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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont do an online test OP, apparently I'm a genius

Total bullshit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont do an online test OP, apparently I'm a genius

Total bullshit "

Ah, thanks for that il give it a miss then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder what exactly they're looking for in intelligence.

Someone who was educated in Oxford University or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ. "

When they use the term ‘Sapiosexual’ ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ.

When they use the term ‘Sapiosexual’ ??"

I havent noticed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ.

When they use the term ‘Sapiosexual’ ??

I havent noticed that "

Well it’s definitely a thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The IQ system was largely debunked, with the initial evidence to support it having been falsified.

Intelligence is a complex creature, like human personality. Just as with physical attraction, what we find attractive in another's intelligence is subjective, so let others decide what they are looking for and how they'll find it.

Acquired knowledge isn't intelligence, though how we may process and apply it could be a facet of it. Where systems are gamed, via social connections, background, pedigree etc, the educational attendance is reflective of those random chances, outside of the possible inherent aptitudes of people.

Wisdom and compassion are often more important imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ. "

Nor do I and I'm too scared to check in case the results come back as "dumb as a welly boot".

I'll just knowingly nod and keep quiet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Shit, if we go by IQ, I'm out

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Did a Mensa test once, in a hotel in Leeds.

Only went to see what Carol Vorderman looked like close up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ. "

It's very dangerous for those that put up stuff like that in a sense as they just might meet an intelligent person who just might think that the person who looked for the intelligent person is actually thick in lots of ways ...be careful what you wish for ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully IQ test is not required to join this site.

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ. "

I don’t think it’s necessarily about intelligence but the ability to hold a decent conversation before it all descends into debauchery is important to us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ.

I don’t think it’s necessarily about intelligence but the ability to hold a decent conversation before it all descends into debauchery is important to us "
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So I don't need a degree

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ. "

What makes me laugh is a professional person, or professional couple, does that mean they are prostitutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ.

What makes me laugh is a professional person, or professional couple, does that mean they are prostitutes "

Me too haha ohhhhh wow a real life professional

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Take a look at some of the threads in the politics forum, no intelligence is necessary to use this site.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ.

What makes me laugh is a professional person, or professional couple, does that mean they are prostitutes

Me too haha ohhhhh wow a real life professional "

Only to their intellect.

I have a nephew who has Down’s syndrome.

He is the happiest man I have ever met.

Me, my brain stops me sleeping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t even spell IQ

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I can’t even spell IQ"

You forgot the full stop between the letters.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ.

What makes me laugh is a professional person, or professional couple, does that mean they are prostitutes

Me too haha ohhhhh wow a real life professional

Only to their intellect.

I have a nephew who has Down’s syndrome.

He is the happiest man I have ever met.

Me, my brain stops me sleeping."
downs are generally some I've the kindest andcmost loving people ever , I know a few , but contradicting myself , one is a little , no one is a big shit lol , Freddy star had nothing in Micheal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t even spell IQ

You forgot the full stop between the letters."

Told you

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I can’t even spell IQ

You forgot the full stop between the letters.

Told you"

Smiles.

I’ll feed ‘em, you land ‘em.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am just a dizzy blonde

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They just mean they want someone on a similar wavelength. According to many forum contributors they need a "connection" to my mind that's more easy to obtain with someone you can communicate with as an equal. I think the more descriptive a profile the easier that elusive connection will be to find

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

The true sign of intelligence is not knowledge but imagination- Albert Einstein

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By *rouble1998Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I personally find it a bit pretentious when people want to share their ‘IQ’ with everyone they meet. However, it is nice to talk to other well educated people who can hold a conversation

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By *exfunmaleMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I guess most want to meet or interact with folk that can cobble together a coherent ,fully formed sentence.

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

Or maybe they mean someone who has read their profile.

As so many on here don't brother reading the profile and just reply afyer seeing the pic of reading what they want to read and ignoring the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort of conjures up the image of the folk who worked at Bletchley.

People in lab coats, bad hair and sandals.

Someone whose likely to go into a meltdown if they don't complete the times crossword.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just done a 4000 peice jigsaw.

And still can't spell piece

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not that intelligent, but it’s nothing compared to how not handsome I am "

I still would though

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I’m not that intelligent, but it’s nothing compared to how not handsome I am

I still would though"

In saying I’m intelligent, I’ve just accidentally deleted my own post

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By *edandLouCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I see this on lots of profiles.

This got me thinking have I got enough intelligence to be on here. I don't even know my IQ. "

The best ones are the ones who say "we are an attractive, intelligent professional couple and you will be too if you wish to meet us." Some huge egos on here and going by status updates they are missing their attention fix!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not that intelligent, but it’s nothing compared to how not handsome I am

I still would though

In saying I’m intelligent, I’ve just accidentally deleted my own post "

Hahaha

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

How do u define intelligence? Common knowledge ? practical logic? Scientific logic? Can read a book ? Whether it’s Janet & John or mathematical? So many variants ...

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I wouldn't describe myself as intelligent, but cunning, with a magpie memory of generally useless trivia which often passes as intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are people basing said intelligence on? IQ, or just being able to think processes out for themselves, or being able to retain information that a "smarter" person has come up with?

There many forms of intelligence, I'm apparently a know it all, but very little common sense - type of gut who'd put hand on frying pan to check it hot enough to cook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that for many 'demanders of intelligence', they really mean, 'can hold a conversation about a range of topics', rather than a degree in Physics. Natch, I can do both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence comes in many forms. I know a head of English at a top London school who can't understand why he got a shock from his cordless kettle after submerging it in the washing up bowel to clean it and then placing it back on its base while it was still wet!

He has all sorts of letters after his name, but not an ounce of common sense in his head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intelligence comes in many forms. I know a head of English at a top London school who can't understand why he got a shock from his cordless kettle after submerging it in the washing up bowel to clean it and then placing it back on its base while it was still wet!

He has all sorts of letters after his name, but not an ounce of common sense in his head! "

Scroll up, sounds a bit like myself

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have a weakness for intelligence and say so, but I suppose I mean more an intellectual curiosity. Wanting to know or understand more. I find it an attractive quality and important for conversation. It doesn't correlate with educational attainment.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I'm usually a tad suspicious of those using the term Sapiosexual

I find it potentially pretentious?

Now many of use like a person who subjectively to us can hold a balanced conversation

However saying Sapiosexual suddenly suggests they have an extremely high view of their intelligence and are not so conversant with the subjectivity debates regarding "intelligence"

Another thing "Sapiosexual"

Defined as finding intelligence (whatever that is) sexually attractive above other factors

I dont want to be used just for my mind it would be nice to be found attractive too

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh I loathe the term sapiosexual.

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