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By *rown ClarkKent OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham/watford

I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

You take the Asian guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worry about who isnt attracted to you?

Concentrate on who is.

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By *rown ClarkKent OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham/watford

Honestly its not about looks , many here post in profile itself “no asian guys” so i do not even consider message the couples as its rude to message .

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

I’ve got a beard and a hairy chest and people say they don’t like one or the other on their profiles so I just move on to ones that are looking for my type. It’s no issue and I don’t lose sleep over it.

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By *rown ClarkKent OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham/watford

Having beard and hair people can adjust by shaving but what about race ? Then they also put “we are not racist” which makes me laugh

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Honestly there’s no point even trying to question it bud. it just comes down to preference and also it’s a question of numbers to many men not enough women.

Just don’t let it put you down. you just need to keep your head up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A while back I did a similar thread and it touched on the whole ‘no black/Asian guys’ thing because I wanted to understand it. But honestly, anyone that says anything like that on their profile is usually worth avoiding like the corona virus, OP.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I’ve met Asian guys? Don’t generalise

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By *rown ClarkKent OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham/watford

Awesome so its not only me who is facing similar issue . Lol

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By *rown ClarkKent OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham/watford

Agree mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got a beard and a hairy chest and people say they don’t like one or the other on their profiles so I just move on to ones that are looking for my type. It’s no issue and I don’t lose sleep over it. "

What a false equivalence. I know people mean well but comparing rejection over changeable qualities to race doesn’t have the effect you think it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got a beard and a hairy chest and people say they don’t like one or the other on their profiles so I just move on to ones that are looking for my type. It’s no issue and I don’t lose sleep over it. "
can i lose sleep over it for you

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By *rown ClarkKent OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham/watford


"I’ve met Asian guys? Don’t generalise "

Yes every race have good and bad people.. we should not generalise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us"
hey i sympathise with what you are saying the people that put this on their profiles are it seems making a choice, i agree with you Op its not fair but its acceptable practice here as is not replying to polite well thought out messages, some things in life are fair unfortunately this isn't one of them, just move onto somebody who doesn't have that on profile its the only way, this question has been asked many times before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us"

Hold on ??? What are u even saying have u heard yourself ?? Why does it have to be a bad experience ? Is that your way of justifying it !!!! Listen people have preferences if they don’t fancy ? Prefer to meet a Asian they won’t and it’s that simple!! nothing sinister behind it or what your trying to make it out it be ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while back I did a similar thread and it touched on the whole ‘no black/Asian guys’ thing because I wanted to understand it. But honestly, anyone that says anything like that on their profile is usually worth avoiding like the corona virus, OP. "

Says what ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while back I did a similar thread and it touched on the whole ‘no black/Asian guys’ thing because I wanted to understand it. But honestly, anyone that says anything like that on their profile is usually worth avoiding like the corona virus, OP.

Says what ??

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‘No black/ Asian guys’...

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By *rown ClarkKent OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham/watford

Please any one dont get angry on this , its just my feeling .. no need to be grumpy or offensive and surely many here feels the same , its not always about preference its about one bad experience which is creating stereotype

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while back I did a similar thread and it touched on the whole ‘no black/Asian guys’ thing because I wanted to understand it. But honestly, anyone that says anything like that on their profile is usually worth avoiding like the corona virus, OP.

Says what ??

‘No black/ Asian guys’..."

Ok well that means no one can have a preference they have to just sleep around with anything with a dick or they are wrong ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please any one dont get angry on this , its just my feeling .. no need to be grumpy or offensive and surely many here feels the same , its not always about preference its about one bad experience which is creating stereotype"

Welll find me one person on here name me their profile who has said they ain’t meeting Asian guys cus of a bad experience? And if u can’t then it’s their choice not what u assume

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Why do u keep saying " folk have had 1 bad experience, thats why they dont wanna meet asians! I havent had a bad experience with an asian man & my preference is " I dont wanna meet asian men, no bad experience just plain & simple i have no attraction to asian men...

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By *rown ClarkKent OP   Man
over a year ago

nottingham/watford

Mam , no one write this specifically on profile but when you talk to them either here on in clubs they tell this ... well i will still try to find and i am sure i have seen this in some profile .. and will get back ti you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has been covered a few times before OP with a few different views, I don’t think race should be brought into a profile when regarding preferences but of course that’s my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while back I did a similar thread and it touched on the whole ‘no black/Asian guys’ thing because I wanted to understand it. But honestly, anyone that says anything like that on their profile is usually worth avoiding like the corona virus, OP.

Says what ??

‘No black/ Asian guys’...

Ok well that means no one can have a preference they have to just sleep around with anything with a dick or they are wrong ?? "

I feel like this conversation is far more nuanced than that. And I also meant that those profiles are worth avoiding because in my experience their reasoning for those ‘preferences’ are offensive. I think that if people are willing to discount entire races as unattractive, or not desirable etc, then you’re likely not someone that I could get along with and would avoid. There’s a difference between the pressing a preference for one racial group and refusing to engage with a racial group but this is a conversation that we could go on and on about; If we don’t see eye to eye on it, let’s not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while back I did a similar thread and it touched on the whole ‘no black/Asian guys’ thing because I wanted to understand it. But honestly, anyone that says anything like that on their profile is usually worth avoiding like the corona virus, OP.

Says what ??

‘No black/ Asian guys’...

Ok well that means no one can have a preference they have to just sleep around with anything with a dick or they are wrong ??

I feel like this conversation is far more nuanced than that. And I also meant that those profiles are worth avoiding because in my experience their reasoning for those ‘preferences’ are offensive. I think that if people are willing to discount entire races as unattractive, or not desirable etc, then you’re likely not someone that I could get along with and would avoid. There’s a difference between the pressing a preference for one racial group and refusing to engage with a racial group but this is a conversation that we could go on and on about; If we don’t see eye to eye on it, let’s not. "

between expressing a preference **

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us"

Your profile, or total lack of it, would put anyone off OP.

Race or colour doesn't even come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit I’ve never seen a profile which says no blacks or no Asians. Seen plenty that say black only or BBC only though.

I get that it’s a preference but I don’t like to see it on a profile. I have preferences but I just keep them to myself and move on if I’m not interested in that person.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Why do u keep saying " folk have had 1 bad experience, thats why they dont wanna meet asians! I havent had a bad experience with an asian man & my preference is " I dont wanna meet asian men, no bad experience just plain & simple i have no attraction to asian men...

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This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit I’ve never seen a profile which says no blacks or no Asians. Seen plenty that say black only or BBC only though.

I get that it’s a preference but I don’t like to see it on a profile. I have preferences but I just keep them to myself and move on if I’m not interested in that person. "

You’ve not seen one? People in the forums have it in their bios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit I’ve never seen a profile which says no blacks or no Asians. Seen plenty that say black only or BBC only though.

I get that it’s a preference but I don’t like to see it on a profile. I have preferences but I just keep them to myself and move on if I’m not interested in that person.

You’ve not seen one? People in the forums have it in their bios "

No. I honestly haven’t. I look at quite a few. Not all though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit I’ve never seen a profile which says no blacks or no Asians. Seen plenty that say black only or BBC only though.

I get that it’s a preference but I don’t like to see it on a profile. I have preferences but I just keep them to myself and move on if I’m not interested in that person.

You’ve not seen one? People in the forums have it in their bios "

Yeah I’ve seen plenty of both aswell when I’ve been playing detective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've looked at a lot of women's profiles and I have noticed some saying no Asians and or no blacks and no white men aswell.

It's just preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit I’ve never seen a profile which says no blacks or no Asians. Seen plenty that say black only or BBC only though.

I get that it’s a preference but I don’t like to see it on a profile. I have preferences but I just keep them to myself and move on if I’m not interested in that person.

You’ve not seen one? People in the forums have it in their bios

Yeah I’ve seen plenty of both aswell when I’ve been playing detective "

Oh absolutely, the thread I did was a while back admittedly, if I am allowed to post links I would gladly reshare but I do also feel like ‘BBC only’ and ‘Black only’ profiles are demeaning. Is it mad to think people might find you attractive/ unattractive regardless of your race? Not solely because of it? Who knows, a question for the philosophers perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit I’ve never seen a profile which says no blacks or no Asians. Seen plenty that say black only or BBC only though.

I get that it’s a preference but I don’t like to see it on a profile. I have preferences but I just keep them to myself and move on if I’m not interested in that person.

You’ve not seen one? People in the forums have it in their bios

No. I honestly haven’t. I look at quite a few. Not all though. "

Perhaps we just notice it more. I’d rather I, like you, had not come across any though.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Unfortunately we have had unpleasant encounters with Asian men.

Lack of respect, misaligned values, a looking at my wife as a whore.

Our preference.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Everyone has individual preferences and things they do/don't find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As some others have pointed out, it is not purely based on behaviour. Everyone has certain traits they are attracted to. For some, skin colour is important. In the end, it is their body and they have the right to choose who they sleep with. Nothing wrong about it. We should just look for the person who is happy meeting Asians.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit I’ve never seen a profile which says no blacks or no Asians. Seen plenty that say black only or BBC only though.

I get that it’s a preference but I don’t like to see it on a profile. I have preferences but I just keep them to myself and move on if I’m not interested in that person.

You’ve not seen one? People in the forums have it in their bios

No. I honestly haven’t. I look at quite a few. Not all though.

Perhaps we just notice it more. I’d rather I, like you, had not come across any though. "

I don’t like to see it on profiles. I don’t believe it’s racist though. I believe it is preference. I just don’t think there’s a need to include that on a profile. Personally it would put me off someone if I saw it on a profile. You can see from the amount of threads about it that it can cause offence and controversy. To me it’s just common sense to not put it. Just move on. Just my opinion though obviously. People will put what they want

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve met more than one Asian male and other ethnic minorities so definitely my opinion isn’t from a one off meet. They are selfish when it comes to sex and don’t have any foreplay skills and expect the female to perform oral sex but don’t give anything back.

We are all entitled to our preferences.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"As some others have pointed out, it is not purely based on behaviour. Everyone has certain traits they are attracted to. For some, skin colour is important. In the end, it is their body and they have the right to choose who they sleep with. Nothing wrong about it. We should just look for the person who is happy meeting Asians."

Exactly. I'm curvy & happy with my body, some profiles state they only want slim women (some even state a maximum dress size), so I move on. I don't feel the need to question their preferences.

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not....."

Sexual orientation and race is abit different

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different "

How?

It’s a value of identity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different

How?

It’s a value of identity."

As a swingers site sexual orientation would be rather important, and I feel someone’s race isn’t as important as a factor. IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t speak for OP and his very specific example of not meeting because of past bad experiences.

But I would just like to add, once again, that please can we not for the purpose of argument in this thread, compare body size or facial hair or sexuality to race. - It’s a false equivalence.

I could spend hours debating the racial politics of beauty and desirability or why I don’t agree with ‘no black, mixed race or Asian guys’ profiles but I don’t think fab forums are really the place for it.

So, enjoy what’s left of the night, all.

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different "
call old fashioned but trying to say he has a choice on his profile which is entirely his choice and that the profiles or profiles has not meeting Asian guys the choice of the individual and not tobe going e taking out of the box as thow it could or not racist its choice of the person like I fancy men ....man says tome I'm not interested fine I'm no going lose sleep over it it is what is preference.....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's not racist, it's a preference. A totally different thing. If some people don't want to meet the same sex does that make them homophobic? I think not. I've been accused of being racist for not wanting to meet when the guys don't match my preferences for age, distance, etc. Not my problem if they can't be bothered to read my profile, it certainly does not make me a racist. This subject has been done to death on the forums. People need to focus on those that do want to meet them instead of feeling a sense of entitlement to meet whoever they want, regardless of the other person's preferences. It's a very selfish attitude to have and not an attractive quality.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different

How?

It’s a value of identity.

As a swingers site sexual orientation would be rather important, and I feel someone’s race isn’t as important as a factor. IMO "

What makes you think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different

How?

It’s a value of identity."

I think the closest thing, which is still not the same entirely, would be bi-phobic responses. So gay men or women refusing to meet bi men or women.

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

O ps I have had the pleasure of Asians at work and sexually...there great Lovers....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different

How?

It’s a value of identity.

I think the closest thing, which is still not the same entirely, would be bi-phobic responses. So gay men or women refusing to meet bi men or women.

"

Still don’t get it, I have certain values, they are my values, why should I compromise them for someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different

How?

It’s a value of identity.

I think the closest thing, which is still not the same entirely, would be bi-phobic responses. So gay men or women refusing to meet bi men or women.

"

That was on my profile for a while. I don’t meet bi men. I took it off as I didn’t see a need for it on there and people kept asking me why. I don’t feel the need to give a reason for any of preferences to be honest and I won’t give a reason. Easier now as nobody asks questions and I just make my own decisions anyway based on my preferences which I’ve now decided is easier to keep to myself.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I know some lovely Asians who are perfect gents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different

How?

It’s a value of identity.

I think the closest thing, which is still not the same entirely, would be bi-phobic responses. So gay men or women refusing to meet bi men or women.

That was on my profile for a while. I don’t meet bi men. I took it off as I didn’t see a need for it on there and people kept asking me why. I don’t feel the need to give a reason for any of preferences to be honest and I won’t give a reason. Easier now as nobody asks questions and I just make my own decisions anyway based on my preferences which I’ve now decided is easier to keep to myself. "

Oh and I’m bi myself. So it’s not a bi - phobic thing. It’s a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t speak for OP and his very specific example of not meeting because of past bad experiences.

But I would just like to add, once again, that please can we not for the purpose of argument in this thread, compare body size or facial hair or sexuality to race. - It’s a false equivalence.

I could spend hours debating the racial politics of beauty and desirability or why I don’t agree with ‘no black, mixed race or Asian guys’ profiles but I don’t think fab forums are really the place for it.

So, enjoy what’s left of the night, all. "

I don't agree that it is a false equivalence if the person who does not want to meet an Asian is because they do not find brown skin attractive, or that is not who they want to meet. I specify on my profile that I want to meet blonde haired, blue eyed women. This is because I come from a world of people with black hair and dark brown eyes and I would like to meet someone different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like hobnobs but like custard creams.

We all have likes n dislikes.

Not everything in life is down to race.

I know who n type of person I like..

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

Absolutely. but that is labelling which really never label anyone tobe fair ...everyone is entitled to choose which has obviously happened ...some get there backs up about it case of moving enjoy the fruits of life ....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I know some lovely Asians who are perfect gents."

Look at our verifications, so do we.

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Having beard and hair people can adjust by shaving but what about race ? Then they also put “we are not racist” which makes me laugh"

I’d like to hope it’s not a case of racism but personal preference for whatever reason. But people on here as in life in life overall have the right to be selective. But you say a beard or chest can be shaved. I’m a bi sexual male and had couples, females turn me down for that reason even if they’ve liked how I look and we get on when chatting. I also have tattoos and see people who don’t like them. Those can’t be changed either. You just have to learn not to take offence and more on to find people who accept you for you

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Preference ... that's the simple answer ... male, female, blonde, redhead, brunette, tall, short, curvy, skinny, big boobs, small boobs, bald, beard, no beard, black, white, asian, european, every body has preferences I'm sure you do too OP

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different

How?

It’s a value of identity.

I think the closest thing, which is still not the same entirely, would be bi-phobic responses. So gay men or women refusing to meet bi men or women.

Still don’t get it, I have certain values, they are my values, why should I compromise them for someone else?"
I dont expect u 2 compromise everyone is different..I have values aswell fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t find any races unattractive and so that’s why I find it difficult to comprehend how one can. Which is what I’m speaking about here. If you prefer to meet white guys over black or mixed race or Asian guys, but still find any of the latter, attractive, I don’t think you’d put or see why you’d put ‘no Asian/black/ mixed race guys’ in your profile. Perhaps I’m being a bit naive here. I also think although we’re individuals with agency, when it comes to things like desirability there are external factors that influence our opinions and so I think that if we really unpacked a lot of it it would surprise some. But I’m not here to change anyone’s mind. I’m young and an idealist, I don’t mean to cause any offence to anyone that disagrees, but this is a topic I’ve been similarly affected by and have similar experience with which is why I responded to OP.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I think people should meet people they want to meet and not feel pressured or be made out to be a terrible person because it doesn't conform to who you are.

Whilst it is arbitrary at best to select ones sexual partners based on the colour of their skin. It is not arbitrary to select a sexual partner based on how you feel around or about them. Why would someone want to meet someone they feel uncomfortable around or did not desire?

We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"I know some lovely Asians who are perfect gents.

Look at our verifications, so do we."
absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people should meet people they want to meet and not feel pressured or be made out to be a terrible person because it doesn't conform to who you are.

Whilst it is arbitrary at best to select ones sexual partners based on the colour of their skin. It is not arbitrary to select a sexual partner based on how you feel around or about them. Why would someone want to meet someone they feel uncomfortable around or did not desire?

We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

"

Well said

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different

How?

It’s a value of identity."

He makes it sound like sexual orientation is a personal choice unlike race which you born as

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

Absolutely fella..u have good manners as everyone should be capable of...well I snog your lips even thow you dont fancy men ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met more than one Asian male and other ethnic minorities so definitely my opinion isn’t from a one off meet. They are selfish when it comes to sex and don’t have any foreplay skills and expect the female to perform oral sex but don’t give anything back.

We are all entitled to our preferences."

The ones u met are selfish u mean ?? Not all

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

You can find bad in any race. Being a dick isn't race specific. But I will confess I would never meet asian men as I physically don't fancy them and had bad experiences with them.

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I think people should meet people they want to meet and not feel pressured or be made out to be a terrible person because it doesn't conform to who you are.

Whilst it is arbitrary at best to select ones sexual partners based on the colour of their skin. It is not arbitrary to select a sexual partner based on how you feel around or about them. Why would someone want to meet someone they feel uncomfortable around or did not desire?

We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

"

All the straight people must be homophobic as every single one of them turn me down on there profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people should meet people they want to meet and not feel pressured or be made out to be a terrible person because it doesn't conform to who you are.

Whilst it is arbitrary at best to select ones sexual partners based on the colour of their skin. It is not arbitrary to select a sexual partner based on how you feel around or about them. Why would someone want to meet someone they feel uncomfortable around or did not desire?

We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

All the straight people must be homophobic as every single one of them turn me down on there profiles "

LOOOOL

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"I can’t speak for OP and his very specific example of not meeting because of past bad experiences.

But I would just like to add, once again, that please can we not for the purpose of argument in this thread, compare body size or facial hair or sexuality to race. - It’s a false equivalence.

I could spend hours debating the racial politics of beauty and desirability or why I don’t agree with ‘no black, mixed race or Asian guys’ profiles but I don’t think fab forums are really the place for it.

So, enjoy what’s left of the night, all.

I don't agree that it is a false equivalence if the person who does not want to meet an Asian is because they do not find brown skin attractive, or that is not who they want to meet. I specify on my profile that I want to meet blonde haired, blue eyed women. This is because I come from a world of people with black hair and dark brown eyes and I would like to meet someone different."
mmmm my ex boyfriend delightful blond hair and blue eyes I kinda go into over drive sexually. so I certainly agree with u ...

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By *istake NotWoman
over a year ago

Halifax

You’re right Steve - it’s just not the same

I’m white but I just block anyone with racist profiles, few things are less hot than racism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can find bad in any race. Being a dick isn't race specific. But I will confess I would never meet asian men as I physically don't fancy them and had bad experiences with them. "

Question if u don’t mind ? So you have only had bad experiences with Asian men no other race ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life"

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I think people should meet people they want to meet and not feel pressured or be made out to be a terrible person because it doesn't conform to who you are.

Whilst it is arbitrary at best to select ones sexual partners based on the colour of their skin. It is not arbitrary to select a sexual partner based on how you feel around or about them. Why would someone want to meet someone they feel uncomfortable around or did not desire?

We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

All the straight people must be homophobic as every single one of them turn me down on there profiles

LOOOOL"

It’s ok you laughing at me the struggle is real

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not....."

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I’ve met more than one Asian male and other ethnic minorities so definitely my opinion isn’t from a one off meet. They are selfish when it comes to sex and don’t have any foreplay skills and expect the female to perform oral sex but don’t give anything back.

We are all entitled to our preferences.

The ones u met are selfish u mean ?? Not all "

Often you have very few reference points, so you generalise.

I have spent a fair time in Asia,

My values don’t align unfortunately.

However, that is the mean of the spectrum.

Met some great Asian people, just tend to be on the minority part.

However, they are people we are happy to see if our paths cross.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps anyone I’m watching Paul chowdhry on Sky his sooooooooo funny lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Sexual orientation and race is abit different "

Very true..

I saw and ad for something.

A trans female came in and said "would you have sex with me?"

Before the guy could reply she said "well you're a homophobic

It was some sort of joke.

This is kind of the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re right Steve - it’s just not the same

I’m white but I just block anyone with racist profiles, few things are less hot than racism "

You and me both. As I said to OP, he’s likely dodging a bullet by not meeting some of these people. Maybe even literally dodging a bullet. I shouldn’t joke about that but it’s late and I don’t care anymore

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

Eeerrrmmm u cannot become bi or gay when u decide ...you are born with a gene XYZ or your mum or dad passes to u ...so your somise is incorrect men and women live with fact fancy same sex but get married show your heterosexual take the denial.....

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

"

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"I think people should meet people they want to meet and not feel pressured or be made out to be a terrible person because it doesn't conform to who you are.

Whilst it is arbitrary at best to select ones sexual partners based on the colour of their skin. It is not arbitrary to select a sexual partner based on how you feel around or about them. Why would someone want to meet someone they feel uncomfortable around or did not desire?

We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

All the straight people must be homophobic as every single one of them turn me down on there profiles "
LMAO...

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us"

People have choice's don't let it get to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?"

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain "

And also came here to help us rebuild our country after the war as well. I think the original question posed by OP has been made to be a racist or not racist thread when actually it’s just personal preference.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it "

Nice arse

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it "

I’m game if you are. Otherwise you’ll be homophobic and sexist towards me if you don’t follow through on this idea

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it

Nice arse"

Thanks

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it

Nice arse

Thanks"

You too cheeks

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it

Nice arse

Thanks

You too cheeks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it

I’m game if you are. Otherwise you’ll be homophobic and sexist towards me if you don’t follow through on this idea "

Form a orderly queue lol I would say men on one side and women on the other but judging by this thread I’d get slaughtered lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it

Nice arse

Thanks"

Thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a matter of preference of course, so imagine you met those in real life, would it be a problem if they said no?

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it

I’m game if you are. Otherwise you’ll be homophobic and sexist towards me if you don’t follow through on this idea

Form a orderly queue lol I would say men on one side and women on the other but judging by this thread I’d get slaughtered lol"

One queue, alternate genders. Toss a coin to see which gender goes first and then draw names out of the hat to see who goes first from the winning gender of the coin toss. Fingers crossed it’s me hehe

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain "
I'm wellaware India helped canadians american poland Russia France Britain would not of defeated Hitler wanted 2 invade countrys ..we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain I'm wellaware India helped canadians american poland Russia France Britain would not of defeated Hitler wanted 2 invade countrys ..we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ...."

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?"

I mean, I was only saying that desirability and beauty politics that influence one’s preferences are complex and even more complex than you made out. That’s all lmao.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"You take the Asian guys"

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain I'm wellaware India helped canadians american poland Russia France Britain would not of defeated Hitler wanted 2 invade countrys ..we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ....

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lol"

Will the cane or slipper be brought back too haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us"

I agree, its racist pure and simple. There is no rationale why you would not want to be with an Asian guy or girl apart from being racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us

I agree, its racist pure and simple. There is no rationale why you would not want to be with an Asian guy or girl apart from being racist. "

Are you messing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it "

Lmao.

Literally nobody is telling you that you have to sleep with anyone.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I can understand if a single lady or couple put on their profile they are not interested in a certain type of guy be it black , white , Asian or Greek Cypriot like myself.I would be disappointed especially if it was someone I liked the look of but I would respect their preference and focus on someone that maybe interested in me.This site is all about preference and perhaps turning fantasy into reality. It does however seem that single Asian guys have been badly stereotyped on Fabs.I have met a couple of single Asian guys at socials , Rios or OP4F and have found them to be friendly enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us

I agree, its racist pure and simple. There is no rationale why you would not want to be with an Asian guy or girl apart from being racist.

Are you messing "

Fooking seriously dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us

I agree, its racist pure and simple. There is no rationale why you would not want to be with an Asian guy or girl apart from being racist.

Are you messing "

I’m asking the same question ? I think he is lol

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it

I’m game if you are. Otherwise you’ll be homophobic and sexist towards me if you don’t follow through on this idea

Form a orderly queue lol I would say men on one side and women on the other but judging by this thread I’d get slaughtered lol

One queue, alternate genders. Toss a coin to see which gender goes first and then draw names out of the hat to see who goes first from the winning gender of the coin toss. Fingers crossed it’s me hehe "
aye dont push in I'm first lol ...u can have sloppy seconds ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us

I agree, its racist pure and simple. There is no rationale why you would not want to be with an Asian guy or girl apart from being racist. "

What about the fact I find you unattractive? Oh no you automatically say I’m racist. !!! Fooking joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain I'm wellaware India helped canadians american poland Russia France Britain would not of defeated Hitler wanted 2 invade countrys ..we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ....

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lol"

Asians also fought alongside France, Belgium, Poland, USA, Dutch etc etc. It was a World War, not just Britain against Germany.

Just for balance, there was also the the Indian National Army who fought against the British on the Japanese side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us

I agree, its racist pure and simple. There is no rationale why you would not want to be with an Asian guy or girl apart from being racist. "

????? Is that a joke ??

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us

I agree, its racist pure and simple. There is no rationale why you would not want to be with an Asian guy or girl apart from being racist. "

I’m am nowhere near racist not that I’ve got that on my profile and never would. I’m attracted to all races and genders but if there is no rationale there there no reasons for why someone prefers blondes over brunettes. Or males over females. Or bbw over thin. It’s personal choice and yes it might not seem right to others but it’s personal choice. I can’t understand why not every man likes sucking a cock but I have to accept it

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain I'm wellaware India helped canadians american poland Russia France Britain would not of defeated Hitler wanted 2 invade countrys ..we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ....

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lol"
well wouldn't mind being detained by a lovely lady dont know about the other guy please can I be first have the please ...wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us

I agree, its racist pure and simple. There is no rationale why you would not want to be with an Asian guy or girl apart from being racist. "

Hahahaha. Good grief!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain I'm wellaware India helped canadians american poland Russia France Britain would not of defeated Hitler wanted 2 invade countrys ..we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ....

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lolwell wouldn't mind being detained by a lovely lady dont know about the other guy please can I be first have the please ...wink."

Wtf are you on about

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"We are allowed preferences, we are allowed choice and people should not be vilified because their choices don't match who you are. Tagging them with "closet racist" labels is an over-simplification of a complex issue of attraction, desire, and comfort levels. It's too easy to say " they are racist" simply because they do not wish to have sex with you.

If people state it clearly in their profile, then they save you the hassle of having to write them a message. Like when someone says "no baldys", the bald man does not write, can he do anything about his baldness? No, so now what? They are baldist?

Acceptance is everything in this lifestyle, some people will like you as a person but not want to fuck you, some people will fuck you, but wouldn't walk down the street with you. Some people prefer sex with people of their own ethnic origin and others prefer more flavours. This is life

This is actually an oversimplification of the complexities of the racial politics of beauty and desirability and also of the reasons, myths and realities of why people of some races and ethnicities have sex within their own races and/ or ethnicities.

I don’t know if anyone has specifically called them racist for this either, I can’t remember but I think that there is a rush to avoid the label of any action being labelled as racist rather than trying to understand how it may be? slightly off topic there but since ‘closet racist’ was brought up and people have clearly danced around it, thought I’d dive right in.

Can you just not accept that some people do not find white/asian/black people attractive? That regardless of the politics, societal norms, learnt behaviour or one of a thousand different reasons. Saying to people, "You don't desire xx person, you are wrong" fails to take into account the complexities of the individual and how their brain chemistry works in matters of desire, attraction, lust and passion.

Acceptance.... is it really that hard, must there always be a hidden motive behind someones preferences?

I’ve been saying this since the post began lol at this rate just to be accepted I am going to have to sleep with Everyone if I don’t there is some massive hidden agenda behind it

I’m game if you are. Otherwise you’ll be homophobic and sexist towards me if you don’t follow through on this idea

Form a orderly queue lol I would say men on one side and women on the other but judging by this thread I’d get slaughtered lol

One queue, alternate genders. Toss a coin to see which gender goes first and then draw names out of the hat to see who goes first from the winning gender of the coin toss. Fingers crossed it’s me hehe aye dont push in I'm first lol ...u can have sloppy seconds .."

It’s the luck of the draw haha

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Perhaps with some Fabbers there might be a conscious (or sub-conscious) element of racism. However, it’s probably a matter of taste to most people.

Some white men have a preference for Asian women and there’s a big thing on here where some white women seek black men only. I don’t think it makes them racist or prejudiced. Beauty is only skin deep, yes - but this is a sex site and people will lean towards what physically appeals to them.

As another user suggested, focus on the positives and who might be interested ether than who isn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It cannot possibly be racist not to have sex with an Asian person. "Asian" does not pertain to a specific race, it refers to a continent peopled by different races.

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over a year ago


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain I'm wellaware India helped canadians american poland Russia France Britain would not of defeated Hitler wanted 2 invade countrys ..we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ....

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lolwell wouldn't mind being detained by a lovely lady dont know about the other guy please can I be first have the please ...wink.

Wtf are you on about"

You clearly have a huge chip on your shoulder. None of us here do

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????"

I’m not sure but if it is a joke it’s very much misjudged for its chosen audience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s arguing with who I’m lost lol I just wana mc Donald’s and I don’t care who makes it lol

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Perhaps with some Fabbers there might be a conscious (or sub-conscious) element of racism. However, it’s probably a matter of taste to most people.

Some white men have a preference for Asian women and there’s a big thing on here where some white women seek black men only. I don’t think it makes them racist or prejudiced. Beauty is only skin deep, yes - but this is a sex site and people will lean towards what physically appeals to them.

As another user suggested, focus on the positives and who might be interested ether than who isn’t. "

well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who’s arguing with who I’m lost lol I just wana mc Donald’s and I don’t care who makes it lol "

I really want a Big Mac

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Who’s arguing with who I’m lost lol I just wana mc Donald’s and I don’t care who makes it lol "

I’d love a mcds I really would

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain I'm wellaware India helped canadians american poland Russia France Britain would not of defeated Hitler wanted 2 invade countrys ..we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ....

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lol

Asians also fought alongside France, Belgium, Poland, USA, Dutch etc etc. It was a World War, not just Britain against Germany.

Just for balance, there was also the the Indian National Army who fought against the British on the Japanese side."
hang on fella Britian would not of gone 2war had it not been for the invasion of poland churchill said 2 Hitler u invade poland we will project poland and announced war on Germany that's how it started ....

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over a year ago


"Eeerrrmmm u cannot become bi or gay when u decide ...you are born with a gene XYZ or your mum or dad passes to u ...so your somise is incorrect men and women live with fact fancy same sex but get married show your heterosexual take the denial....."

I got married no denial. I didn’t fancy women until I was in my forties. Much prefer men still. Never looked at women in that way until a few years ago. If I was born with “it” I’d have known before I was 40 odd I’m sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine tucking into 1 now I’m drooling thinking about it lol

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Who’s arguing with who I’m lost lol I just wana mc Donald’s and I don’t care who makes it lol

I really want a Big Mac "

Do you think the closed stores will still have everything in stock if we was to break in and make our own haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an Asian guy I would have to agree with the majority here. Everyone has a preference, a like, a desire. You can't be everyone's cup of tea but this is a big, wide, wonderful world and so I'm sure you'll meet someone who likes you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who’s arguing with who I’m lost lol I just wana mc Donald’s and I don’t care who makes it lol

I really want a Big Mac "

Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab forums are not the place to discuss racism and perhaps this is even more the case during this lockdown period.

I again apologise for any offence I’ve caused, I think there’s been much misunderstanding on mine and others parts. The reality is many of you are right in saying (in so many words), it is what it is, there’s no changing it.

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Perhaps with some Fabbers there might be a conscious (or sub-conscious) element of racism. However, it’s probably a matter of taste to most people.

Some white men have a preference for Asian women and there’s a big thing on here where some white women seek black men only. I don’t think it makes them racist or prejudiced. Beauty is only skin deep, yes - but this is a sex site and people will lean towards what physically appeals to them.

As another user suggested, focus on the positives and who might be interested ether than who isn’t.

well put "

Thank you, although “ether” should read “rather” and that’ll teach me to submit prior to proof-reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As an Asian guy I would have to agree with the majority here. Everyone has a preference, a like, a desire. You can't be everyone's cup of tea but this is a big, wide, wonderful world and so I'm sure you'll meet someone who likes you"

Awwwww well

Said xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????"

Ask him what a Wetty is?

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over a year ago


"As an Asian guy I would have to agree with the majority here. Everyone has a preference, a like, a desire. You can't be everyone's cup of tea but this is a big, wide, wonderful world and so I'm sure you'll meet someone who likes you

Awwwww well

Said xx "

Why thank you!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"Imagine tucking into 1 now I’m drooling thinking about it lol "

you got me thinking of a big mac now

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London


"

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lol"

SORRY

MISS KATBOO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?"

I’d rather not talk to him

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain I'm wellaware India helped canadians american poland Russia France Britain would not of defeated Hitler wanted 2 invade countrys ..we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ....

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lolwell wouldn't mind being detained by a lovely lady dont know about the other guy please can I be first have the please ...wink.

Wtf are you on about

You clearly have a huge chip on your shoulder. None of us here do "
salt & vinegar anyone for my chip lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

I’d rather not talk to him "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP....you have not meeting single guys....do u think your discriminating because I'm a Male fancys men do u think you be homophobic with me.or could it just be because u dont fancy same sex which is entirely your progitive and your freedom of choice to which everyone is entitled to choose and not say thats its racist this country went 2 war to have the freedom we have 2day tobe who ever we want tobe 10 commandments thow shall not.....

Maybe check your history Britain did not go to war alone. Many many Asians were there fighting as well

Alongside Britain I'm wellaware India helped canadians american poland Russia France Britain would not of defeated Hitler wanted 2 invade countrys ..we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ....

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lolwell wouldn't mind being detained by a lovely lady dont know about the other guy please can I be first have the please ...wink.

Wtf are you on about

You clearly have a huge chip on your shoulder. None of us here do salt & vinegar anyone for my chip lol "

Leave her alone !!!!

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"Eeerrrmmm u cannot become bi or gay when u decide ...you are born with a gene XYZ or your mum or dad passes to u ...so your somise is incorrect men and women live with fact fancy same sex but get married show your heterosexual take the denial.....

I got married no denial. I didn’t fancy women until I was in my forties. Much prefer men still. Never looked at women in that way until a few years ago. If I was born with “it” I’d have known before I was 40 odd I’m sure. "
well maybe your one of a speicalcases ..istill stand bi what I said u cannot become bi or gay you are already are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?"

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference

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over a year ago


"Eeerrrmmm u cannot become bi or gay when u decide ...you are born with a gene XYZ or your mum or dad passes to u ...so your somise is incorrect men and women live with fact fancy same sex but get married show your heterosexual take the denial.....

I got married no denial. I didn’t fancy women until I was in my forties. Much prefer men still. Never looked at women in that way until a few years ago. If I was born with “it” I’d have known before I was 40 odd I’m sure. well maybe your one of a speicalcases ..istill stand bi what I said u cannot become bi or gay you are already are..."

And your a doctor to knwo that 1000% ??

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"As an Asian guy I would have to agree with the majority here. Everyone has a preference, a like, a desire. You can't be everyone's cup of tea but this is a big, wide, wonderful world and so I'm sure you'll meet someone who likes you"

Here here

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference"

What's a Wetty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eeerrrmmm u cannot become bi or gay when u decide ...you are born with a gene XYZ or your mum or dad passes to u ...so your somise is incorrect men and women live with fact fancy same sex but get married show your heterosexual take the denial.....

I got married no denial. I didn’t fancy women until I was in my forties. Much prefer men still. Never looked at women in that way until a few years ago. If I was born with “it” I’d have known before I was 40 odd I’m sure. well maybe your one of a speicalcases ..istill stand bi what I said u cannot become bi or gay you are already are..."

You’re free to stand by whatever you want. Doesn’t mean you’re correct. And in this case I don’t believe you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference"

Ow shut up !!!! Yes if I said I don’t like Asian people I agree then I’m racist ?? But if a famous or normal person said they don’t sleep with Asians as it’s not their preference then that’s not racist ??

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference"

But just like here if a celebrity did it you’d have a split in the way that social media responded. Some would agree others disagree

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"As an Asian guy I would have to agree with the majority here. Everyone has a preference, a like, a desire. You can't be everyone's cup of tea but this is a big, wide, wonderful world and so I'm sure you'll meet someone who likes you"
hi fella your cute sexy looking hansome man I never knock u out of my bed that's my choice and it's your progative 2 decline and I respect your decision...we are expressing are freedom of choice....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference"

I don’t believe anyone has declared they don’t like Asian people. Yes I agree that would be racist. Deciding who someone wants to give their body to is not racist one bit!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference"

Nemesis I don't know you just know that you have changed your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference

Ow shut up !!!! Yes if I said I don’t like Asian people I agree then I’m racist ?? But if a famous or normal person said they don’t sleep with Asians as it’s not their preference then that’s not racist ?? "

So why wouldn't you want to sleep with Asians then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference

Ow shut up !!!! Yes if I said I don’t like Asian people I agree then I’m racist ?? But if a famous or normal person said they don’t sleep with Asians as it’s not their preference then that’s not racist ??

So why wouldn't you want to sleep with Asians then?"

Cus I don’t want to ??? Why don’t u accuse me of being racist cus I don’t eat a naan bread either ??????

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference

Ow shut up !!!! Yes if I said I don’t like Asian people I agree then I’m racist ?? But if a famous or normal person said they don’t sleep with Asians as it’s not their preference then that’s not racist ??

So why wouldn't you want to sleep with Asians then?"

Choice

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"Eeerrrmmm u cannot become bi or gay when u decide ...you are born with a gene XYZ or your mum or dad passes to u ...so your somise is incorrect men and women live with fact fancy same sex but get married show your heterosexual take the denial.....

I got married no denial. I didn’t fancy women until I was in my forties. Much prefer men still. Never looked at women in that way until a few years ago. If I was born with “it” I’d have known before I was 40 odd I’m sure. well maybe your one of a speicalcases ..istill stand bi what I said u cannot become bi or gay you are already are...

You’re free to stand by whatever you want. Doesn’t mean you’re correct. And in this case I don’t believe you are. "
and that's the art of freedom of speech we agree 2 disagree I feel no less of you because u think different than I do that's how it should be difference of opinions...

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London


" we even lost couple of are isle ferries in word war 2 trying bring the men back home churchill took are country 2war because of the freedoms we enjoy today ....

Yes and Britan was not the only country. So you are up set cos we (you) lost a couple of Isle ferries. But not the men on board wow

U 2 both need to put your history homework books away or u will both get a detention lol

Asians also fought alongside France, Belgium, Poland, USA, Dutch etc etc. It was a World War, not just Britain against Germany.

Just for balance, there was also the the Indian National Army who fought against the British on the Japanese side."

Are you sure??

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference

Ow shut up !!!! Yes if I said I don’t like Asian people I agree then I’m racist ?? But if a famous or normal person said they don’t sleep with Asians as it’s not their preference then that’s not racist ??

So why wouldn't you want to sleep with Asians then?

Choice "
transgirl u ever work in one of the bar in Hanley s.o.t?

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference

Ow shut up !!!! Yes if I said I don’t like Asian people I agree then I’m racist ?? But if a famous or normal person said they don’t sleep with Asians as it’s not their preference then that’s not racist ??

So why wouldn't you want to sleep with Asians then?

Cus I don’t want to ??? Why don’t u accuse me of being racist cus I don’t eat a naan bread either ?????? "

Breadist...... I bet you eat sliced bread don’t ya haha

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Is Johnny nobody being serious ???????

Ask him what a Wetty is?

My nemesis strikes again.

Remember everyone that you are using a form of media here. If a famous person declared that they did not like Asian people they would be declared racist. We are not famous but social media is different from internal preference

Ow shut up !!!! Yes if I said I don’t like Asian people I agree then I’m racist ?? But if a famous or normal person said they don’t sleep with Asians as it’s not their preference then that’s not racist ??

So why wouldn't you want to sleep with Asians then?

Choice transgirl u ever work in one of the bar in Hanley s.o.t?"

No

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

Hanley great night out specially stars on the bar stella straight people loved the atmosphere great time...

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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"Hanley great night out specially stars on the bar stella straight people loved the atmosphere great time..."

Where?

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

I was a nurse bucknall hospital many moons ago...really freetime I experienced for few years till I came home 2 isle of man....

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over a year ago

I’ve always felt “ out of place” as my sexual needs are “ weird” to the “ norm” but who’s normal ? I have kinks for all kinds I’ve always felt “ wrong” out of place. I’m still not sure on my sexuality, Or my kinks. I conform but IM really unsure.

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

I've played with 2 asianmen I've met at parties but generally I'm not attracted to Asian or oriental men. Not keen on black men either. For me its preference but if I meet you in.person and I fancy you I will.

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

Fuck all this.

I want hug and cuddle

??

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......

Was bottom of cobridge at the bottom of express way ...hope street back in the day ladys of the night area going back 1991 1996 stella moved 2 blackpool..you probably very young back then thow...

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I’ve always felt “ out of place” as my sexual needs are “ weird” to the “ norm” but who’s normal ? I have kinks for all kinds I’ve always felt “ wrong” out of place. I’m still not sure on my sexuality, Or my kinks. I conform but IM really unsure. "

Maybe you don’t need conform and being normal is overrated. Just been you and do whoever you want and as long as you’re happy that’s all that matter

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People are at liberty to refuse sex with anyone, including their husband etc. It's also about preferences, as if someone doesn't find another attractive, there's no point in meeting.

If it doesn't work for anyone here, they can use other options, such as via friends, colleagues, out socially when legally allowed, via interest groups etc.

The best person to know who we fancy is ourselves. If anyone is clear, move on to the others

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By *orkyguyMan
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Who’s arguing with who I’m lost lol I just wana mc Donald’s and I don’t care who makes it lol

I really want a Big Mac "

Oh dear shouldn't that be burger not just say big Mac what about burger king tut tut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always felt “ out of place” as my sexual needs are “ weird” to the “ norm” but who’s normal ? I have kinks for all kinds I’ve always felt “ wrong” out of place. I’m still not sure on my sexuality, Or my kinks. I conform but IM really unsure.

Maybe you don’t need conform and being normal is overrated. Just been you and do whoever you want and as long as you’re happy that’s all that matter "

I don’t know. I don’t meet anyone ever. Occasionally someone will come in my work and I’ll automatically be attracted to her and my work mates laugh, they know! But I’m like “ eeee shut up”. I’m very femine yet I’m attracted to masculine lesbians,,, I’m so confused

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"I’ve always felt “ out of place” as my sexual needs are “ weird” to the “ norm” but who’s normal ? I have kinks for all kinds I’ve always felt “ wrong” out of place. I’m still not sure on my sexuality, Or my kinks. I conform but IM really unsure. "
maybe try orgy where everything men on women men on men women on women world is your oyster do what u feel is comfortable and safe..just idear 4u

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I understand that you(couples or ladies) have met one asian guy who is rude but this is surely not case with all asian guys. I am sure couples or ladies definitely had bad experience with one or other race ?

Then why to punish all asian guys? Try asians unless you have strong preference not to try us"

Seriously ?

I'm not Asian but you don't see me blaming my race, colour, height, age, looks etc etc

There are loads more guys than gals on here so the odds aren't great anyway.

It's called preferences, do you honestly think a girl should meet you just because you're Asian ?

Time to put your toys back in the pram and act your age

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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago

Douglas Isle of man.......


"I’ve always felt “ out of place” as my sexual needs are “ weird” to the “ norm” but who’s normal ? I have kinks for all kinds I’ve always felt “ wrong” out of place. I’m still not sure on my sexuality, Or my kinks. I conform but IM really unsure.

Maybe you don’t need conform and being normal is overrated. Just been you and do whoever you want and as long as you’re happy that’s all that matter

I don’t know. I don’t meet anyone ever. Occasionally someone will come in my work and I’ll automatically be attracted to her and my work mates laugh, they know! But I’m like “ eeee shut up”. I’m very femine yet I’m attracted to masculine lesbians,,, I’m so confused "
role play well I guess only way is to try ...best of both worlds me love awomen I'm attracted too men ..try 1man yourself and another woman u do realize men adore 2women having fun drive him wild ....

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