FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked list

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I always see threads about Hot list but I wondered about blocked lists!!!

How many are on yours!? Mine is at 26 currently and I feel bad saying it but then remembered what Knobheads they were!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots but then I’m probably on lots too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thousands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a few on mine but just local folk that like to post too many pictures and I find them ghastly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thousands. "

Yep.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not many, maybe 30 ish

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't often block just tend to ignore, but just checked and there are two people on mine - one lady who was particularly homophobic on a bi thread and a bloke who I can't remember how but was somehow someone I might know in real life

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

13 on mine, mostly crossdressers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

71 so far... Didn't realise it was that many!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Thousands. "

Why did I just read that in "Zulu" mode...."Fousands of 'em"

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have 21 on my block list.

Mostly because of repeat messages from men wanting to meet, just to prevent further disappointment.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

No idea if I'm on any though

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'd love to know how many have me blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thousands.

Why did I just read that in "Zulu" mode...."Fousands of 'em"

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit

Thousands probably. Been on here 8 years or something hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thousands.

Yep. "

Mine, too. Not just people who've been rude or abusive to me, but people who've expressed dodgy opinions on forums that make me gasp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

242

Took bloody ages to count em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many, I can't be bothered counting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a couple of illiterate men..

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By *heel markMan
over a year ago

beside the sea

Not enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thousands.

Yep.

Mine, too. Not just people who've been rude or abusive to me, but people who've expressed dodgy opinions on forums that make me gasp.

Yep same. It’s not really anything personal, just easier. I block a few with really awful views I don’t agree with. Ive also deleted and blocked automatically any messages where I’m not interested. Just always the way I’ve done it. Same as hotlist. People on there for lots of different reasons.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Thousands.

Yep.

Mine, too. Not just people who've been rude or abusive to me, but people who've expressed dodgy opinions on forums that make me gasp.

Yup.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve blocked three quarters of Fab members, men, couples and women...

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

I've lots on my single profile...but omg hundreds on our couples one!.annoying thou when I see a profile in the forums and go mmmmmm he looks nice, go check his profile and then realise I've blocked him for some reason or another but just cant remember why!!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

At least a few hundred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one so I’m doing well. The have to be rude for me to block but I know people that block just cos they don’t find the person attractive lol

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over a year ago

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

1 so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don’t feel so bad with my numbers now then!!!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

10 on ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

49, need to make that 50, hmmm who can I put on there

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I've a few on mine but just local folk that like to post too many pictures and I find them ghastly!!

Sorry

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"So I always see threads about Hot list but I wondered about blocked lists!!!

How many are on yours!? Mine is at 26 currently and I feel bad saying it but then remembered what Knobheads they were!!

2485

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thousands.

Yep.

Mine, too. Not just people who've been rude or abusive to me, but people who've expressed dodgy opinions on forums that make me gasp.

Yup."

Yes that too.

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By *oungAndFreeOnesCouple
over a year ago

Telford

30 on our list.

Not including the fake deleted accounts people use

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"49, need to make that 50, hmmm who can I put on there

I'll send you a dick pic if you need an excuse

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Too many to count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I've lots on my single profile...but omg hundreds on our couples one!.annoying thou when I see a profile in the forums and go mmmmmm he looks nice, go check his profile and then realise I've blocked him for some reason or another but just cant remember why!!"

I always add a note why before blocking

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I stopped counting at 100.

I haven't blocked anyone in quite a while. The messages I get are mostly respectful, thankfully.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

104

Some are repeaters though, one guy seems to make a new account every other week so every time we see him we block straight away. He ghosted us an hour before a meet but apparently still likes to look at our profile

Others are the norms like no show, fake, rude etc.

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

I always add a note why before blocking "

I probably should have done that when I started blocking list!

From today on!!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Only two people, why do I feel unpopular all of a sudden?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I always add a note why before blocking "

I do that too, I've a terrible memory, and it especially helps on the forum

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By *ummer breeze300Woman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Hundreds lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always add a note why before blocking "

I keep forgetting about the private note thing!

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

Hundreds on mine and it grows daily

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Bloody hell...nearly 100!! Although one was ex hubby who only made an account to send me abuse!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I'm on all your block list just because im a massive perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 at the moment

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I always add a note why before blocking

I do that too, I've a terrible memory, and it especially helps on the forum"

It does, been caught out once and then the penny dropped....

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By *miableRogueMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Zero on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0. Im all zen with live and let live.

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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I always add a note why before blocking "

Can you see notes if they are blocked? I thought you couldn't see their profile after blocking.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I always add a note why before blocking

Can you see notes if they are blocked? I thought you couldn't see their profile after blocking. "

You still get the wee menu, top right above the "blocked" message you get. You can access the notes there.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Hundreds.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I always see threads about Hot list but I wondered about blocked lists!!!

How many are on yours!? Mine is at 26 currently and I feel bad saying it but then remembered what Knobheads they were!!

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353 on mine can't remember why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to count from fakes, pushy single guys and couples that have been rude or that we don’t meet requirements of. It’s a fantastic tool to make searching easier x

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Lots , it’s a good reminder to avoid these people... they either think they are too good for everyone and look at me type or plain stupid .

Just my opinion , as I’m sure I’m on a few people’s lists

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

3 on mine and they all know me in real life

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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I always add a note why before blocking

Can you see notes if they are blocked? I thought you couldn't see their profile after blocking.

You still get the wee menu, top right above the "blocked" message you get. You can access the notes there. "

Just noticed this, thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 on mine and they all know me in real life

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omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I always add a note why before blocking

Can you see notes if they are blocked? I thought you couldn't see their profile after blocking.

You still get the wee menu, top right above the "blocked" message you get. You can access the notes there. "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads, I'm not counting. Most because they can't take a polite 'im not interested or no thank you' and keep messaging, some because they became abusive or just down right creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only around 10 - they were persistently annoying sending numerous messages per hour until they tripped my button. A few found me from my old profile which gave me a few issues.

I'm pretty easy going overall and rescoping my profile really helped

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Just the one on my block list, but if you turned it around I’m probably on thousands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to sit and count and majority have been added the last 3 weeks

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

"Too many to sit and count and majority have been added the last 3 weeks "

Phew im not 1 of them yet

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Many!

For being weird, nasty, not taking no for an answer.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

241. For a few different reasons but usually for being assholes.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

152 and counting.

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By *ice But Very NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

250 are on our block list, I (her) just counted them.

It is easier for us to block people than receive future messages asking to play.

It's easier for us to keep track of people of interest.

For sending us offensive comments via messages.

Status updates that we do not find nice, or very negative.

Forum comments with opinions that we dislike.

People who create multiple profiles yet use the same images.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hundreds, thousands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has grown a lot in the last two weeks.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None on mine. I've been blocked by a couple of people already though.

One lady blocked me after I wished her happy fabbing

And a guy blocked me because in his words all straight men have sex with other men and I was just being silly by not agreeing with him

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I block very few. They really have to cross the line before getting blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your bored of blocking people come play on my thread about asking someone to tell a mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.... I always add a note why before blocking "

How do you do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine only has 2. I rarely get people who play up after being ignored or rejected so it's only the 'special' few who make it onto the block list

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

About 250, I'd estimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh...

That took ages!

I was feeling left out of this thread so I’ve blocked every last one of you

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

22 - I really only block bigots and fascists these days.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

9 on mine, I don't often block so they must have been real bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gosh...

That took ages!

I was feeling left out of this thread so I’ve blocked every last one of you

Just counted, there are 66 now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60!

Took ages!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Just 2 on mine.

I'm probably too tolerant though.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

2 on mine. I'm way too tolerant for my own good methinks

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

41 on mine. I’m sure. This will rise though

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

189 jeez I didn't think that many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

93 currently...don't like doing it but sometimes its needed.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

77 at the moment.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"2 on mine. I'm way too tolerant for my own good methinks

We could be twins. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I current have 6 on mine but it’s growing daily

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

"I current have 6 on mine but it’s growing daily

Hate to be put on your block list cheeky id miss the chats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FUCKING loads. Full of idiots using their status to look for meets, those who have been on cam with men who popped over during lockdown, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well more on my block list than friends says it all don't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I always see threads about Hot list but I wondered about blocked lists!!!

How many are on yours!? Mine is at 26 currently and I feel bad saying it but then remembered what Knobheads they were!!

I’m not on there yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s crazy!!! I wonder if there are a lot of the same people on Blocked list too.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"2 on mine. I'm way too tolerant for my own good methinks

We could be twins. Lol"

Might raise this number eventually. Fortunately, few people genuinely irritate me or are nasty to me

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

4 on mine

Two unpleasant men from a while ago and two very insulting women too.

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By *hilliandspiceMan
over a year ago

Wimborne

Think we have just got one guy on our block list, he was really not getting the message and everything he said was just creepily odd, like not offensive but just slightly wrong, hard to describe but possibly a collector of cuckoo clocks (my apologies to normal people who collect cuckoo clocks, hang on, nobody normal does that do they?).

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

35 on mine.

Most for being insulting or not taking no for an anawer.

Numbers are increasing more rapidly at present with people still thinking it's ok to meet at the moment and trying to persuade me otherwise when I tell they are crazy.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"2 on mine. I'm way too tolerant for my own good methinks

We could be twins. Lol

Might raise this number eventually. Fortunately, few people genuinely irritate me or are nasty to me

I get the usual 'fat' remarks. Like I didn't know I'm overweight.

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By *rs C and Mr CCouple
over a year ago

North East

Hundreds.... I wouldn’t like to count...

People who are pushy

People who are abusive

The fakes

The dreamers

The timewasters

The deceitful straight guys who aren’t straight (fab straight)

The woman who posted a pic of Mrs C without asking if we minded

The list goes on....

We always add a private note. We learnt that we don’t have time to keep coming across these people, so it’s easier to block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

32 and only 1 of those was a previous friend ... since blocking guys we dont really use it much anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s fucking massive, and growing bigger by the day. Mainly blocking stupid people still asking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

39 and I've been here for about a month

. Most of them are due to men asking to meet now, sometimes even offering to pay.

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

Mines sitting at around 400. Even after i politely say they r not 4 me i block cause learned very quickly they still try after that

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Probably about 30. Only 2 of those is because of nasty messages. The others are blocked as a filter so I don't see their status updates and their profiles don't appeal.

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By *rs C and Mr CCouple
over a year ago

North East

"39 and I've been here for about a month

. Most of them are due to men asking to meet now, sometimes even offering to pay.

Yep... that too... though I report them aswell! Unbelievable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"39 and I've been here for about a month

. Most of them are due to men asking to meet now, sometimes even offering to pay.

Yep... that too... though I report them aswell! Unbelievable!

I report them as well. I think I had 3 today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hundreds of thousands

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Hundreds .....

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Sent an initial message to someone half hour ago and she caught the wrong end of the stick, thought I'd ventured out to shop for no reason...launched a tirade as a nurse then blocked me. My sister is a nurse so I hear the stories, I haven't been out to shops in days

This one has really got to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines back to 0 again.

I don’t wanna block anyone

Peace and bananas

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Sent an initial message to someone half hour ago and she caught the wrong end of the stick, thought I'd ventured out to shop for no reason...launched a tirade as a nurse then blocked me. My sister is a nurse so I hear the stories, I haven't been out to shops in days

This one has really got to me

I wouldn't worry too much. Health workers are pretty stressed out and exhausted right now. She's probably snappier than normal which isn't nice to be on the recieving end of but understandable really considering the current situation. Just try to shrug it off as someone having a bad day and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines back to 0 again.

I don’t wanna block anyone

Peace and bananas"

Oh phew, I was getting blue cock withdrawal.

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