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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and my wife have been together for 20 years and in all that time i never had a reason to doubt or believe something that she has told me, until now.

We was chatting one night about blowjobs that i had received in past and would i be interested in receiving a blowjob from another women in the future, Obviously i was excited at the thought of having someone other than my wife sucking me off.

I replied with "sure i would be interested by if i am to be receiving, what about you giving a blowjob to someone else" response was hmmm dunno, "not something you would like to try" i replied, to cut a long story and the reason for my wife's hesitation is she as never given a blowjob to anyone other than myself.

That shocked me and I'm not sure i can completely believe what she has told me.

My reasons for doubting

Previous partners including one that i know was a relationship for 2 years.

Couple of one night stands prior to our relationship.

Blowjob skills i would say were not beginners level.

I though we have spoken about previous relationships we have never gone to deep on info.

What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t base it just on oral skills; I’ve had FwBs in the past who’ve had very few relationships prior to our fun but have given head like a seasoned porn star.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you posting on your couples profile? Why don’t you just talk about it with her? Why is it a problem? Just why??

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Does it actually matter??

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

You doubt her after 20 years together

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

I’d say you are but it’s just so you feel exclusive to her. It’s all with good intentions

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I was with my ex husband for over 18 years and not once did I give him a blowjob.......so it is possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would she lie?

Also won't she be offended when she reads this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would she lie?

Also won't she be offended when she reads this? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was with my ex husband for over 18 years and not once did I give him a blowjob.......so it is possible "

Thank you

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I dated a 40 year old, who was married and had 5 kids and he had never had a blowjob before he met me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d say you are but it’s just so you feel exclusive to her. It’s all with good intentions "

I would say you are right with your response, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dated a 40 year old, who was married and had 5 kids and he had never had a blowjob before he met me "

Thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

trust your wife

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I learned all my skills from an in depth article in More Magazine in the early 90's

If she read that you didn't go on a beginner level

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"I dated a 40 year old, who was married and had 5 kids and he had never had a blowjob before he met me "

He must have thought all his birthdays had come at once

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x"

My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Some mens cock are more appealing to suck than others.

Maybe she saw yours and thought “that’s the one for me!” And never looked back.

It happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some mens cock are more appealing to suck than others.

Maybe she saw yours and thought “that’s the one for me!” And never looked back.

It happens."

Best response yet, love it

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x

My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me "

if your mind at ease you wouldnt of posted this on the forum were there every chance she could see it Lol

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"

What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?

"

Ask her?

"have you really never given a blow job to anyone else? Just curious, honestly don't mind at all if you have!"

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x

My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me if your mind at ease you wouldnt of posted this on the forum were there every chance she could see it Lol "

That’s what I was thinking...unless it isn’t really a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x

My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me if your mind at ease you wouldnt of posted this on the forum were there every chance she could see it Lol "

my mind wasnt at ease when i posted it but is now due to a few response's here, Ie why would she lie, we are entitled to questions and to have to been given answers to why might be lol

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x

My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me if your mind at ease you wouldnt of posted this on the forum were there every chance she could see it Lol

my mind wasnt at ease when i posted it but is now due to a few response's here, Ie why would she lie, we are entitled to questions and to have to been given answers to why might be lol

"

the only person that can give u the answer is your wife lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x

My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me if your mind at ease you wouldnt of posted this on the forum were there every chance she could see it Lol

my mind wasnt at ease when i posted it but is now due to a few response's here, Ie why would she lie, we are entitled to questions and to have to been given answers to why might be lol

the only person that can give u the answer is your wife lol "

That is true, but would the answer be true? that's something i would never know, so i have to accept that its the truth or its a white lie for my benefit.

Either way its end of conversation. I accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this "

You think? i think you might be wrong lol

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why are previous relationships and what she did with the partners important to you now? Does she know you are telling Fab m_mbers her private business?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are previous relationships and what she did with the partners important to you now? Does she know you are telling Fab m_mbers her private business?

"

Interesting you take from all this is that what she did with previous partners, yet i have not mentioned previous partners, and only spoke about experiences she may have or not done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it really matter? "

I think you missed the point where i said, im at ease with it now lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it really matter?

I think you missed the point where i said, im at ease with it now lmao"

So what's the point of the thread then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it really matter?

I think you missed the point where i said, im at ease with it now lmao

So what's the point of the thread then?"

If you read all the comments you would come to that conclusion all by yourself. enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it really matter?

I think you missed the point where i said, im at ease with it now lmao

So what's the point of the thread then?

If you read all the comments you would come to that conclusion all by yourself. enjoy "

As I suspected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it really matter?

I think you missed the point where i said, im at ease with it now lmao

So what's the point of the thread then?

If you read all the comments you would come to that conclusion all by yourself. enjoy

As I suspected. "

You suspected what sorry?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this

You think? i think you might be wrong lol "

If my husband had posted this thread I can assure you the only contact hed have to his cock would be my knee...very forcibly !

If you had doubts then the place to air them is direct to your partner NOT to ransdoms on a forum! Total disrespect in my book .

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

reaching for popcorn......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this

You think? i think you might be wrong lol

If my husband had posted this thread I can assure you the only contact hed have to his cock would be my knee...very forcibly !

If you had doubts then the place to air them is direct to your partner NOT to ransdoms on a forum! Total disrespect in my book .

"

yeah ok lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"reaching for popcorn......"

Pepsi with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a made up thread. Baloney

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Why are previous relationships and what she did with the partners important to you now? Does she know you are telling Fab m_mbers her private business?

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this

You think? i think you might be wrong lol

If my husband had posted this thread I can assure you the only contact hed have to his cock would be my knee...very forcibly !

If you had doubts then the place to air them is direct to your partner NOT to ransdoms on a forum! Total disrespect in my book .

"

Would it make you feel better when my wife reads this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a made up thread. Baloney "

Not made up, why do you assume that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are you posting on your couples profile? Why don’t you just talk about it with her? Why is it a problem? Just why?? "

The second message in the thread and you didn’t reply!!! I wonder!! I smell something

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yawn "

You tired?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this

You think? i think you might be wrong lol

If my husband had posted this thread I can assure you the only contact hed have to his cock would be my knee...very forcibly !

If you had doubts then the place to air them is direct to your partner NOT to ransdoms on a forum! Total disrespect in my book .

Would it make you feel better when my wife reads this?"

I doubt very much IF you have a wife that she even knows you are on here lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are you posting on your couples profile? Why don’t you just talk about it with her? Why is it a problem? Just why??

The second message in the thread and you didn’t reply!!! I wonder!! I smell something "

you assume i didnt speak to her, you assume i have to reply. why do you assume i have too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter if she has or hasn’t given blowjobs to other men? Genuinely? Because their doesn’t seem worth the inevitable argument

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this

You think? i think you might be wrong lol

If my husband had posted this thread I can assure you the only contact hed have to his cock would be my knee...very forcibly !

If you had doubts then the place to air them is direct to your partner NOT to ransdoms on a forum! Total disrespect in my book .

Would it make you feel better when my wife reads this?

I doubt very much IF you have a wife that she even knows you are on here lol!

"

Would you like to know for sure?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it matter if she has or hasn’t given blowjobs to other men? Genuinely? Because their doesn’t seem worth the inevitable argument

"

Lol you read some of the comments not all

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

So 20 years ago your wife was quite young and just not had that experience.

Why is that hard to believe.

20 yrs and you have never had any reason to doubt her. And sure her bj skills aint bad, she's been sucking your cock for 20yrs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"reaching for popcorn......"

*ahem... share

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"So 20 years ago your wife was quite young and just not had that experience.

Why is that hard to believe.

20 yrs and you have never had any reason to doubt her. And sure her bj skills aint bad, she's been sucking your cock for 20yrs!

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So 20 years ago your wife was quite young and just not had that experience.

Why is that hard to believe.

20 yrs and you have never had any reason to doubt her. And sure her bj skills aint bad, she's been sucking your cock for 20yrs!

"

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"This is a made up thread. Baloney

Not made up, why do you assume that?"

Your nose has grown 18 inches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a made up thread. Baloney

Not made up, why do you assume that?

Your nose has grown 18 inches "

Finally my nose matches my cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a made up thread. Baloney

Not made up, why do you assume that?

Your nose has grown 18 inches "

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I really dont give two hoots if you have a wife or not .

You boast how respectful you are on profile ..well this thread blown that out the water .

Also any chance of meets ...ohh but youve no meets anyway so no loss there then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really dont give two hoots if you have a wife or not .

You boast how respectful you are on profile ..well this thread blown that out the water .

Also any chance of meets ...ohh but youve no meets anyway so no loss there then "

You need a cuddle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its her business ,leave it alone or you will kick over a can of worms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its her business ,leave it alone or you will kick over a can of worms"

it certainly had that potential, dont worry, its all good

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"Me and my wife have been together for 20 years and in all that time i never had a reason to doubt or believe something that she has told me, until now.

We was chatting one night about blowjobs that i had received in past and would i be interested in receiving a blowjob from another women in the future, Obviously i was excited at the thought of having someone other than my wife sucking me off.

I replied with "sure i would be interested by if i am to be receiving, what about you giving a blowjob to someone else" response was hmmm dunno, "not something you would like to try" i replied, to cut a long story and the reason for my wife's hesitation is she as never given a blowjob to anyone other than myself.

That shocked me and I'm not sure i can completely believe what she has told me.

My reasons for doubting

Previous partners including one that i know was a relationship for 2 years.

Couple of one night stands prior to our relationship.

Blowjob skills i would say were not beginners level.

I though we have spoken about previous relationships we have never gone to deep on info.

What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?

"

Doubt it is something she is likely to lie about....or at least I can't see why she would. She wouldn't benefit from it in any way. The only way to know is to ask questions and keep channel of communication open and to talk about it all. Maybe try talking about all the things you've tries, would like to try, have tried but didn't like etc and see where it leads. Sorry if I rambled xT

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

I've been with my wife for 30 plus years and she said she has never had anal sex with anyone else only me should I believe her ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me and my wife have been together for 20 years and in all that time i never had a reason to doubt or believe something that she has told me, until now.

We was chatting one night about blowjobs that i had received in past and would i be interested in receiving a blowjob from another women in the future, Obviously i was excited at the thought of having someone other than my wife sucking me off.

I replied with "sure i would be interested by if i am to be receiving, what about you giving a blowjob to someone else" response was hmmm dunno, "not something you would like to try" i replied, to cut a long story and the reason for my wife's hesitation is she as never given a blowjob to anyone other than myself.

That shocked me and I'm not sure i can completely believe what she has told me.

My reasons for doubting

Previous partners including one that i know was a relationship for 2 years.

Couple of one night stands prior to our relationship.

Blowjob skills i would say were not beginners level.

I though we have spoken about previous relationships we have never gone to deep on info.

What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?

Doubt it is something she is likely to lie about....or at least I can't see why she would. She wouldn't benefit from it in any way. The only way to know is to ask questions and keep channel of communication open and to talk about it all. Maybe try talking about all the things you've tries, would like to try, have tried but didn't like etc and see where it leads. Sorry if I rambled xT "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been with my wife for 30 plus years and she said she has never had anal sex with anyone else only me should I believe her ?"

You could make a whole new thread with your question, maybe i could respond with some thing like, she only telling you that because she wants it exclusive for you.

I'll be the first to post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been with my wife for 30 plus years and she said she has never had anal sex with anyone else only me should I believe her ?

You could make a whole new thread with your question, maybe i could respond with some thing like, she only telling you that because she wants it exclusive for you.

I'll be the first to post"

No let me be first please !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been with my wife for 30 plus years and she said she has never had anal sex with anyone else only me should I believe her ?

You could make a whole new thread with your question, maybe i could respond with some thing like, she only telling you that because she wants it exclusive for you.

I'll be the first to post

No let me be first please ! "

Its your's friend

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’m not sure why it’s such a big deal or why you doubt her, but it’s perfectly possible. My partner of almost 20 years doesn’t like BJs and in all that time I’ve sucked his cock once. Until I joined Fab I’d only sucked him that once and two other guys on one night stands, so I was really inexperienced in that area. Fortunately I’m a very quick learner!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Does it matter if she has or hasn’t given blowjobs to other men? Genuinely? Because their doesn’t seem worth the inevitable argument

Lol you read some of the comments not all"

Aw couples and their games x

Silly us for just not being in on it

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"I've been with my wife for 30 plus years and she said she has never had anal sex with anyone else only me should I believe her ?

You could make a whole new thread with your question, maybe i could respond with some thing like, she only telling you that because she wants it exclusive for you.

I'll be the first to post"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Base it on the relationship. You can only invest in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with my late husband 27 years, never appealed to me to give him a blow job but happy to with my boyfriend now.

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Me and my wife have been together for 20 years and in all that time i never had a reason to doubt or believe something that she has told me, until now.

We was chatting one night about blowjobs that i had received in past and would i be interested in receiving a blowjob from another women in the future, Obviously i was excited at the thought of having someone other than my wife sucking me off.

I replied with "sure i would be interested by if i am to be receiving, what about you giving a blowjob to someone else" response was hmmm dunno, "not something you would like to try" i replied, to cut a long story and the reason for my wife's hesitation is she as never given a blowjob to anyone other than myself.

That shocked me and I'm not sure i can completely believe what she has told me.

My reasons for doubting

Previous partners including one that i know was a relationship for 2 years.

Couple of one night stands prior to our relationship.

Blowjob skills i would say were not beginners level.

I though we have spoken about previous relationships we have never gone to deep on info.

What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?

"

Why would she lie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my wife have been together for 20 years and in all that time i never had a reason to doubt or believe something that she has told me, until now.

We was chatting one night about blowjobs that i had received in past and would i be interested in receiving a blowjob from another women in the future, Obviously i was excited at the thought of having someone other than my wife sucking me off.

I replied with "sure i would be interested by if i am to be receiving, what about you giving a blowjob to someone else" response was hmmm dunno, "not something you would like to try" i replied, to cut a long story and the reason for my wife's hesitation is she as never given a blowjob to anyone other than myself.

That shocked me and I'm not sure i can completely believe what she has told me.

My reasons for doubting

Previous partners including one that i know was a relationship for 2 years.

Couple of one night stands prior to our relationship.

Blowjob skills i would say were not beginners level.

I though we have spoken about previous relationships we have never gone to deep on info.

What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?

"

i believe her and so should you....... this is good advice hope she knows you're here

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