these tears are through hay fever honest x | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums. Jeremy Corbyn?" As much as it would amuse me to see him on here he's just a tad outside my age range  . | |||
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"Be patient and don’t post when your pissed. Don’t bite when someone is trolling a thread or saying something designed to get a reaction (that way lies madness and a spell on the naughty step). Don’t be creepy, greedy or needy." | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums. Jeremy Corbyn? I thought as it was easter anyone with the JC initials would be apt As much as it would amuse me to see him on here he's just a tad outside my age range . " | |||
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"Also dont monopolise every thread, dont feel the need to be vomit-enducingly saccharine towards the females." I'll try not to enduce vomit in future. | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums." So is politics an aye or a noe? I think this might be where I’ve been going wrong | |||
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"Also dont monopolise every thread, dont feel the need to be vomit-enducingly saccharine towards the females." VES! Like it! | |||
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums. So is politics an aye or a noe? I think this might be where I’ve been going wrong " I guess it's a polarizing thing. It's always going to attract some and put off others. | |||
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"Also dont monopolise every thread, dont feel the need to be vomit-enducingly saccharine towards the females. VES! Like it! " Agreed. I prefer it when they take the piss out of me . | |||
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"Also dont monopolise every thread, dont feel the need to be vomit-enducingly saccharine towards the females." Absolutely this | |||
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