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By *D - Charlie OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

What advice would you offer to new site members on getting the ball rolling?

The experience for Men and Women are entirely different.

For a guy, writing a sincere message for the 100th time an getting the 100 rejection can be destroying which then leads to the quick fire intros "how are you" and so on

Let's see what the wonderful world of fab suggests

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Don't Take the rejections to heart ( easier said then done ) ,,,

Don't copy and paste , be yourself and

Stay true ,,, eventually you'll Get success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What advice would you offer to new site members on getting the ball rolling?

The experience for Men and Women are entirely different.

For a guy, writing a sincere message for the 100th time an getting the 100 rejection can be destroying which then leads to the quick fire intros "how are you" and so on

Let's see what the wonderful world of fab suggests"

We would always say write a decent profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree with the guy above. D not copy n paste women here hate that. Be yourself. Also read people’s profiles they may ask something specific ..which if they do then you can choose to do it or not

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos are good, excellent suits. Your profile is lacking and seems one sided about what you can get from the experience, not what you can offer. The username also makes me cringe a little.

If you're sending messages, your profile will need to back them up, people will make a judgement on whether to reply.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Join in on the forums, you can get chatting in a way that's hard to do by private message.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"What advice would you offer to new site members on getting the ball rolling?

The experience for Men and Women are entirely different.

For a guy, writing a sincere message for the 100th time an getting the 100 rejection can be destroying which then leads to the quick fire intros "how are you" and so on

Let's see what the wonderful world of fab suggests"

Had a peek at your profile.

Nice pics but like someone said above that there really isn’t much on your profile.

I love reading what someone had written on their profile before replying to see if our wants match.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself, don't feel you need to be a sex god, speak to somebody how you would off this site in the first instance.

Attach face pic with messages and introduce yourself

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By *D - Charlie OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

Updated

Thank you for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d you enjoy the fora, the green arrow next to someone’s name is very enlightening

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"I’d you enjoy the fora, the green arrow next to someone’s name is very enlightening "

Just tried that. Turns out you’re a witch

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Obviously in normal times not with the lockdown

Don't put all your eggs in the one "fab" basket in the pursuit of sex.

Get out with mates, go to pubs and clubs and chat to women and if you get lucky it's a result and if not you've had a blinding night anyway.

On fab I'd say lower your expectations and then you won't be disappointed and definitely don't let it run your life by checking it for messages every ten minutes.

Enjoy the forums and banter and don't rise to the bait thrown out by the attention seekers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you really like someone and the message remains unread don’t be afraid to try one more time. When I was looking it used to get silly and I’d just bulk delete a lot. I know a few others have done that too. It may be the message was missed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would really fuck a 99 year old or an 18 year old? Change your age range if not. It looks careless or desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d you enjoy the fora, the green arrow next to someone’s name is very enlightening

Just tried that. Turns out you’re a witch "

I am indeed

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"I’d you enjoy the fora, the green arrow next to someone’s name is very enlightening

Just tried that. Turns out you’re a witch

I am indeed "

If only you were also a doctor.......

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Obviously in normal times not with the lockdown

Don't put all your eggs in the one "fab" basket in the pursuit of sex.

Get out with mates, go to pubs and clubs and chat to women and if you get lucky it's a result and if not you've had a blinding night anyway.

On fab I'd say lower your expectations and then you won't be disappointed and definitely don't let it run your life by checking it for messages every ten minutes.

Enjoy the forums and banter and don't rise to the bait thrown out by the attention seekers.

"

For a second there I thought you said lower your standards on fab lol

Of course I re-read it again.

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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago

Away with the faeries


"I’d you enjoy the fora, the green arrow next to someone’s name is very enlightening "

Mind officially blown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re a returning fab member so you’ll know the script. Although if you were here as a couple before then it’s very different for a single male

Anyways good luck me and enjoy

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"What advice would you offer to new site members on getting the ball rolling?

The experience for Men and Women are entirely different.

For a guy, writing a sincere message for the 100th time an getting the 100 rejection can be destroying which then leads to the quick fire intros "how are you" and so on

Let's see what the wonderful world of fab suggests"

Dont ask for profile advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re a returning fab member so you’ll know the script. Although if you were here as a couple before then it’s very different for a single male

Anyways good luck me and enjoy "

Good luck you not me lol

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