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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort?

Indulge me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m rubbish

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Not good at initiating but great at responding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't in person, I'm terrible at it

How I'm not a virgin I'll never know

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Think I’m crap at it ..

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I’m rubbish "

Liar, liar. Knickers on fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm that good at it but I don't know, I'm not on the receiving end.

I've almost how forgotten and that's quite sad. I must flirt more with B, we don't do anywhere near enough and that's even sadder

P

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Lousy and oblivious. Winning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Love it and love a good innuendo too

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably better at vocal teasing than flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'm that good at it but I don't know, I'm not on the receiving end.

I've almost how forgotten and that's quite sad. I must flirt more with B, we don't do anywhere near enough and that's even sadder

P"

Slight change of subject, but do you bother buying full size blankets? or are you ok with just getting inside a pillow case?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Useless and dont even notice when someones flirting with me, I just think they're been nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cue everyone telling you how crap they are

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting. "

Come teach please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m hopeless at it. I think for some it comes across as endearing though which is handy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m hopeless at it. I think for some it comes across as endearing though which is handy "

I bet you're endearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m rubbish

Liar, liar. Knickers on fire "

I’m not wearing any

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I can't in person, I'm terrible at it

How I'm not a virgin I'll never know"

No such thing as a virgin prince i've heard

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Some people say I’m a huge flirt.

I just call it making polite conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting.

Come teach please "

It isn't something you can teach. If you haven't got "it" you'll be crap at flirting

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

N - I think I'm pretty decent at flirting.

S - absolutely shite at it

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I’m rubbish

Liar, liar. Knickers on fire

I’m not wearing any "

Fanny on fire then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't know where to begin flirting with someone. Coming the other way, either a) I'm completely oblivious to it, or b) no one ever flirts with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are "

I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'm that good at it but I don't know, I'm not on the receiving end.

I've almost how forgotten and that's quite sad. I must flirt more with B, we don't do anywhere near enough and that's even sadder

P

Slight change of subject, but do you bother buying full size blankets? or are you ok with just getting inside a pillow case?"

Pillow cases are just the ticket

P

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I'm a natural flirt, and I do love a good flirt, and without wanting to sound big headed, I am fairly successful with flirting.

Mr, however on the other hand couldn't flirt if his life depended on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im absolutely rubbish at flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are

I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art"

Don’t you just do this.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are

I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art

Don’t you just do this....... "

Are you flirting with me

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting.

Come teach please

It isn't something you can teach. If you haven't got "it" you'll be crap at flirting "

Agreed. Flirting I think is a bit like business sense. It's something you don't necessarily learn. You either have a knack for it or don't.

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm absolutely shit with a stranger. Where as someone I know and get on with them I come out my shell and am decent I think.

Basically if I went to a nightclub I'd rarely pull. But females I am friends with or work with etc I do quite well lol.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m a natural flirt, love it and I’m good at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are

I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art"

Nah can still flirt via text... it's just different. I think many on here really struggle with the different ways of communicating.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I'm a natural flirt, and I do love a good flirt, and without wanting to sound big headed, I am fairly successful with flirting.

Mr, however on the other hand couldn't flirt if his life depended on it."

All evened out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m crap!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are

I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art

Don’t you just do this....... "

That would work with those that don't get it. So yeah. Carry on

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on "

Nailed it pen pal!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on "

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really bad in it

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I’m a natural flirt, love it and I’m good at it.

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Own it girl.

Jo.Xx

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting.

Come teach please

It isn't something you can teach. If you haven't got "it" you'll be crap at flirting "

Are u flirting with, now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love banter and inuendo.... When i really like someone i get intense

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are

I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art

Nah can still flirt via text... it's just different. I think many on here really struggle with the different ways of communicating. "

Again, I agree

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I’m a natural flirt, love it and I’m good at it.

Own it girl.

Jo.Xx "

love you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops "

Ooops. Silly me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not very good in an open forum or with strangers. But with someone I know well I can be very good at it x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm a natural flirt I get told. I do it without even realising x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting.

Come teach please

It isn't something you can teach. If you haven't got "it" you'll be crap at flirting

Are u flirting with, now "

What do you think?

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I love banter and inuendo.... When i really like someone i get intense "

The innuendo is particularly satisfying when both people "get it"

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I can pass truthful compliments with ease, but I'd rather concentrate on nsa courtship of a friend/relationship then partake in meaningless flirting with lots on here

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m at an acceptable standard. Call me in an emergency if you’re stuck and a bit desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can pass truthful compliments with ease, but I'd rather concentrate on nsa courtship of a friend/relationship then partake in meaningless flirting with lots on here"

Lol that wasn't the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a natural flirt, not always a good thing though, has been known to get me in to trouble a few times.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

matlock

Shit at online flirting. Told I'm a natural flirt in person

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By *imbo2007Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Don't think I am good at flirting,try hard but just doesn't comè naturally

Always will to learn anyone any tips?

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Completely hopeless at flirting or even knowing if a guy is flirting with me

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't flirt with everyone so if I do it then it's because I am attracted to them in some way. Don't know if I am any good at it though x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops "

Did you accidentally type that without realising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are

I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art

Don’t you just do this.......

Are you flirting with me "

I’m always trying too, first time you noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops

Did you accidentally type that without realising "

I think some people log in without realising!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I love banter and inuendo.... When i really like someone i get intense "

Agree, it can get very intense with the right person

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops

Did you accidentally type that without realising "

Silly me

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I'm a natural flirt, not always a good thing though, has been known to get me in to trouble a few times. "

Depends on the situation, context and vibe. Knowing when not to flirt is nearly as important as knowing who to do so.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops

Did you accidentally type that without realising

I think some people log in without realising! "

that made me laugh more than it should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Aww he's learnt to flirt forum style

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I can flirt with someone I know a little but with a stranger hopeless, it all depends on the person and situation as well

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"

Aww he's learnt to flirt forum style"

Emojis are a lifesaver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are

I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art

Nah can still flirt via text... it's just different. I think many on here really struggle with the different ways of communicating. "

Yes you can on text, I mean flirting in person has become a bit of a lost art.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm naturally quite flirty but I'm not usually aware of it. If I intentionally try to do it I just ebd up insulting them or being really weirdly awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops

Did you accidentally type that without realising

I think some people log in without realising!

that made me laugh more than it should "

I'm here till lockdown is lifted. Then I have a life

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort?

Indulge me please "

With the right person yes it just flows.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops

Did you accidentally type that without realising

I think some people log in without realising!

that made me laugh more than it should

I'm here till lockdown is lifted. Then I have a life"

Not sure if reading back through the chain, that there's a bit of a dig there?

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort?

Indulge me please

With the right person yes it just flows. "

Bit of a rush isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops

Did you accidentally type that without realising

I think some people log in without realising!

that made me laugh more than it should

I'm here till lockdown is lifted. Then I have a life

Not sure if reading back through the chain, that there's a bit of a dig there? "

Have I offended you? I don't know you so it was unintentional. I'm here for comedic value nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it! I think it's one of life's joys, when you meet someone and know where it will end up, but there is so much pleasure to be had on the journey!

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort?

Indulge me please

With the right person yes it just flows.

Bit of a rush isn't it? "

It most certainly is, can’t get enough

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops

Did you accidentally type that without realising

I think some people log in without realising!

that made me laugh more than it should

I'm here till lockdown is lifted. Then I have a life

Not sure if reading back through the chain, that there's a bit of a dig there?

Have I offended you? I don't know you so it was unintentional. I'm here for comedic value nothing else. "

No, no, it takes a hell of a lot to offend. Just wondered and may indeed have read it wrongly, for which I apologise.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it.

Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on

Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops

Did you accidentally type that without realising

I think some people log in without realising!

that made me laugh more than it should

I'm here till lockdown is lifted. Then I have a life

Not sure if reading back through the chain, that there's a bit of a dig there? "

No dig at all

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort?

Indulge me please

With the right person yes it just flows.

Bit of a rush isn't it?

It most certainly is, can’t get enough "

What a coincidence, neither can I!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting.

Come teach please

It isn't something you can teach. If you haven't got "it" you'll be crap at flirting

Are u flirting with, now

What do you think?"

Who u minx, u are, aren’t u

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

I can hold my own in the right circumstances.

I enjoy cheeky flirting rather a lot

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort?

Indulge me please

With the right person yes it just flows.

Bit of a rush isn't it?

It most certainly is, can’t get enough

What a coincidence, neither can I! "

A good thing to have in common that’s for sure.

anymore boxes ticked then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes very natural to me, and I love it, but only when I really fancy somebody and we're in person.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort?

Indulge me please

With the right person yes it just flows.

Bit of a rush isn't it?

It most certainly is, can’t get enough

What a coincidence, neither can I!

A good thing to have in common that’s for sure.

anymore boxes ticked then lol "

Get out the checklist

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort?

Indulge me please

With the right person yes it just flows.

Bit of a rush isn't it?

It most certainly is, can’t get enough

What a coincidence, neither can I!

A good thing to have in common that’s for sure.

anymore boxes ticked then lol

Get out the checklist "

Yours or mine

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort?

Indulge me please

With the right person yes it just flows.

Bit of a rush isn't it?

It most certainly is, can’t get enough

What a coincidence, neither can I!

A good thing to have in common that’s for sure.

anymore boxes ticked then lol

Get out the checklist

Yours or mine "

On the count of 3?

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Switching gears slightly. Does it add an extra zest and spice to your interactions with the people who interest you? In effect, turbocharging the chemistry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

that's all I know how to do

If only emojis are in real life I'd have more success where I'm oblivious ha

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. "

You flirty tart, you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t flirt to save my life

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m completely shite at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

You flirty tart, you "

My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I’m completely shite at it "

Not from what i've observed

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I’m completely shite at it

Not from what i've observed "

Are you watching me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a terrible flirt and good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'm gooooood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely useless at it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I don't know if I agree with this idea that you can flirt or you can't. I think most people, whether it's a brash, in your face flirting style or a geeky, introverted style (they are just two examples of flirting styles) are able to flirt. What actually counts is the person that you're flirting with being on the same wavelength. Like if you're an outsider looking in some flirting can be a bit or . An example - woof woof to me is not sexy or flirty in the slightest but hey, it just means I'm not compatible.

I think flirting can also be rather, well dull. I mean sure, it's fun and nice and can be sexy if done well. But the thing that adds an extra turbocharge to a dynamic for me is openness and mental stimulation, not silky smooth lines delivered in a well practised tone.

(I'm not making deliberate reference to anyone, sorry if you're the sexy woofer person but that was the first example I could think of )

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I could flirt with a paper bag.

This has the unfortunate side effect of everyone thinking I've got the hots for them.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

You flirty tart, you

My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!"

Aww...luves you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

You flirty tart, you

My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!

Aww...luves you "

x

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I’m a terrible flirt and good at it "

We've crossed flirtational swords before. You're a skilled dueler

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

You flirty tart, you

My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!"

Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a terrible flirt and good at it

We've crossed flirtational swords before. You're a skilled dueler "

High praise indeed from a master

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I’m a natural flirt, love it and I’m good at it.

Own it girl.

Jo.Xx

love you xx"

Love you beautiful

Jo.Xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't know if I agree with this idea that you can flirt or you can't. I think most people, whether it's a brash, in your face flirting style or a geeky, introverted style (they are just two examples of flirting styles) are able to flirt. What actually counts is the person that you're flirting with being on the same wavelength. Like if you're an outsider looking in some flirting can be a bit or . An example - woof woof to me is not sexy or flirty in the slightest but hey, it just means I'm not compatible.

I think flirting can also be rather, well dull. I mean sure, it's fun and nice and can be sexy if done well. But the thing that adds an extra turbocharge to a dynamic for me is openness and mental stimulation, not silky smooth lines delivered in a well practised tone.

(I'm not making deliberate reference to anyone, sorry if you're the sexy woofer person but that was the first example I could think of )"

I like this.

I think this is right. I get a build up of rapport and excitement through conversation. I don't always clock that the other person is interested, but I certainly can get excited myself by a building "vibe" or dynamic. And for me it's very rarely traditional flirting. It's a passionate engaging conversation plus something I can't quantify/ describe in body language and facial expression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

You flirty tart, you

My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!

Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people "

Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them!

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I could flirt with a paper bag.

This has the unfortunate side effect of everyone thinking I've got the hots for them.

"

That would be a sight to see!

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

You flirty tart, you

My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!

Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people

Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them! "

Sorry

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

You flirty tart, you

My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!

Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people

Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them! "

Shit, is that why you like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

You flirty tart, you

My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!

Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people

Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them!

Sorry "

. I meant more in real life but I’ve encountered a few here as well

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I’m a terrible flirt and good at it

We've crossed flirtational swords before. You're a skilled dueler

High praise indeed from a master "

Well met, Padawan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

You flirty tart, you

My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!

Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people

Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them!

Shit, is that why you like me"

Hahaha. That didn’t come out as I meant it to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love flirting but the trouble is Ive also got a very dry sense of humour so sometimes I'll say something and it goes down like a lead balloon...

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

I'm a fabulous flirt I must say - comes very naturally to me

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty.

You flirty tart, you

My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!

Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people

Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them! "

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I'm naturally warm .. it gets mistaken for flirty.

My actual flirting is so over the top I have to have a word with myself. But sometimes I go the other way if I'm very attracted to someone and can go all neutral or shy.

But in short .. I'm naturally warm, friendly, flirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m completely shite at it "

That's a big fat lie

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've been known to use the odd flirtatious comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only I knew how to flirt...

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

I have my moments, usually involving some form of light humour and smiles, sparkly eyes etc.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Very good in person. messages, txs. Shite haha

Dunno why

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I'm a fabulous flirt I must say - comes very naturally to me "

Handy isn't it?

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I love it ..in the vanilla world..love a cheeky comment and a nice smile .I would flirt with a lamp post ...in fact with this lock down ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm ok

But in reality I'm probably crap

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I’m completely shite at it

That's a big fat lie "

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'm wank at flirting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m alright, in person I’m a little nervous at very start then i suddenly become confident and turn cheeky flirt there is love naughty banter aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm wank at flirting....

"

I'm flirt at wanking Sophie

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I'm wank at flirting....

I'm flirt at wanking Sophie "

Hahahaaa want to swap techniques?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I'm d*unk, there are no lines for me

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy. "

I'll get me coat

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Does anyone feel there's a link between how well you flirt and how naturally outgoing or reserved you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone feel there's a link between how well you flirt and how naturally outgoing or reserved you are?"

Yes

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I'm naturally warm .. it gets mistaken for flirty.

My actual flirting is so over the top I have to have a word with myself. But sometimes I go the other way if I'm very attracted to someone and can go all neutral or shy.

But in short .. I'm naturally warm, friendly, flirty "

This is me too.

Jo.Xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm wank at flirting....

I'm flirt at wanking Sophie

Hahahaaa want to swap techniques? "

If we got ourselves all mixed up, we'd come out on top. Or possibly on the bottom. Who knows

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Im not hot , black, straight or even a guy but its your arse that makes you good at fliting, surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirted more often and more outrageously when I was more extroverted than I do now.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Does anyone feel there's a link between how well you flirt and how naturally outgoing or reserved you are?

Yes "

Another yes vote here, we both agree.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Does anyone feel there's a link between how well you flirt and how naturally outgoing or reserved you are?"

Yes I do. I'm flirty and quite a 'go getter'. I have confidence to walk up to a stranger eg in a club and make conversation and flirt.

Mr on the other hand stands back and would never make a first move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on the first. Usually pretty bad but some people bring out the best in me...or my worst

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Im not hot , black, straight or even a guy but its your arse that makes you good at fliting, surely"

Depends if you're talking out of it. Lol

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I like flirting but think I’m shite at it. But still enjoy it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a good flitter , I’m good at reading body language, eye contact and just a spark you know when you meet Someone. You just know that sexual attraction. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy. "

That's true, too.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I’m a good flitter , I’m good at reading body language, eye contact and just a spark you know when you meet Someone. You just know that sexual attraction. X"

Completely agree

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I flirted more often and more outrageously when I was more extroverted than I do now."

Clearly a link then.

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy.

That's true, too."

Do you think it’s easier for women to flirt than a guy to not come across smarmy? Think women’s flirting it much more subtle

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Whenever I'm d*unk, there are no lines for me "

What’s your poison

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m top notch when d*unk.

An embarrassment when sober

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Def useless lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy.

That's true, too.

Do you think it’s easier for women to flirt than a guy to not come across smarmy? Think women’s flirting it much more subtle "

Oh no, women can be bad too. But not smarmy like men can be. It's different.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m top notch when d*unk.

An embarrassment when sober"

That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It all depends on the chemistry

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort?

Indulge me please "

Depends on who you are flirting with it kinda like a comedy if you don't get the right reply or response, even the best lines or actions ain't going to work.

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

I wouldnt know how to flirt lol i just be myself all time

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy.

That's true, too.

Do you think it’s easier for women to flirt than a guy to not come across smarmy? Think women’s flirting it much more subtle

Oh no, women can be bad too. But not smarmy like men can be. It's different."

Oh I agree women can be bad but if a blokes bad it more often than not comes across smarmy. But like you say it’s different for woman.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I flirted more often and more outrageously when I was more extroverted than I do now.

Clearly a link then."

I think there is. When I was more extroverted I did it unconsciously at times. Whereas now I pick and choose my moments.my flirting is less overt now and more subtle and often involves wordplay and skewing a conversation that is otherwise innocent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it but have to control my natural ability for sarcasm

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here


"I’m top notch when d*unk.

An embarrassment when sober

That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that. "

Mines a gin or ameretto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I flirted more often and more outrageously when I was more extroverted than I do now.

Clearly a link then.

I think there is. When I was more extroverted I did it unconsciously at times. Whereas now I pick and choose my moments.my flirting is less overt now and more subtle and often involves wordplay and skewing a conversation that is otherwise innocent."

I get where your coming from. I really do

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m top notch when d*unk.

An embarrassment when sober

That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.

Mines a gin or ameretto!"

You're on. (after this lockdown)

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here


"I’m top notch when d*unk.

An embarrassment when sober

That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.

Mines a gin or ameretto!

You're on. (after this lockdown) "

Haha, deal!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m top notch when d*unk.

An embarrassment when sober

That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.

Mines a gin or ameretto!

You're on. (after this lockdown)

Haha, deal! "

Now, Where's that virus remedy??

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here


"I’m top notch when d*unk.

An embarrassment when sober

That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.

Mines a gin or ameretto!

You're on. (after this lockdown)

Haha, deal!

Now, Where's that virus remedy?? "

If you can create that you’d be rich enough not need plain Jane me flirting with you

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m top notch when d*unk.

An embarrassment when sober

That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.

Mines a gin or ameretto!

You're on. (after this lockdown)

Haha, deal!

Now, Where's that virus remedy??

If you can create that you’d be rich enough not need plain Jane me flirting with you "

Money wouldn't change me and there's nothing plain about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m top notch when d*unk.

An embarrassment when sober

That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.

Mines a gin or ameretto!"

Gin is great. I like Plymouth. Nothin beats a Martini or a gin fizz

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy.

That's true, too.

Do you think it’s easier for women to flirt than a guy to not come across smarmy? Think women’s flirting it much more subtle

Oh no, women can be bad too. But not smarmy like men can be. It's different.

Oh I agree women can be bad but if a blokes bad it more often than not comes across smarmy. But like you say it’s different for woman. "

I think the unfortunate varieties of flirting, those who have really grown into looks or confidence tend to avoid it, because in our formative years we were given way less slack for our fuckups.

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over a year ago


"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy.

That's true, too.

Do you think it’s easier for women to flirt than a guy to not come across smarmy? Think women’s flirting it much more subtle

Oh no, women can be bad too. But not smarmy like men can be. It's different.

Oh I agree women can be bad but if a blokes bad it more often than not comes across smarmy. But like you say it’s different for woman.

I think the unfortunate varieties of flirting, those who have really grown into looks or confidence tend to avoid it, because in our formative years we were given way less slack for our fuckups."

I just think some men are s*t at foreplay. I really do honestly think some men just flirt with anyone. And they absolutely love the attention. They are married or attached and really enjoy the attention they get on here. That’s ok as there’s probably women who do it. ! Cool.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I just assume I'm not being flirted with until I'm literally told otherwise. Even if I'd jump the person

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m quite adept at flirting and Im well aware I’m doing it. Likewise, I’m pretty good at reading the response. If I’m flirting with someone who ‘gets it’ as _hillout put it, I have a tendency to hit the “bring it on” button it. Yes! I’ll let them know it’s working and I have my foot on the peddle ready

You can feel the chemistry if it’s a reciprocal match but not all are. As I was discussing earlier too - I’m not particularly fond of or adept at sexting but if it’s with someone who uses the right language without turning it into a crude / vulgar conversation it can be .... erm .... hornilicious

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Great thread everyone.

Flirting certificates for all

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