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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A huge thank you and best wishes to all..why? Because on here I can be me..I ve had great laughs, great sexy fun as well as interesting deep conversations..you actually raise my liking of people when it stands very low. Yesterry I thought I d have some fun so I let out my mischievousness, all my so called close friends know I have many sides and mental health issues, including that of a child that wasn't a child when it should have been. One of my very vulnerable friends is in covid ward red and loves my child impish side so went on fb and loaded bugs bunny and played silly games and it was great..gf loved it as did my close and suffering friend..they laughed..THEN..I got slated by the rest..I joked that I was one step away from straight jacket..alas he pitched in and agreed..for no reason..I went from feeling like I could fit in to feeling isolated..highlighted and scorned as a crazy..I was told that I seemed to forget the world was in crisis..anywayes just wanna say a big thank you to you all out there and send hugs for just being you and though some do judge the large majority don't. .not a woe is me thread more a thank you because I believe many of you have a great and good impact on others that may have issues or feel they don't belong anywhere..have the best day you can people and stay safe..it will come right again..just a little patience required x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Aaaaand breathe OP, I bet you're glad that you've got that off your chest OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A huge thank you and best wishes to all..why? Because on here I can be me..I ve had great laughs, great sexy fun as well as interesting deep conversations..you actually raise my liking of people when it stands very low. Yesterry I thought I d have some fun so I let out my mischievousness, all my so called close friends know I have many sides and mental health issues, including that of a child that wasn't a child when it should have been. One of my very vulnerable friends is in covid ward red and loves my child impish side so went on fb and loaded bugs bunny and played silly games and it was great..gf loved it as did my close and suffering friend..they laughed..THEN..I got slated by the rest..I joked that I was one step away from straight jacket..alas he pitched in and agreed..for no reason..I went from feeling like I could fit in to feeling isolated..highlighted and scorned as a crazy..I was told that I seemed to forget the world was in crisis..anywayes just wanna say a big thank you to you all out there and send hugs for just being you and though some do judge the large majority don't. .not a woe is me thread more a thank you because I believe many of you have a great and good impact on others that may have issues or feel they don't belong anywhere..have the best day you can people and stay safe..it will come right again..just a little patience required x "
hey man you're a good person don't take any notice of the crap just be you and try and make the best of this situation, hope your friend recovers soon

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ignore them, hard and easy to say i know.

My FB feed is full of jokes and daft memes, doesn't mean I'm not aware of the seriousness out there.

Block, unfriend and move on

Xx

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

That was a cool read. Stay cool, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably didnt realise the impact that had on you? It's a bit like self depreciating and then being upset when someone joins in!

I think we do it as a defence mechanism- getting in there first, as it were- but then if someone joins in, we feel it validates our self criticism, when possibly, they were just trying to gently pull our leg, in order to feel connected to us?

It's hard isnt it!

That's just my take on it, from what you have said, and my own experience, but sending hugs anyway xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A huge thank you and best wishes to all..why? Because on here I can be me..I ve had great laughs, great sexy fun as well as interesting deep conversations..you actually raise my liking of people when it stands very low. Yesterry I thought I d have some fun so I let out my mischievousness, all my so called close friends know I have many sides and mental health issues, including that of a child that wasn't a child when it should have been. One of my very vulnerable friends is in covid ward red and loves my child impish side so went on fb and loaded bugs bunny and played silly games and it was great..gf loved it as did my close and suffering friend..they laughed..THEN..I got slated by the rest..I joked that I was one step away from straight jacket..alas he pitched in and agreed..for no reason..I went from feeling like I could fit in to feeling isolated..highlighted and scorned as a crazy..I was told that I seemed to forget the world was in crisis..anywayes just wanna say a big thank you to you all out there and send hugs for just being you and though some do judge the large majority don't. .not a woe is me thread more a thank you because I believe many of you have a great and good impact on others that may have issues or feel they don't belong anywhere..have the best day you can people and stay safe..it will come right again..just a little patience required x "

Love this post.

Please keep being you and no changing for anyone.

Thank you.

I am struggling today, trying to be patient and trying to stay positive. All we can do is keep moving forward

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Everyone is wound a little tight at the moment.

Stay frosty OP and keep dancing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah sorry about getting it off my chest..sadly he was being deadly serious but tis what it is..we used to say us baits laughed in the face of strife..alas we appear to have changed..thanks for your kind words..I ve gone back to being with gf only apart from you lovely people..x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A huge thank you and best wishes to all..why? Because on here I can be me..I ve had great laughs, great sexy fun as well as interesting deep conversations..you actually raise my liking of people when it stands very low. Yesterry I thought I d have some fun so I let out my mischievousness, all my so called close friends know I have many sides and mental health issues, including that of a child that wasn't a child when it should have been. One of my very vulnerable friends is in covid ward red and loves my child impish side so went on fb and loaded bugs bunny and played silly games and it was great..gf loved it as did my close and suffering friend..they laughed..THEN..I got slated by the rest..I joked that I was one step away from straight jacket..alas he pitched in and agreed..for no reason..I went from feeling like I could fit in to feeling isolated..highlighted and scorned as a crazy..I was told that I seemed to forget the world was in crisis..anywayes just wanna say a big thank you to you all out there and send hugs for just being you and though some do judge the large majority don't. .not a woe is me thread more a thank you because I believe many of you have a great and good impact on others that may have issues or feel they don't belong anywhere..have the best day you can people and stay safe..it will come right again..just a little patience required x

Love this post.

Please keep being you and no changing for anyone.

Thank you.

I am struggling today, trying to be patient and trying to stay positive. All we can do is keep moving forward "

The only way I will change is toward thone that embrace every society rule and expectation..still looking for my tribe of outside the box types but they seem elusive..I guess as I am to them. Plus I change enough as it is being borderline personality issues

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is wound a little tight at the moment.

Stay frosty OP and keep dancing. "

Dancing and music..my heart and my soul..I would not be alive now if not for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread OP, cliché I know, but forget what the haters say, and be yourself (which ever side of you you feel like being on that day)

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Stress and anxiety change people and people do say hurtful things, maybe when this is all over you two can have hugs and a good cry together, I know of a lot of friendships that will need reconnecting, but that's what good friends are for x

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