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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

..just watching DIY SOS and a man who's house is being re built started to cry as he was supposed to be the one to look after his family, never expected his family to look after him.

I started to cry because he was crying. Most times i see a man cry i too am reduced to tears..

Men do you cry? Ladies what do you think about men who cry?

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

i cry quite often, which i shouldnt admit to because im supposed to be this big, burly bikertype.

was my late nans birthday last week and i wrote a poem to her, on my mothers facebook.

had a tear in my eye remembering her so i could write it.

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

the bambi moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it makes you vulnerable, no problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no shame in it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it very hard to cry, never even done it when my dad died.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with a man having a little cry

Ive seen Rob cry and it makes me love him more as its not something that men will do in front of other people very often,they're meant to be men and show no emotions

I have only seen my Dad cry twice in my life and each time it broke my heart as its not something im used to

Brings tears to my eyes thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it when it happens...but it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's healthier than not I reckon. There's nothing at all wrong with being emotional

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

group hug for everyone in this thread.. feel the lurve xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't cried since my dog died in 2001

Before that it was 1999 when Dad died and 2000 when Mom died.

Our son is moving to Australia next month and you can guarantee I'll be blubbing at the airport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont like it when men cry, like the ones you see on deal or no deal, unless its my son or hubby that is. i can understand it if they cry watching a sad film though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cried a fair bit in my time. It's good to get it out and then start a fresh again.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

It's just guys showing they are human...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've cried a fair bit in my time. It's good to get it out and then start a fresh again. "

if you were to ever cry infront of me (unlikely) but id end up crying with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've cried a fair bit in my time. It's good to get it out and then start a fresh again.

if you were to ever cry infront of me (unlikely) but id end up crying with you "

Blubbering wrecks together lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've cried a fair bit in my time. It's good to get it out and then start a fresh again.

if you were to ever cry infront of me (unlikely) but id end up crying with you

Blubbering wrecks together lol."

just end up hugging and passing tissue's to each other. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just guys showing they are human..."

Or fairies.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"It's just guys showing they are human...

Or fairies."
seen many with wings have you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im all for a man who is comfortable with crying. Its a natural release of emotion and i know i feel good after a good sob.

think times have progressed and men are no longer seen as the tough guys who must be emotionally strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big boys don't cry. Big babies. Man up and suck it in.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Never, ever Cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 26 year old son who's built like the proverbial brick s**t house shed a few tears when he came with me on Sunday to the vet when I had to have my dog put to sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My 26 year old son who's built like the proverbial brick s**t house shed a few tears when he came with me on Sunday to the vet when I had to have my dog put to sleep"

Thats really sad, my son was upset too when we took our dog to be put down, thats understandable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing wrong with a cry when the time is right, ive found ive cried more since my Mum died.

I tried to be brave and not cry at her funeral, but couldnt hold them back, thats when the vicar said to me, "just remember God gave us tears so we can cry".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..just watching DIY SOS and a man who's house is being re built started to cry as he was supposed to be the one to look after his family, never expected his family to look after him.

I started to cry because he was crying. Most times i see a man cry i too am reduced to tears..

i dont mind a guy crying...however when they do im a lil bit unsure what to do...when a female cries i give them a hug...so am i meant to do this to a guy?? lol i always feel a bit awkward

Men do you cry? Ladies what do you think about men who cry? "

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"There's no shame in it..."

Agree...I cry a lot, normally at other peoples situations. I cry when a sad situation touches me. I dont think its a weakness, it doesn't bother me in the least, why should it? Actually its quite a nice feeling.

Does it make me an emotional wreck and unstable?, I dont think so, I am quite strong willed and one of my very few good points is that I can remain very calm in a crisis and I dont panic easy.

So I dont think crying is an indication of a persons mental capacity and a measure of how they could cope.

Seeing a bloke cry for me is a very emotional thing on its own...I dont like seeing men cry because it normally takes something very bad to make the average guy cry..which, for me, makes it all the worse.

That said, I do tend to bury my head in the sand when it comes to bad news stories, I simple wont look at them..I hate hearing of kids being killed, or families wiped out in accidents, maybe thats a cowards approach, but I see it as protecting my feelings.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

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I tried to be brave and not cry at her funeral

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Fella, being brave is aslo saying 'fuck it, im going to cry my eyes out and I dont care who see's me'...

Everyone understand tears of grief..

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

I'm a man I don't cry! It's just that sometimes my eyes sweat rather a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chris has tears on remembrance day. Real men do cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men like to see themselves as strong, I think it is hard for a woman to see a man cry as we want to comfort them xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Crieieieing over you - Roy Orbison.

Say'n'more

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

my hubby did'nt cry when he was young just got mad and sad ,went to marines then left, went into army, then left and ran the best door teams(bouncers a word he hates) over here but be fore he did that he learned to accept he felt pain and could cry the altenitive was to drink to forget and fight, now he is the most ballanced guy i know and not afraid to show his feelings rather than bottel till it turns to rage, he's my big teddy bear

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

I will admit that i shed a tear watching "Patriot" with mel gibson.. where the child runs up to her dad on the beach saying "please don't go daddy". it was very moving

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"..just watching DIY SOS and a man who's house is being re built started to cry as he was supposed to be the one to look after his family, never expected his family to look after him.

I started to cry because he was crying. Most times i see a man cry i too am reduced to tears..

Men do you cry? Ladies what do you think about men who cry? "
Men r human beings too.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I think it depends on the situation and the man.

My ex-husband cried twice in front of me: when we turned off the life support for our son and he held him as he breathed his last, and the day I left him. Both times broke my heart but I couldn't cry with him.

My dad cried at my mums funeral and I wanted to push him into the grave as he made her life a misery so his tears meant nothing to me.

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By *ich_shadiwMan
over a year ago

closeish

Had wet eyes last night watching 24hr A & E. when the little girl was talking to her dad who was in a coma after falling of scaffolding on his head. Those real life moments like that get me every time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry when I want to...

I cry when I need to...

I wont hold that sort of need in just because men arent supposed to cry... Its unhealthy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reading all the emotion in this thread has made me cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont cry my eyes just water

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

Watching Schindlers list made me cry in the flicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being the hardman or anything here but i find it hard to cry , even at funerals or stuff like that . I tend to get angry instead . Last time i remember crying was when one of my best mates died and thats because i looked at his kids and could see him sounds harsh but i was pised off he was dead . Anyway dont have anything against guys crying dont see the problem with it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I melt if a man crys.

But I dont like anyone crying.

A male cat owner and a cryer and I think you got me lol

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

I cried watching the film Up, I know it sounds silly but i know about half a dozen others who have done the same.

There is more love in that movie than any hollywood romance i can recall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just guys showing they are human...

Or fairies."

Takes the lead in the most enlightened post of the year competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not one for crying in general well not proper sobing, but since I became a dad I find anything to do with kids moves me to have a tear in my eye, like the post on this thread about turning her sons life support off made me well up a bit,

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"..just watching DIY SOS and a man who's house is being re built started to cry as he was supposed to be the one to look after his family, never expected his family to look after him.

I started to cry because he was crying. Most times i see a man cry i too am reduced to tears..

Men do you cry? Ladies what do you think about men who cry? "

I watched that. I cried.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I think it depends on the situation and the man.

My ex-husband cried twice in front of me: when we turned off the life support for our son and he held him as he breathed his last, and the day I left him. Both times broke my heart but I couldn't cry with him.

My dad cried at my mums funeral and I wanted to push him into the grave as he made her life a misery so his tears meant nothing to me."
ive a dad like that the prick i dont cry much i did shed a tear this morning i had to take a old friend to hospital to have a tumour taken off his neck i felt like i was taking him to the gallows

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

For the men who have never cried...try watching 'The Champ'...

Does me every time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really. I'm not the sort to punch walls either though. I don't really suffer from emotions in general. I don't get uncontrollably happy or sad. It takes rather a lot to displace me from neutral actually. Haven't yet found a limit to my control of my emotions.

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire


"No not really. I'm not the sort to punch walls either though. I don't really suffer from emotions in general. I don't get uncontrollably happy or sad. It takes rather a lot to displace me from neutral actually. Haven't yet found a limit to my control of my emotions."

are you relaeted to spock?

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By *r Tony.Man
over a year ago

Warrington B'ham London.

Watched that film when i was in the army, a whole platoon was in bits me included.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"For the men who have never cried...try watching 'The Champ'...

Does me every time.."
omg not champ

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