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By *k_guy OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Ok, some help please! Starting to add a few pictures and videos and I have altered my text as advised. Why do I only get guys messaging me! And mostly men fabbing my pics?!! HELP!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Ok, some help please! Starting to add a few pictures and videos and I have altered my text as advised. Why do I only get guys messaging me! And mostly men fabbing my pics?!! HELP!"

What anyone say about upping yr pro is bolox.. don’t care what u do, single guys get very little attention .. so just enjoy what u get lol

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Maybe have a think about the ratios on the site and you will find your answer.

Top tip.......if you want to stop guys from messaging you go to your message filters and block them from doing so

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

If you don't want guys to message you filter them out

Why do you think you're doing something wrong ?

What makes you stand out in the sea of guys on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is it's doesn't matter how good your profile is or how good your messages are it's down to attraction. You're not necessarily doing anything wrong you just haven't been seen by the right person.

Obviously a profile showing yourself at your best is beneficial for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sometimes think we are doing something wrong

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

The man from Del Monte he say, 'Filters, bro'

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Iv just fabbed your pics for a giggle!!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a very cock centric profile and lots of men like cocks too.

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By *k_guy OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Thanks for your feedback all. Have a good day all.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Its a very cock centric profile and lots of men like cocks too. "

This would be my assessment

To my observations your pics would repel over 96.6 percent of all women there is very little if anything in almost all of your pics that I think a majority of ladies would go "mmm yummy" at and many would click away and block after the first

You show a bland penis that's very attractive to a number of particularly inclined men

All of that said there will be a tiny minority of women who like you. your profile does not lie about how you are and you will just need to be patient for that unique woman

I have to ask just for my curiosity why did you think your pictures might appeal to a wide range of women ?

Beyond that I personally thought it would be obvious your picture style would appeal to certain men if you do not want the attention they are bound to bring block men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fabbed the pictures I think are the best of what’s there.

Also there’s a significant weight gain between August 2018 and April 2019, looks like two different bodies, anything happen that year?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

It looks like your cock has changed from the earlier pictures, almost looks like a totally different guy..

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By *k_guy OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

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By *k_guy OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I stopped playing rugby . The first cock pics are still me, just a slimmer me from quite a few years ago. They were my only photos on fab until recently. I will remove them, if it makes things easier.

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By *k_guy OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Its a very cock centric profile and lots of men like cocks too.

This would be my assessment

To my observations your pics would repel over 96.6 percent of all women there is very little if anything in almost all of your pics that I think a majority of ladies would go "mmm yummy" at and many would click away and block after the first

You show a bland penis that's very attractive to a number of particularly inclined men

All of that said there will be a tiny minority of women who like you. your profile does not lie about how you are and you will just need to be patient for that unique woman

I have to ask just for my curiosity why did you think your pictures might appeal to a wide range of women ?

Beyond that I personally thought it would be obvious your picture style would appeal to certain men if you do not want the attention they are bound to bring block men

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Thanks for your input. I am totally naive to think what sort of pics women would like, being a man myself. Hence asking for a bit of advice.

So what should I be going for?

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