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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Since your time on fab however (long or short)..What if anything have you learnt? (Good or bad)

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

In my 10 months on here I've learnt how to use my profile as a filter, that has made fab life so much easier for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt lot of people respond quicker when you post a dick pic lol but on a serious note I've learnt alot about different kinks and fetishes. some ass intriguing

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Most of the men are secretly a bit bi!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have I learnt. Apparently im not worth messaging or at least even responding to. Not attractive, not funny, my cock isnt big enough and blockable because i choose safe sex.

Yet im still here and i wont give up lol

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Most of the men are secretly a bit bi!! Xx "

Some a lot more than there profiles state

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Not to Google every word or phrase that you've not heard of

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I have learned that if somebody posts on a forum "Have you ever tried xyz" and I don't know the term they are talking about, I should never go and look it up. It's usually some revolting, deviant, niche sexual practice that makes me feel physically sick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not to Google every word or phrase that you've not heard of "

Amen to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not to Google every word or phrase that you've not heard of

Amen to that! "

Roll I learned this the hard way too many times!

I also learned that most people are full of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that i match with the tiniest slither of Fab profiles and its rare that any of them are local to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never allow feelings to develop, never believe anything anyone says on here as it’s always gonna be bollocks and 90% on here don’t meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt there are some many diverse and different levels filth amongst everyone and expectations

I always side with politeness first and manners if blocked for boring ..so be it ..thats me

Should be traffic light system

Red..means polite first formost

Amber ..not too fussy just respect

Green..anything goes chat and pics

#stay safe

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've learnt that cake, biscuits, popcorn, deckchairs amd tin foil hats are very popular

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By *rindiMan
over a year ago

chester

Ive learnt that despite my profile clearly states straight, i get messages from guys almost every day wanting to suck my cock, so i must assume that there are a lot of illiterate people on here ??

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've learnt that cock pics without warning first thing in the morning puts me off my breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learned very quickly, that this wasn't a site for those paying tribute to one of the best ice lollys ever made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But on a serious note, have learned that forums a great place to interact and have a laugh. Lot's of friendly peeps in these.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

FAF messages work amazingly well with people you've already met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve learnt that we are both bi. It’s only been 8/9 months.

We’ve also learnt that you can separate sex and love. And have a great time meeting new people as a result.

Learnt that there should be zero filter on the truth. That’s the greatest revelation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’ve learnt that we are both bi. It’s only been 8/9 months.

We’ve also learnt that you can separate sex and love. And have a great time meeting new people as a result.

Learnt that there should be zero filter on the truth. That’s the greatest revelation. "

Zero filter on truth is so true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know if this will be permanent, but I’m finding the Forums to be much more fun than Chat these days.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Keep your guard up...... there are a fair few nasty bastards around.

I’ve definitely learnt NEVR to let anyone into my home and family life again.

I used to feel sorry for people with no family or friends around them. Now I’ve learnt that actually there is a reason for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a tit and don't trust anyone

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Alot but more recently more.

First while this is supposed to be an open-minded community people are far from it in fact people are judgemental and small minded.

Second and this has more to do with c19.

I can't believe how many bigoted, racist, opinionated people who lack basic human compassion have crawled out of the woodwork in the past few weeks.

I am truly astounded by the selfish attitude of what seems to be a huge part of society in general today.

So what's fab taught me ?

Nothing I didn't already know but keep doing what I have always done keep away from people.

Happy to be a misanthrope thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on and off here years. I’ve learned there are people out me who share the exact same views on casual sex. I’ve realised I’m not what I’d call part of the scene. I’ve also learned that due to our abundance (single males), some couples really do think we’re a flesh dildo that they can just beckon and take huge offence to when you decline their, usually badly written, offer to ‘cum fuck the wife’.

That said, I’m still here, like the forums, most of the people, like showing pics, and think it’s great fun generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What have I learnt. Apparently im not worth messaging or at least even responding to. Not attractive, not funny, my cock isnt big enough and blockable because i choose safe sex.

Yet im still here and i wont give up lol"

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I've learnt not to be so trusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be your own worst enemy. If you’re feeling particularly low, you can fall down a rabbit hole on here and end up feeling worse

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

I've learnt to ask people, who come to my party's, are you allergic to my cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be a tit and don't trust anyone "

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By *lder guy1967Man
over a year ago

moreton in marsh

I’ve learnt that I’m over the hill, not a single meet. However, it has been entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that natural selection in Humans is very much active.

To keep it brief, either display physical prowess or intelligence/good communication skills - ideally both, because if not, no woman is going to even say, "sorry, not my type."

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Never call knickers panties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just how few people actually read your profile..

If anybody does ask me questions that are answered in my profile, they get deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reasons I can't make friends are a lot more about me than I hoped.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Never call knickers panties"
you are learning well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys look at pics on a profile not those squiggly word things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never call knickers panties"

Christ... that word even makes me shudder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that some people just really don't get the whole seduction thing.

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