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"Maybe but then again i think there are alot of sexual frustrated women about or is that just me..." There might be. They're not likely to be even remotely interested while they're in the supermarket. Sometimes*, particularly in a crisis, we're just people doing the shit we need to do and it's not about sex. * For me almost always | |||
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"Maybe but then again i think there are alot of sexual frustrated women about or is that just me..." Jesus. | |||
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"Maybe but then again i think there are alot of sexual frustrated women about or is that just me..." I was about to stick up for you then....  | |||
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"I'm changing to Sainsbury's
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"I'm changing to Sainsbury's
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Your fingers are working well today I see "Jaysus! Lol well spotted 
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"Maybe but then again i think there are alot of sexual frustrated women about or is that just me..." Are you a sexually frustrated woman OP? | |||
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"I'm changing to Sainsbury's
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Jaysus! Lol well spotted
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"Is this why no one makes eye contact with anyone anymore " Extended eye contact with strangers in the supermarket can be terrifying | |||
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"Is this why no one makes eye contact with anyone anymore Extended eye contact with strangers in the supermarket can be terrifying "I’m not terrifying | |||
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"Is this why no one makes eye contact with anyone anymore Extended eye contact with strangers in the supermarket can be terrifying
I’m not terrifying "I wouldn't class you as a stranger anymore though | |||
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"Is this why no one makes eye contact with anyone anymore Extended eye contact with strangers in the supermarket can be terrifying
I’m not terrifying
I wouldn't class you as a stranger anymore though "But you wouldn’t recognise me with clothes on | |||
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"Make sure you tweet Tesco about this, using the hashtag #TescoTodger so they can review social distancing "Pahahaha, made me laugh! Mrs TMN x | |||
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"Is this why no one makes eye contact with anyone anymore " I would make eye contact with you any day. 
I try to and always smile when I look at a sexy lady in shops etc. You never know what they are thinking but if nothing else they see a happy face. | |||
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"Is this why no one makes eye contact with anyone anymore Extended eye contact with strangers in the supermarket can be terrifying
I’m not terrifying
I wouldn't class you as a stranger anymore though
But you wouldn’t recognise me with clothes on "Haha I think I'd spot that smile to be honest, its particularly great and smiles attract my attention  | |||
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"Thanks for your surport. I sometimes wonder if i have logged on to the wrong site." There's a time and a place, OP. Probably women trying to get their essentials in tesco whilst maintaining social distancing and touching as little as possible is not it. Mrs TMN | |||
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"Thanks for your surport. I sometimes wonder if i have logged on to the wrong site. There's a time and a place, OP. Probably women trying to get their essentials in tesco whilst maintaining social distancing and touching as little as possible is not it. Mrs TMN " Who says? looking is not a crime. Do we all turn our thoughts of because we are shopping for food? | |||
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"I don’t understand why the OP is getting such a hard time (excuse the pun). It’s a natural reaction to seeing something you fancy, for us women it’s just easier to hide " | |||
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"Maybe but then again i think there are alot of sexual frustrated women about or is that just me..." Its just you, pal | |||
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"I was taking it from the smiles i got they were please to see me?" I doubt if they were thinking of that is great, joe bloggs is in the shop, probably more smiling to be polite However, in our shop it is a strange vibe, there doesn't seem to be any eye contact at all at the moment, just all trying to stay away from each other | |||
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"Thanks for your surport. I sometimes wonder if i have logged on to the wrong site. There's a time and a place, OP. Probably women trying to get their essentials in tesco whilst maintaining social distancing and touching as little as possible is not it. Mrs TMN Who says? looking is not a crime. Do we all turn our thoughts of because we are shopping for food?" "I feel sure the ladies were teasing me" said the OP. Of course looking is not a crime. Thinking strangers are deliberately flaunting themselves in the supermarket is a bit unsavoury though, to my mind. Mrs TMN | |||
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"Thanks for your surport. I sometimes wonder if i have logged on to the wrong site. There's a time and a place, OP. Probably women trying to get their essentials in tesco whilst maintaining social distancing and touching as little as possible is not it. Mrs TMN "
Honestly I never look in the supermarket. And yes I mean never ever. It isn't the time or place. And anyone who tries to hit on me in such circumstances gets curtly dismissed.
I'm pretty out there sexually... on my terms. When I want to be. Most of the time I'm just being a person in public doing the things I need to do. I'd be concerned if I noticed a boner aimed at my direction in that kind of setting. It's just inappropriate. | |||
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"I don’t understand why the OP is getting such a hard time (excuse the pun). It’s a natural reaction to seeing something you fancy, for us women it’s just easier to hide " Perhaps because sexualisation of either sex in a setting when they are not necessarily wishing to be seen in that way and then posting it on a social media site is disrespectful? | |||
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Ohh you are posh "Waitrose has a better class of pervs by far! | |||
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"I'm changing to Sainsbury's
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"Is this why no one makes eye contact with anyone anymore Extended eye contact with strangers in the supermarket can be terrifying
I’m not terrifying
I wouldn't class you as a stranger anymore though
But you wouldn’t recognise me with clothes on
Haha I think I'd spot that smile to be honest, its particularly great and smiles attract my attention "I’d spot you too | |||
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"I smile at strangers out of politeness. It's habit, no more. " I do because I’m a smiley person. More so now because I feel so rude skirting around people to keep enough distance between us, it’s more apologetic smiles and trying to make jokes about it  | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. " It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it | |||
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"I smile at strangers out of politeness. It's habit, no more. I do because I’m a smiley person. More so now because I feel so rude skirting around people to keep enough distance between us, it’s more apologetic smiles and trying to make jokes about it "Yeah niceness at the moment feels more important. But it's "empathy for a human" not "oh baby oh baby" | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it" Grab a broom for socially distant whoop ass | |||
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"Is this why no one makes eye contact with anyone anymore I would make eye contact with you any day.
I try to and always smile when I look at a sexy lady in shops etc. You never know what they are thinking but if nothing else they see a happy face."Me too you could be that persons only interaction that day a little old lady gave me chocolates yesterday as she said I am always so happy and cheer her up  | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it Grab a broom for socially distant whoop ass" No, he can have the flu as well | |||
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"I smile at strangers out of politeness. It's habit, no more. I do because I’m a smiley person. More so now because I feel so rude skirting around people to keep enough distance between us, it’s more apologetic smiles and trying to make jokes about it
Yeah niceness at the moment feels more important. But it's "empathy for a human" not "oh baby oh baby""I don’t have the mental capacity to try and flirt in the supermarket. I’m too busy trying to remember if I need flour. Spoiler, no. I never need flour, I just keep buying it forgetting I have about 5 bags already | |||
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"I smile at strangers out of politeness. It's habit, no more. I do because I’m a smiley person. More so now because I feel so rude skirting around people to keep enough distance between us, it’s more apologetic smiles and trying to make jokes about it
Yeah niceness at the moment feels more important. But it's "empathy for a human" not "oh baby oh baby"
I don’t have the mental capacity to try and flirt in the supermarket. I’m too busy trying to remember if I need flour. Spoiler, no. I never need flour, I just keep buying it forgetting I have about 5 bags already "I think I process people differently in that environment? Even like Chris Hemsworth would be "person in the way of the kale" not omg  | |||
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"I smile at strangers out of politeness. It's habit, no more. I do because I’m a smiley person. More so now because I feel so rude skirting around people to keep enough distance between us, it’s more apologetic smiles and trying to make jokes about it
Yeah niceness at the moment feels more important. But it's "empathy for a human" not "oh baby oh baby"
I don’t have the mental capacity to try and flirt in the supermarket. I’m too busy trying to remember if I need flour. Spoiler, no. I never need flour, I just keep buying it forgetting I have about 5 bags already "I make lists then forget said lists then when I’m in the bread aisle I remember I needed butter and now they have them one way arrows it’s a nightmare | |||
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"I smile at strangers out of politeness. It's habit, no more. I do because I’m a smiley person. More so now because I feel so rude skirting around people to keep enough distance between us, it’s more apologetic smiles and trying to make jokes about it
Yeah niceness at the moment feels more important. But it's "empathy for a human" not "oh baby oh baby"
I don’t have the mental capacity to try and flirt in the supermarket. I’m too busy trying to remember if I need flour. Spoiler, no. I never need flour, I just keep buying it forgetting I have about 5 bags already "This is why I can't get flour...people like you who forget how much they have | |||
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"Thanks for your surport. I sometimes wonder if i have logged on to the wrong site. There's a time and a place, OP. Probably women trying to get their essentials in tesco whilst maintaining social distancing and touching as little as possible is not it. Mrs TMN " | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. " Nobody's suggested it is a crime, but the OP invited comment and some have disagreed with his view...which also isn't a crime! | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it " I think this is the problem with these type of threads, it turns into someone implying others being a sex pest rather than a man appreciating they find people or a situation attractive Can men stop an erection popping up? | |||
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"I don’t understand why the OP is getting such a hard time (excuse the pun). It’s a natural reaction to seeing something you fancy, for us women it’s just easier to hide Perhaps because sexualisation of either sex in a setting when they are not necessarily wishing to be seen in that way and then posting it on a social media site is disrespectful?" Are the others aware of it, no. I find it very hard to believe that none of you have never spotted someone and had thoughts when out and about As for social media, it’s not Facebook, it’s a swingers site where sex is the topic. Some of the drivel that ends up on here a lot would find disrespectful, but is that moaned about no. Someone sharing their thoughts, which many have posted about prior to this on various occasions, over a natural reaction to someone in yoga pants draws the sanctimonious | |||
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"I'm changing to Sainsbury's
Ohh you are posh
Waitrose has a better class of pervs by far!
We don’t have Waitrose over here "Really? How terribly inconvenient. How does one purchase to avocado and couscous? I have just returned from my bachelor shopping trip and was amazed just how many sexually frustrated women there were in the store. I barely got out with my clothes in tact. | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it I think this is the problem with these type of threads, it turns into someone implying others being a sex pest rather than a man appreciating they find people or a situation attractive Can men stop an erection popping up?" No he can’t. But he can choose to keep those thoughts to himself and not post them on a public forum. | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it" Please can you film it if it ever happens? I have a wonderful mental picture | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it I think this is the problem with these type of threads, it turns into someone implying others being a sex pest rather than a man appreciating they find people or a situation attractive Can men stop an erection popping up?" Its not that difficult in my opinion. Although to be sure I did start a thread asking other people | |||
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"Maybe but then again i think there are alot of sexual frustrated women about or is that just me... There might be. They're not likely to be even remotely interested while they're in the supermarket. Sometimes*, particularly in a crisis, we're just people doing the shit we need to do and it's not about sex. * For me almost always" Well fab proves that that isn't the truth. | |||
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"I'm changing to Sainsbury's
Ohh you are posh
Waitrose has a better class of pervs by far!
We don’t have Waitrose over here
Really? How terribly inconvenient. How does one purchase to avocado and couscous? I have just returned from my bachelor shopping trip and was amazed just how many sexually frustrated women there were in the store. I barely got out with my clothes in tact. "I think you can get those in *whispers* Aldi now. | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it I think this is the problem with these type of threads, it turns into someone implying others being a sex pest rather than a man appreciating they find people or a situation attractive Can men stop an erection popping up? No he can’t. But he can choose to keep those thoughts to himself and not post them on a public forum." Why ? | |||
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"I don’t understand why the OP is getting such a hard time (excuse the pun). It’s a natural reaction to seeing something you fancy, for us women it’s just easier to hide Perhaps because sexualisation of either sex in a setting when they are not necessarily wishing to be seen in that way and then posting it on a social media site is disrespectful? Are the others aware of it, no. I find it very hard to believe that none of you have never spotted someone and had thoughts when out and about As for social media, it’s not Facebook, it’s a swingers site where sex is the topic. Some of the drivel that ends up on here a lot would find disrespectful, but is that moaned about no. Someone sharing their thoughts, which many have posted about prior to this on various occasions, over a natural reaction to someone in yoga pants draws the sanctimonious " It’s a public forum...you think your thoughts and I’ll think mine. I think it is disrespectful. | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it I think this is the problem with these type of threads, it turns into someone implying others being a sex pest rather than a man appreciating they find people or a situation attractive Can men stop an erection popping up?" Of course we can stop a pop up.......at my age it’s more of a gentle rise to the occasion that can often take some considerable time. | |||
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"I smile at strangers out of politeness. It's habit, no more. I do because I’m a smiley person. More so now because I feel so rude skirting around people to keep enough distance between us, it’s more apologetic smiles and trying to make jokes about it
Yeah niceness at the moment feels more important. But it's "empathy for a human" not "oh baby oh baby"
I don’t have the mental capacity to try and flirt in the supermarket. I’m too busy trying to remember if I need flour. Spoiler, no. I never need flour, I just keep buying it forgetting I have about 5 bags already "This is me with laundry detergent. If I think I’ve forgotten something I’ll always buy laundry detergent. Thanks to my dreadful memory regarding shopping I’ve got loads if it now | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it I think this is the problem with these type of threads, it turns into someone implying others being a sex pest rather than a man appreciating they find people or a situation attractive Can men stop an erection popping up? No he can’t. But he can choose to keep those thoughts to himself and not post them on a public forum. Why ? " Because that is a decent and respectful thing to do. | |||
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"I don’t understand why the OP is getting such a hard time (excuse the pun). It’s a natural reaction to seeing something you fancy, for us women it’s just easier to hide Perhaps because sexualisation of either sex in a setting when they are not necessarily wishing to be seen in that way and then posting it on a social media site is disrespectful? Are the others aware of it, no. I find it very hard to believe that none of you have never spotted someone and had thoughts when out and about As for social media, it’s not Facebook, it’s a swingers site where sex is the topic. Some of the drivel that ends up on here a lot would find disrespectful, but is that moaned about no. Someone sharing their thoughts, which many have posted about prior to this on various occasions, over a natural reaction to someone in yoga pants draws the sanctimonious It’s a public forum...you think your thoughts and I’ll think mine. I think it is disrespectful." Exactly everyone entitled to their thoughts | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it I think this is the problem with these type of threads, it turns into someone implying others being a sex pest rather than a man appreciating they find people or a situation attractive Can men stop an erection popping up?" As the OP said - and I quote, again - "I feel sure the ladies in there were teasing me." That's the part that doesn't sit well with me. Do I look at people in daily life and have sexual thoughts? Yes. Is that a natural human reaction? I think so. Do I think strangers I meet are teasing me, because I find them attractive? No. Mrs TMN | |||
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"I'm changing to Sainsbury's
Ohh you are posh
Waitrose has a better class of pervs by far!
We don’t have Waitrose over here
Really? How terribly inconvenient. How does one purchase to avocado and couscous? I have just returned from my bachelor shopping trip and was amazed just how many sexually frustrated women there were in the store. I barely got out with my clothes in tact.
I think you can get those in *whispers* Aldi now."Aldi, Aldi? One couldn’t possibly patronage an establishment that has the cooked meat aisle directly adjacent to the hammer drill and chain saw aisle? | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it I think this is the problem with these type of threads, it turns into someone implying others being a sex pest rather than a man appreciating they find people or a situation attractive Can men stop an erection popping up? As the OP said - and I quote, again - "I feel sure the ladies in there were teasing me." That's the part that doesn't sit well with me. Do I look at people in daily life and have sexual thoughts? Yes. Is that a natural human reaction? I think so. Do I think strangers I meet are teasing me, because I find them attractive? No. Mrs TMN " | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it I think this is the problem with these type of threads, it turns into someone implying others being a sex pest rather than a man appreciating they find people or a situation attractive Can men stop an erection popping up? Of course we can stop a pop up.......at my age it’s more of a gentle rise to the occasion that can often take some considerable time. " I ask the question as I have only had two long term relationships and one couldn't and one can...the first one even got an involuntary one if we were on a bus and couldn't stop it. Disclaimer, no one else on the bus was hurt or traumatised by an erection in a pair of pants as it wasn't shown to the whole bus | |||
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"You would think men or women walk around normally with their eyes shut and never look at the opposite sex, looking at someone in a public place and thinking cor I would do him /her isn't a crime. It's not the looking that's the worst part, it's the getting an erection in the middle of the super market. If I was in supermarket with my partner and someone was stood there staring at her with a hard on, I'd want to round house kick it I think this is the problem with these type of threads, it turns into someone implying others being a sex pest rather than a man appreciating they find people or a situation attractive Can men stop an erection popping up? Of course we can stop a pop up.......at my age it’s more of a gentle rise to the occasion that can often take some considerable time. I ask the question as I have only had two long term relationships and one couldn't and one can...the first one even got an involuntary one if we were on a bus and couldn't stop it. Disclaimer, no one else on the bus was hurt or traumatised by an erection in a pair of pants as it wasn't shown to the whole bus" But as we know it takes time for the blood to drain from the cerebral cavity into the groin so it’s more of a slow gravity fed fill. The process has been clearly demonstrated by the thread? | |||
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Waitrose has a better class of pervs by far!
We don’t have Waitrose over here
Really? How terribly inconvenient. How does one purchase to avocado and couscous? I have just returned from my bachelor shopping trip and was amazed just how many sexually frustrated women there were in the store. I barely got out with my clothes in tact.
I think you can get those in *whispers* Aldi now."We don’t have aldi either | |||
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" As the OP said - and I quote, again - "I feel sure the ladies in there were teasing me." That's the part that doesn't sit well with me. Do I look at people in daily life and have sexual thoughts? Yes. Is that a natural human reaction? I think so. Do I think strangers I meet are teasing me, because I find them attractive? No. Mrs TMN " I get what you are saying and appreciate it isn't for you
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"I'm changing to Sainsbury's
Ohh you are posh
Waitrose has a better class of pervs by far!
We don’t have Waitrose over here
Really? How terribly inconvenient. How does one purchase to avocado and couscous? I have just returned from my bachelor shopping trip and was amazed just how many sexually frustrated women there were in the store. I barely got out with my clothes in tact.
I think you can get those in *whispers* Aldi now.
We don’t have aldi either "I thought County Antrim was such a civilised place too! | |||
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" As the OP said - and I quote, again - "I feel sure the ladies in there were teasing me." That's the part that doesn't sit well with me. Do I look at people in daily life and have sexual thoughts? Yes. Is that a natural human reaction? I think so. Do I think strangers I meet are teasing me, because I find them attractive? No. Mrs TMN I get what you are saying and appreciate it isn't for you
However, some women ( not saying the ones in Tesco did ) do tease men whilst out"I’m guessing the majority don’t | |||
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" As the OP said - and I quote, again - "I feel sure the ladies in there were teasing me." That's the part that doesn't sit well with me. Do I look at people in daily life and have sexual thoughts? Yes. Is that a natural human reaction? I think so. Do I think strangers I meet are teasing me, because I find them attractive? No. Mrs TMN I get what you are saying and appreciate it isn't for you
However, some women ( not saying the ones in Tesco did ) do tease men whilst out"Really.........? I suppose every little helps! | |||
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" No he can’t. But he can choose to keep those thoughts to himself and not post them on a public forum. Why ? Because that is a decent and respectful thing to do." For you Some people won't find it that way | |||
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"I think this teasing should be opt in. At the moment it feels like I have to guard against unwelcome attention for the crime of needing to buy bread." So you mean like a teaser aisle? With bottom shelves only? Full of scantily clad ladies forever bending over to reach for the honey? | |||
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" As the OP said - and I quote, again - "I feel sure the ladies in there were teasing me." That's the part that doesn't sit well with me. Do I look at people in daily life and have sexual thoughts? Yes. Is that a natural human reaction? I think so. Do I think strangers I meet are teasing me, because I find them attractive? No. Mrs TMN I get what you are saying and appreciate it isn't for you
However, some women ( not saying the ones in Tesco did ) do tease men whilst out""I thought the woman I saw in the shop was teasing me because some women do tease men"... | |||
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"I think this teasing should be opt in. At the moment it feels like I have to guard against unwelcome attention for the crime of needing to buy bread. So you mean like a teaser aisle? With bottom shelves only? Full of scantily clad ladies forever bending over to reach for the honey?" Lol. They never put the Honey that low down for me. Seems everything I need is on the top shelf. | |||
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"Makes me laugh at time when people post random stuff on the forums and some people get their knickers in a twist over it, (if you can still say that as I don't want to upset some people) Not everything posted is real/fact or to be taken serious " We’ve realised this and that a lot here have no concept of a SOH, quite scary | |||
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"I think this teasing should be opt in. At the moment it feels like I have to guard against unwelcome attention for the crime of needing to buy bread. So you mean like a teaser aisle? With bottom shelves only? Full of scantily clad ladies forever bending over to reach for the honey? Lol. They never put the Honey that low down for me. Seems everything I need is on the top shelf. "Most of my browsing is in and around the middle shelf but then again I am a bit of a traditional buffer! | |||
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"Makes me laugh at time when people post random stuff on the forums and some people get their knickers in a twist over it, (if you can still say that as I don't want to upset some people) Not everything posted is real/fact or to be taken serious We’ve realised this and that a lot here have no concept of a SOH, quite scary" Very true but on a social messaging platform where the topics range from female ejaculation to the Keynes model on economics one has to be a little thoughtful as to others. No one has the right not to be offend but then again those who are have every right to a response. It’s call democracy. | |||
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"Whilst I *do* think the OP could have worded his post better I also think there's an element of being offended for the sake of being offended going on here (and yes I do know I can do that at times). Anyone (certainly on a site like this) that says they haven't been going about their daily business and had someone take their eye or give them a moments sexual thought, is either lying or potentially on the wrong site. So I take no issue with the concept of it whatsoever, as I'd be hypocritical if I did, whether it should have been described quite the way it was is debatable and possibly subjective." Maybe a more regular poster would of worded it in another way but even if they hadn't they wouldn't of been jumped on like this | |||
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"I'm changing to Sainsbury's
Ohh you are posh
Waitrose has a better class of pervs by far!
We don’t have Waitrose over here
Really? How terribly inconvenient. How does one purchase to avocado and couscous? I have just returned from my bachelor shopping trip and was amazed just how many sexually frustrated women there were in the store. I barely got out with my clothes in tact.
I think you can get those in *whispers* Aldi now.
We don’t have aldi either "Lidl is the same. You have one of those. If not head down the B'mena line there's one there by the 7 Towers Leisure centre. 
It be posh and go to M & S. | |||
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Headline: Man fancies woman in supermarket shocker !!! | |||
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" No he can’t. But he can choose to keep those thoughts to himself and not post them on a public forum. Why ? Because that is a decent and respectful thing to do. For you Some people won't find it that way". I’m not alone in my view. | |||
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"I'm changing to Sainsbury's
Ohh you are posh
Waitrose has a better class of pervs by far!
We don’t have Waitrose over here
Really? How terribly inconvenient. How does one purchase to avocado and couscous? I have just returned from my bachelor shopping trip and was amazed just how many sexually frustrated women there were in the store. I barely got out with my clothes in tact.
I think you can get those in *whispers* Aldi now.
We don’t have aldi either
Lidl is the same. You have one of those. If not head down the B'mena line there's one there by the 7 Towers Leisure centre.
It be posh and go to M & S."There’s a better one in Antrim | |||
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"Whilst I *do* think the OP could have worded his post better I also think there's an element of being offended for the sake of being offended going on here (and yes I do know I can do that at times). Anyone (certainly on a site like this) that says they haven't been going about their daily business and had someone take their eye or give them a moments sexual thought, is either lying or potentially on the wrong site. So I take no issue with the concept of it whatsoever, as I'd be hypocritical if I did, whether it should have been described quite the way it was is debatable and possibly subjective." There is no value in anything. It’s all relative. We’ll all be happy in a postmodern, nihilistic moral vacuum. | |||
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"Whilst I *do* think the OP could have worded his post better I also think there's an element of being offended for the sake of being offended going on here (and yes I do know I can do that at times). Anyone (certainly on a site like this) that says they haven't been going about their daily business and had someone take their eye or give them a moments sexual thought, is either lying or potentially on the wrong site. So I take no issue with the concept of it whatsoever, as I'd be hypocritical if I did, whether it should have been described quite the way it was is debatable and possibly subjective. There is no value in anything. It’s all relative. We’ll all be happy in a postmodern, nihilistic moral vacuum. " Sorry bro, could you do that one again but in English? | |||
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"Just been shopping. Not having had much female contact for the past week i feel sure the ladies in there were teasing me. Yoga pants bending over omg wish i had not worn my joggers #hardon." I think the biggest problem I have with this is showing a hardon. I thought wolf whistles were a bit crass but actually looking at a woman with a hardon is much, much worse. The next thing is the entitlement - women are there to tease. There are exactly 38,269 reasons a woman could be in Tescos, teasing blokes is one of those reasons. Log odds for anyone to make an assumption. If you’re a heterosexual bloke and fancy behaving like this, here’s a handy check: if a gay man behaved the same way to you - staring, smiling and with a visible hardon and a lustful look in his eyes, how would you feel? Now add in this gay man staring at you was much stronger than you and knows he could catch you and pin you down easily, how would you feel. He’s still staring at you and showing his erection while you churn this over, by the way. If the answer is you’d feel a bit uncomfortable, don’t do it to others. | |||
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"Just been shopping. Not having had much female contact for the past week i feel sure the ladies in there were teasing me. Yoga pants bending over omg wish i had not worn my joggers #hardon. I think the biggest problem I have with this is showing a hardon. I thought wolf whistles were a bit crass but actually looking at a woman with a hardon is much, much worse. The next thing is the entitlement - women are there to tease. There are exactly 38,269 reasons a woman could be in Tescos, teasing blokes is one of those reasons. Log odds for anyone to make an assumption. If you’re a heterosexual bloke and fancy behaving like this, here’s a handy check: if a gay man behaved the same way to you - staring, smiling and with a visible hardon and a lustful look in his eyes, how would you feel? Now add in this gay man staring at you was much stronger than you and knows he could catch you and pin you down easily, how would you feel. He’s still staring at you and showing his erection while you churn this over, by the way. If the answer is you’d feel a bit uncomfortable, don’t do it to others." Did I misread the OP? I don't think he said he had a 'visible' hard-on!? | |||
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"This thread has made me laugh haha. I'm all for enjoying a good bum in some leggings. Love it actually. Nothing wrong with having a wee look. But I'm pretty sure they were just in Tesco getting their shopping and trying not to catch Corona rather than looking for some action OP! "It was more then likely a thinking out loud moment, We've all done it | |||
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"Maybe the women's lives have been turned upside down, they need food, they threw something comfortable on and a stranger's sexual arousal is the last thing on their mind in this weird time." | |||
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"Just been shopping. Not having had much female contact for the past week i feel sure the ladies in there were teasing me. Yoga pants bending over omg wish i had not worn my joggers #hardon. I think the biggest problem I have with this is showing a hardon. I thought wolf whistles were a bit crass but actually looking at a woman with a hardon is much, much worse. The next thing is the entitlement - women are there to tease. There are exactly 38,269 reasons a woman could be in Tescos, teasing blokes is one of those reasons. Log odds for anyone to make an assumption. If you’re a heterosexual bloke and fancy behaving like this, here’s a handy check: if a gay man behaved the same way to you - staring, smiling and with a visible hardon and a lustful look in his eyes, how would you feel? Now add in this gay man staring at you was much stronger than you and knows he could catch you and pin you down easily, how would you feel. He’s still staring at you and showing his erection while you churn this over, by the way. If the answer is you’d feel a bit uncomfortable, don’t do it to others." Well put Adam | |||
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"Just been shopping. Not having had much female contact for the past week i feel sure the ladies in there were teasing me. Yoga pants bending over omg wish i had not worn my joggers #hardon. I think the biggest problem I have with this is showing a hardon. I thought wolf whistles were a bit crass but actually looking at a woman with a hardon is much, much worse. The next thing is the entitlement - women are there to tease. There are exactly 38,269 reasons a woman could be in Tescos, teasing blokes is one of those reasons. Log odds for anyone to make an assumption. If you’re a heterosexual bloke and fancy behaving like this, here’s a handy check: if a gay man behaved the same way to you - staring, smiling and with a visible hardon and a lustful look in his eyes, how would you feel? Now add in this gay man staring at you was much stronger than you and knows he could catch you and pin you down easily, how would you feel. He’s still staring at you and showing his erection while you churn this over, by the way. If the answer is you’d feel a bit uncomfortable, don’t do it to others. Well put Adam "It would be if the OP had said he was stood staring and smiling with a lustful look in his eye, and although he hinted at it didn't actually say his hard on was visible, besides which realistically how often is a blokes arousal actually visible unless he is deliberately making it so? I can honestly say I've never noticed another guys hard on whilst out and about my daily business in places where they weren't deliberately on show. As I said further up the OP was maybe badly worded, as Scrumdiddly put it "a thinking out loud moment", but I don't think the essence of what he has stated is anything any of us, men and women, haven't done at some point in our lives. Now if it turns out that the OP *had* been wandering round the store with his trackie bottoms pulled tight to reveal a bulge and had been leering and staring then that is, of course, another matter entirely | |||
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