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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Am I wrong for being a bit cagey and cautious on here?

I reckon I’ve had a couple of catfishings, pretend women/couples especially.

But is it normal to get blocked for taking too long to respond to a message?

I’m not mad keen on sharing face pics after I got called “baby face” by one of the stunning ladies on here, so I maybe bide my time on that until I think I’ve got a half decent one

Not that there’s owt wrong with my face!

Just my boyish good looks, honest

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd say that caution on any social media is a good thing

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

...I'd bloody take a 'baby face' comment

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By *inker999Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Am I wrong for being a bit cagey and cautious on here?

I reckon I’ve had a couple of catfishings, pretend women/couples especially.

But is it normal to get blocked for taking too long to respond to a message?

I don't accept friend requests or share face pics straight away. I don't see anything wrong with being cautious these days. As long as you remain polite people shouldn't get the hump over it. But that's just my opinion

I’m not mad keen on sharing face pics after I got called “baby face” by one of the stunning ladies on here, so I maybe bide my time on that until I think I’ve got a half decent one

Not that there’s owt wrong with my face!

Just my boyish good looks, honest "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong for being a bit cagey and cautious on here?

I reckon I’ve had a couple of catfishings, pretend women/couples especially.

But is it normal to get blocked for taking too long to respond to a message?

I’m not mad keen on sharing face pics after I got called “baby face” by one of the stunning ladies on here, so I maybe bide my time on that until I think I’ve got a half decent one

Not that there’s owt wrong with my face!

Just my boyish good looks, honest "

Were always cautious on fab. Too many fake profiles ect on here.

Id say their loss

Nikki x

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I'd say that caution on any social media is a good thing "

good advice!

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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Yeah, I thought so too. Set some alarm bells ringing.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes, go with your gut feeling always

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it wrong I now want to see this ‘baby face’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong for being a bit cagey and cautious on here?

I reckon I’ve had a couple of catfishings, pretend women/couples especially.

But is it normal to get blocked for taking too long to respond to a message?

I’m not mad keen on sharing face pics after I got called “baby face” by one of the stunning ladies on here, so I maybe bide my time on that until I think I’ve got a half decent one

Not that there’s owt wrong with my face!

Just my boyish good looks, honest "
you can't appeal to everyone but most won't converse unless they are happy with your face so I'd get onto taking one you're happy with sooner rather than later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong I now want to see this ‘baby face’? "

Me too!

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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Hmmm not just now, I’ve not done my hair today and I’m rocking a hoodie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very cautious especially as alot of the messages i receive are fuck now ones lol but i like to chat to get to know the person first before jumping into bed with them. Been catfished on here twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm not just now, I’ve not done my hair today and I’m rocking a hoodie "

That’s even more endearing lol

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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Stop it, I’m getting all frisky from the atttention

New profile pic shows all you’re getting for now. This wasn’t intended as attention seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop it, I’m getting all frisky from the atttention

New profile pic shows all you’re getting for now. This wasn’t intended as attention seeking "

That’s just teasing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caution is always good and needed on here too

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I'd say that caution on any social media is a good thing "

Wise words as always.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Totally agree with caution .. the min I’ve sent a face pic, blocked.. try get into conversation, blocked .. or ghosted ... very few contact me, try to join in, ignored.. now I’m either a boring ugly fucker or ppl are just ignorant .. so that then breeds caution to the max ... like a vicious circle but I’m happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do have a baby face and it wasn’t meant in a bad way at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being cautious is definitely the best attitude on fab. I'm the same with face pics, if the men can't understand that I need to get to know them before sending one, then they can move on.

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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

local, but not too local


"You do have a baby face and it wasn’t meant in a bad way at all "

Haha I know, and you didn’t block me!

But I’ve had dms from some others I’m less sure about.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Hmmm not just now, I’ve not done my hair today and I’m rocking a hoodie "

Your winning here my friend. You got game.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"I'd say that caution on any social media is a good thing

Wise words as always. "

Hello stingly my ole mucker how are you?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It pays to be cautious on here and anywhere on the internet. You kind of develop a sixth sense after a while.

If someone messages me offering free tea and as much cake as I can eat - it’s probably a scam

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

It’s good to be cautious. Go with your gut instinct. If someone seems to good to be true, they’re probably fake.

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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

local, but not too local


"It’s good to be cautious. Go with your gut instinct. If someone seems to good to be true, they’re probably fake. "

This is my take on things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd say that caution on any social media is a good thing

Wise words as always. "

It's the "pashmina effect"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It pays to be cautious on here and anywhere on the internet. You kind of develop a sixth sense after a while.

If someone messages me offering free tea and as much cake as I can eat - it’s probably a scam "

Damn! Is it? I'm booked in for an all you can eat tea and cake fest after lockdown finishes, I've paid my £150 deposit redeemable against cake and everything

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We sent face pictures to a man once and he immediately deleted his profile. We're mingers of the first order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We sent face pictures to a man once and he immediately deleted his profile. We're mingers of the first order "
lol awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh nice .... make sure you mention she’s stunning smooth

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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

local, but not too local


"We sent face pictures to a man once and he immediately deleted his profile. We're mingers of the first order "

Hmmm it’s well dodgy isn’t it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We sent face pictures to a man once and he immediately deleted his profile. We're mingers of the first order lol awwww"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh here there are tons of fakes be warned x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We sent face pictures to a man once and he immediately deleted his profile. We're mingers of the first order

Hmmm it’s well dodgy isn’t it?"

We just thought he either knew us and we knew his wife or we are so awful that he deleted his profile and joined the priesthood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes always be careful on here they might be verified but can still be bad ones. I am talking from experience as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong for being a bit cagey and cautious on here?

I reckon I’ve had a couple of catfishings, pretend women/couples especially.

But is it normal to get blocked for taking too long to respond to a message?

I’m not mad keen on sharing face pics after I got called “baby face” by one of the stunning ladies on here, so I maybe bide my time on that until I think I’ve got a half decent one

Not that there’s owt wrong with my face!

Just my boyish good looks, honest "

Fellow baby-face here, stay strong! a blessing and a curse at times

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I don't send face pics anymore, I haven't done that for years, Not really interested in sending random messages to people either, OP I'd send a pic when you want to not when they ask

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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

local, but not too local


"I don't send face pics anymore, I haven't done that for years, Not really interested in sending random messages to people either, OP I'd send a pic when you want to not when they ask "

Yeah that’s how I’m playing it but it seems to be instablock territory.

Oh well, I suppose beating them all off with a shitty stick was getting dull anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unsolicited friend requests.

What you do is wait till the fucker goes offline.

Accept request. Check pics.

Unfriend.

Fuck em

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By *otsossie OP   Man
over a year ago

local, but not too local


"We just thought he either knew us and we knew his wife ..."

That sounds plausible!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"It pays to be cautious on here and anywhere on the internet. You kind of develop a sixth sense after a while.

If someone messages me offering free tea and as much cake as I can eat - it’s probably a scam

Damn! Is it? I'm booked in for an all you can eat tea and cake fest after lockdown finishes, I've paid my £150 deposit redeemable against cake and everything "

That sounds like my kind of scam

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"I don't send face pics anymore, I haven't done that for years, Not really interested in sending random messages to people either, OP I'd send a pic when you want to not when they ask

Yeah that’s how I’m playing it but it seems to be instablock territory.

Oh well, I suppose beating them all off with a shitty stick was getting dull anyway. "

At 45 its better to look 10 years younger then 10 years older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensible to be cautious.

The first social I went on was someone that had used fake pics. It was awful and made me delete my previous profile.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Always be cautious. It’s just a sensible way to be

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I'd say that caution on any social media is a good thing

Wise words as always.

It's the "pashmina effect" "

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I'd say that caution on any social media is a good thing

Wise words as always.

Hello stingly my ole mucker how are you?"

All good thanks buddy.

Getting a few projects sorted out, in between waiting on the cats hand and foot.

All good with you I hope?

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