FabSwingers.com forum: Don't Call Me Baby (or indeed any other pet term)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Almost every man who messages uses pet terms when messaging initially.

Does this bother you when it happens to you?

Have you ever told the other person not to call you whatever they did?

How did they react?

I myself have had a variety of responses

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I don't like them off people i don't know coz it implies some level of intimacy. I just ignore them usually, depends if i fancy them or not.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Who care what they call you as long as its not derogatory

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Who care what they call you as long as its not derogatory"

*cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes and yes, anything like baby is cringeee and to me tacky

If you're friends with someone then that's perfectly fine the silly names, but someone trying to impress you, baby or anything like that is a big no, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be in the minority here but I actually like it as long as it’s not too sickly!

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Almost every man who messages uses pet terms when messaging initially.

Does this bother you when it happens to you?

Have you ever told the other person not to call you whatever they did?

How did they react?

I myself have had a variety of responses "

What are your responses babe ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m nobody’s baby or girl. No hun, babe, pet, sugar or other shite. And don’t even try pretending you’re strong enough to be my ‘daddy’. Ffs, do I look as if I need one?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t mind it at all As long as it’s not derogatory, it’s all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to him more directly and tell him you don’t like it or appreciate it. Honesty is the best policy

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Men get called babe too. Given my 40 something age, I’m never sure if I find it cute or cringy. I think it depends on the age of the person it’s come from. It’s a term of endearment, I guess

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I’m nobody’s baby or girl. No hun, babe, pet, sugar or other shite. And don’t even try pretending you’re strong enough to be my ‘daddy’. Ffs, do I look as if I need one?"

What’s up babe/hun/sugar/sweet pea/darlin’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given my 40 something age, I’m never sure if I find it cute or cringy. I think it depends on the age of the person it’s come from. It’s a term of endearment, I guess "

Same.... I do tend to call people babe though so can't complain when I get called it

Sweet or love makes my shit itch.

One guy calls me 'trouble' yes yes I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m nobody’s baby or girl. No hun, babe, pet, sugar or other shite. And don’t even try pretending you’re strong enough to be my ‘daddy’. Ffs, do I look as if I need one?

What’s up babe/hun/sugar/sweet pea/darlin’?

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I’m nobody’s baby or girl. No hun, babe, pet, sugar or other shite. And don’t even try pretending you’re strong enough to be my ‘daddy’. Ffs, do I look as if I need one?

What’s up babe/hun/sugar/sweet pea/darlin’?

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Awwww I’m in lust!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m nobody’s baby or girl. No hun, babe, pet, sugar or other shite. And don’t even try pretending you’re strong enough to be my ‘daddy’. Ffs, do I look as if I need one?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men get called babe too. Given my 40 something age, I’m never sure if I find it cute or cringy. I think it depends on the age of the person it’s come from. It’s a term of endearment, I guess "

Alwighttt babeee, how's the biscuit dunking going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't really bother me too much. Not a fan of derogatory ones like slut/whore/slag (which I get a fair bit, the little charmers)

Regardless, if I don't like something, I tend to ignore the message/not respond

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Men get called babe too. Given my 40 something age, I’m never sure if I find it cute or cringy. I think it depends on the age of the person it’s come from. It’s a term of endearment, I guess

Alwighttt babeee, how's the biscuit dunking going?

Right, my office now you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men get called babe too. Given my 40 something age, I’m never sure if I find it cute or cringy. I think it depends on the age of the person it’s come from. It’s a term of endearment, I guess

Alwighttt babeee, how's the biscuit dunking going?

Right, my office now you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about princess?

Is it ok to be called princess in a deep gravelly voice.

Allo Princess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a general rule, I hate all pet names, but I think that stems from having worked in a heavily male dominated industry where they were used in a deliberately condescending way.

If guys on here call me baby, princess, etc. I don't tend to call them out on it, but it is one of the things that goes in the "con" column when I'm deciding whether or not to meet them!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

A lot of men call me 'm8' before showing me their penis, which isn't really a m8y thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of men call me 'm8' before showing me their penis, which isn't really a m8y thing to do."

Fuck my mates told me it was a matey thing to do !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it from people I'm close to, hate it otherwise.

Babe, hun, trouble, cheeky etc all make me cringe

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I love it from people I'm close to, hate it otherwise.

Babe, hun, trouble, cheeky etc all make me cringe "

Morning babe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it from people I'm close to, hate it otherwise.

Babe, hun, trouble, cheeky etc all make me cringe

Morning babe!

D."

Ello treacle

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"A lot of men call me 'm8' before showing me their penis, which isn't really a m8y thing to do.

Fuck my mates told me it was a matey thing to do !"

M8 ur m8s r avin a larf

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I love it from people I'm close to, hate it otherwise.

Babe, hun, trouble, cheeky etc all make me cringe

Morning babe!

Ello treacle

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Hi pumpkin I totally agree and I think pet names are just yuck !!

Take care and stay safe hunnybun xx

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I get referred to as babe and hun all the time by women and it doesn't put me off as it's not normally addressed in a negative tone.

I don't use any of the terms pointed out in my conversations with women. I may use "lovely" every now and again, but that's it.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Hi pumpkin I totally agree and I think pet names are just yuck !!

Take care and stay safe hunnybun xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find far more women use those terms than men.

And of is two, only Anna would use any of those terms and no one has ever taken offence.

Sometimes I get the impression that people try very hard to take offence on here, but only if it comes from a male.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I use huns, as a term of endearment. It is not to imply a level of intimacy, just being friendly. I think it comes from being brought up in Liverpool, everyone calls everyone luv, etc.

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

I dont particularlyike it from strangers.. But it doesn't offend me..

Its a part of some people's culture where they are from or family ways.. Like being called my duck.. Or lover..

So I don't look to far into it..

I don't assume everyone calling me babe wants a relationship with me..

Some certainly go too far with it.. Like sexy little sugarpuff... As you can tell.. I'm scared for life!

Plus if conversation starts that way.. You are not goi g to be compatible anyhow so delete and move on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men get called babe too. Given my 40 something age, I’m never sure if I find it cute or cringy. I think it depends on the age of the person it’s come from. It’s a term of endearment, I guess "

This might sound a bit odd, but I’ve noticed over use of the word babe can sometimes be fake accounts where it’s meant pretending to be women. It’s happened a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*men.

My phones keyboard is driving me mental at the mo.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I tend to only do it to other women. Never thought of it as being cringe/offensive. I shall reflect upon my actions

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Alright sugar tits, calm down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it from people I'm close to, hate it otherwise.

Babe, hun, trouble, cheeky etc all make me cringe

Morning babe!

D."

Naughty boy

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

If you have been chatting to some one a while and built a good rapport and want to say something to show your fondness..what do you say, is there a term you use or like?

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I hate it when people call me Sue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun. Eww.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I hate it when people call me Sue. "

Same.

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By *rindiMan
over a year ago

chester

"I hate it when people call me Sue. "

Me too ??

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Pet names don't bother me. I don't have my real name on my profile so if someone wants to call me something cutesy instead, it's cool. I wouldn't appreciate a derogatory term from a stranger, but I get 'hun' or 'lovely/lovey' fairly often, which are fine. Clearly no offence intended, and none taken.

I don't have a problem with the perceived intimacy of a pet name either; after all, if we're going to be chatting, it's a precursor to potential sexytime, which is pretty intimate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't include lovely/gorgeous/ beautiful, I think they're quite nice. It's hun/babe/cheeky/trouble that makes me grind my teeth

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"I hate it when people call me Sue. "

As in short for Sueduced ?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Almost every man who messages uses pet terms when messaging initially.

Does this bother you when it happens to you?

Have you ever told the other person not to call you whatever they did?

How did they react?

I myself have had a variety of responses "

I get m8 and pal from men who want to see or suck my penis

I get hun and babe from profiles whom I assume are most likely not exactly genuine wanting my kik

All get a variety of responses

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I hate it when people call me Sue.

As in short for Sueduced ? "

I see what you did there.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I don't include lovely/gorgeous/ beautiful, I think they're quite nice. It's hun/babe/cheeky/trouble that makes me grind my teeth "

Phew!

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Sounds like some great lyrics , this could be the start to a great song

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I love it from people I'm close to, hate it otherwise.

Babe, hun, trouble, cheeky etc all make me cringe

Morning babe!

Naughty boy

You love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it from people I'm close to, hate it otherwise.

Babe, hun, trouble, cheeky etc all make me cringe

Morning babe!

Naughty boy

You love it!

D."

You're allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't include lovely/gorgeous/ beautiful, I think they're quite nice. It's hun/babe/cheeky/trouble that makes me grind my teeth

Phew!

Morning

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"I hate it when people call me Sue.

As in short for Sueduced ?

I see what you did there.

Morning gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't include lovely/gorgeous/ beautiful, I think they're quite nice. It's hun/babe/cheeky/trouble that makes me grind my teeth

Phew!

Morning

See now hippy all I wanna fo is say hey babe hows you this morning trouble as always no doubt lol

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I don't include lovely/gorgeous/ beautiful, I think they're quite nice. It's hun/babe/cheeky/trouble that makes me grind my teeth

Phew!

Morning

Hello "lovely"

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I love it from people I'm close to, hate it otherwise.

Babe, hun, trouble, cheeky etc all make me cringe

Morning babe!

Naughty boy

You love it!

You're allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! I can let the odd ‘babe’ slide if I like them but any other pet term makes me want to gouge my own eyeballs out.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Yes! I can let the odd ‘babe’ slide if I like them but any other pet term makes me want to gouge my own eyeballs out."

don't! I'm sure you look far better with them

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I hate it when people call me Sue.

As in short for Sueduced ?

I see what you did there.

Morning gorgeous "

Alright babes. How ya diddlin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't include lovely/gorgeous/ beautiful, I think they're quite nice. It's hun/babe/cheeky/trouble that makes me grind my teeth

Phew!

Morning

See now hippy all I wanna fo is say hey babe hows you this morning trouble as always no doubt lol

Lol. Just no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't include lovely/gorgeous/ beautiful, I think they're quite nice. It's hun/babe/cheeky/trouble that makes me grind my teeth

Phew!

Morning

See now hippy all I wanna fo is say hey babe hows you this morning trouble as always no doubt lol

Lol. Just no

Sorry but that was like dangling a red rag infront of a horny bull lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I tend to only do it to other women. Never thought of it as being cringe/offensive. I shall reflect upon my actions "

I love threads like these for helping me improve myself.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Hannah is American and calls everybody Babe, including me (Luke). Does that upset people or is it only if it comes from a man?

Genuine question. I'm interested to hear people's thoughts.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Hannah is American and calls everybody Babe, including me (Luke). Does that upset people or is it only if it comes from a man?

Genuine question. I'm interested to hear people's thoughts. "

I'm like others in that it bothers me from anyone I don't know (con column in the Fab messages kind of thing). It can grow on me, or I'll be less bothered if I realise it's something they call everyone.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... I don't use the pet name for where I'm from, it's a bit stereotypical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utterly cringeworthy in my book, especially from someone I don’t even know!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Yes yes and yes, anything like baby is cringeee and to me tacky

If you're friends with someone then that's perfectly fine the silly names, but someone trying to impress you, baby or anything like that is a big no, no

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

I don’t know what it is, but I really don’t like the word Hun. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it wrong that I know wanna message everyone on this thread saying morning babe hows your day going

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The one I really don't get is "trouble".

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

"I don’t know what it is, but I really don’t like the word Hun. Xx"

Probably because it’s not preceded by the words ‘Attila the.....’

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Utterly cringeworthy in my book, especially from someone I don’t even know!"

I've found its best using the precautionary principle when addressing someone you don't know to avoid any unpleasantness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Sugar tits’ message this morning. Really? Do they look like they are made or have sugar on them? No they fucking don’t.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

To be totally fair you know. In real life it just slips out. I think every phonecall to the vets/bank/my patients even ands in ‘thanks lovey, byeeeeee’

The curse of my NAARRTTHHHAANN upbringing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"To be totally fair you know. In real life it just slips out. I think every phonecall to the vets/bank/my patients even ands in ‘thanks lovey, byeeeeee’

The curse of my NAARRTTHHHAANN upbringing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“You are a diamond.... no you are more” this morning..... second message...

Excuse me while I find somewhere to throw up

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"“You are a diamond.... no you are more” this morning..... second message...

Excuse me while I find somewhere to throw up

It's better than being way too good for Fab

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"“You are a diamond.... no you are more” this morning..... second message...

Excuse me while I find somewhere to throw up

Very enthusiastic of him

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

I don't mind what they call me, as long as they call me.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I (mr) dont like being called by them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind what I’m called as long as it’s not derogatory. Most people I know uses terms like babe, hon, love etc, grew up with it, so to me it’s not really any different than using my name as it’s not so much a familiarity as a colloquial way of addressing someone (if that makes sense) xx

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I don’t think I call people pet names but this is good to know what exactly ladies think on fab

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"“You are a diamond.... no you are more” this morning..... second message...

Excuse me while I find somewhere to throw up

It's better than being way too good for Fab

And the hottest woman on here. We should compile a list of the cliches and amalgamate to form what would be the worlds most cliche/cringe AF message.

**Away to start that thread....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I don’t mind what I’m called as long as it’s not derogatory. Most people I know uses terms like babe, hon, love etc, grew up with it, so to me it’s not really any different than using my name as it’s not so much a familiarity as a colloquial way of addressing someone (if that makes sense) xx"

When I moved here the indiscriminate use of pet names (in public) took some getting used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I moved here the indiscriminate use of pet names (in public) took some getting used to."

I grew up hearing love or darling, so when I moved here and it was babe that took a little getting used to, as I always thought that was more for people in love, now I know it’s even for the woman buying a loaf of bread from a cashier. It’s weird how words of familiarity and use of pet names differs from town to town, the different words takes some getting used to, but I never see the actual use of them as someone overstepping the mark as so used to it now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to think that if you’re going to get wound up by a pet name you’re not for us.

We’re don’t want people that we have to walk on eggshells around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't really bother me too much. Not a fan of derogatory ones like slut/whore/slag (which I get a fair bit, the little charmers)

Regardless, if I don't like something, I tend to ignore the message/not respond"

Agree totally with this

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

When I moved here the indiscriminate use of pet names (in public) took some getting used to.

Absolutely! When I was a kid I didn't really see strange adults calling each other pet names and was like, that's a bit... intimate. But it's grown on me. Different strokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind most names as long as they're nice xx

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Don't mind it from people that I know and have met with but when it is in a first message from a stranger..... no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't mind it from people that I know and have met with but when it is in a first message from a stranger..... no thanks. "

This.

Guys I've spoke to regularly who may refer to me as babe, darlin, etc...not at all fussed as I'm comfortable with them.

From a total stranger, first message it's over bearing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Don't mind it from people that I know and have met with but when it is in a first message from a stranger..... no thanks.

This.

Guys I've spoke to regularly who may refer to me as babe, darlin, etc...not at all fussed as I'm comfortable with them.

From a total stranger, first message it's over bearing."

It's sweet from a friend. From a stranger it's too intimate or creepy or even condescending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you don't know me the way you really should

you're sure misunderstood

don't call me baby

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"Sounds like some great lyrics , this could be the start to a great song

Voice of the Beehive.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

as long as there is a positive attitude I don’t really mind at all. Actually I like them when it come across friendly.

Before people get your name here they need to refer you in a way and creative ones get bonus points regarding that initial referral anyway

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"“You are a diamond.... no you are more” this morning..... second message...

Excuse me while I find somewhere to throw up

Was it the start of a joke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost every man who messages uses pet terms when messaging initially.

Does this bother you when it happens to you?

Have you ever told the other person not to call you whatever they did?

How did they react?

I myself have had a variety of responses "

I absolutely hate the term Babe!!! I once remember a man had pulled into a parking space that I had waited for, so I stood out my car and just shouted, “I’ve been waiting what you playing at.” He responded with alright babe bla bla bla. I saw red and only heard the babe bit and nearly parked my car in his ass!!! So no I don’t like them!!!

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon

I am ok with it but if I am honest, I prefer it when I at least know someone and have at least chatted.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm not offended by being called love or hun or similar.

However, my profile seems to attract sub men, who tend to call me Miss or Madam, which is a bit odd.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm not offended by being called love or hun or similar.

However, my profile seems to attract sub men, who tend to call me Miss or Madam, which is a bit odd."

I'm so not a domme and I don't mind miss

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I have a pet hate about being called 'babe'. Uuurgh

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I'm not offended by being called love or hun or similar.

However, my profile seems to attract sub men, who tend to call me Miss or Madam, which is a bit odd.

I'm so not a domme and I don't mind miss"

I don't mind it... I just find it odd. Maybe because when I was at school, female teachers were always called Miss.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm not offended by being called love or hun or similar.

However, my profile seems to attract sub men, who tend to call me Miss or Madam, which is a bit odd.

I'm so not a domme and I don't mind miss

I don't mind it... I just find it odd. Maybe because when I was at school, female teachers were always called Miss. "

True. It's all odd

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I'm not offended by being called love or hun or similar.

However, my profile seems to attract sub men, who tend to call me Miss or Madam, which is a bit odd.

I'm so not a domme and I don't mind miss

I don't mind it... I just find it odd. Maybe because when I was at school, female teachers were always called Miss.

True. It's all odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I added it to my profile, but hasnt helped much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added it to my profile, but hasnt helped much lol"
you're getting more dates than ever then, you don't know me the way you really should

you're sure misunderstood

don't call me baby

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I added it to my profile, but hasnt helped much lol"

People don't read lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Babe, hun, honey. All of those and more kind of make me a bit uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added it to my profile, but hasnt helped much lolyou're getting more dates than ever then, you don't know me the way you really should

you're sure misunderstood

don't call me baby

I'm definitely misunderstood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added it to my profile, but hasnt helped much lol

People don't read lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I added it to my profile, but hasnt helped much lolyou're getting more dates than ever then, you don't know me the way you really should

you're sure misunderstood

don't call me baby

I'm definitely misunderstood

"
speak English then give us a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not to use any of those words in a message, seems a bit weird to be honest

Why just why would someone

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It makes me cringe. Especially the messages that do it in every sentence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes me cringe. Especially the messages that do it in every sentence x"

It’s definitely cringe

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I know of one man that’s never used one of these names in his whole life. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well this certainly blew up! Such an interesting response, thhis clearly resonates with many of you.

I actually created a list of what people could call me on another online profile years ago. I should look at ad see if it's changed!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Jesus there’s some fussy ppl in here ... all are terms of endearment... better than being called “fucking cow” .... just saying

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

"Jesus there’s some fussy ppl in here ... all are terms of endearment... better than being called “fucking cow” .... just saying "

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I have found myself saying love to clients, usually after going back home to see my parents

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

"Jesus there’s some fussy ppl in here ... all are terms of endearment... better than being called “fucking cow” .... just saying

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I actually like derogatory terms when I’m playing or having sex, but these are for lovers not strangers as their first message. Those terms are for when we are building trust between us.

However non derogatory terms such as duck, sweetheart (unfortunately one I use at times in my real life) hun or darling, no real issue. I actually don’t like mate or bud too male sounding.

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