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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When someone asks you a question you don't want answer and you ask the asker their questions, they don't typically do so with good grace, or even treat it as you being hostile?

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

Is this an IQ test? If so, I've just failed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Say someone asks you what you like in bed, what your story is or "tell me more about yourself".

You respond by telling them that question is too personal or too vague and that they should answer that question themselves.

They don't, and are instead weirded out or treat it as you being difficult or hostile.

Why does this happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say someone asks you what you like in bed, what your story is or "tell me more about yourself".

You respond by telling them that question is too personal or too vague and that they should answer that question themselves.

They don't, and are instead weirded out or treat it as you being difficult or hostile.

Why does this happen?"

People are nosey

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"Say someone asks you what you like in bed, what your story is or "tell me more about yourself".

You respond by telling them that question is too personal or too vague and that they should answer that question themselves.

They don't, and are instead weirded out or treat it as you being difficult or hostile.

Why does this happen?"

This tends to happen with those who are of the CGA (Common Garden Arsehole) genus. Behavioural traits like you've described are inherent in CGAs and antisocial and unacceptable behaviour is to be expected. CGAs are best avoided.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Say someone asks you what you like in bed, what your story is or "tell me more about yourself".

You respond by telling them that question is too personal or too vague and that they should answer that question themselves.

They don't, and are instead weirded out or treat it as you being difficult or hostile.

Why does this happen?

This tends to happen with those who are of the CGA (Common Garden Arsehole) genus. Behavioural traits like you've described are inherent in CGAs and antisocial and unacceptable behaviour is to be expected. CGAs are best avoided."

*swoons*

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Say someone asks you what you like in bed, what your story is or "tell me more about yourself".

You respond by telling them that question is too personal or too vague and that they should answer that question themselves.

They don't, and are instead weirded out or treat it as you being difficult or hostile.

Why does this happen?"

a) they want wank material

and/or b) if you tell them, they can pretend to like exactly the same thing, so you're meant to bang and absolutely must meet. It's fate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say someone asks you what you like in bed, what your story is or "tell me more about yourself".

You respond by telling them that question is too personal or too vague and that they should answer that question themselves.

They don't, and are instead weirded out or treat it as you being difficult or hostile.

Why does this happen?"

“Tell me about yourself” is one of my most disliked questions.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"Say someone asks you what you like in bed, what your story is or "tell me more about yourself".

You respond by telling them that question is too personal or too vague and that they should answer that question themselves.

They don't, and are instead weirded out or treat it as you being difficult or hostile.

Why does this happen?

a) they want wank material

and/or b) if you tell them, they can pretend to like exactly the same thing, so you're meant to bang and absolutely must meet. It's fate!"

Which is also behaviour common to CGAs and their close cousins, the Bonobos.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"When someone asks you a question you don't want answer and you ask the asker their questions, they don't typically do so with good grace, or even treat it as you being hostile?"

Lol I get this all the time... especially when I get asked “does ur hubby no u on here hun” I throw the question back at them “does your wife know you are?” hahahahaha and I get blocked, or given abuse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this an IQ test? If so, I've just failed. "

I laughed way to hard ()

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

A lot if people are just twats.

It’s taken me a long time to realise this.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"Is this an IQ test? If so, I've just failed.

I laughed way to hard ()"

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york


" "Is this an IQ test? If so, I've just failed. "

I laughed way to hard ()"

I laughed so much a bit of wee came out

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Say someone asks you what you like in bed, what your story is or "tell me more about yourself".

You respond by telling them that question is too personal or too vague and that they should answer that question themselves.

They don't, and are instead weirded out or treat it as you being difficult or hostile.

Why does this happen?

“Tell me about yourself” is one of my most disliked questions. "

I don't much like it either, but I usually impress myself with the absolute bollocks I come up with as an answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Say someone asks you what you like in bed, what your story is or "tell me more about yourself".

You respond by telling them that question is too personal or too vague and that they should answer that question themselves.

They don't, and are instead weirded out or treat it as you being difficult or hostile.

Why does this happen?

This tends to happen with those who are of the CGA (Common Garden Arsehole) genus. Behavioural traits like you've described are inherent in CGAs and antisocial and unacceptable behaviour is to be expected. CGAs are best avoided."

Who's the CGA in this scenario - the one doing the asking, the one telling the one asking to answer their questions, both or neither?

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