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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.....have gone without sex for a while, how does the thought of having it again make you feel?

Excited?

Anxious?

Indifferent?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'm excited about physically reconnecting again with my fellas, we speak everyday anyway but a long cuddle will be very special

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Sex - indifferent

I’m just craving physical contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cuddle would be amazing

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Indifferent, take it or leave it leaning to the latter at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excited - very

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.

I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Excited. Very excited

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.

I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone."

Why would you let them down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex - indifferent

I’m just craving physical contact "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.

I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.

Why would you let them down?"

I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.

I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.

Why would you let them down?

I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months"

I’m not sure anyone would expect that. You’re probably putting more pressure on yourself. Just aim for something fun and relaxed. It might not need a marathon

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.

I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.

Why would you let them down?

I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months"

Personally I think marathon penetrative sex is overrated. Plus there's other ways to please someone than with your dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been nearly five years, I barely think about it at all these days. That said, when I do think about the possibility of getting laid it's massive anxiety time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.

I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.

Why would you let them down?

I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months

Personally I think marathon penetrative sex is overrated. Plus there's other ways to please someone than with your dick. "

I completely agree and I’m certainly not stingey when it comes to oral as I love going down on a woman; but there’s likely to be some expectation around penetration and not knowing what that may be is troubling.

I know this is mostly born from a confidence thing (or lack thereof) as in my past I’ve not had any problem; but neither my looks not my fitness are what they were 20 years ago, so capability gets doubted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve gone through periods of over a year without having sex so it’s no odds to me.

I do want to have a nice fuck though when we can start mixing with people again.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.

I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.

Why would you let them down?

I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months

Personally I think marathon penetrative sex is overrated. Plus there's other ways to please someone than with your dick. "

Exactly this (Mrs) long sessions are overrated..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got lockdowned the week I wanted to meet my Mr somebody.. Gutted but playing safe.. So he must be a good egg.. X still in contact

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.

I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.

Why would you let them down?

I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months

Personally I think marathon penetrative sex is overrated. Plus there's other ways to please someone than with your dick.

I completely agree and I’m certainly not stingey when it comes to oral as I love going down on a woman; but there’s likely to be some expectation around penetration and not knowing what that may be is troubling.

I know this is mostly born from a confidence thing (or lack thereof) as in my past I’ve not had any problem; but neither my looks not my fitness are what they were 20 years ago, so capability gets doubted."

The best way to know is to talk to them. We're not monsters and I know personally I wouldn't want to be getting into bed with someone who was stressing themselves out over what they thought I might expect when the truth most likely is that I'm there because I click with them, not because I have expectations of some sort of sex god.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.

I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.

Why would you let them down?

I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months

Personally I think marathon penetrative sex is overrated. Plus there's other ways to please someone than with your dick.

I completely agree and I’m certainly not stingey when it comes to oral as I love going down on a woman; but there’s likely to be some expectation around penetration and not knowing what that may be is troubling.

I know this is mostly born from a confidence thing (or lack thereof) as in my past I’ve not had any problem; but neither my looks not my fitness are what they were 20 years ago, so capability gets doubted.

The best way to know is to talk to them. We're not monsters and I know personally I wouldn't want to be getting into bed with someone who was stressing themselves out over what they thought I might expect when the truth most likely is that I'm there because I click with them, not because I have expectations of some sort of sex god."

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