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"Because they can... when they think they don’t matter to you they test the waters to prove that they do. " *try to prove | |||
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"It’s an ego thing. Just to prove to themselves that they can. " They may not want you, but in a sad way like the attention. When the attention wanes they just want to reel you back in to see if they can. | |||
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"It’s an ego thing. Just to prove to themselves that they can. They may not want you, but in a sad way like the attention. When the attention wanes they just want to reel you back in to see if they can." | |||
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"It’s an ego thing. Just to prove to themselves that they can. " This. | |||
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"The stages men go through when they meet a hot woman 1. "fucking hell she's really hot and is up for anything sexually, can't get enough of her" 2. "actually as I've got to know her, she's a bit annoying, but the sex is great, so I'll hang on in there" 3. "bloody hell, I can't bare to be with her, the sex just isn't worth it" 4. Break up 5. Time passes 6. "god I'm horny, that woman I was seeing a bit back was really hot, wonder if she'll be up for a no strings fuck" 7. Texts her. " It’s like your reading my mind | |||
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"Some men like to control. It’s kinda sad really. " This too. | |||
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"The stages men go through when they meet a hot woman 1. "fucking hell she's really hot and is up for anything sexually, can't get enough of her" 2. "actually as I've got to know her, she's a bit annoying, but the sex is great, so I'll hang on in there" 3. "bloody hell, I can't bare to be with her, the sex just isn't worth it" 4. Break up 5. Time passes 6. "god I'm horny, that woman I was seeing a bit back was really hot, wonder if she'll be up for a no strings fuck" 7. Texts her. " Spot on x | |||
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"The stages men go through when they meet a hot woman 1. "fucking hell she's really hot and is up for anything sexually, can't get enough of her" 2. "actually as I've got to know her, she's a bit annoying, but the sex is great, so I'll hang on in there" 3. "bloody hell, I can't bare to be with her, the sex just isn't worth it" 4. Break up 5. Time passes 6. "god I'm horny, that woman I was seeing a bit back was really hot, wonder if she'll be up for a no strings fuck" 7. Texts her. " This! | |||
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"It’s an ego thing. Just to prove to themselves that they can. " Nailed it. Once I realised this my life became instantly easier. | |||
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"I asked this in the men thread but it was overlooked by people asking why men don’t put the toilet seat down. Don’t fucking talk about toilet seats now, but how do men have a sixth sense to know you’re over them but then contact you to try and get in your god graces again!? Having this recently with an ex but nothing knew I’ve had it with every guy I’ve dated. With me I’m intense and creepy and fall hard fast but once the psychopath phase is done I can’t go back. They have to catch me when I’m in that phase cos once they’re out the system they’re out for good but it’s like they know or can sense when I’m at that stage and then they try luring me back. Why!?" All men are equal opportunist or he or they didn't realize but know you do. As for the why...it so you will fuck them. | |||
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"The stages men go through when they meet a hot woman 1. "fucking hell she's really hot and is up for anything sexually, can't get enough of her" 2. "actually as I've got to know her, she's a bit annoying, but the sex is great, so I'll hang on in there" 3. "bloody hell, I can't bare to be with her, the sex just isn't worth it" 4. Break up 5. Time passes 6. "god I'm horny, that woman I was seeing a bit back was really hot, wonder if she'll be up for a no strings fuck" 7. Texts her. " Exactly this! | |||
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"When it comes to matters sexual, men are irrationally optimistic.." Very true | |||
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"I asked this in the men thread but it was overlooked by people asking why men don’t put the toilet seat down. Don’t fucking talk about toilet seats now, but how do men have a sixth sense to know you’re over them but then contact you to try and get in your god graces again!? Having this recently with an ex but nothing knew I’ve had it with every guy I’ve dated. With me I’m intense and creepy and fall hard fast but once the psychopath phase is done I can’t go back. They have to catch me when I’m in that phase cos once they’re out the system they’re out for good but it’s like they know or can sense when I’m at that stage and then they try luring me back. Why!?" I'd guess it's because you are easy to read and manipulate also you obviously choose the guys who can read you well and enjoy manipulation as not all men have that skill or desire x | |||
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"I asked this in the men thread but it was overlooked by people asking why men don’t put the toilet seat down. Don’t fucking talk about toilet seats now, but how do men have a sixth sense to know you’re over them but then contact you to try and get in your god graces again!? Having this recently with an ex but nothing knew I’ve had it with every guy I’ve dated. With me I’m intense and creepy and fall hard fast but once the psychopath phase is done I can’t go back. They have to catch me when I’m in that phase cos once they’re out the system they’re out for good but it’s like they know or can sense when I’m at that stage and then they try luring me back. Why!? I'd guess it's because you are easy to read and manipulate also you obviously choose the guys who can read you well and enjoy manipulation as not all men have that skill or desire x" Yeah obviously it’s my fault even though I’ve not had any contact with him or seen him for months | |||
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"I asked this in the men thread but it was overlooked by people asking why men don’t put the toilet seat down. Don’t fucking talk about toilet seats now, but how do men have a sixth sense to know you’re over them but then contact you to try and get in your god graces again!? Having this recently with an ex but nothing knew I’ve had it with every guy I’ve dated. With me I’m intense and creepy and fall hard fast but once the psychopath phase is done I can’t go back. They have to catch me when I’m in that phase cos once they’re out the system they’re out for good but it’s like they know or can sense when I’m at that stage and then they try luring me back. Why!? I'd guess it's because you are easy to read and manipulate also you obviously choose the guys who can read you well and enjoy manipulation as not all men have that skill or desire x Yeah obviously it’s my fault even though I’ve not had any contact with him or seen him for months " How can your preference be your fault you like the men you like You asked have they got a sixth sense The answer is no just a really shitty personality type | |||
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"I asked this in the men thread but it was overlooked by people asking why men don’t put the toilet seat down. Don’t fucking talk about toilet seats now, but how do men have a sixth sense to know you’re over them but then contact you to try and get in your god graces again!? Having this recently with an ex but nothing knew I’ve had it with every guy I’ve dated. With me I’m intense and creepy and fall hard fast but once the psychopath phase is done I can’t go back. They have to catch me when I’m in that phase cos once they’re out the system they’re out for good but it’s like they know or can sense when I’m at that stage and then they try luring me back. Why!? I'd guess it's because you are easy to read and manipulate also you obviously choose the guys who can read you well and enjoy manipulation as not all men have that skill or desire x Yeah obviously it’s my fault even though I’ve not had any contact with him or seen him for months " I will apologise I was absolutely not trying to lay blame only reason Not every woman suffers your plight Not every man has the ability You are the common factor However Just as some women subconsciously need a tall man or a long haired blond others like a geek who talks film You are drawn without understanding to utter bastards you're not alone and you wont be able to change the personality type you like I'm drawn occasionally to dangerous women I have a soft heart I also need to be careful x | |||
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"Do you think they send texts to all their ex’s and just wait to see if any reply? Because it’s lockdown and they may as well chance their arm. I had someone go years without a text then recently one suddenly arrived. It was a very strange text exchange. I blocked him. " This one wasn’t a random text it was answering something I’d asked for on a Facebook status, he messaged me saying he had the stuff I wanted and brought them, but then been messaging since. | |||
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"Do you think they send texts to all their ex’s and just wait to see if any reply? Because it’s lockdown and they may as well chance their arm. I had someone go years without a text then recently one suddenly arrived. It was a very strange text exchange. I blocked him. This one wasn’t a random text it was answering something I’d asked for on a Facebook status, he messaged me saying he had the stuff I wanted and brought them, but then been messaging since. " So he did you a good deed and bought you something you had asked for.... not exactly out of the blue. | |||
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"It's easily sorted. Block all contact. Take control of the situation and don't let them have any hold over you. Looks forwards in life." It's bloody freeing. | |||
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"The stages men go through when they meet a hot woman 1. "fucking hell she's really hot and is up for anything sexually, can't get enough of her" 2. "actually as I've got to know her, she's a bit annoying, but the sex is great, so I'll hang on in there" 3. "bloody hell, I can't bare to be with her, the sex just isn't worth it" 4. Break up 5. Time passes 6. "god I'm horny, that woman I was seeing a bit back was really hot, wonder if she'll be up for a no strings fuck" 7. Texts her. " I'm the furthest thing from hot, but this has been very much my experience. A guy gets all the sex he could want, but outside the bedroom things aren't right and we split. Time passes and he forgets the shit that wasn't right, just remembers the great sex, messages out of the blue assuming I'm still a pining wreck and will jump at the chance. I always block and delete, but I've had a guy set up a new Facebook profile 5 or 6 years down the line so he can message. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one of his exes he has done this to. Doesn't really bother me, I've moved on so there's no temptation to engage. It took me a long time to get to this point but it was incredibly empowering when I realised a lack of response is entirely within my control. | |||
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"I asked this in the men thread but it was overlooked by people asking why men don’t put the toilet seat down. Don’t fucking talk about toilet seats now, but how do men have a sixth sense to know you’re over them but then contact you to try and get in your god graces again!? Having this recently with an ex but nothing knew I’ve had it with every guy I’ve dated. With me I’m intense and creepy and fall hard fast but once the psychopath phase is done I can’t go back. They have to catch me when I’m in that phase cos once they’re out the system they’re out for good but it’s like they know or can sense when I’m at that stage and then they try luring me back. Why!? I'd guess it's because you are easy to read and manipulate also you obviously choose the guys who can read you well and enjoy manipulation as not all men have that skill or desire x Yeah obviously it’s my fault even though I’ve not had any contact with him or seen him for months " I will apologise again Very sorry I did indeed mis read your OP to mean why do they message just before you are over them dumb me Erm so yeah just chancing it | |||
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"Because they can... when they think they don’t matter to you they test the waters to prove that they do. " I’m loving this. All correct so far I’d say. Very much an ego thing. | |||
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