FabSwingers.com forum: Do guys still have to make the first move

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or do you lovely ladies make a move on a guy you like

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Some will, some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I do. In real life I'm too shy.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I always make the first move if they are in our home

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’d rather they did........

But if I really like someone I’ll bite the bullet.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Do you mean on here? On here I often make the first move.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mean on here? On here I often make the first move. "

Where ever both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love for a woman to make the first move

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By *lackCherry...Woman
over a year ago

North East

I would online, but find it really difficult in real life xx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Absolutely, it is 2020 you know!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Do you mean on here? On here I often make the first move.

Where ever both "

OK, here yes, face to face no.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

For me I have to make the first move or it would never happen , usually start with Chlorophyll

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely, it is 2020 you know!

Yes but change is hard I like a strong woman who would

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No they don't. It's just more expected that they do. I'm not sure why. I tend to make the first move if I'm interested but then I do sometimes wonder if they are just being kind so as not to say no/it's such a rare occurrence they want to go along with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mean on here? On here I often make the first move.

Where ever both

OK, here yes, face to face no. "

Ok why

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Proactive is the way to go

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I find it quite lovely when a lady makes the first move

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Some will, some won't "

Some do some dont

No one must do anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I would on here and in real life.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Do you mean on here? On here I often make the first move.

Where ever both

OK, here yes, face to face no.

Ok why "

Because it's less of a risk on here, I don't care about rejection online. I'm a sensitive soul you see.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would on here and in real life. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No they don't. It's just more expected that they do. I'm not sure why. I tend to make the first move if I'm interested but then I do sometimes wonder if they are just being kind so as not to say no/it's such a rare occurrence they want to go palong with it.

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I would find it hard to say no but it's the nicest thing to do, no point stringing someone along

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mean on here? On here I often make the first move.

Where ever both

OK, here yes, face to face no.

Ok why

Because it's less of a risk on here, I don't care about rejection online. I'm a sensitive soul you see. "

You might be missing out your not a munter

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I don’t mind if women make the first move, usually it’s a comment from a forum thread which is a nice start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always make the first move if they are in our home"

Which is the I in that statement, the man or woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I would happily message first and subsequently suggest a meet. In real life I don't mix in the situations where it would arise.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No I need a chaperone to make sure I behave like a woman from the 20s should..... oh wait we aren’t in 1920, it’s 2020 !

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope, I frequently do. Got to go after what you want

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"For me I have to make the first move or it would never happen , usually start with Chlorophyll

Are you pursueing plants?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I need a chaperone to make sure I behave like a woman from the 20s should..... oh wait we aren’t in 1920, it’s 2020 ! "

Why behave

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, I frequently do. Got to go after what you want

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"For me I have to make the first move or it would never happen , usually start with Chlorophyll

Are you pursueing plants?"

I got some chlorophyll, wanna photosynthesise tonight.

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By *SSENCERARECouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Well i just keep looking and smile so i suppose thats making the first move lol x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"No I need a chaperone to make sure I behave like a woman from the 20s should..... oh wait we aren’t in 1920, it’s 2020 !

Why behave

Face splat !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do sometimes, moreso face to face than on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well i just keep looking and smile so i suppose thats making the first move lol x"

No messaging or winking is making a move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go after someone I want on here.

But not out there...never seem to meet anyone.

The last time I did, I did get him though!

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"For me I have to make the first move or it would never happen , usually start with Chlorophyll

Are you pursueing plants?

I got some chlorophyll, wanna photosynthesise tonight. "
ha ha ha , bloody predictive text !!! But if your offering , HELL YES

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I need a chaperone to make sure I behave like a woman from the 20s should..... oh wait we aren’t in 1920, it’s 2020 !

Why behave

Face splat ! "

If you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be very flattered if someone made the first move but I will always let someone know if I fancy them

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Women wanted equal rights, so why aren't more women making moves eh

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"For me I have to make the first move or it would never happen , usually start with Chlorophyll

Are you pursueing plants?"
nooo bloody predictive text , arghhhhh

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"For me I have to make the first move or it would never happen , usually start with Chlorophyll

I think you mean chloroform, or did you mean you offer flowers? That’s always a winner

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"For me I have to make the first move or it would never happen , usually start with Chlorophyll

Are you pursueing plants?

I got some chlorophyll, wanna photosynthesise tonight. "

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"For me I have to make the first move or it would never happen , usually start with Chlorophyll

I think you mean chloroform, or did you mean you offer flowers? That’s always a winner

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lol yes chloroform , as already said bloody predictive text

, but yes if flowers work I'll go with that

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

If I see something I like I go get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made a first move more than once. Its fairly easy on here. Various results. Life

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I need to make the first move more often.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I often make the first move or send the first message. I got balls you see! They are just on my chest!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’m far to quiet and shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I’m far to quiet and shy

I thought that about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here if I find someone I’m attracted to I’ll message them. In real life it’s harder. I’f approach more guys if I knew they were single, in real life you don’t know if the hot guy in Tesco has a wife waiting for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I’m far to quiet and shy

I thought that about you

It’s true

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"No, I’m far to quiet and shy

I thought that about you

It’s true

False. You'll just message them your hooters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see someone I like, get out real life, I have no issue in letting them know how I feel.. You don't ask, you don't get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I see someone I like, get out real life, I have no issue in letting them know how I feel.. You don't ask, you don't get. "

Here or*

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I believe in equality so ladies are always welcome to make the first move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I’m far to quiet and shy

I thought that about you

It’s true

False. You'll just message them your hooters

Shush you

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"No, I’m far to quiet and shy

I thought that about you

It’s true

False. You'll just message them your hooters

Shush you

This works well, just sayin’

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