FabSwingers.com forum: What have you learnt about yourself?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what are you learning about yourself at this strange time?

I've learnt that my release in life is either going out with friends or going naughty places with Jimmy. I crave fun and excitement. Also my pubes are going grey ha ha!

Jenny xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I hate being locked up indoors and like the outside more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I hate being locked up indoors and like the outside more "

Do you have a garden? Even then I know it's not the same. I think not having the freedom to do what we want, when we want, is hard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its more that it has reinforced that I'm a loner at heart and oddly out of place in society and that I understand the ways of nature far more than I ll understand society. If not with my girl then I'm happy alone with nature's sounds in wild places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been pretty much in social isolation since January anyway, as my disabled daughters care providers pulled, but I’ve realised that I need to see people more than I thought I did. Just being able to have an adult conversation face to face is something I totally took for granted x

Inked and I don’t live in the same town, and he has been away for long periods in the past, but knowing he’s in this country and I can’t see him, is harder than him being abroad for months. It’s a strange time indeed x Viv x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nothing yet but we're only a fraction of the way through so there's plenty of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that enjoying time alone is only a thing when it's a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that I don't need to feel like I should be doing something all the time. It's OK to sit still and not feel guilty about it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing too much. Maybe the fact that I need to slow my life down a bit and not work as much.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Don't train as hard when no meets planned

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Haven't really learned anything. The situation just confirmed that I have a robust mental state as i've not suffered wobbles of any kind, nor any shred of anxiety.

My sympathies to those who aren't able to cope as well and lack this capacity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That dating isn't fun when you can't go on a date, it shows the other persons true colours and makes you realise your own worth when looking for something serious.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

That my alone time and freedom to roam is very important for my mental health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learned that enjoying time alone is only a thing when it's a choice. "

Pretty much this tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m happy being at home

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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff

"I've learned that enjoying time alone is only a thing when it's a choice. "

completely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ive learn that i enjoy my company and so fat didnt got bored not even watched porn ..spend my time drawing and playing xbox and on forums here..of course i miss a few mates to come over dinner chat drink and you know the rest but to be fair its going better than i tought of..being stuck indoors its the only way to ne safe or try...

Be safe everyone and a big round of aplauses for our NHS and all the workers outside making sure everyone gets what they need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't really learned anything. The situation just confirmed that I have a robust mental state as i've not suffered wobbles of any kind, nor any shred of anxiety.

My sympathies to those who aren't able to cope as well and lack this capacity."

Yes I luckily feel the same way.

I'm OK with my own company and know it isn't forever.

I have felt a little bored on occasion but it soon passes.

I think the only thing that has been confirmed is I don't need people.

I can't wait for a night out and the shops to be open again though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't really learned anything. The situation just confirmed that I have a robust mental state as i've not suffered wobbles of any kind, nor any shred of anxiety.

My sympathies to those who aren't able to cope as well and lack this capacity.

Yes I luckily feel the same way.

I'm OK with my own company and know it isn't forever.

I have felt a little bored on occasion but it soon passes.

I think the only thing that has been confirmed is I don't need people.

I can't wait for a night out and the shops to be open again though

I can’t actually wait for some time on my own!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t actually wait for some time on my own!!

This isn't going to last forever - you'll soon be spending quality alone time and in the arms of a hot man

It will feel so much better after so long x

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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago

ashford

I've learnt that I have more ups and downs than I realised. I think going to work, having time alone masked it Having to be home and hide the low moments and try to create motivation for activities has shown it has a bit more effect than I realised.

It's also highlighted i still can't get a body tan even if I'm in the garden all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t actually wait for some time on my own!!

This isn't going to last forever - you'll soon be spending quality alone time and in the arms of a hot man

It will feel so much better after so long x"

Yeah. I’m not complaining. Been nice spending so much time at home with the kids. I miss my me time though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm never cleaning the oven.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's cemented my values. It's also shown how well I've recovered from my psychological issues, that I've been able to move from non functional to basically back to normal in a week.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There's also a lot going around about "see, not everyone has a novel in them!"

I think I have a novel in me

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

I’m amazing company on my own

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I've not learnt but, confirmed that I think about others before myself and I'm still the top of the list when someone wants something.

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