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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As requested by several lovelies. A non judgemental space to say whatever you want, however you want, about whoever or whatever you want. Off we go then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, if I wasnt straight, I would like to nibble your bum OP!

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By *rivingforceMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

I'd nibble both your bums

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I want to dye my hair a caramel brown because I am bored as fuck and my hair is as that kind of long stage and I don't know what to do with it.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Also you look fantastic in white lingerie. It's either dyeing my hair or finally writing a smut story but I am not feeling inspired to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to dye my hair a caramel brown because I am bored as fuck and my hair is as that kind of long stage and I don't know what to do with it."

Sounds lovely, have you got the hair dye? Or can you order it online?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd nibble both your bums "

Oi, get off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm grumpy and miserable and generally raaaahhhhhh!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok, if I wasnt straight, I would like to nibble your bum OP! "

That’s the best offer I’ve had this hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd nibble both your bums "

No men allowed

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I want to dye my hair a caramel brown because I am bored as fuck and my hair is as that kind of long stage and I don't know what to do with it.

Sounds lovely, have you got the hair dye? Or can you order it online? "

I can order it online (trying really hard not to make this a stereotypical thread )

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

I did dye my hair, red or is it pink????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm grumpy and miserable and generally raaaahhhhhh!!!!!!!! "

Why Ms Grumpy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP

I just LOVE your outfits and you have a beautiful body.

Such classy pictures, a real up from me.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm grumpy and miserable and generally raaaahhhhhh!!!!!!!! "

Awww no, what's up lovely lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to dye my hair a caramel brown because I am bored as fuck and my hair is as that kind of long stage and I don't know what to do with it.

Sounds lovely, have you got the hair dye? Or can you order it online?

I can order it online (trying really hard not to make this a stereotypical thread )"

The point is to use it for whatever we want. Trust me I'd much rather talk about your hair. It's keeping me occupied, crack on lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm grumpy and miserable and generally raaaahhhhhh!!!!!!!!

Why Ms Grumpy?"

Just grumpy, men mainly but just grumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want to have a moan, it's that time of the month and everything hurts and I hate the way my body looks no matter what I do.

So I'm hiding out in the bath and wishing I could fast forward the next 8 days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m soooo bored of staying in, so want to get my hands on my sexy man x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I just want to have a moan, it's that time of the month and everything hurts and I hate the way my body looks no matter what I do.

So I'm hiding out in the bath and wishing I could fast forward the next 8 days."

Mine's due and I've got that pre period heavy yuck feeling and generally feel like the size of a beached whale I empathise.....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I want to dye my hair a caramel brown because I am bored as fuck and my hair is as that kind of long stage and I don't know what to do with it.

Sounds lovely, have you got the hair dye? Or can you order it online?

I can order it online (trying really hard not to make this a stereotypical thread )

The point is to use it for whatever we want. Trust me I'd much rather talk about your hair. It's keeping me occupied, crack on lovely xx"

Okay! So yeah, I want to go a lighter shade but I know that my hair might be too dark without getting it professionally done and I'm basically typing dull crap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP

I just LOVE your outfits and you have a beautiful body.

Such classy pictures, a real up from me. "

Oh sweetheart ta and welcome to the party

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I'd nibble both your bums

No men allowed"

(cough, cough). May I join. I’m bored and looking for a little fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd nibble both your bums

No men allowed

(cough, cough). May I join. I’m bored and looking for a little fun."

You meet the requirements so welcome although everyone is being very civil atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to have a moan, it's that time of the month and everything hurts and I hate the way my body looks no matter what I do.

So I'm hiding out in the bath and wishing I could fast forward the next 8 days."

You can stop worrying about your body for starters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many people I would like to set on fire and push off a cliff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to have a moan, it's that time of the month and everything hurts and I hate the way my body looks no matter what I do.

So I'm hiding out in the bath and wishing I could fast forward the next 8 days."

Your body is sensational!

I miss people.

I'm fed up of not seeing adults and I miss cock

There, I said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to dye my hair a caramel brown because I am bored as fuck and my hair is as that kind of long stage and I don't know what to do with it.

Sounds lovely, have you got the hair dye? Or can you order it online?

I can order it online (trying really hard not to make this a stereotypical thread )

The point is to use it for whatever we want. Trust me I'd much rather talk about your hair. It's keeping me occupied, crack on lovely xx

Okay! So yeah, I want to go a lighter shade but I know that my hair might be too dark without getting it professionally done and I'm basically typing dull crap. "

Can you go the next shade up and do it gradually?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to have a moan, it's that time of the month and everything hurts and I hate the way my body looks no matter what I do.

So I'm hiding out in the bath and wishing I could fast forward the next 8 days.

Your body is sensational!

I miss people.

I'm fed up of not seeing adults and I miss cock

There, I said it "

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many people I would like to set on fire and push off a cliff "

Ooo can I help, please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to have a moan, it's that time of the month and everything hurts and I hate the way my body looks no matter what I do.

So I'm hiding out in the bath and wishing I could fast forward the next 8 days.

Your body is sensational!

I miss people.

I'm fed up of not seeing adults and I miss cock

There, I said it "

We'll all be back out there soon! I hope.

Now is definitely a good time to invest in some new toys to tide you over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to have a moan, it's that time of the month and everything hurts and I hate the way my body looks no matter what I do.

So I'm hiding out in the bath and wishing I could fast forward the next 8 days.

Your body is sensational!

I miss people.

I'm fed up of not seeing adults and I miss cock

There, I said it "

I miss adults but not cock unless I can use it to bash the attached guy over the head with?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I want a queue of people so I can walk along and slap some sense into them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooof where to start..

Just off my period so still in a grump.

Sick of the increase in boys who can't read and send me more dick pics now than before lockdown.

Frustrated beyond belief and finally seem to have found some awesome people to meet but thanks to lockdown I need to be a patient little miss.

Pissed that I bleached my hair and went neon pink just before all this! Now every day I see it grow out feels like a day wasted

Feeling pretty growly tbh haha

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I miss a nice hard cock, naked spooning, kissing, a night out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many people I would like to set on fire and push off a cliff "

God me too. Some are on here

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Good thing today - My silent vibe arrived, it was a good purchase for during lockdown.

Bad thing - I did a little plate of bits, cat was fast asleep, popped to get a drink came back to her helping herself to some cheese.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I miss people.

I'm fed up of not seeing adults and I miss cock

There, I said it "

Ditto. I'm so tempted to start smoking again because it might make a bit less... zany.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"So many people I would like to set on fire and push off a cliff

God me too. Some are on here "

I second that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good thing today - My silent vibe arrived, it was a good purchase for during lockdown.

Bad thing - I did a little plate of bits, cat was fast asleep, popped to get a drink came back to her helping herself to some cheese. "

Have fun with your new toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss people.

I'm fed up of not seeing adults and I miss cock

There, I said it

Ditto. I'm so tempted to start smoking again because it might make a bit less... zany."

Don't do it!!!! (Although that makes me a complete hypocrite )

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"I miss people.

I'm fed up of not seeing adults and I miss cock

There, I said it "

I could have written this, I feel exactly the same way!

Love my kids and feel grateful that we are all together and safe but miss adult company. So much so that I recently told my ex husband on the phone that he shouldn't be complaining cause at least he can have sex whenever he wants (he is remarried) while I'm going batshit crazy at home

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Ooof where to start..

Just off my period so still in a grump.

Sick of the increase in boys who can't read and send me more dick pics now than before lockdown.

Frustrated beyond belief and finally seem to have found some awesome people to meet but thanks to lockdown I need to be a patient little miss.

Pissed that I bleached my hair and went neon pink just before all this! Now every day I see it grow out feels like a day wasted

Feeling pretty growly tbh haha "

Neon pink hair rocks.

Just so you know

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I want my goddamn gym back. And I'm about ready to shave my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooof where to start..

Just off my period so still in a grump.

Sick of the increase in boys who can't read and send me more dick pics now than before lockdown.

Frustrated beyond belief and finally seem to have found some awesome people to meet but thanks to lockdown I need to be a patient little miss.

Pissed that I bleached my hair and went neon pink just before all this! Now every day I see it grow out feels like a day wasted

Feeling pretty growly tbh haha

Neon pink hair rocks.

Just so you know "

Your a dude, you shouldn't be here

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Good thing today - My silent vibe arrived, it was a good purchase for during lockdown.

Bad thing - I did a little plate of bits, cat was fast asleep, popped to get a drink came back to her helping herself to some cheese. "

Enjoy

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I want my goddamn gym back. And I'm about ready to shave my head."

Agreed and might join you with the hair shaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want my goddamn gym back. And I'm about ready to shave my head."

I've considered that. Asked my hairdresser for tips on cutting my own hair earlier, she told me not to

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I want my goddamn gym back. And I'm about ready to shave my head."

Don't shave it. You'll look great with wavy hair, I know that. Make the curly girl routine your next project.

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"Good thing today - My silent vibe arrived, it was a good purchase for during lockdown.

Bad thing - I did a little plate of bits, cat was fast asleep, popped to get a drink came back to her helping herself to some cheese. "

Sorry the cat attacked your cheese! But great news about the new toy, enjoy!

I got a "little" delivery yesterday too... Must admit I have never been so happy to get some new toys haha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I want my goddamn gym back. And I'm about ready to shave my head.

Don't shave it. You'll look great with wavy hair, I know that. Make the curly girl routine your next project. "

Oh it's quite a dramatic change. But I forgot how much I moult with long hair. And it's only just past my shoulders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very lonely and missing being with people .. Comfort eating and feeling very old. I feel invisible

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And the thought of them restricting lockdown further kills me. My downstairs neighbour works in A&E and I do not want to be an arsehole upstairs neighbour but if I don't get enough exercise I'm going to lose my tenuous grip on my sanity. (And breathe run on sentence)

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Feeling like crap today.....dont know whether its stress but close to tears all day

I know it's being locked up and not being able to do anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m feeling very fucked off and tearful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very lonely and missing being with people .. Comfort eating and feeling very old. I feel invisible "

You're not invisible, we see you

sending hugs

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive hugs to everyone on this thread.

It's a really hard time.

Any feelings you have are valid, don't beat yourself up or judge yourself for having them.

Be kind to yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so very glad I had a meet just before all this started but roll on a month and the horn is like a Unicorn on oats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Massive hugs to everyone on this thread.

It's a really hard time.

Any feelings you have are valid, don't beat yourself up or judge yourself for having them.

Be kind to yourselves "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BAH. Triggered (not using the term lightly here!). And in my current bedroom, the sun blazes right over my head and face through the window and hurts.

I don't get how anyone can do as much as mum has recently.... and I need to reply to actual friends and the thought of that is making me very anxious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooof where to start..

Just off my period so still in a grump.

Sick of the increase in boys who can't read and send me more dick pics now than before lockdown.

Frustrated beyond belief and finally seem to have found some awesome people to meet but thanks to lockdown I need to be a patient little miss.

Pissed that I bleached my hair and went neon pink just before all this! Now every day I see it grow out feels like a day wasted

Feeling pretty growly tbh haha

Neon pink hair rocks.

Just so you know "

Oi out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very lonely and missing being with people .. Comfort eating and feeling very old. I feel invisible "

Come and chat with me then. I’m so daft atm apparently as I’m on these super duper painkillers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want my goddamn gym back. And I'm about ready to shave my head."

Amen to the gym... Have you heard of Betty Rocker ? She does a 30 day x 15 mins challenge, she is amazing.. Defo recommend

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Fortunately bad anxiety kills my libido stone dead. I'm virtually asexual right now

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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I’m sick of reading my friends moaning on face book, they can’t see this person or that person, they have to wave through the window to their partner who’s not staying with them.

They can’t wait to be together again. I can’t help it but it just brings back awful memories for me. This has been my life for years since my husband died. I can’t be reunited with him, he’s gone and can’t come back and I just want to scream at people.

I have a friend in itu with covid and I’m worried sick.

I need to come off social media for a while as it’s not helping at all :-

Sorry to unload

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"BAH. Triggered (not using the term lightly here!). And in my current bedroom, the sun blazes right over my head and face through the window and hurts.

I don't get how anyone can do as much as mum has recently.... and I need to reply to actual friends and the thought of that is making me very anxious."

If they’re friends they will understand. Make a list and get real happy every time you cross something off

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I want my goddamn gym back. And I'm about ready to shave my head.

Amen to the gym... Have you heard of Betty Rocker ? She does a 30 day x 15 mins challenge, she is amazing.. Defo recommend "

I'll have a look. I'm doing mat work and running at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling like crap today.....dont know whether its stress but close to tears all day

I know it's being locked up and not being able to do anything"

Hugs xx sometimes having a good cry can help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m want to go swimming

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m sick of reading my friends moaning on face book, they can’t see this person or that person, they have to wave through the window to their partner who’s not staying with them.

They can’t wait to be together again. I can’t help it but it just brings back awful memories for me. This has been my life for years since my husband died. I can’t be reunited with him, he’s gone and can’t come back and I just want to scream at people.

I have a friend in itu with covid and I’m worried sick.

I need to come off social media for a while as it’s not helping at all :-

Sorry to unload "

Big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sick of reading my friends moaning on face book, they can’t see this person or that person, they have to wave through the window to their partner who’s not staying with them.

They can’t wait to be together again. I can’t help it but it just brings back awful memories for me. This has been my life for years since my husband died. I can’t be reunited with him, he’s gone and can’t come back and I just want to scream at people.

I have a friend in itu with covid and I’m worried sick.

I need to come off social media for a while as it’s not helping at all :-

Sorry to unload "

No. This is the place to unload. So very sorry to hear about your husband. Come scream at me if it helps

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And yeah, I've been really triggered too, in the technical psychological meaning of the word

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue

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By *erms and conditionsCouple
over a year ago

Alton


"I just want to have a moan, it's that time of the month and everything hurts and I hate the way my body looks no matter what I do.

So I'm hiding out in the bath and wishing I could fast forward the next 8 days."
a super power we all wish we had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sick of reading my friends moaning on face book, they can’t see this person or that person, they have to wave through the window to their partner who’s not staying with them.

They can’t wait to be together again. I can’t help it but it just brings back awful memories for me. This has been my life for years since my husband died. I can’t be reunited with him, he’s gone and can’t come back and I just want to scream at people.

I have a friend in itu with covid and I’m worried sick.

I need to come off social media for a while as it’s not helping at all :-

Sorry to unload "

Unload away, that's the point. We are all here to moan and help eachother.

I'm so sorry for your loss I can sort of relate, lost my dad in November and I'd like to scream at a lot of people too.

A break from social media probably isn't a bad idea.

Huge hugs lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue "

Ohhhhh let’s see. Not the stuffed you, the hair...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue "

Ooo you should upload a photo! I love bright hair and I'm sure it will look fantastic. Eating all the crap and not doing exercise sounds about right.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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Thank you lovely ladies. I jut want to cry today x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Thank you lovely ladies. I jut want to cry today x "

Crying is allowed xx

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue

Ooo you should upload a photo! I love bright hair and I'm sure it will look fantastic. Eating all the crap and not doing exercise sounds about right."

I’m dying my hair back to pink/purple tomorrow x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you lovely ladies. I jut want to cry today x "

Cry then. Let it all out, sleep and start a new day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you lovely ladies. I jut want to cry today x "

Sending you lots of hugs xx

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I will get hubby to take a photo of the new blue hair, when it has dried off a bit.

Check back latee. .. will set as profile photo.

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over a year ago


"Thank you lovely ladies. I just want to cry today x "

I think lots of us are emotional... Let it go, it does us good to have a good cry sometimes.. Doesn't fix things, but kinda resets x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue

Ooo you should upload a photo! I love bright hair and I'm sure it will look fantastic. Eating all the crap and not doing exercise sounds about right.

I’m dying my hair back to pink/purple tomorrow x"

What colour is it now? x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It says non-judgemental so I’m going to risk it. I’m stuck in lockdown with a partner I don’t love and don’t want to be with, but can’t yet afford to leave. I get no more than half an hour to myself most days, and I’m more desperately lonely than I would be if I was actually alone. Recent rows have included whether I use too much toilet paper or paracetamol. And it’s only been just over two weeks.

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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I'm having a good day today, but Thursday was a really bad day for me. We are all having our ups and downs but knowing I can come on here and chat to lovely people really helps.

The fact you are all sexy as fuck helps too

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I will get hubby to take a photo of the new blue hair, when it has dried off a bit.

Check back latee. .. will set as profile photo. "

Bet it looks lush. Love the red. I’ve been pink red and purple in the past few years and recently back to brown.

Changing again tomorrow

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Thank you lovely ladies. I just want to cry today x

I think lots of us are emotional... Let it go, it does us good to have a good cry sometimes.. Doesn't fix things, but kinda resets x"

Letting yourself feel your feelings can help you manage them. I'm trying to bring mine to the surface. Trauma's a bitch.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue

Ooo you should upload a photo! I love bright hair and I'm sure it will look fantastic. Eating all the crap and not doing exercise sounds about right.

I’m dying my hair back to pink/purple tomorrow x

What colour is it now? x"

Brunette. I went back to brown in December after years of bright hair. But I’m bored so back to brights

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue

Ooo you should upload a photo! I love bright hair and I'm sure it will look fantastic. Eating all the crap and not doing exercise sounds about right.

I’m dying my hair back to pink/purple tomorrow x"

It's far too easy to eat badly when stuck at home.

You'll have to upload your pink/purple hair when it's done.

I love having random coloured hair too

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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Ladies I really do appreciate being able to let it out here, you’re a good bunch and I’m sending huge virtual hugs right back to anyone who needs them. Xxx

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue

Ooo you should upload a photo! I love bright hair and I'm sure it will look fantastic. Eating all the crap and not doing exercise sounds about right.

I’m dying my hair back to pink/purple tomorrow x

It's far too easy to eat badly when stuck at home.

You'll have to upload your pink/purple hair when it's done.

I love having random coloured hair too "

Will do I’m hoping it works at home haha. My hairdresser has told me what she uses so I’ve ordered that online x

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm having a good day today, but Thursday was a really bad day for me. We are all having our ups and downs but knowing I can come on here and chat to lovely people really helps.

The fact you are all sexy as fuck helps too "

Exactly this. Perfectly put xx

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I feel as fat as a house.

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over a year ago


"...Trauma's a bitch."

That it is!

I'll try writing off today with good grace. Tempted to drink but I kind of want my first experience with alcohol after lockdown to be one of those crazy messy nights with friends and drink-till-you-puke affairs. Maybe asking for too much.

Been holding off for a while and seeing how long I can delay the gratification

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I’m want to go swimming "

They’ve closed the beaches and our pool was closed yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel as fat as a house. "

Me too and I’m pissing myself off with keep eating shit!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I’m sick of reading my friends moaning on face book, they can’t see this person or that person, they have to wave through the window to their partner who’s not staying with them.

They can’t wait to be together again. I can’t help it but it just brings back awful memories for me. This has been my life for years since my husband died. I can’t be reunited with him, he’s gone and can’t come back and I just want to scream at people.

I have a friend in itu with covid and I’m worried sick.

I need to come off social media for a while as it’s not helping at all :-

Sorry to unload

Unload away, that's the point. We are all here to moan and help eachother.

I'm so sorry for your loss I can sort of relate, lost my dad in November and I'd like to scream at a lot of people too.

A break from social media probably isn't a bad idea.

Huge hugs lovely xx "

Thank you lovely and I’m sorry to hear about your dad too xx

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue

Ooo you should upload a photo! I love bright hair and I'm sure it will look fantastic. Eating all the crap and not doing exercise sounds about right.

I’m dying my hair back to pink/purple tomorrow x

What colour is it now? x

Brunette. I went back to brown in December after years of bright hair. But I’m bored so back to brights "

Mine has been various shades of red / pink /purple for a few years now.

Not sure I could go back to a natural one.

Been waiting to go blue as it went green last time I tried... that was about 25 years ago though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss people.

I'm fed up of not seeing adults and I miss cock

There, I said it

Ditto. I'm so tempted to start smoking again because it might make a bit less... zany.

Don't do it!!!! (Although that makes me a complete hypocrite ) "

I havent smoked for 6 years but I'm really craving one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly jealous of all the bright hair dying going on, can't wait to see all the pictures though

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue

Ooo you should upload a photo! I love bright hair and I'm sure it will look fantastic. Eating all the crap and not doing exercise sounds about right.

I’m dying my hair back to pink/purple tomorrow x

It's far too easy to eat badly when stuck at home.

You'll have to upload your pink/purple hair when it's done.

I love having random coloured hair too

Will do I’m hoping it works at home haha. My hairdresser has told me what she uses so I’ve ordered that online x "

It will be fine. I always do my own.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I want to eat all sorts of unhealthy foods like chocolate and biscuits and am not getting enough exercise to burn it all off...

On the plus side, I have finally successfully died my hair a wonderful bright blue

Ooo you should upload a photo! I love bright hair and I'm sure it will look fantastic. Eating all the crap and not doing exercise sounds about right.

I’m dying my hair back to pink/purple tomorrow x

What colour is it now? x

Brunette. I went back to brown in December after years of bright hair. But I’m bored so back to brights

Mine has been various shades of red / pink /purple for a few years now.

Not sure I could go back to a natural one.

Been waiting to go blue as it went green last time I tried... that was about 25 years ago though."

My cousin was blue for a few years it looked ace.

My natural colour is blonde but I’d dyed it brunette for about 15 years before brights, don’t think I could go back to natural either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm feeling really wanky. I'm tired, I'm emotional, I'm lonely blah blah blah.

I dont ask for much just for there to be a man on here who wants to get to know me and not just see flaps. Ah what's the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have spent the afternoon in bed to avoid snacking. Can't even nap properly either.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"Slightly jealous of all the bright hair dying going on, can't wait to see all the pictures though "

I’ve just dyed some of my daughters hair cerise pink (wash out) she loves it. Who knows when school is back on so may as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having a good day today, but Thursday was a really bad day for me. We are all having our ups and downs but knowing I can come on here and chat to lovely people really helps.

The fact you are all sexy as fuck helps too

Exactly this. Perfectly put xx"

You have an amazing figure

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I feel as fat as a house.

Me too and I’m pissing myself off with keep eating shit!"

Me too. I’m not too bad throughout the day it’s when the kids go to bed I need chocolate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel as fat as a house. "

Well you dont look it my darling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel as fat as a house.

Me too and I’m pissing myself off with keep eating shit!

Me too. I’m not too bad throughout the day it’s when the kids go to bed I need chocolate.

"

I keep eating whole Easter eggs. I need a kick up the arse!!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I feel as fat as a house.

Well you dont look it my darling."

Thanks that’s lovely. I’ve definitely gained a few pounds since lockdown x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"It says non-judgemental so I’m going to risk it. I’m stuck in lockdown with a partner I don’t love and don’t want to be with, but can’t yet afford to leave. I get no more than half an hour to myself most days, and I’m more desperately lonely than I would be if I was actually alone. Recent rows have included whether I use too much toilet paper or paracetamol. And it’s only been just over two weeks."

Sending you love, I can't imagine how difficult it must be for you right now. If possible can you sit down and have a calm and rational conversation about how you need your own space/time? x

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I feel as fat as a house. "

You’re not...

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over a year ago


"I’m sick of reading my friends moaning on face book, they can’t see this person or that person, they have to wave through the window to their partner who’s not staying with them.

They can’t wait to be together again. I can’t help it but it just brings back awful memories for me. This has been my life for years since my husband died. I can’t be reunited with him, he’s gone and can’t come back and I just want to scream at people.

I have a friend in itu with covid and I’m worried sick.

I need to come off social media for a while as it’s not helping at all :-

Sorry to unload

Unload away, that's the point. We are all here to moan and help eachother.

I'm so sorry for your loss I can sort of relate, lost my dad in November and I'd like to scream at a lot of people too.

A break from social media probably isn't a bad idea.

Huge hugs lovely xx

Thank you lovely and I’m sorry to hear about your dad too xx "

Thank you xx

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I feel as fat as a house.

Me too and I’m pissing myself off with keep eating shit!

Me too. I’m not too bad throughout the day it’s when the kids go to bed I need chocolate.

I keep eating whole Easter eggs. I need a kick up the arse!! "

Yes!! That’s eggactly what I do too!!

I’ve stockpiled and can’t get enough!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm feeling really wanky. I'm tired, I'm emotional, I'm lonely blah blah blah.

I dont ask for much just for there to be a man on here who wants to get to know me and not just see flaps. Ah what's the point.

"

Same chick. Thank you for the figure comment xx big love xx

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I feel as fat as a house.

You’re not... "

I will be after this is all over x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm feeling really wanky. I'm tired, I'm emotional, I'm lonely blah blah blah.

I dont ask for much just for there to be a man on here who wants to get to know me and not just see flaps. Ah what's the point.

"

There are men out there who want you and not just for your flaps, it might just take time to find them. This situation now can make everything seem a lot worse x

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I feel as fat as a house.

You’re not...

I will be after this is all over x"

You’re gorgeous Lexi. I think most of us are eating a lot (I know I am!) out of boredom but we shouldn’t give ourselves a hard time. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really wanky. I'm tired, I'm emotional, I'm lonely blah blah blah.

I dont ask for much just for there to be a man on here who wants to get to know me and not just see flaps. Ah what's the point.

There are men out there who want you and not just for your flaps, it might just take time to find them. This situation now can make everything seem a lot worse x"

There are any for me, they all run away....from my dungeon

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"...Trauma's a bitch.

That it is!

I'll try writing off today with good grace. Tempted to drink but I kind of want my first experience with alcohol after lockdown to be one of those crazy messy nights with friends and drink-till-you-puke affairs. Maybe asking for too much.

Been holding off for a while and seeing how long I can delay the gratification "

I had a few days where I allowed myself to be frozen, numb, and non functional. Worked out what was going on. Flashbacks FFS (they're somatic rather than memories). I'm setting self care goals, being gentle with myself, etc but FFS it's not helping and I want to uncurl from my ball and get on with... something.

Getting there. I know that there's at least something to be said for knowing my enemy and how to defeat it. (She says ignoring the loving kindness mantra for a moment)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really wanky. I'm tired, I'm emotional, I'm lonely blah blah blah.

I dont ask for much just for there to be a man on here who wants to get to know me and not just see flaps. Ah what's the point.

"

And breathe lovely. They do exist unfortunately we have to wade through the crap to find the gems though (as a very good friend reminded me recently) in the meantime, you have us

Big hugs xx

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I feel as fat as a house.

You’re not...

I will be after this is all over x

You’re gorgeous Lexi. I think most of us are eating a lot (I know I am!) out of boredom but we shouldn’t give ourselves a hard time. Xxxx "

Awww thank you. That’s really sweet and so are you! Amazing figure.

I keep saying I’ll do some exercise this week and never do! X

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"...Trauma's a bitch.

That it is!

I'll try writing off today with good grace. Tempted to drink but I kind of want my first experience with alcohol after lockdown to be one of those crazy messy nights with friends and drink-till-you-puke affairs. Maybe asking for too much.

Been holding off for a while and seeing how long I can delay the gratification

I had a few days where I allowed myself to be frozen, numb, and non functional. Worked out what was going on. Flashbacks FFS (they're somatic rather than memories). I'm setting self care goals, being gentle with myself, etc but FFS it's not helping and I want to uncurl from my ball and get on with... something.

Getting there. I know that there's at least something to be said for knowing my enemy and how to defeat it. (She says ignoring the loving kindness mantra for a moment)"

Huge love xxxxx

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"I feel as fat as a house.

You’re not...

I will be after this is all over x

You’re gorgeous Lexi. I think most of us are eating a lot (I know I am!) out of boredom but we shouldn’t give ourselves a hard time. Xxxx

Awww thank you. That’s really sweet and so are you! Amazing figure.

I keep saying I’ll do some exercise this week and never do! X"

I think we’re the same person haha, I say the same! I feel great after exercise, used to love body pump classes but have zero motivation to do exercise at the min! Xx

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over a year ago


"I have spent the afternoon in bed to avoid snacking. Can't even nap properly either."

Get up woman and eat something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does a girl have to do to get a hug around here ? Just a friendly ‘there there’ type of hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter has ADHD my grandson is autistic and has ADHD. I’m normally with her to help, at least 5 days a week. I worry so much about how they will cope. She’s already sent photos of he arms covered in scratches and bites from when he had a melt down last night. I feel so helpless, all I can do is get her shopping and leave it at the door.

I miss my grandsons cuddles immensely, he’s so loving when he’s not overwhelmed with life. I’m very tearful and lonely all in my own.

Thank you OP I feel better for writing this. No need to paint on a brave face here

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Im tempted to shave my head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does a girl have to do to get a hug around here ? Just a friendly ‘there there’ type of hug "

Big hug lovely xx and 'hi'

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over a year ago


"My daughter has ADHD my grandson is autistic and has ADHD. I’m normally with her to help, at least 5 days a week. I worry so much about how they will cope. She’s already sent photos of he arms covered in scratches and bites from when he had a melt down last night. I feel so helpless, all I can do is get her shopping and leave it at the door.

I miss my grandsons cuddles immensely, he’s so loving when he’s not overwhelmed with life. I’m very tearful and lonely all in my own.

Thank you OP I feel better for writing this. No need to paint on a brave face here "

I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine what it must be like for you all at the moment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It says non-judgemental so I’m going to risk it. I’m stuck in lockdown with a partner I don’t love and don’t want to be with, but can’t yet afford to leave. I get no more than half an hour to myself most days, and I’m more desperately lonely than I would be if I was actually alone. Recent rows have included whether I use too much toilet paper or paracetamol. And it’s only been just over two weeks."

This isn’t good. Tempers are just going to get shorter as time goes on. You do need to change this somehow otherwise it’s going to be very difficult to cope. You’re only human sweetheart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter has ADHD my grandson is autistic and has ADHD. I’m normally with her to help, at least 5 days a week. I worry so much about how they will cope. She’s already sent photos of he arms covered in scratches and bites from when he had a melt down last night. I feel so helpless, all I can do is get her shopping and leave it at the door.

I miss my grandsons cuddles immensely, he’s so loving when he’s not overwhelmed with life. I’m very tearful and lonely all in my own.

Thank you OP I feel better for writing this. No need to paint on a brave face here "

So sorry to read this , I can’t imagine how hard hard it is for your daughter and for you not being able to help her, sending a hug x

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I feel as fat as a house.

You’re not...

I will be after this is all over x

You’re gorgeous Lexi. I think most of us are eating a lot (I know I am!) out of boredom but we shouldn’t give ourselves a hard time. Xxxx

Awww thank you. That’s really sweet and so are you! Amazing figure.

I keep saying I’ll do some exercise this week and never do! X"

You’re beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...Trauma's a bitch.

That it is!

I'll try writing off today with good grace. Tempted to drink but I kind of want my first experience with alcohol after lockdown to be one of those crazy messy nights with friends and drink-till-you-puke affairs. Maybe asking for too much.

Been holding off for a while and seeing how long I can delay the gratification

I had a few days where I allowed myself to be frozen, numb, and non functional. Worked out what was going on. Flashbacks FFS (they're somatic rather than memories). I'm setting self care goals, being gentle with myself, etc but FFS it's not helping and I want to uncurl from my ball and get on with... something.

Getting there. I know that there's at least something to be said for knowing my enemy and how to defeat it. (She says ignoring the loving kindness mantra for a moment)"

You need to be kinder to yourself. You’re trying your best to cope with just too much shite. Don’t forget you’re only a human being. Sending energy your way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does a girl have to do to get a hug around here ? Just a friendly ‘there there’ type of hug

Big hug lovely xx and 'hi' "

Thank you , I need it as do so many others today , and a big one back to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does a girl have to do to get a hug around here ? Just a friendly ‘there there’ type of hug "

Sending you one, squishy hug

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Apart from missing my grand daughters 12 and 5 ,especially the 5 year old she loves to cuddle Nana ,im desperate for her hugs ,its the simple things as well getting my hair and nails done i have weekly massages for Arthritic shoulders missing those but i will never take normal for granted again ,and when i see my girls again i will hug them for hours ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My daughter has ADHD my grandson is autistic and has ADHD. I’m normally with her to help, at least 5 days a week. I worry so much about how they will cope. She’s already sent photos of he arms covered in scratches and bites from when he had a melt down last night. I feel so helpless, all I can do is get her shopping and leave it at the door.

I miss my grandsons cuddles immensely, he’s so loving when he’s not overwhelmed with life. I’m very tearful and lonely all in my own.

Thank you OP I feel better for writing this. No need to paint on a brave face here "

Oh fuck that’s hard... don’t beat yourself up about not being there for your daughter, you are there and she should realise she has your mental support which means a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im tempted to shave my head!"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel as fat as a house. "

Well you’re not! So many people will have put on a few pounds during this time , but it will soon come off and if it doesn’t then it’s just an extra bit for people to love xx

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over a year ago


"Im tempted to shave my head!

Me too "

And me ! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apart from missing my grand daughters 12 and 5 ,especially the 5 year old she loves to cuddle Nana ,im desperate for her hugs ,its the simple things as well getting my hair and nails done i have weekly massages for Arthritic shoulders missing those but i will never take normal for granted again ,and when i see my girls again i will hug them for hours ... "

There you go. Lessons are to be learnt from all this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does a girl have to do to get a hug around here ? Just a friendly ‘there there’ type of hug

Sending you one, squishy hug "

Ooooh a squishy one would be lush thank you x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"My daughter has ADHD my grandson is autistic and has ADHD. I’m normally with her to help, at least 5 days a week. I worry so much about how they will cope. She’s already sent photos of he arms covered in scratches and bites from when he had a melt down last night. I feel so helpless, all I can do is get her shopping and leave it at the door.

I miss my grandsons cuddles immensely, he’s so loving when he’s not overwhelmed with life. I’m very tearful and lonely all in my own.

Thank you OP I feel better for writing this. No need to paint on a brave face here "

I know that your daughter is going to be doing the best she can - the National Autistic Society have lots of help/resources/contacts right now to aid those who have autism if she hasn't looked already.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I feel as fat as a house.

Well you’re not! So many people will have put on a few pounds during this time , but it will soon come off and if it doesn’t then it’s just an extra bit for people to love xx"

I'm going to start looking at it this way. Extra me is always a win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I'm just here on this site out of curiosity but would like the courage to meet at least one bloke from here casually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's going to be a lot of shaved heads haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok I'm just here on this site out of curiosity but would like the courage to meet at least one bloke from here casually!"

Well there’s no better time than choosing one now. Time enough to get to know them properly. Go on, send some first messages

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You need to be kinder to yourself. You’re trying your best to cope with just too much shite. Don’t forget you’re only a human being. Sending energy your way..."

I'm on it. My goals at the moment are basically take care of myself and do things that promote mental health. Anything else can wait. We're going through a global trauma, these feelings are natural. I won't lie, they piss me off, but I'm trying to promote my own mental health as a matter of urgency.

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

So sorry to hear that, sending you big hugs xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There's going to be a lot of shaved heads haha! "

I looove the androgynous alternative look. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I'm just here on this site out of curiosity but would like the courage to meet at least one bloke from here casually!

Well there’s no better time than choosing one now. Time enough to get to know them properly. Go on, send some first messages "

Thanks Op, you're like super gorgeous though. I guess the men look super hot at times so bit daunting for me to take the plunge. Really feel like I have to do this before I'm old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter has ADHD my grandson is autistic and has ADHD. I’m normally with her to help, at least 5 days a week. I worry so much about how they will cope. She’s already sent photos of he arms covered in scratches and bites from when he had a melt down last night. I feel so helpless, all I can do is get her shopping and leave it at the door.

I miss my grandsons cuddles immensely, he’s so loving when he’s not overwhelmed with life. I’m very tearful and lonely all in my own.

Thank you OP I feel better for writing this. No need to paint on a brave face here

I know that your daughter is going to be doing the best she can - the National Autistic Society have lots of help/resources/contacts right now to aid those who have autism if she hasn't looked already. "


"My daughter has ADHD my grandson is autistic and has ADHD. I’m normally with her to help, at least 5 days a week. I worry so much about how they will cope. She’s already sent photos of he arms covered in scratches and bites from when he had a melt down last night. I feel so helpless, all I can do is get her shopping and leave it at the door.

I miss my grandsons cuddles immensely, he’s so loving when he’s not overwhelmed with life. I’m very tearful and lonely all in my own.

Thank you OP I feel better for writing this. No need to paint on a brave face here

I know that your daughter is going to be doing the best she can - the National Autistic Society have lots of help/resources/contacts right now to aid those who have autism if she hasn't looked already. "

Thank you to everyone for the kind comments. It really does help. Xx

My daughter is trying hard but two ADHDs together is a challenge. I’ll send her a link to the website Meli x

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity


"Apart from missing my grand daughters 12 and 5 ,especially the 5 year old she loves to cuddle Nana ,im desperate for her hugs ,its the simple things as well getting my hair and nails done i have weekly massages for Arthritic shoulders missing those but i will never take normal for granted again ,and when i see my girls again i will hug them for hours ... "

I feel like that about taking normal for granted. My sis hates hugs, she just isn’t a huggy type, but she’s so getting one after this is over. She’ll just have to grin and bear it.

I hope the warmer weather will help your arthritis. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel as fat as a house.

Well you’re not! So many people will have put on a few pounds during this time , but it will soon come off and if it doesn’t then it’s just an extra bit for people to love xx

I'm going to start looking at it this way. Extra me is always a win."

Absolutely xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to be kinder to yourself. You’re trying your best to cope with just too much shite. Don’t forget you’re only a human being. Sending energy your way...

I'm on it. My goals at the moment are basically take care of myself and do things that promote mental health. Anything else can wait. We're going through a global trauma, these feelings are natural. I won't lie, they piss me off, but I'm trying to promote my own mental health as a matter of urgency."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok I'm just here on this site out of curiosity but would like the courage to meet at least one bloke from here casually!

Well there’s no better time than choosing one now. Time enough to get to know them properly. Go on, send some first messages

Thanks Op, you're like super gorgeous though. I guess the men look super hot at times so bit daunting for me to take the plunge. Really feel like I have to do this before I'm old!"

Just do it. It’s rather addictive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So sorry to hear that, sending you big hugs xx"

If you click on reply and quote we’ll know who you’re addressing

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"My daughter has ADHD my grandson is autistic and has ADHD. I’m normally with her to help, at least 5 days a week. I worry so much about how they will cope. She’s already sent photos of he arms covered in scratches and bites from when he had a melt down last night. I feel so helpless, all I can do is get her shopping and leave it at the door.

I miss my grandsons cuddles immensely, he’s so loving when he’s not overwhelmed with life. I’m very tearful and lonely all in my own.

Thank you OP I feel better for writing this. No need to paint on a brave face here "

Sending you huge hugs!! My eldest son is autistic and my little girl is also being assessed for autism. The kids have been great, but my mum lives abroad and feels the same as you, guilty that she cannot help me. I don't need her help at the moment but at the same time it's so hard knowing that she is feeling this way because she cannot be with us..

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"It says non-judgemental so I’m going to risk it. I’m stuck in lockdown with a partner I don’t love and don’t want to be with, but can’t yet afford to leave. I get no more than half an hour to myself most days, and I’m more desperately lonely than I would be if I was actually alone. Recent rows have included whether I use too much toilet paper or paracetamol. And it’s only been just over two weeks.

Sending you love, I can't imagine how difficult it must be for you right now. If possible can you sit down and have a calm and rational conversation about how you need your own space/time? x"

He’s never been able to understand that in almost 20 years, so I don’t think he’s going to start now. I’m taking a lot of deep breaths and doing my damnedest to stay calm and reasonable at all times so as not to set anything off but my god do I need to just hide. Originally my plan was to go for the occasional drive - not getting out of the car or anything - just for some space, but I don’t think “hiding from partner” counts as essential travel. And I realise there are plenty of women in a worse situation than me right now, whose partners are violent, but I just can’t breathe.

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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Big hugs to everyone who needs them

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don't want to go to work tomorrow!!

I want to stay home like everyone else!!

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"So sorry to hear that, sending you big hugs xx

If you click on reply and quote we’ll know who you’re addressing "

My fat fingers and scatterbrain! I thought I was clicking on reply and quote

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It says non-judgemental so I’m going to risk it. I’m stuck in lockdown with a partner I don’t love and don’t want to be with, but can’t yet afford to leave. I get no more than half an hour to myself most days, and I’m more desperately lonely than I would be if I was actually alone. Recent rows have included whether I use too much toilet paper or paracetamol. And it’s only been just over two weeks.

Sending you love, I can't imagine how difficult it must be for you right now. If possible can you sit down and have a calm and rational conversation about how you need your own space/time? x

He’s never been able to understand that in almost 20 years, so I don’t think he’s going to start now. I’m taking a lot of deep breaths and doing my damnedest to stay calm and reasonable at all times so as not to set anything off but my god do I need to just hide. Originally my plan was to go for the occasional drive - not getting out of the car or anything - just for some space, but I don’t think “hiding from partner” counts as essential travel. And I realise there are plenty of women in a worse situation than me right now, whose partners are violent, but I just can’t breathe."

No, no, no. This isn’t good at all. I don’t know how to help you but this is a recipe for disaster. Even going to sit in your car whenever you need time out is better than nothing

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"It says non-judgemental so I’m going to risk it. I’m stuck in lockdown with a partner I don’t love and don’t want to be with, but can’t yet afford to leave. I get no more than half an hour to myself most days, and I’m more desperately lonely than I would be if I was actually alone. Recent rows have included whether I use too much toilet paper or paracetamol. And it’s only been just over two weeks."

So sorry to hear that, sending you big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So sorry to hear that, sending you big hugs xx

If you click on reply and quote we’ll know who you’re addressing

My fat fingers and scatterbrain! I thought I was clicking on reply and quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It says non-judgemental so I’m going to risk it. I’m stuck in lockdown with a partner I don’t love and don’t want to be with, but can’t yet afford to leave. I get no more than half an hour to myself most days, and I’m more desperately lonely than I would be if I was actually alone. Recent rows have included whether I use too much toilet paper or paracetamol. And it’s only been just over two weeks.

Sending you love, I can't imagine how difficult it must be for you right now. If possible can you sit down and have a calm and rational conversation about how you need your own space/time? x

He’s never been able to understand that in almost 20 years, so I don’t think he’s going to start now. I’m taking a lot of deep breaths and doing my damnedest to stay calm and reasonable at all times so as not to set anything off but my god do I need to just hide. Originally my plan was to go for the occasional drive - not getting out of the car or anything - just for some space, but I don’t think “hiding from partner” counts as essential travel. And I realise there are plenty of women in a worse situation than me right now, whose partners are violent, but I just can’t breathe."

I really really feel you.

It wont be forever but if you need to chat,pm me

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Women.... just keep in mind we aren’t alone in finding a couple of extra pounds.

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over a year ago


"Women.... just keep in mind we aren’t alone in finding a couple of extra pounds.

"

D won’t thank me for saying this but he’s put on about 6lb , he’s not happy but I like it lol

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over a year ago


"Women.... just keep in mind we aren’t alone in finding a couple of extra pounds.

D won’t thank me for saying this but he’s put on about 6lb , he’s not happy but I like it lol"

You are going to be in trouble

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Nothing to let rip here but huge Mac hugs to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women.... just keep in mind we aren’t alone in finding a couple of extra pounds.

D won’t thank me for saying this but he’s put on about 6lb , he’s not happy but I like it lol

You are going to be in trouble "

He he well he deserves it after taking the piss out the cake I made yesterday which incidentally he still ate lol

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Women.... just keep in mind we aren’t alone in finding a couple of extra pounds.

D won’t thank me for saying this but he’s put on about 6lb , he’s not happy but I like it lol"

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

Sending so many hugs to those above!

Mine sounds minimal, but I'm going to take the opportunity to spill anyway.

My boyfriend and I are very piss takey of each other, and can cut pretty close to the bone sometimes. I am able to handle it 99% of the time, but I guess we are all a little more stressed right now. At dinner tonight he was making some sexist comments about the title Dr and PC (to wind me up, not because he thinks it), and my daughters were there so I wanted to argue back and put him right, and be a good role model, and feminist, and Yadda Yadda. Instead, I got so frustrated I couldn't articulate, burst into tears, told him he was being cunty, and then stropped off.

So much for not being a hysterical woman...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a really bad few days, pondering life, love and the point that it's just so fucking painful. I couldn't see the sun... the black dog was coming for me.

Now my period has fucked off it seems bearable and dare I say it even doable.

I've not been on much coz of it, plus seeing people posting who I could quite easily bop on the snout with a shovel has had me thinking it ain't worth coming on.

I'm feeling as though people don't understand me, and I'm aware I'm looking like a whinging cunt all the time which tells me I need to make changes in my life.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"It says non-judgemental so I’m going to risk it. I’m stuck in lockdown with a partner I don’t love and don’t want to be with, but can’t yet afford to leave. I get no more than half an hour to myself most days, and I’m more desperately lonely than I would be if I was actually alone. Recent rows have included whether I use too much toilet paper or paracetamol. And it’s only been just over two weeks.

This isn’t good. Tempers are just going to get shorter as time goes on. You do need to change this somehow otherwise it’s going to be very difficult to cope. You’re only human sweetheart "

I do plan to change it, that was supposed to happen in a few months but like everything else, that’s now on hold/delayed as well. In the short term I’m just relying on getting up earlier than him so I can have a little bit of time to myself each day.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Ok I'm just here on this site out of curiosity but would like the courage to meet at least one bloke from here casually!

Well there’s no better time than choosing one now. Time enough to get to know them properly. Go on, send some first messages

Thanks Op, you're like super gorgeous though. I guess the men look super hot at times so bit daunting for me to take the plunge. Really feel like I have to do this before I'm old!"

Do it! I joined in a panic last year thinking I don’t have long left before I lose whatever’s left of my looks and dry up, I didn’t expect much but it’s been great and given me a lot of confidence.

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