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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't happen very often so I can't really add anything to your dilemma.

If you were to message me I'd be made up for the week

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away "

Most will be in shock

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away "

It will, they’ll assume it’s a man with a fake profile !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't happen very often so I can't really add anything to your dilemma.

If you were to message me I'd be made up for the week "

and I could just say anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any first message I’ve responded to usually just said what they were looking for and showed some sign that they’d read the profile. But lmao it doesn’t happen often so I’m also no expert.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

Most will be in shock "

Shall I just say "hi" first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away "

Well firstly tbh,l think it's the only way for a lady here on this site ,she then decides herself who she'd like to meet first BUT of course the danger is always there that the same feeling may not be returned...they are of course putting themselves in the " l could be rejected " boat ..like the possibility the guys on this site face all the time they write a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't happen very often so I can't really add anything to your dilemma.

If you were to message me I'd be made up for the week

and I could just say anything? "

Say what you want, be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and I will respond accordingly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

It will, they’ll assume it’s a man with a fake profile !"

Damn it. What shall I do then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

Well firstly tbh,l think it's the only way for a lady here on this site ,she then decides herself who she'd like to meet first BUT of course the danger is always there that the same feeling may not be returned...they are of course putting themselves in the " l could be rejected " boat ..like the possibility the guys on this site face all the time they write a message."

Guess there's only one way to find out..

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I like to be approached with offers of tea and biscuits (cake a bonus). Humour works wonders for me

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Send me a message and I’ll rate it

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

With a “hello, like/love your profile” that should do it ... although some of us may combust if a woman messages first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

Well firstly tbh,l think it's the only way for a lady here on this site ,she then decides herself who she'd like to meet first BUT of course the danger is always there that the same feeling may not be returned...they are of course putting themselves in the " l could be rejected " boat ..like the possibility the guys on this site face all the time they write a message.

Guess there's only one way to find out.."

Absolutely... nothin' ventured... nothin' gained ...but personally l don't think you'll have any worries...

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By *ab50Man
over a year ago

bexhill

Just getting messages is nice..

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Read the profile, be original, respectful.

Don’t want to delete any old rubbish messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to be approached with offers of tea and biscuits (cake a bonus). Humour works wonders for me "

I got chocolate. Would that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away "

Doubt this very much

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

There are far more men than women on this site, unlikely many won't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When browsing through the endless messages the thing that catches my eye is when it’s from a women. And not a man asking if I would like him to suck my straight cock.

Your a women. Done

Other than that make me laugh

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

In french with flowers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In french with flowers. "

I may need help with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

"

A picture of your knickers will be fine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A vag pic and FAF message, all blokes send the equivalent dont they

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

A picture of your knickers will be fine..."

Just knickers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A vag pic and FAF message, all blokes send the equivalent dont they "

But I don't wanna behave like a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

A picture of your knickers will be fine...

Just knickers? "

Break the ice wont it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A close up pussy/ boobs pic with the message

"Me wants fok" would do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away "

Just go for it; as many have said, it’ll be quite unexpected and I would expect, very much welcomed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send “Lush” then attach pictures. 100% success rate in 9 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always send “Lush” then attach pictures. 100% success rate in 9 years. "

If I did that I'd get blocked

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Message anything you like as they'll not only be shocked but should also consider themselves lucky guys Jessica

Best of luck you you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message anything you like as they'll not only be shocked but should also consider themselves lucky guys Jessica

Best of luck you you x"

I'll let you know how I get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away "

approach how ever you feel, I’m sure no one will mind

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex


"In french with flowers.

I may need help with that."

You can write what you like, I can't read French.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I like to be approached with offers of tea and biscuits (cake a bonus). Humour works wonders for me

I got chocolate. Would that work?"

10000000% yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best way is to stipulate upfront that you have a lovely anus. The rest will flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away "

Erm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

Comment on my pics

Refer to something on my profile

Etc

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away "

Reading my profile and sending me a personalised message you’ve agonised over for a few hours, using my secret word and making sure you meet every single one of my many stipulations will help.

Remember to send face pictures, nipple and arsehole pictures, contact numbers and a copy of a written permission from both parents or I’ll just block you.

Alternatively, just be nice and say hi, if you’re lucky I may reply, I haven’t got much else on this week

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away "

Just tell me where you want me to take you for our first meet. Simple.

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By *weetnips69Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"I always send “Lush” then attach pictures. 100% success rate in 9 years. "

Because your Lush hun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

Reading my profile and sending me a personalised message you’ve agonised over for a few hours, using my secret word and making sure you meet every single one of my many stipulations will help.

Remember to send face pictures, nipple and arsehole pictures, contact numbers and a copy of a written permission from both parents or I’ll just block you.

Alternatively, just be nice and say hi, if you’re lucky I may reply, I haven’t got much else on this week"

Unfortunately both of my parents passed away so cannot get their consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

Reading my profile and sending me a personalised message you’ve agonised over for a few hours, using my secret word and making sure you meet every single one of my many stipulations will help.

Remember to send face pictures, nipple and arsehole pictures, contact numbers and a copy of a written permission from both parents or I’ll just block you.

Alternatively, just be nice and say hi, if you’re lucky I may reply, I haven’t got much else on this week

Unfortunately both of my parents passed away so cannot get their consent."

Sorry to hear that, I’m in the same situation also

And I wouldn’t expect a message as I’m out of you’re age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The best way is to stipulate upfront that you have a lovely anus. The rest will flow"

Well you're quite right there. Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best way is to stipulate upfront that you have a lovely anus. The rest will flow

Well you're quite right there. Thanks for the advice "

I have never been messaged first it would be nice m, but completely get I’m not going to be everyone’s flavour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away "

A pic of legs open, flaps out is a good start

I’m kidding, a simple hello is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say hello and have a defibrillator handy.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

Reading my profile and sending me a personalised message you’ve agonised over for a few hours, using my secret word and making sure you meet every single one of my many stipulations will help.

Remember to send face pictures, nipple and arsehole pictures, contact numbers and a copy of a written permission from both parents or I’ll just block you.

Alternatively, just be nice and say hi, if you’re lucky I may reply, I haven’t got much else on this week

Unfortunately both of my parents passed away so cannot get their consent."

Sorry to hear that. I may relax that regulation in exceptional circumstances

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

Erm.... "

Sorry but we all have preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest and straight to the point would work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think your messages will ever get deleted straight away ????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be honest and straight to the point would work for me "

What is the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to start messaging men first. For a change.

How do you guys like to be approached?

I don't want my messages to get deleted straight away

Erm....

Sorry but we all have preferences "

No need to apologise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think your messages will ever get deleted straight away ????????"

Why?

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