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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone ever bother to look at and reply to their winks??

Surely it’s just easier to send a message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winked you

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

I wink at somebody often and then I will send them a message if I get a returned wink ,,, some ways it's better in a message because if you write a long message out and it's ignored at least a wink it's just a wink ,,, imo anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Winked you "

Cheers

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

We do reply to winks and get replies back. MrD might be busy but browsing and sends out a wink as a quick 'nice profile' thing.

Sometimes sending a meaningful message takes time rather than the generic 'hi how are you' message.

MsD x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont tend to use the wink happy to get winked at though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink to some folk. I like receiving them too. It's an ice breaker if nothing else. I would try it in a crowded bar so why not on here too?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I don’t think they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a wink to see if I get a response. If not I won't message the person as they are not interested. Thought that was the idea of the wu k system on here.

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

I get why women prefer a message when you see how many messages and winks the get bombarded with constantly - you need something to catch your eye and stand out. However, don’t see anything inherently wrong with winks - women and couples use them too. If there’s a wink and mutual attraction then that’s fine. Generic copy and paste messages are no better!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I use winks all the time

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Lou) Very rarely, would rather get a message

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"I wink at somebody often and then I will send them a message if I get a returned wink ,,, some ways it's better in a message because if you write a long message out and it's ignored at least a wink it's just a wink ,,, imo anyway "

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I would get excited by a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the wink system

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I never wink and completely forget to check the, by the time I remember they’re weeks old and 100s of them

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I think winks are cute. Hang on, perhaps cute isn't the right word

Winks are a nice subtle was of flirting r saying...I'd love a cuppa tea.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Nothing wrong with a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a wink backer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never wink and completely forget to check the, by the time I remember they’re weeks old and 100s of them"

Same. Don’t think I’ve ever looked at who’s winked.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We like winks, quicker to establish if there is an initial attraction. If we wink and don’t get a wink back then we move on as we know they aren’t interested. Same the other way around, if we receive a wink from someone we like then will wink back as a come and say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate


"We like winks, quicker to establish if there is an initial attraction. If we wink and don’t get a wink back then we move on as we know they aren’t interested. Same the other way around, if we receive a wink from someone we like then will wink back as a come and say hi "

Seems like the most sensible approach.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Have just been inundated with winks well at least it keeps us occupied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone ever bother to look at and reply to their winks??

Surely it’s just easier to send a message x"

I do respond with a message if I like the look of them and they’re local. I wink back if they’re too far away, but I like the look of them. I do nothing if I’m not keen.

I don’t send winks as I know they’d be lost in the mountain of winks the profiles I’d go for would get, so it’s pointless.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"We like winks, quicker to establish if there is an initial attraction. If we wink and don’t get a wink back then we move on as we know they aren’t interested. Same the other way around, if we receive a wink from someone we like then will wink back as a come and say hi "

Good to know - if this were more usual it would save a lot of time (which is so scarce nowadays) wasted on carefully crafted introductions that probably never even get a glance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got winked by a woman in California many years ago and that lead to a fine evening of my holiday

On here, I do wink but don’t believe it is as good as sending a message but happy to be proven wrong by sending winks this week

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Have just been inundated with winks well at least it keeps us occupied "

Haha thought you might be!

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I've winked guys and I have replied to a few winks with a message if the guy has caught my attention, I always look at the profile of anyone who winks me

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